One night stand

Based on your profile name I am assuming that you are a female. Find a gentleman on the site, my suggestion is someone a little older and mature. There’s too many young kids that just want to talk dirty and see pictures so beware of that naturally., a gentleman that actually wants to spend some time with you take you out on a date get to know you it’s always more personable that way, obviously than just meeting someone for sex. When you’re on the date, gently talk about it so expectation on both sides are understood. Maybe just do a little light or your first date. Then you worked your way up to being a slut. Good luck best wishes and feel free to let me know how things go.

In addition to everything mayhem asked, I am also curious about what you are comfortable with.
Do you mean you can swap, watch and have a threesome and are only shy about a one night stand? Or do you mean the only time you are comfortable with sex is with one long term, serious person in a relationship and now you are shy about trying something new?

I too tend to be very shy, however that has not precluded me from enjoying the LS. The first couple of parties i went to, I didnt play at all, and left the party beating myself up for being so shy and full of anxiety. Then I came up with sort of a plan, I would see a woman / couple that interested me. I would go over to them and tell them the truth, That if i didnt talk to them and express an interest in getting together, I would kick myself all the way home! Amazingly that approach has worked like a charm. Not only that, the woman or couple would introduce me to thier friends and tell them,not to pass me up. Thanks to some very folks I have met over the years, that shyness has melted away, and if I do get in my own head about it, I return to being honest and tell them i will regret atleast not trying to talk them.

Kamila084 - Some context might help. You have a picture of a couple, a profile with a girl's name, and you are a SM. Are you half of a couple trying to do something on the sly, and that's where the "comfort" part comes in?

As for the one night stand, my suggestion would be to go to a LS party, find someone you're comfortable talking with, and if it goes that way, have sex. Nothing saying it has to be a one night stand though, unless this is something you specifically want, which is why I asked about context. I'm not getting why you wouldn't want to get back together with someone that you enjoyed the company of, sexually or otherwise.

"...but I’m very shy. How would I get comfortable and just do it?"

I'm not sure where the notion that us non-shy people are comfortable doing new things came from, but it isn't true. The chief difference I can see between shy/not shy is that we don't have a built in excuse for our discomfort.

You won't get comfortable and if that's what you're waiting for, it won't happen. Maybe start getting used to the idea that initiating social interactions can be hard and uncomfortable and make you want to hide in a pillow fort, but those aren't reasons not to do something you want.

list a hot date. I'm sure there is a man out there for you somewhere.

Hmm you have been on since 2016 .. if it hasnt happened it wont. Its up to you and swinging is not for those who sit in a corner!

Its a swing site not a dating site hope to get laid site! Also whats with the photos.. ?

Pass the popcorn

I wish to have a one night stand but I’m very shy. How would I get comfortable and just do it?