Profile review needed

A dating profile is primarily a marketing piece. Attracting who you want and not attracting who you don't is the hardest thing.

Very often, all people read is your tag line and look at your pictures. A very small percentage will read the whole profile. Use this to your benefit.

Start with the tag line:
Something like "Real Bi female for Swinging couple/bi-F." Add any other information to the end.

Pictures:
Your pictures are standard cheesecake. The kind you'd find on any sexy female's profile. How about a picture of you with another female? Think about what sort of pictures attract women vs those which attract men.

I don't see, really, much of anything to add to the rest of the profile, except maybe some non-sexual interests. These are hooks to give people something to say, "oh, she likes baseball, the opera, and horseback riding. I don't care for baseball, bu tI love the opera." There you have something to talk about at the first meeting. Even if you have nothing in common, they know what you're interested in. They can ask you about your interests.

LadyBlue, if you're really looking for couples, you need to mention that in the first line of the Looking For section. It's true that a lot of people don't read profiles in full, so put the important stuff first. ;-)

@magjoy, I hear you. I had one offer to fly to meet me. I kind of wonder what sort of life experience makes anyone think something like that would be attractive.

goodgollymsmolly98226, thanks! Idid some further editing.. However, I'm sadly certain that most replies neglect to read anyway.

Oh, I do prefer single men. He's just 60 and lives in Florida. Most of what I get is out of my age range and/or just far.

If you're primarily looking for couples, lead with that and move everything else down to the end of that section or to Additional information. Your profile reads as if you're primarily looking for singles or party guests.

*I also get a lot of emails from guys who don't at all fit what I'm looking for. Today I got a message from a guy who is nothing at all that I'm looking for.

Magjoy, thank you, I'll try to eliminate any ambiguity. I appreciate the advice.

Your profile reads as swm handsome friendly, especially with the last few sentences. I can see why you wouldn't get a lot of interest in couples, one or both probably don't think they meet your standards.

I've been on here, on and off, for over 2 years, and have had couples swaps, lots of unicorn experience, parties, etc.

Problem? I am a Bi woman (actually Bi-not a pillow princess), and thus, am not actively seeking men dates unless they bring a woman. Probably 80% of my mail is single men. I inevitably answer that they need to bring a woman, and laughably, they reply that can't I bring one so he can enjoy a threesome?!

Help, please... thanks!?