Jealousy!

Sounds like he was ‘taking one for the team’ and wasn’t really something he was interested in. Really important that you know what your limits are and don’t push yourself. Worst thing in this lifestyle is regret.

I am totally done with couples for that same reason!
There's always something, one time it's the woman, the other it's the man...
I am who I am, I'm not going to change my personality because someone feels uncertain of his/her couple, that's their job to regulate what they're accepting or not when swinging. True and honest communication is the only key
From my point of view, jealous people don't have their place in this lifestyle!

Sometimes, I get jealous seeing my wife's boyfriend with a raging hard on. It makes my impotent penis ache but I still love being a cuckold.

@jumbo:

Your being a straight single male, adventures in who has the jealousy may hold true, however, as a couple, we have experienced just the opposite with the female being the aggressor, on an exponential scaling.

I’ve noticed you comment on male half of couples negatively a few times recently; it has me wondering if maybe there is something you are doing that is triggering what perspective you’re seeing from male halves of couples. Just a thought..........

~Allen

Unfortunately from the male half of the couple often.

copNkitten:

True. She had mentioned previously that all started because he wanted to see her with another girl... but the first night they met with one of her girlfriends, he had sex with her even though they agreed that wouldn’t happen, she said she felt very uncomfortable at first but didn’t care after the third girl she brought over. It was the fourth girl when he started playing solo...

I just stayed away from them...

Kinda like me, when I take a photo with a pretty woman I feel a little jealous...Mary Jo

So, how can a man expect to have several women, but won’t allow the girl to experiment with another guy? I took a break after that..

Not your place, our place or anybody but the couple’s place to decide what they think is fair.

Best thing would be to make sure all parties that are going to be involved are onboard with the plan. Looks like she set everything up. She did the inviting and after time she finally convinced him to go through with it. She contacted you to join them. He’s a casual friend, don’t you think he might’ve mentioned it to you beforehand? Way too many red flags to even show up that night. Better luck with the next one!

"I know that regardless of size or how good the other guy may perform my honey is cumming home with me."

yes exactly!

RonKathy yeah there is nothing like one woman getting jealous of her husband to start a real live naked cat fight at the club. At least men don't usually fight naked LOL. As I said earlier and it cannot be repeated enough that should you find yourself unexpectedly involved in such a situation you need to run, not walk, out of it.

I know that regardless of size or how good the other guy may perform my honey is cumming home with me.

Threesomes should only be for the experienced swinger, things seem to get magnified in a 3somes...

sometimes the "idea" of a threesome sounds exciting, but in reality some people can't handle it when it happens. the guy starts to worry about "what if the other guy is bigger and/or better than me". that may be true in some cases, but if you love each other, it can't be better in some ways

It's not your place to deal with it. In fact when he came out angry unless it was your place or you paid for the room it was time to GTFO. Any jealousy over size, performance, or whatever is between them. All any single man needs to do is bail and live to fuck another day. Now if he actually hits the woman or you then the next step is up to you. Just remember police may take him to jail for spousal abuse but if you get into a fight you likely will be the one going down for assault even if he struck first. The situation you were in could have gotten ugly with legal entanglements real quick. Be careful.

Now I would be remiss if I did not share our own encounter with another couple. We rented a room (in my name important later). We had some fun with some foreplay and even a bit of sex. We took a break and the male of the other couple was imbibing a bit too much. We start to get back into things and he was having trouble keeping it up and then he was not able to even get it up. She and my wife were both working on him and my wife excused herself to the bathroom. She came back and sat down by me on the other bed for a moment. We hear the wife of the other couple say something to her husband (just heard sounds not what she said) and the next thing you know he slapped her and started yelling. Before that was over I had a bruise on my face and was paying for a hotel window he had smashed as they left the room. He ended up being arrested for hitting her, assaulting me, and resisting arrest (I found out they had to break out his car window). In the end he spent some jail time and they eventually got divorced. Now we had played with them before with another couple and at a party and had seen them a lot and gotten to know them or so we thought before that night. It just goes to show you can never trust anyone and the moment things get "heated" in not a good way it is time to GTFO. Oh and hotel windows back in the 90's cost about $700 or that is what I had to pay and we NEVER rented a room in our name even if we paid for it for playing in again.

How do you deal with it? I was friend with a couple, casual friends... one day, she started messaging me about trying a MFM threesome, she said they have had several FMF threesomes, she’d bring her girlfriends over for “fun” and even got to the point he was allowed to play separately... after a while he agreed to have a MFM threesome because it would be fair.

The night everything happened, we were a little tipsy... no one drank more than 3 beers... clothes starting to be taken off and foreplay took place. He was unable to perform at all! I was bigger but she didn’t point it out... she asked me to do it with her while she would perform oral on husband and he agreed... after a few minutes he went to the bathroom and she started to get louder and louder, he came back from the bathroom and started screaming and throwing shit around the house, he called her nasty names and got very violent... I got my clothes on and tried to call him down... she asked me politely to leave, said she was gonna be fine! I got my shit and left their house. She apologized next day and said she was fine...

So, how can a man expect to have several women, but won’t allow the girl to experiment with another guy? I took a break after that...

Have you dealt with a jealous man?