I’ve only been to one party. It was organized by a guy here on SLS. My wife had just had eye surgery (LASIK) and she was having to be really careful, so she went to the party, but didn’t participate. There were a couple of pushy guys there who kept asking each other (in my earshot) why she wasn’t fucking. Other than that, it was a fun party. I had my first all-male orgy situation, and topped a guy for the first time. Wish I’d kept in touch with him. He was a nice guy. Followed me around like a lost puppy the rest of the night, so I think he liked it. Had a guy try to suck my cock but he kept dragging his teeth on my dick. Not a good experience. But there were some much more experienced cocksuckers there who did a better job.
It was fun, but I’m more interested in one-on-one. I felt distracted by people walking around, talking in the background, etc. I’d much rather have an afternoon with a guy to just make out and have fun with no interruptions.