eroticamazon, thanks for your reply. I agree with what you are saying. with us we are drawn toward friendly people, who are height weight propionate within reason. We both work out at the gym and I lift weights, we think we look good, but Like I said.
We are somewhat a tall couple. I am 6' and my wife is 6' 1.5" tall.
Let me teach you a 'tall' person secret. If you go to a club/party you will probably see all the tall people amongst themselves. Why? It's not because we are all attracted to our 'height.' It is that if the place is loud, spending the whole night bending down to hear someone who is shorter is annoying and tiring. Yes, it is just so we can hear each other, not much more than that.
In our time in the lifestyle, my wife has worn as low as 2" heels to a club to 9" heels to a club. She was almost 6'11" tall. Do you think she wants to spend time bending over to hear a 5'2" woman?
Now we are either total height snobs at an unconscious level or just happen to be in an area with a lot of tall women. We know three women taller than my wife. And most of the women that we spend time with are at least 5'7". There are a couple of exceptions and one is 5' flat on a good day, another is 4'11" and then some regulars in the 5'2 ish range. As far as men goes, most are at least 5'10" and there are two who are 5'5 ish range. I will admit that both of those guys she did not go after. They came hard after her and it was their attitude, personality, charm that won her over, not their height. For me, honestly, I have weaknesses for tall women, red heads and asians. So I will always migrate towards the taller women. The shorter women actually pursued me. But neither of us are against shorter than us people.
I would suggest that you just keep trying. We learned a long time ago that we are not everyones cup of tea and gave up trying to be. We learned that we are someones cup of tea and that is all that matters.
This isn't a cry baby session, but I have a question. Is it important to 'you' as a couple that the female be what is considered hot or Bi when finding compatible couples? Also Is it important that men be what is considered tall when finding playmates. Some men are perhaps 6 foot 2 and 270 pounds, but have a well built wife who is 5ft2. I ask because Di is straight and I'm 5ft 7, we are constantly being told 'not compatible' or just no thanks! or half of us isn't compatible. It doesn't do much for self esteem. Look at our profile, are we such a turn off?
