Serving a couple

Service subs are a special class of submissive and yes I had a male submissive offer to do housework before :)

4_real - You know, I never thought about the housework angle. Hmmmm, I may have to rethink this ;-) I DID show the Mrs some of these "male sex slave" offers and the Mrs actually wasn't interested but I'm sure she also wasn't thinking about the housework part.

I certainly wouldn't mind if she wanted one to use for sex, but honestly, between all the parties and me she is never left wanting for sex. In every relationship it seems there is someone that is horny and wants it more than the other. For us, that would be me.

Whether it would ever come to be even if I did engage with one is another matter, but maybe I'll pursue it further next time I get asked. We can get some other things done around the house in addition to the Mrs ;-)

Sort of like Merry Male Maids?

Just showed this to my wife.

That is EXACTLY what she is looking for, a servant. You know, someone that will clean the house, cook the meals, do the grocery shopping, give her a good fucking between meetings (she works from home). And when his usefulness is done, she can put a ball-gag in his mouth so that she doesn't have to listen to him talk.

We should post a HotDate !!!

Mayhem, I bet your wife would like that too :)

Damn, and Valentine's day just passed us :(

It is one thing for a SM to play with a couple or 2, but I think the key thing in the OP's post is the word "Serving", as in being a sub.

Not so much here, but on a competitors site we've had SMs reach out wanting to be our "sex slave". In pretty much every case the guy wanted to clean both of us off after I came in the Mrs.

While some might be like, "Holy fuck, we'd LOVE that", it just isn't something that interests us. Eventually they may find what they're looking for but they were essentially looking for a Bi Dom man and/or a woman with Dom tenancies to use them. I got the impression that's what the OP was looking for as well.

Something along the line of a 5th wheel in couple-couple scenario blackcat? I would imagine that there would be plenty of folks here that would love that. Including us.

I think it would be hot to be with two couples.

I think it would be hot to be with two couples.

Just a thought, but being straight I'd think would further limit your chances. If you would consider a certain amount of male play it could increase your chances, but as mentioned, I still think that may be a small audience on SLS.

Scamp is right. You aren't very likely to find your master and mistress here in the swingers community. The type of role you describe here is that of a clean up slave...a consensual powers exchange where you will submit to both husband and wife. It's common for the wife to take on the bulk of the responsibility here while the male is more of a supervisor regarding day to day interactions. Unfortunately I don't recommend fetlife for your search either. It's such a cesspool of disrespect and poor manners, and most people there are just curious about the BDSM lifestyle and abandon the site once the novelty wears off. Good luck to you!!

It sounds like you would probably do better on a kink site like Fet Life. Not to say that swinger couples aren’t interested in sub single males, just thinking your odds would be better in the fetish world.

We do enjoy some kink in our play but our female half is not at all interested in submissive males and she is only submissive to me so we aren’t looking for a dom either. When we do invite a SM for play time, we rarely include kink, just fun for all with rabbit at the center of the attention.

~Scamp

This is my first post here, but I thought I would share a fantasy. I have a great desire to serve a couple. Learn their needs, wants, desires and fantasies. Talking about kinks and taboos, perhaps fulfill some of their fantasies if they wish. I agree that I am more sub than dom. Just wondering if this is common for a lot of guys or not. It seems that a lot of couples are looking for a dom guy, if they are looking for a guy at all. How common are sub guys who want to serve? For me it is a huge desire, I can't imagine a more special thing than to be allowed into the intimate life of a nice couple knowing that they want me to fulfill their needs.