Waiting is the (Best!) worst!

@BLQT:

And to think the first time we had Mrs. 888 do her first hotwife run with her 25yr old FWB. They went hiking in the woods and I was awaiting a phone call and then a few photos of them fucking in the forest. No-nothing, hours after they were supposed to go, I anxiously awaited, constantly checking my phone, sexually primed from the thoughts that raced through my mind all day.

I get home from work and she pulls in behind me. I asked her what happened. She replied he got them lost and when she took her bra off through her t-top and suggested that they are far away from anyone, there are many uses for a bra (suggesting strapping her to a tree) and no one would hear them, he continued to be focused on trying to find their entry path. After 20 minutes of circling, she stuck her bra in her back pocket and started walking down the mountain. He said he thought he found the correct path, she told him the road climbs horizontally to the parking area and they would eventually walk into it, she's going home.

He later sent a text apologizing to me for being a dumbass that he didn't get what she had said until he replayed in his head what happened.

Later that night when I suggested another go at it, she said she really didn't want to do the alone hotwife and would feel better if I was there participating during her FWB encounters.

~Allen

To be honest, we don’t really use SLS to find hook ups.. at least we haven’t in a while. The guy she is currently playing with graduated a year after us from high school.

Good info good golly, I’m sure you aren’t alone in wanting to play with married men..

More than anything, I’m just frustrated at the moment ! We do love all aspects of our life style but it’s very lopsided. I’ve just grown tired of years of sexually living vicariously though her experiences. There’s only so many encounters she can have before it’s just the same stories. Yep, better up my lame ass game! Thanks folks!

I prefer married men playing separately and I'm probably not the only one for whom that's true. But they actually have to make at least some effort to interest me and, again, I'm probably not the only one for whom that's true.

There are no photos of you and your profile shows minimal effort. That's fine for guys - Hey, a chick who wants dick? Sign me up. - not going to work for women. So, basically you're complaining about a problem that you have created. Maybe go to parties, clubs and meet and greets if you can't be bothered to put work in on line.

Bl, you have been on here for a long time and all you have up is a not so fantastic picture of your wife in your default gallery. I would have no interest based on your profile. If you are actually what you say you are then why aren't there pictures of both of you on your profile? Why is she leaving you at home for something less than what she has there? I know that there are many different reasons and motivations for play. However, something seems a bit off. Maybe, you just need to adjust your approach and rewrite your profile and get some nice updated pics of both of you online.

Also, I do understand she as a female will always have have more opportunities but we’re batting like 10-0 here, really?! Even a blind squirrel gets his nut once in a while! I know I’m whining but jeez!

Holly, thank you for your input and concern. But, we have done this MANY times! It’s hot, but more than anything I’m tired of sitting home waiting while she gets it! Fifteen years of swinging has been great, we have had many awesome encounters but, as I said in my post, no one is sending their hot wife/GF my way! My wife’s words, not mine, I’m hotter with a nicer/bigger dick than any of the guys she has been with. But I’m the one sitting home....

Bl, are you experiencing buyer's remorse? Hotwife play is not for everyone and it sounds like this is the first time out of the gate for you all. It sounds like you are already jealous which is not a good thing at all. Seriously have a good heart to heart when she returns and let her know what emotions you are going through. The reality is that many only do full swap because of the emotions you are experiencing. There is also the simple reality that your wife will be able to play a lot more than you will be able to. Be careful about how both of you move forward if you do. Jealousy will destroy your marriage. It happens to swingers who cannot be open and communicate well about what they are experiencing.

The Wife’s boy toy asked her to cum over for a romp tonight! But, he can’t do it until later before she can go have fun, so waiting!! I had to stop jerking off, put the Lube away and take a shower before I blow up! While typing this she came and laid on top of me in bed to tell me she is leaving and will be back soon!

On one hand this is hot, on the other, I just watched my seriously sexy wife leave to go give someone else my pussy, which is, again, hot, but no one is sending their sexy wife or gf my way! WTF