Help after 2 years on SLS

I'm assuming I'm looking at the updated profile since there are 10 pictures and it looks as though advice has have been followed.

In Looking For, it may just be me but it appears to come across as, "What do you have to offer?". I think you can say the same things without coming across like that. For example, "We are looking for people that we can enjoy great conversations with. Ones that are looking for good interaction in and out of the bedroom.", or something to that effect.

The text, "The lady is gorgeous, curvy and petite,...." is already covered by the pictures and toggles, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Better to let the pictures speak for themselves IMHO.

It's hard to tell from the Fantasies/Experiences section which is which. Just my take, but it looks as though a lot of that may fit better in the Description section vs where it is. At a minimum, you probably want to make it clearer what your Experiences vs Fantasies are.

She is listed as basically being very Bi. If Bi play for her is a requirement, that's fine, but if that's not required, you may be scaring couples away that may otherwise be interested. Better to appeal to the largest possible audience that can meet your criteria. In other words, something like, "She really enjoys girl/girl time, but that is not required for us to have a good time", if that actually applies.

You still have some minor grammer issues that a re-read may uncover. Either that, or cut/paste the text into Google Docs and see what it recommends.

You may want to just spell this out - "When entertaining couples we prefer FS". I get that FS means Full Swap, but others may not. It's not like your profile is that long that you need to abbreviate this.

I can't comment on what it looked like before, but it does not come across as though you are professional swingers now.

You are a good looking couple in the swinger paradise of USA ( Florida) .. we lived in Ft Ldl and south Florida, you have 8 certs why are you asking for help ?

Seems you are doing fine?

Take the advice that works for you...travel cautiously as you will be inundated by the forum junkies. You know those that have to take over all threads as if they are the experts. They just can't pass a thread by without making a comment.

Fantastic diagnosis Miss Molly. Thank you very much. I will make those changes over the next several days. I really appreciate you taking the time to assist.

Hi. If you've read other threads, you already know the advice you get can be exceedingly blunt but almost always well meant. Please keep that in mind, because I'm going to be really direct.

I don't think your profile does you justice. It positions you as what I call professional swingers, all about sex, not about the social aspects of the lifestyle. Which, hey, fine, but your post, a few lines in your profile, and one or two of your certs indicate differently. I suspect if you do a better job of highlighting your unique qualities as people and as a couple, you'll attract more interest. I know that if you contacted me, unless it was a great message, I'd think you were attractive but would pass.

So, what's wrong with appearing to be professional swingers? Nothing, but for many of us who have done this for awhile, what makes the sex special is the people we're having it with and what generally works best is those who are authentic, interesting, and as much about the social connection as the hot sex they're having with you.

If you could start by pruning your photos down to a more manageable number - less than 10 would be great - that mostly focuses on the two of you together and then add one or two of the best of those featuring just one of you (I'm particularly partial to the one of her in the cowboy hat, because it's playful and fun), that would be great.

Only capitalize the first letter of whatever is your tagline and change it periodically, along with your profile thumbnail.

In Looking For, while the configurations you're most comfortable with is of interest, that's the throwaway part, in need of, at most, one sentence. Instead, please focus on the actual people you're looking for. Not the category so much as that you're looking for fun, adventurous folks for...I dunno, but by this time you probably do. Is it FWBs, one off meetings, etc.?

Description could do with way less sex - let the people you meet and certify you talk about how you fuck, lick, whatever, because their opinions are actually valuable - and a bit more about who you are, in addition to the kinds of things you like to do.

Fantasies is where you lightly sketch in your experiences and her wanting to be the center of attention and his delight in MFM and FMF. Don't punt, as you've done here.

The last two lines in Description go better in Additional comments.

Once you've done whatever revisions you decide to do, read everything out loud and make changes as necessary.

Good luck.

Pictures seem appropriate, and the text of the profile works. I also see that you have 8 certs from the past 2 years, so I would think you are doing just fine. Are you just not getting traffic to your profile?

Please review our profile. We need help.
We have been on here for 2 years. I have read the advice given to others and made lots of changes over the last 2 years.
We have plenty of info on profile, lots of pictures (some revealing, some fully clothed, no dick pics, etc.).
Please help. we get almost no activity on our profile.
Perhaps we are just that ugly, that no one wants to get to know us ????