Help with profile

If you search their profile, they did a very good job of rewriting it and taking new photos.

They may have deleted the original post, but they took advice and ran with it.

shrug.

I opened some Private Galleries to you.

When it comes to pictures, remember the mnemonic DEBauCH.

You basically need 5 core pictures:
A DATE picture to show what you will look like on a date - you are dressed nice and look good.
An EVENT picture which shows you doing something other than swinging - at a ball game or in our case a 5K. This helps people who may have the same interest write you about something other than sex.
A BEACH Picture which shows your body in a tasteful way. If you don't have a beach around, take one at a pool.
You need a full-body pic of the CHICK and a full-body pic of HIM.

So I strongly suggest you reduce your pictures down to 5-10. I also suggest you add "hooks" in. These are pictures of you doing EVENTS - interesting things like rock climbing or bike riding which may hook someone into writing you because they have the same hobby,

Try not to take the same picture twice - you don't need 7 selfies. Each picture is a piece of real estate that you need to help establish your brand. Stay away from selfies if you can. Suck up your pride and ask a stranger or waitress to take you picture.

Your parameters are kind of odd. I don't expect everyone to be like me and have low standards and loose morals, but my red flag for you two is how you keep talking about how new you are and how slow you want to move. I would pass you by because every couple I see is an investment in time. I think it;s reasonable to have one meeting to gauge attraction. After that, somebody better be putting it in my ass. I'm not going to meet-2,3,4 times to NOT get laid.

You might find a single male who will work within these restricted parameters because men, for the most part, are easily manipulated. But no woman is going to put up with that shit. When I read something like that, it "smells like" the husband is trying to convince his wife to swing. That may not be what is, but as an experienced whore, it looks like it to me.

So my best suggestion is to clean up the pictures a little and maybe think about why you really need to take so long. Then repost and we can fine-tune it.

Hi and welcome. I'm going to say things that might sound mean, but they're kindly meant. Try to keep in mind that even if it sounds like I'm criticizing you, I'm actually criticizing the effectiveness of your current profile choices.

So, first, trim your photos. The tattoo shots can all go and I'm surprised one was approved because it has personally identifiable information on it. The car selfies are likewise doing you no favors. Natural poses, especially if they are full length shots, are great. Also, and this is the part where you'll be pretty sure I'm a Mean Girl, she is beautiful and that dark lipstick is very much the wrong shade for photos.

As to your profile text, it's disorganized and unfocused and has some red flags.

Looking For is about who you are looking for and a little something about what you wish them for. It is not about you and it is not the place where you air your uncertainties. In addition, the placement of the letter in the middle of threesome acronyms matters. An MMF is very different than an MFM. Unless both men were at least bi, you wouldn't have an MMF.

In Description, don't talk about things better covered in photos and your stats. Instead, focus on the kind of people you are and say a little more about the kinds of things you like to do. Be authentic and appealing.

Fantasies could be better.

Additional comments has useful information, but some of it sounds like it was lifted verbatim from conversations the two of you have had. It's perfectly fine to go slow and be tentative when you're new and it's okay to be open about that, but the way you've done it here and in Looking For shifts some of the burden into others. I think that's an error.

Anyway, collect opinions, make changes, and come back for fine tuning.

Good luck.