“ I do worry about being murdered and tossed in a river, seeing how bisexuals get targeted.”
Please elaborate, I haven’t seen anything in the news about bisexual men being targeted for murder and river tossing. Where is this happening? Obviously I would’ve heard something if it were happening in my area, but this new phenomenon of targeting, murder and river tossing should be national news.
Seeing how I am new here, that is an issue for me; but if I did, it would have not mattered, since the only way of knowing is others telling you. I do not have any issue, and vetting others to ensure that are who they say they are is something that I do as well. I do worry about being murdered and tossed in a river, seeing how bisexuals get targeted.
Just our opinion, you asked the question. Just sayin, the person that agrees with you has been on here for 11 years and has zero certs. He’ll agree with anything you say and travel 2000 miles to get a chance at the pootie. If you didn’t want to hear differing opinions you shouldn’t have asked the question or asked couples to chime in. That being said, you’re certainly entitled to feel the way you feel about it, as are we, as is the blocker. Different strokes for different folks.
New and naughty, we didn’t ask if he was a good fuck or anything of the sort. Just simply how was he? We could have got he was on time, showered, missing a front tooth, any of those would have been honest and non invasive.
Exactly. The guy seemed to good to be true. If nothing to hide, why get upset? I could care less if someone messaged our certs asking about us. If we are inviting a stranger over to have sex with my wife I don’t see a problem doing some research. He had viewed us first and had his pics opened.
Discretion is huge in the lifestyle, reading the cert should have been enough. You kinda put yourself out there as a kiss & tell, because that’s what you asked others to do. Definitely not cool.
Certs are suppose to be people that you enjoyed and hopefully they enjoyed you in real life hopefully not virtual. It is just a reference part of a vetting process. If one gets angry then would one get angry at a touch or some other thing. References are good as long as they are real from a formal interaction , and not just meeting some one in passing at an event or Meet and greet.
Would you be offended if a couple you were planning to meet messaged some of your certs asking about you? We had a guy block us for it. Should we have handled it differently? Couples feel free to chime in.
