@Central, this is a swing site for heaven's sake! Risque pictures should be allowed. Our picture did not show dick or pussy, they were neatly tucked one inside the other to save space, and Claire's heels were pointed at the ceiling in an approving salute to the good feels! I think it was a quite tasteful and artistic picture IMHO! =) Max
We've received a few of those notices and had photos moved. We have also been told that we couldn't have our photos opened to ourselves so the only way to view our posted photos was via the Tools tab, manage photos. Go figure.
Speaking of dick pictures, we just got this notice from customer support, guess we found their red line:
"This is an automated message, please do not reply.
Dear Maximilian_Claire, an image recently uploaded to your profile is too explicit for the category it was uploaded to and has been moved to the Personal Category. In the future, similar images should be uploaded directly to the Personal Category.
Thank you, SLS Customer Service
Regarding Your Image Upload
(SLS) 10/29/2020 9:53am"
While I never send unless requested... It's ALWAYS requested before things move offline. And yes, multiple ones.. Because women aren't the only ones that use camera angles and apps to give off an appearance they want. I was told my dick, wasn't my dick, because it didn't look like a picture of MY dick.. So now I give you options.. Soft, hard, different views lol. He's his own model.
To clarify, we're not against dick pics. We're against dick pics with no substance behind it. Just this week we got an IM from a single with a basic intro and saying opened pics for you. Check the profile with next to no info and it's a private album of 6 extreme close up dick shots! (facepalm) ... And I concur with others here that couples profiles with only pics of her are a turnoff.
Yes, that's the picture, the white glove test, an oral fitting of the pleats & ruffles and finalizing the inspection with point on view of the rugae wilds.
~Allen
Why stop there then? We should also ask them to spread it wide open so we can inspect the inside. We want tidy insides too, don't we?
In 9 years of swinging, we never found the need to inspect anyone's genitals before meeting. An ugly pussy or a small dick did not stop us from having a good time with those friends, and yes, we came across both before!
“ Give it a shot.”
It would definitely help in making better choices and not wait until the panties are off before discovering she’s a battered wife or an ugly vaguggly.
:-)
~Allen
Give it a shot. Most are advertising their tits and ass on here, is there really that much of a difference?
I wonder how a woman would feel and if she would comply if I asked her to show me a pussy picture so I know what I’m dealing with.
~Allen
Our opinion is why not have dick pics, the Mrs would like to see what she may be dealing with. Do we think the dick pics should be tasteful (pun intended lol) Yes! by all means...dick pics with a body attached to it are much better than a pic slamming the dick only in your face. The couple profiles that hit us up with her only pics...we totally ignore.
Good point. We seem to be approving more single male profiles than any other type. Therefore, we end up with a lot of dicks.
“ there is a noticeable shift in demographics though. Lots of hook up culture permeating the LS versus more traditional Lifestyler's.”
Couldn’t agree more. Once CL got rid of their classifieds this site is overrun with SM’s that think this is tin der. It’s kinda funny reading their complaints in the threads, they assume a paid membership comes with a bag of blowjobs. Rest assured these are not the folks I was referring to when I spoke of reaching the point of pic exchange.
Agree somewhat with NYC_BF_WM that there is a noticeable shift in demographics though. Lots of hook up culture permeating the LS versus more traditional Lifestyler's. The main difference is looking for the overall experience versus just how many notches once can get I suppose. We have some pics for the sole purpose mentioned of letting the other couple know what's coming to the party so to speak, but we're more of a content seeking pair. Sure, Ginger likes good size, but she likes good chemistry and the ability to use all the tools, not just the one.
Agreed!
Don’t think it’s an issue at all. Some people like Coke and some people like Pepsi. Some people are here to make friends and some are here for sexy fun.
So apparently its an approach and style issue. For us, the most important item that "we have to work with" is usually on top of the person :)
Mrs. N&N isn’t a size queen nor are we looking for a bull, however, if we’re deciding on a couple that we’d like to meet, she likes to she what she’s gonna be working with. Never mocked or dismissed anybody because of what they have to offer, she just likes to know beforehand. To each their own I guess.
Perhaps a different demographic of members is signing up.
Any thoughts on this?
As lifetime members, we occasionally approve personal photos. Seems like 3 out of 4 photos are dick pictures which is getting old. We never really saw any benefit to any genital closeup whether male of female. But, seems like there is demand for them somehow. Does anyone really want to see them?
