No luck being a BBW on this site why?

Love a sexy bbw

My Fiancee is a BBW and any pics I've posted of her and what I've posted on our profile has definitely gitten looks from men. Only reason we haven't connected was because she has been living in the UK. We are taking our time and making connections. I want her to have fun in a safe environment.

This site isn't about luck or being a BBW. What this site does offer is a place for people to express their interest in others. To make contacts and hopefully meet up and go from there. This site does not automatically guarantee a right to a sexual encounter, nor should it.

As in life you get what you put into it. Attractions come in all shapes and sizes. If you are sensual and approachable, there is a good chance you will find what you are looking for on this site, just as in life outside SLS.

If you are not approachable (poorly written profile, no pictures, or pictures of only you body parts), not a paid member, you significantly reduce your chances of even being contacted.

@MommaLeen, you nailed it. I'm proud of my curves and I feel sexy. I've had good luck here and I'm loving life. Looks like the OP has quit being she has not been on line for a while.

Well said MommaLeen

On this site 30 days is a nanno second. Most don’t connect that quickly, it takes time and patience. I have had very good success with BBW’s and others, but, it takes time and patience.

As a BBW woman, I have to say I have had luck on this site. If I’m contacted by others that don’t seem like a good fit I still respond respectfully… and those that can’t be bothered to read my profile and message me exactly how I say not to…I don’t respond.

For me it’s definitely a quality over quantity so a decent amount of communication is necessary before meeting. The few I have met have been very good .

Like the others have said , add to your profile and work on communication. The benefits of this lifestyle is in the connections and interactions both in and out of the actual sex.

Well said Serendipity. People on here vary in many ways, be it physically, socially, economically, and so forth. The reality…. It is all about preference, patience, and not compromising yourself for the sake of checking a box. For me, this lifestyle has much to offer beyond the sexual and if you are true to yourself, express your desires clearly, are honest and respectful there is as Serendipity so perfectly said…. Someone for everyone.

Hi
I'm seeking a BBW and yes there is no luck here at all nobdy even answers there e-mail.

Sadly whenever we drift outside of the norms the odds just go down. Nothing is 100% in any grouping but there are generalities that go with any preference. Many overweight people have an attitude jermain to that condition. People who are in the norm range work to stay that way, They diet and excercise, its work.
You would not expect those who do so to embrace obesity. The same applies to any preference the odds just go down. I have wonderful friends that are overweight by a significant margin but not swingers and much across the board depends on how we relate to each other. While there are a few who will fuck at a moments notice most of us prefer an attraction and loose friendship.
Relax and keep at it. There are many overweight people here and there is someone for everyone you just have to take the time to look and connect.

Might want to start by allowing single men to view your profile!

Another profile that comes across like a single guy posing as a woman.

the three generic profile statements, which say nothing about you, don't help either.

just paying for a subscription doesn't guarantee success. put some effort into marketing yourself. it's all on you if they don't.

DAMN, Rabbit don't play!

Not saying you are wrong. That minimal communication effort would have annoyed me too.

One reason could be that your communication sucks. You don’t bother to read profiles or take the time/effort to compose a decent message.

You saw I looked at your profile. You sent a one word message “hello” and a picture request.

That tells me you are dismissive, lazy, selfish, rude and possible a fake. If you aren’t going to bother putting in a little time and effort you will mostly find disappointment

~rabbit~

It takes a lot of time and effort to connect with people online - if you want something more immediate you'll do better going to clubs or parties.

The first thing Is suggest is to be specific in your profile: describe just what you're looking for in a partner(s), more about your interests (outdoors, city stuff, books and movies you like, what's your type, and what fantasies you have. Your pix look good, and there's a nice variety.

It’s been 30 days and still haven’t fulfilled any fantasies is it because no one is interested in a mocha colored women with curves? Any suggestions?