Need some help

Thanks for all your help and kind words. This profile will take time to evolve into something less greenhorn. Thanks again everyone.

You know, I might have a few quibbles here and there (I think you use variants of "try" when more direct language would be better, for instance), but I think you've crafted something honest and honestly reflective of who you are and what you're looking for. You're not the average bear, so it may take awhile to find what you're looking for, but it is out there.

If there are meet and greets or off premise groups in your area that allow single men, you might really want to consider suppressing your shyness and attending. I suspect that you have quite a bit of charm in person and that might be a way of widening your acquaintance with lifestyle folks.

Really nice job.

Well, all changes were approved and now I wait to see if there were any improvements. Thanks again!

You're very welcome. Just post when your revisions are approved and there will be people who look at your profile and comment.

Please do and we can review.

Thank you both for the input. Been a busy weekend and just got back, I will take your advice and apply it to my profile after work today.

Should I repost my profile afterwards in the forum or should I just give a reply update? Thanks again!!

Hi. Welcome. First of all, once you finish revising your profile, if you don't only want smokers and drinkers, go in and fix your toggles. It has to be the last thing you do, without any other revisions.

Kudos to you for being super honest, but unless your intent is solely to have a profile on a swingers' site, this one won't do the job the way it's written. In Description, what do you mean about using swinging as a way to learn how to have a relationship? And by that I mean tell me so that we can work on language that says what you want, has a chance of getting you what you are looking for, and doesn't terrify every swinging couple within four counties. And, please, some things about you that aren't sex related.

In Fantasies, I actually really like that story and it's a good one to tell, but as written it will make sure no swinger in three states contacts you, because we mostly look for reliability in thirds. You can leave the story in, but only if you have a plan to overcome the issue and the feeling of being in over your head. Or at least indicate significant intent to overcome it.

In your photos, I like them both, but wonder about the visible tattoo. I like it and I like what it says, but could it be offputting for people who are currently strangers? Do you care?

So, maybe work on your content some more and then come back for a review?

The first thing I would say is picture-wise, decide if you have a long beard or a short beard. Don't have two different pictures of two different beard lengths because then I won't know what you are supposed to look like.

Also, don't take selfies from below. Nobody looks good like they. Look up at the camera.

I feel as if my intentions are clear but not sure it's as friendly as it could be. Spelling errors are being fixed to. Thank you in advance.