Profile advice

NNJ...Thanks for the tips.
Walt

Hello all. Been in lifestyle for decades and was wondering why I’m not getting any inquiries on my profile. I’m open for comments and suggestions to improve it.

Thank you MsMolly

"I have already had quite a bit of success..."

Oh, YAY. That's really good news and exactly the point of picking apart profiles for people. I'm so happy! Thanks for the report back.

I still have a couple of minor changes to make, but I have already had quite a bit of success since getting your advice. I just wanted to say thanks!

No reason to be embarrassed. Seriously. I pointed it out as an example of how you could do everything right on your profile and then undercut your efforts with something as common as autocorrect errors.

So, go forth and conquer. Also, proofread. ;-)

Thank you! I can't believe I had all of those typos. That is embarrassing. I will be more careful in the future. I appreciate the advice!

Hi and welcome. Your profile isn't perfect, but it's really good and has a nice feel to it.

Just a few quibbles. First, you needn't iterate those statsthat are listed elsewhere. That's just filler. Then, maybe use plurals for who you want as guides. It's a little subtle, but it indicates that you won't get overly attached while at the same time signalling a willingness to go all in on your exploration. That might be the difference between single men who swing and those who date.

Consider switching the order on the sentence about initial shyness, so something like "I warm up quickly, etc."

Take out the second "am" in the sentence about being a chill person. Lose the word "potentially" in Fantasies and add a comma between "have" and "openly" in Additional comments.

Other than that, your initial forum post had a lot of autocorrect errors. It's fine here, but please make sure it doesn't happen in emails to potential mentors/playmates.

Good luck!

Thanks! I made some changes and will continue to soon. I agree with all of your points. I appreciate the advice!

So first off, your expectations are going to be exactly what you put into them. I like a guy with confidence.

Second, I gave out some advice today that as a single male of 27, you are already in the lifestyle. It's call "being a guy." Nobody is going to judge you for sleeping with a lot of women or having threesomes.

That being said... I'm going to give you the best shot I can:

I like the Tough Mudder pictures. But one question: Why do some pictures block your face, but then others are the same picture with your face unblocked. Go one way or the other.

Your pictures show you doing interesting things: The Tough Mudder race, Stonehenge. I like that. I want to think you would be an interesting, well traveled guy. Get rid of the shirtless picture where you face the camera. It's not flatting. Keep the side picture.

Try to get one pic of you in a suit or a sportcoat at a nicer bar, preferably drinking something brown from a glass.

Not a flat stomach, but not large either. I guess I would describe it as "A few extra pounds."

Take this out. It's what pictures are for.

I am somewhat Nerdy, but also outdoorsy as well.

Take it out. I don't want to discuss Star Wars on a date. Maybe "I'm educated but also outdoorsy."

I love a good hike or going kayaking on the river or lake.

Get a picture of you doing this.

It's a solid profile. You sound like a young man with a lot of potential. I bet you are a real catch in the vanilla world.

Hey! I signed up here a while ago and aren't some messages out. I had some conversations with some couples, whi helped me a lot, and then I had to take a break for a while. Now that I am back, I think I should put some work into my profile. Being a single male, my expectations aren't high, but I figure I should do my best here. Any thoughts on changes?