Profile review please

Not sure what you mean about the looking for section. This is what it says, I'm not sure how this is not describing what I'm looking for?

"I'm looking for couples, groups, or single ladies who are open to having another giving soul in and out of their bedroom. I'm open to one time play or an ongoing relationship and am always open to having more friends in my life. Who doesn't need more good people in their life? :-)

I've found that since my profile says I'm bi that many think I'm expecting male/male contact. While I am bi, I have no need for male/male contact and am happy focusing on pleasuring her.

I would love to find a woman to take to parties, hotel take-overs, etc. If you need a man who will respect you and help ensure you are safe and having fun then I'm your guy!"

I appreciate your reply. I'm not someone who takes pictures of myself so to post 4-5 current pictures is going to be difficult. I also live in the moment and don't record every event or thing I see. So I don't have a lot of current photos. And yes, you won't be seeing the 2013 me, but you will be seeing someone who enjoys boating, or riding a motorcycle, which hasn't changed simply because I've aged.

Hi. I'm just going to be blunt here, because I'm supposed to be working and being diplomatic takes twice as long for me.

Those photos might, to you, display your personality over a range of time, but to me they say you don't think the today you is your best self. Plus, I wouldn't be meeting the you of 2013, would I? Instead, delete them all and please have four to six current photos instead, some full length in clothes that fit and aren't wrinkled, all of them displaying you smiling or with some other pleasant expression on what is a very nice face.

As far as the text of your profile, it's pretty wordy and could use better organization. Oh, and I think your tagline should move away from deeply sincere and into short, snappy, and maybe a little amusing.

So, in Looking For, you're doing a lot of talking about yourself and the who of what you're looking for is getting a bit lost. I get why you're doing it, but if you prune a little bit or at least lead with the second paragraph instead of the first, I think you will have a better approach that centers the people you're looking for a little more than it centers you. After all, you have all of Description, Fantasies, and Additional comments to talk about you.

For an example of organizing differently, in Description, you don't need to say you're an introvert or anything surrounding that, because it doesn't really affect how you will initially connect with anyone. Although asking people if they're introverts or extraverts is a good conversation starter. Or, you can eliminate that whole section on drama, because it's a) pointless (know any drama bombs who know they're the problem?) and b) many of us are deeply suspicious of people who mention drama in their profiles, since if you're not a drama producer it doesn't tend to be a conversational go to.

Anyway, you can use "I'm a very open and honest person who loves to share life with others" here instead of in Looking For.

Instead of the nonsense you have in Additional comments - please look up those statutes if you have any doubt - eliminate it all and on a high note instead. It can be anything, just make it positive and friendly.

Thank you!

OK - I still have to do the dinner dishes but I've processed all the garden produce I can manage tonight and decided to read your profile while enjoying my wine. I'm probably too tired to be much help but you're profile looks pretty good to me. I don't tend to search or initiate contact because of our limitations but I'd definitely reply in a positive manner if you were local and contacted us.

Your text is wordy and wanders a bit but it's easy to read and gives information about you and clues to your personality. Other than ditching the stupid warnings for something else (information about hosting or distance you'll travel are good for that last section) I think you're OK.

Maybe include a note about the date range of pictures and why (just copy what you posted here into Add'l Comments).

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

I'll read carefully later and come back with more but at a minimum you need to delete the warnings - they are meaningless and make you look gullible.

Hi There,

Just updating my profile post covid and thought I'd get some feedback. Default pic is current, the rest are over the past decade to show a bit of my personality.

All feedback appreciated.

Thanks!