V-Safe : Should it be on profile ?

well for "us" doesn't matter you are still wearing a condom or no sex...

It definitely matters to couples. When my wife was still playing we preferred vas safe guys just for the added safety from unwanted pregnancy.

I'm always torn on whether to put it in my profile also.

I list myself as being vasectomy safe as I've been asked that before when I played as a single back in the day before I was v-safe. So yeah, it matters to some.

We've always mentioned being v-safe in the past. We've had some play partners who weren't fixed and feared a busted condom would lead to pregnancy. Hell, _I_ was afraid a busted condom could lead to pregnancy, so we've consistently had that on our profile when we were available to play. Knowing pregnancy isn't an issue regardless of latex durability is one less thing to worry about.

I am vas safe but don't post it in my profile. I do bring it up when discussing playing details with couples just so they know. A lot of couples like the added level of safety from pregnancy.

We did same room play. We actually remained on good terms with them for years, although we never got naked with them again. They gave us a lot of good advice in our early stages.

"When we first got into swinging we just assumed that almost all people used condoms. Incorrect. The very first people we brought home waited until we were all naked to tell us that they don't (and wont) use condoms, because they are both "fixed". "

@VABeach ... that was a pretty dick move on their part ... what did you do ... "Well thanks for coming, there's your clothes, dont let the door hit your ass on the way out"??? LOL

Ditto with finding v-safe being mentioned or required usually equates to looking for bareback play.

We've also found people that refuse to wear condoms have performance issues more often than not.

It's not unusual for a new guy to be more nervous then he realizes. Since he doesn't have that issue with his wife, he'll blame the condoms. I know I initially had issues with condoms, but I wasn't so proud to admit it was nerves. Condoms and the LS in general take some getting used to.

Lots of people play without condoms, so for some it does matter to some. Some people are also looking for potential medium to long-term play partners and would like to be able to establish a condom-free zone.

When we first got into swinging we just assumed that almost all people used condoms. Incorrect. The very first people we brought home waited until we were all naked to tell us that they don't (and wont) use condoms, because they are both "fixed".

The only time anyone ever told me he had a vasectomy, it was because he didn't want to wear a condom (yeah, no). So, that's my automatic thought when I see it on a profile. Otherwise, it hasn't been something I've found out about playmates except accidentally.

For "us" we dont care.. you are still using condoms for intercourse.

Is it important to put that the male has had a vasectomy and is V-Safe.
Does anyone care ?