New and would like feedback.

Joe, if you start your own thread, folks here would be happy to help out.

I would love some feedback on my profile also

Noticed you are no longer a blue gumby and the pic you have has you smiling. Both are positive improvements.

I know this is a sex site and that you basically want to be ridden hard and put up wet and well used, but some are looking for a connection on another level. Sex is fun and if that's all you want out of this, that's OK, but if for example, you loved playing golf, that may be yet another opportunity to engage you in an online chat. It's all about creating opportunities for people to engage and you may well be missing out on some of those with your current profile.

The points made so far are good ones and worth trying to incorporate. The Fantasy/experience section is more than twice as long as the Looking For and Description section combined, and you're short changing yourself by doing that.

An example of an Additional Comments section comment might be if you could host. There is nothing wrong with plagiarism here. If you see something in another profile that you like it's OK to use it for your profile.

Hi Ken. Welcome to the place where people say mean things for very good reasons. It might feel uncomfortable, but the process is meant to get you laid, which is what we're all here for. I'm going to say mean things.

First, you need more and better photos. Selfies are not your friend. If you have friends who will take photos of you doing something interesting or in front of an interesting background, that's great! Otherwise, ask strangers or even servers at restaurants. Dress well. And then select a default photo for your profile (Tools/Manage Pictures/Make Default).

In terms of your profile text, this is not Penthouse Letters. This is your resume. Unless your sole object is to foist your experiences on anyone who views your profile, you need to make some changes.

In Looking For, the section is first about who you are looking for. Those real people behind the screen names. Men are, I think, far less sensitive to nuance when in pursuit of sex, but less sensitive is not insensitive. So talk about the who. According to your toggles, you're primarily interested in men, but you also express an interest in couples and women. This is the place where you expand on that a little. This is not the place where you say you're here for the pleasure of others, because that is about you. You'll have to figure out your own wording, because only you know precisely what you want, but something like I'm looking for men, couples and women who are in search of oral pleasure. I would like an on-going connection (or whatever it is you do want).

Description is where you start out by talking about being a prostate cancer survivor. And then talk about who you are. What kind of person? What are your interests and hobbies. This section is about you as a person and it's really better if it's vanilla.

Fantasies right now is waaaay too detailed. It's not that I don't read erotica - I do, mostly as hate reading because it's generally so poorly done - but that level of detail is clinical and not a turn on. You'd be better served to compress that event, clean up the language and then add in the misplaced stuff that you currently have in Looking For. Go for tantalizing rather than the lovingly detailed blow by blow you have now, because it isn't actually sexy at the moment.

Do not leave that last section blank. It's your last opportunity to convince others that it's you they want. Why give up that opportunity?

Good luck and feel free to come back for a review once you've made some changes.

Based on what you are looking for, the only thing I would do is make sure you have a default picture selected.

Men with “blue gumby’s” don’t get a lot of action.

I've just joined this group. I would love any feedback you might have to improve my profile.
Thanks
Ken