DP yes or no?

This is on my list!

My wife has done it in her previous marriage - she didn't care for it due to the positional logistics. I'm the only man she lets in her ass, so it sounds like a MFM DP isn't in the cards. Occasionally I'll fuck her ass while she's riding our Sybian with the cock attachment in her pussy. Feels great!

Shesmooth, you do bring up a humorous situation where anal play would be included the activities of play. Many times anal play is not discussed in setting down the ground rules. It is sometimes a matter of trial and error. A male may try anal play to see how responsive the female is. If she is receptive he can then ask for permission to use his penis for penetration. There are also circumstances where the female might be interested or curious, but really don't want to make it widely known. Absolutely cleanliness and safety should be observed at all times.

Rose does not like anal, but will do double-vaginal when she's in the mood, which is when things start becoming a bit intense - very much a case of going with the flow. It's a fun thing rather than serious sex - she doesn't usually orgasm during DP.

oh i get it, it just struck me funny when i read it again. i was imagining a group playing and one of the ladies just saying, "ok sure, why not?"

i think a lot of people in the LS are actually into anal. we are as well, but only with each other. it isn't something we do a lot, but i am SUPER picky about it. porn chics have a very specific process to prepare for it which is why they can go from ass to mouth. it's clean as a whistle and that is the only way i am interested. playing with others, you have no way of knowing what "her" preparation routine is, and i have no desire to find out that it isn't the same as my girl's.

That last line should have read "occasional" not "concessional". Auto spell check prevailed. Sorry for any inconvenience. We will now return you to the regularly scheduled forum.

Just like the old saying "No such thing as a dumb (hilarious) question." I asked the question in the spirit of "inquiring minds want to know." The motivation in our asking is that anal sex doesn't appear to be all that popular among lifestyle couples, for one reason or another. Many times couples start off in the lifestyle with certain boundaries i.e. watching/being watched, soft swap etc. Eventually most decide to kick it up a notch, and enter uncharted waters. This is usually done in the heat of the moment. I guess the main aversion to anal sex is the thought of the discomfort, especially among the novices. I suppose for many, it would be where no man has gone before. It is our thinking that those of us that enter this lifestyle, are more open to experimenting and experiencing newer and different avenues of sexual pleasure and delights.

To be sure I take no umbrage to having my topic being considered hilarious. Having fun and providing jocularity is what we do, in addition to offering a fun time with other liked minded couples and the concessional single.

or too much "orgase"?

i actually just reread the OP and realized it's hilarious. i can imagine some women going along with certain things just to "go with the flow," but anal sex isn't one of the first things that come to mind.

It was truly incredible. She orgased non stop. She squirted all over us, i assume it was because there wasn't room for cum inside her.

Nice to see you posting again...reminds me I need to plan a winter trip soon and Cali is beckoning...

I've been enjoying DP for about 4 years now. The orgasms are more intense than anything else I have experienced.

I never thought I would but it has become one of our favorite things if the mood strikes me and I'm really turned on

Yes indeed!

@ff68, that's a sweet girl you've got yourself my friend. :)

For my girl she cums like crazy even thinking about it during sex.

Thanks KellyJean. As a S/M I appreciate the vote.

The closest I have come to DP is me having vaginal with the lady (cowgirl up) and the hubby doing digital anal on her. She seemed to like it. The feeling was a little different for me. I could feel his fingers in her. Nothing bad, just different.

That's "Mr." Sexus, not "Mf." hahaha

DP? oral/vaginal only so far. I'd have to be extremely comfortable to do a DP vaginally and anally, and even then, the only anal would ever be from Mf. Sexus. Don't see that happening with me, but for him, he has been in that situation with other swing people.
That's what's a fun part of this for us...we can do things with others that perhaps we can't with each other, and I'm happy for him!

As a fantasy, yes!
As a reality, a DVP has not happened and not sure it can, but willing sometime to give it a try with the right person.

I had a few women after a kitten ass play, like lightly rubbing when fucking doggie, they say stick it in but never has it felt good to me! Maybe they were not relaxed enough and I'm a Lil above average but I'm assuming it has a lot to do with the guys size!

WE2469 regarding the single males. From our experience its like anything else you do in life that is important; take your time (chat, text, talk, aka interview) if they are respectable men (any age) they will be thinking and doing the same with you.

We have met some very very decent, upstanding, fun men on this site.

Best of luck - let the adventures continue !!

tried it on my second experience and loved hearing the guys wife enjoy herself. A guy can't be afraid of incidental contact.. because things just slip out sometimes. But if all are comfortable it can be a blast. Now I just need to have a DVP

This is something I would love to try.

Absolutely !!!!!

It is such a great turn on reading the responses posted here. Knowing that women who enjoy this are out there is really exciting. Please keep sharing your enjoyment with us. :-)

Been in the LS for a few years only meeting couples but after a great experience with another guy at desire and our first mfm we are thinking about meeting single guys but have always heard not the best things about trying to meet them in the LS. Any advice as we explore this? DP is a new fantasy for us also.