Hello Everyone

The silence is deafening in here. ;^/

Hi. I'm not married, so at least you wouldn't be competing with an amazing husband. That's not entirely good news though, because it means you'd be competing with the amazing playmates available to me instead. In other words, women who swing have a large number of options and aren't going to jump on your dick just because you're cute. VelmaAndShaggy is right about needing to bring your A game in order to succeed.

I actually like your profile, in spite of its issues with grammar and punctuation. I do think there needs to be more of it and you need to clean it up some.

In Looking For, it's lifestyle, no "s," and "adult relations" makes me think of sixth grade health class, which was not a happy time, so I'd ditch it. There's actually something awkward with that whole section, so what about "I'm looking for like minded individuals for fun and pleasure. If there is no connection or chemistry or if there's a bad vibe then it's a NO. I'm real, (I think you mean that as a separate quality rather than as a modifier for "easy going," but if not, lose the comma I just stuck in) easy going and laid back, so there shouldn't be an issue, right? (lose the lol, because this is a semi formal introduction and there's no place for it) Let's have fun!

In Description, you need a comma between cool and chilled and the comma after fun needs to either be a period or a semi-colon, if you're that kinda guy. And here's where I want to know more about you. What makes you the unique man you are? Why would a woman want to get to know you a little better?

In Fantasies, I'm a little puzzled. I've been to Power Exchange and it could roughly (no pun intended) be considered a lifestyle event. Maybe change the way that section is constructed? Something like "I'm sorta new to this, been to Power Exchange with couples, but never attended any lifestyle parties."

Also, never again use the word "wassup" in written communication. Please and thank you. ;-)

So, you are kind of falling into the trap that a lot of SM's fall into when they first join.

They throw up a pic, throw some text into a box and expect swingers to come out of the woodwork.

Hell, I'm pickier now than I was when I was single.

So, you have to understand something. You aren't just competing with every other man on this website, you are also competing with my husband.

My husband is a Triathlete and a successful businessman. What have you got that he doesn't?

Think about that. What are you going to offer a woman that her husband can't - and hell, what makes you different than all of the other men with penises?

So here is what I would do: Make yourself more interesting. You need at least 3 pictures: Face, body, and a picture of you shirtless - preferably at a pool or the beach. Under no circumstances take a shirtless picture in the bathroom or the gym. If you don't want to show your face, it's fine. Blur it and have it in your private section. Try to have at least one picture of you in a suit. Suits to women are like garters to men. Have a friend take the pictures. No selfies.

Fill out your profile with interesting things about you. Interesting hobbies or stuff that you do. Maybe have some pictures of you doing interesting things. Rock Climbing, flying a plane, traveling somewhere. When I see you, I want to think I'm going to meet someone who can keep me interested with conversation. Right now, I don't see that.

So rethink your profile, add some detail, take some new pictures and repost.

Hey wassup everyone, New to the site, and want to jump right into meeting and interacting.