I'm not what you are looking for, but if I was, the things that would concern me is no photos of the man and the photos look more like you are trying to hide something. Or just trying to sucker single guys in ,then ask for cash to travel to the guy's house.
I would recommend only one of the neon backlit photos. Photos of the guy. And photos of you two doing something vanilla.
Hi. People who are doing really well making contacts don't usually ask for a profile review. You're in a special category though in having a really hot woman and...nothing. It has to be uncomfortable and puzzling. I can't promise the info given here will totally change things, but we can at least help you remove things in your profile that might be getting in the way.
Start with your pictures, because they are a big part of the problem. Yeah, she looks great, but it's porn style great and not going to attract women, because porn is for men, but in the lifestyle it's usually women who make the decision on who to play with. Porn style woman pics and none at all of the guy? That's so many red flags that you could make a circus tent out of it.
Unless you just want to have MFMs, because it's fine for attracting thirsty single guys, what you want instead are normal pics of both of you, preferably together. There's a sticky at the top of this section that tells you what works best if you're stuck for inspiration.
Your age range should put you in the middle and yours doesn't. It's not egregious currently, not for her at least, but it's not optimal.
Your tagline shouldn't be informative, the way yours is now, because you want people to open your profile to find out what you want and who you are. Try short and maybe clever. Steal from profiles far from you if necessary.
In Looking For, you're indicating you don't really have a clue of who you're looking for or what. What does likeminded even mean?
The two of you need to talk and figure out something less superficial. Plus, you're not just looking for couples, if your toggled interest in solo women is accurate. And once you have decided on who, then what about the what? Do you just want to hang out? No? Well, without being graphic, here's where you can talk about full and soft swaps, FMF, maybe having a beer together sometimes. Whatever it is that you actually want.
In contrast to Looking For, which is a nearly empty wasteland, you have too much info in Description and nothing much that will entice others to contact you. Condense the bits that are about what you're looking for and put it up above and ditch the rest, including being okay if nothing happens. That's true for every mentally healthy person in the lifestyle.
Instead, talk about something that isn't sex. Have you been together for a long time? What are some of the things you like to do as a couple and as individuals? Give people reading your profile a sense of you as the likeable, interesting people that you are.
Your profile just passed its four year anniversary, so I don't know why Fantasies talks about eight months. Have you not updated it? When you're editing, don't give a timeline and just lightly sketch out your experiences. If he gets to talk about a fantasy of his, where is hers?
Last, don't leave Additional comments blank. You could put the part about her being a squirter here, but it's a turn off for some and better discussed in person. Instead, maybe just say you're laid back and fun and open to a wide variety of people.
Good luck. Make some changes based on whatever advice you get here and maybe come back for some fine tuning.
We will let others chime in on profile .. but first thing WE see is not one photo of the male half.. that is a red flag for us! Are you a couple or not? Wife wants to see the male half in a swingers profile.
Yeah we know we have a job that is top secret.. yeah us too and really we did in south Florida.. but still discreet swingers over 30 years.
If you are a couple showcase BOTH of you!
Can you guys take a look at our profile and tell us what we are doing wrong? We are not good at this part, we usually put up hot dates every other weekend and get literally nothing, we are so laid back and fun, but yet we get a ton of looks, but not alot of people reach out, what are we doing wrong? Thanks for the help in advance!!
