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I will point out it's not just single males incapable of reading.

I think your post was a much broader net cast manifesto than that, but all good. It's good advice. Just found it odd to see your efforts go to this particular thread.

Off topic, no! There are single males on this site that don’t read a profile. The profile will clearly state condoms a must, yet they reach out to them anyway.

You get what you put into it…. If you don’t take the time to read and are lead by your little head, you will be disappointed

There are plenty on this site that prefer bareback, if you don’t invest the time to look, then you will be disappointed!

Holy off topic tangent, Batman!

Since joining this many years ago (I left and came back), I will say that experience has taught me that you get out of this what you put into. For instance:

1, If your profile is a series of one liners, people will tend to overlook you. If you reach out to them because you have similar interests, yet your profile is weak, you will most likely be overlooked.

1. If you are not active on this site and checking in at least weekly, you may have missed the opportunity you were hoping you'd find.

1. You can't wait for other to reach out to you, (you might be that and a slice of bread, but you are one of many). If you don't contact people with an intelligent, coherent, respectful message, there is a high probability you will be overlooked.

1. Boundaries need to be respected, if you are a single male and you reach out to a couple that is not interested in a single male, you're fishing in the wrong pond and the only thing you'll catch is disappointment.

1. Those folks that insist on condoms do so because that is one of their boundaries, respect that!

1. Those that express bareback, doesn't mean you are the one they are looking for.

1. Most important, be patient and actually take the time to read profiles, you might actually learn a thing a two about people's desires.

Lastly, have fun, there is someone out there that is looking for the same things you are.

Oh, they do indeed exist. No idea what the options are elsewhere, but we personally know of many bare and gangbang groups in CA, AZ, NV, ID and TX. Never been to one, but we've been invited many times.

LOL Who is not looking for that fun, fantasy but a good one !

Nirvana. Sadly I don’t think it exists.

Looking for a bareback, all play orgy, lots of oil, everyone fucking and sucking everyone...