" Here's my unsolicited advice: Stop playing with anyone who is only looking for single women"
This is a pretty solid rule of thumb. Not sure how prevalent it is, but to us a couple just looking for that single woman smacks of "she is doing this for him"
"Stop wasting people's time! I will tell you, I have gotten excited and let down one too many times!"
Here's my unsolicited advice: Stop playing with anyone who is only looking for single women - it generally doesn't go well for a lot of reasons, which I won't bore you with by enumerating - and give a very suspicious side eye to anyone who uses the word "unicorn," including other single women. Do those things and you'll eliminate a fair number of disappointments.
I, too, am a BBW, a chocolate unicorn to be precise, and it is frustrating when the male of the couple gets us excited thinking that the intentions are that everyone is playing, but only he is not truthful and wants you for himself! Another one is when you become a watcher because the female wants to take over the hubby/boyfriend's penis. Listen, if I wanted to watch, please let that be my decision and not have me waste my time. If we saw we are BBWs, and you ask for a picture, we send a picture and not respond? Well, that is very rude, insensitive, and not polite! I am just trying to figure out if persons know what the acronym BBW stands for, and do they take the time to read your profile before trying to add another notch in their belts? Look, I am not here to make body counts- I am here to make connections. Oh, not to mention when the wife wants her hubby to use a dental dam on you after you have already given him a sloppy BJ. The wife needs to see how a freaking dental dam feels and get back to me. Stop wasting people's time! I will tell you, I have gotten excited and let down one too many times! Also, the unicorn becomes so diluted at times because others do not put us first, making us feel as though we have to "magically" retreat.
Many people have great difficulties finding unicorns; that's how the term came about. Anyway, try looking outside SLS. The three we have played with were not found here
We found a BBW unicorn last week to make a video with and it was hootttt!! We found her outside SLS so try other resources online.
I am a unicorn and enjoy time with couples who are experienced in this type of play. It is not a good experience most of the time with a couple who has never done this before. It becomes more of a job for me, and the stress is unbearable. I love having a good time with couples. It is so much fun, and so relaxing to be with a couple who is honest about what they want and do this together. However, if you are only in it for your spouse, it is not going to end well..I run into lots of women who have had the pleasure of 2 men, and loved it, but are not so keen on sharing there husband with another woman in the same scenario. They lay out tons of "do this" but "don't do that" and honestly I usually bow out gracefully when I realize what a chore this is going to be. I just want to have fun too. These couples need to understand before going in that we are people too. We have feelings, and needs that need to be met as well. We are not getting paid to be at your beck and call. We want to cum too, just like everybody else involved. If you are uncertain about doing this, don't do it. Please don't call a willing participant for dinner and a play date only to allow her to eat you and then get up and leave when your husband begins to enjoy her as well. It gives us all a bad name, and frankly scares the unicorns away!
We have two regular "unicorns" and are friends with several others (haven't had sex with them yet due to scheduling conflicts). From their point of view, we attracted them because we respected them as an individual and not an object. Just like anyone else, listen to their wants and needs without imposing your own. :)
But seriously...
If you want to attract a nice unicorn, you’ll have to bring your A game, and you’re still likely to be frustrated.
Good luck
Really? Having trouble? I find that hard to believe. There are many single, attractive women who are desperately looking for couples.
You just need to have the right bait to entice them into your trap. We find that diamonds, and vacations in our St. Bart’s home works very well.
My husband and I are looking for unicorn to join us. We both want to please her until she can't stand it. But we're having trouble finding one. Is anyone else having the same issue?
