Also, we only interested in our own race.
I would take this out. This would make me reject you out of hand as racist.
You are allowed to like whatever you like, but it’s wiser to keep this preference to yourself and reject people on a case by case basis.
Thank you! We will work on everything. And do it on the PC. You guys are awesome!
The part about swinging not being your primary goal is better placed in Looking For. Sans typos the two sentences that should be one regarding being someone's kind of couple and sending a message belong in Additional comments. Condom use as well. Lack of experience belongs in Fantasies, which is good because what's in there now doesn't belong and you really don't want blank sections.
The profile should be written as if both of you are writing. Don't use the word "I" at all. It's he and she, etc.
Other than that, I know you're parents and you enjoy going to the gym. Great. But now you have to fill in some things so that you sound interesting. You get the idea, clearly, because you know to say, "If we sound like your kind of couple..." but now you have to sound like someone others are looking for. So, who are you? What kind of people? Do you have hobbies? Interests? Unusual skills? This is the place. I'd actually leave out the part about being parents until it comes to scheduling meetings. Then it's appropriate to mention your kids and whatever you have to go through to get out of the house.
The part about only being interested in your own race belongs in Additional comments, but since you've blurred your faces, it should probably be accompanied with information about what race you are.
In Fantasies, don't be graphic but don't whiff the question either. You came to this site because you had fantasies, right? So, this is a chance for others to see themselves here. Either because they share the fantasy or have an interest in fulfilling it. That and your lack of experience are enough here.
And you have enough to amply fill in the last section. Which is good, because you don't want a blank section; it's a wasted opportunity.
Also, extra lines between paragraphs will make the whole thing more readable as will running it through a decent grammar program. Your spelling is good, but your syntax is choppy and your sentence structure is a little confusing. Reading what you have out loud will help too.
That's about all I can think of right now, except I'm a yes on the red dress photo too. Good luck!
Thank you; that worked. I hope you don't regret it. I'd put a smiley here, but I'm mostly serious. I'm going to be very blunt and might say things you don't like, but I'm not doing it to be mean. I just think you have some unnecessary roadblocks in your profile and clearing them away will increase your opportunities to meet compatible couples and I'm going to outline where I think the problem areas are.
So, standard disclaimer given, your tagline should be at least a little attention grabbing. Funny is best, but sincere is okay. The problem with yours is that it's uninteresting. Plus, it's phrased poorly and has a typo. So, not a great start.
Your age toggles are set at 14 years younger and five years older than him. Are you really that close to the top end of interesting? No, probably not. It's a better look to be more balanced and if you're really firm that 49 is your limit, maybe raise the low end a bit.
In Looking For, you need the word "with" at the end of that sentence. This is also where you say a little more about who you're looking for and where you explain what else you're looking for. At the moment, you are toggled for lesser interest in full than soft swap and this is the place to explain that.
Description is a mess. It's like you tossed a bunch of Scrabble tiles up and typed the result. It's also got some questionable elements.
Do you really think people will show up dirty if you don't specify you only want the clean ones? Swingers represent a cross section, which means almost all of us know to shower and comb our hair, you know? Anyway, hitting the beats on clean several times indicates you are none too sure about this swinging thing. Or at least none too sure about those who do it.
You needn't mention your awesome sex life. Not only are most of us assuming that's the case, mentioning it sounds defensive. Hey, we are hot for each other, that's not why we're doing this! See what I mean about defensiveness? We don't talk about the things we're actually certain of.
I like it-you should put the red dress picture first now that I see it because it is a picture that shows off both your bodies.
How about now? Shouald be open to everyone except free.
Hi. You have everyone but couples blocked, so I can't help.
Cool! We'll work on doing similar. Found a app for blurring our faces. So I'm thinking public, blurred. And same pics unblurred in private. Tessa has high heels I'm sure. And I'm sure she'll be all game to go shopping. She's wanting a new bathing suit for sure.
I updated my picture section to show you how to take lingerie and nude pictures.
If the lady half doesnt own heels, go to Ross Dress for Less. you can get a pair for $20. Yes, even wear them if you are posing nude.
We're dealing in fantasy, here, not reality. I once had a picture of me baking cookies nude except for an apron and heels.
This isnt reality, but it is sexy.
No-I’m just suggesting that The lady half wear high heels in pictures-the high heels don’t necessarily have to be part of the picture.
There’s plenty of apps that can blur faces. just search for that. Give me a few minutes and I’ll post the lingerie picture in my private selection to show you how to do that.
ok, I deleted all public pics and will redo them. Got to figure out how to blur faces.lol So high heel pics, etc in private? And personal are for the really dirty pics, correct? Oh boy!! Get to play photographer! lol
One more thing-the lady needs to wear heels that are at least 3 inches in length. I know heels are uncomfortable. Get over it. Hills make you taller and pump up your butt and they also make your posture better.
Every woman needs at least one pair of 3 inch nude heels. Ideally you should have a black pair and a red pair as well.
Yes-those pictures should be in the public section. I would take out the nude pictures - all of them. You can blur your face is if you want to But keep the clear face pics in a private section.
I would make the picture of you two together sitting on the ledge your default picture. I would still take a picture of you dressed nicely like you’re going on a date.
If you want to take a sexy picture-do it in bikinis on the beach or at the pool. Or take the picture with her in lingerie standing up contrapposto. Look at my pictures as a guide on how to stand that way or Google it.
Ok, now I think I opened our everyday pics to you. God I hope I did it right! Lol how are those pics? Those shouald be in public correct?
Boobs and butts might attract guys-but ultimately it’s the woman that makes the decision. Keep that in mind moving forward with what kind of pictures do you show.
If you stick with the five core pictures you will have better outcomes.
Thank you! We do have pics of us in everyday life. I'll open, and see if this helps. I guess we should swap them around.
And yes, were on our devices doing all this
Thank you! We do have pics of us in everyday life. I'll open, and see if this helps. I guess we should swap them around.
And yes, were on our devices doing all this
You need new pictures. Tits and ass do nothing for me. You need full body pictures.
I opened a private gallery to you to show you the kind of pictures you should have.
We need to work on your pictures. I created something called the DEBauCH method. This means you need a picture of what you would look like on a DATE. A picture of you two at an EVENT like a ball game, a NASCAR race or maybe a 5K. You need a pic of the two of you at the BEACH or a pool so you can tastefully show off your bodies, and then you need a seperate pic of the CHICK and a pic of HIM.
All pics hould be full-body. Watch out for messy backgrounds. Don't take a picture with a gun or a fish.
I would go over your profile text on an actual computer-the text seems stilted and a natural but I’ll let good golly Miss Molly take a look at that.
What should we change? Maybe add?
