Ashley and Russ recount their recent trip to Secrets Resort. They discuss the weekend's events, from exploring the nightclub scene to engaging in BDSM activities at the dungeon. They share their bittersweet experience of what could be their last Swinger Society Secrets takeover, as they reflect on the end of an era and the deep emotional connections made with other members. Despite the goodbyes, they are enthusiastic about their future ventures, including a new website, exciting merchandise, and upcoming events like the iCandy Secret Takeover and Naughty N'awlins.Special thanks and music credit to our friend @nominalfilter on Soundcloud!VISIT OUT NEW WEBSITE!www.thathotcoupleinga.com **Upcoming Events*June 21st GLOW Party By Pineapples After Dark- TICKETS HERE Support our FriendsPineapples After Dark PodcastVoluptuous VixenFollow Us - Instagram: @hotcouplechronicles- TikTok: @hotcouplechronicles - YouTube: Watch our video episodes More Socials- Facebook: @ThatHotCoupleInGA- Instagram: @HotCoupleInGA- TikTok: thathotcouple_inga- Backup TikTok: thathotcoupleinga4.0 Find Your Community- SDC: Code 36775 for 2 free weeks! - 3Fun: Connect with local swingers!-The Playground: Join the new, hottest lifestyle community!Health Resources- Shameless Care: $30 off ED meds or STI testing!Premium Sites- Ashley’s VIP OnlyFans (all content included)- Ashley’s PPV OnlyFans - Ashley’s Fansly
Transcript
You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own is free and easy. Upload an episode, and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and hundreds more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads like this, even with just 10 listeners a month. If you've been thinking about starting a podcast... This is your sign. Start free at rss.com. Last week on Hot Couple Chronicles.
Literally 90% of the time I didn't know where my phone was. We were walking somewhere. I lost my wallet for a while. Our car started vibrating and the check engine light started blinking and beating. So we almost made it. We were an hour and a half away. We were on the opposite side of Daytona. Yeah. So close. And our car decided that No. They didn't want to cooperate. So I pulled over at a dealership and so they could look at it. Three hours and. Lots of money. But we knew we were getting. They knew we were desperate. We were on the way to vacation. Time just is weird there. Time is so weird.
And then all of a sudden it's nighttime. And so we don't want to go to bed. So we're up until the sun comes up. Yeah, because we don't want to miss one minute. Because the feeling is... Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring the singing lifestyle. Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences. While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions.
We encourage listeners to approach the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their relationships. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our adventure. You've been sleeping for a little while, so... He finally started moving. He got up. Yeah, I was the end of the world. I mean. He just woke up and he was awake. Well, you woke me up and at that point, like, I was awake. Like, weird. I woke you up like three times before. Okay, I did. Yeah. I was like, I'm surprised.
We've all been there. We've all been there. I'm surprised he's coming. And he was like, yeah, I'm ready. I didn't think it was that big of a deal until we went to the club. Yeah. I got up, got cleaned up, got dressed, and we went to the club. And we went. And it was late. The party was already started, and everybody just looked at me like I was just... I told them, you're done. I was like, it's not coming. Made it. Yeah, I was just sleeping. Like, I just took a nap. We went, and we went down to the club really early because we had nothing else. We were ready to go.
And then we went to the club, and the club was completely empty. There was no one in there for Saturday. And I told them, I was like, because they've never been to Secrets before. Yeah, the Saturday parties start late. Saturdays just start a lot late. because everyone parties during the daytime and goes out to dinner and has plans and people are just moving a lot slower on Saturday because Friday everyone was excited and everyone was ready to go and everyone was ready. And then Saturday everybody's just trying to survive one more night. Yeah.
So it didn't really get started until like midnight. I thought it was very quiet this weekend. I thought there wasn't a lot of people there. I know it was a sold out event but it seemed very quiet to me. Yeah. Like there was moments where like the day party is like, this is, you know, there's a lot of people here. It's a good group. But I guess being at iCandy a couple of weeks ago and seeing like their size, their parties and stuff, it was, I mean, that whole field next door when at iCandy was completely packed full of cars. You could not move. There was no parking spots anywhere.
You couldn't move in that pool. And it was just to see the difference. And it was so chill here this time compared. And I know it doesn't seem like that to people who have been. been there. I know that sounds absolutely crazy, but it was very quiet. There wasn't a lot of people. For it being a sold-out event, usually, there's more people. I don't know. I don't know. I guess day passes, maybe. I don't know. I don't know the number of people or anything like that, but it just seemed more chill.
And so Saturday night, it was just slower getting started at the club, and it took a while to get started. I also wasn't feeling very clubby that night. The first night, I was all about it, and the second night, I just kind of wanted I wanted to get in the dungeon. I really wanted to get in the dungeon. My only goal was to get into the dungeon. And so when he went to bed, I was like, oh, we never went to the dungeon. That was our only chance. And then we ended up going. I was like, we all got ready. He started rallying. You woke up. I was refreshed and sober. He was great.
We don't drink either. We don't really drink at any events except secrets. But we paid a lot of money to be there. We're on vacation. He's taken off time off of work. We're there on vacation just like everyone else. And so I was like, let him be. It's not that serious. But I was a little bit sad that I didn't get to go to the dungeon anyway. And so we went to the dungeon and that was good. That was... It's a good decision. It was a very good decision. It's never a bad decision. There was people everywhere. It was packed. It was so packed. I guess they locked the door.
Like they closed the dungeon. They wouldn't let any bells? Which I never... We were already in there. But they apparently stopped people from coming in because it was too full. Yeah, everybody was trying to open the door and it was locked. It was packed. There was a lot of people in there, but also... I guess that's the whole thing is they didn't want any more people in there because we could move around. Yeah, we could move and it was pretty comfortable. And when you're swinging floggers and paddles, you don't want to be shoulder to shoulder. There's not that.
I mean, it's pretty large, but it's not hundreds of people large. There's a lot of people at Secrets. So... Yeah, I got on the spiderweb. Yeah. That was fun. I had a cute couple across a girl that was up there. She was so adorable. And so I faced her while she was being paddled and then I was being paddled and it was a whole experience. And we'd never, I've never even seen her day in my life. Yeah. We ended up boobies to boobies. She said that her wife's like the boobies out.
And so I put my boobies out because I'm not going to make her wife upset or, you know, you don't want to, you want to make her happy. So, well, it was it. They were cute. They were really cute. Well, then she came over and... Yeah. So you guys switched sides. Yeah. And you just were making out with her while I was vlogging her. And her wife was watching me. And I'm like, is it like, are you sure? She's like, yeah, go for it. She's all about it. And we had a great time. It was good. And then after that, we got done. We played... And then... Watched, too. There was a lot of good watching.
There was a good watching. There was a lot of doms there. But I was getting asked. I went around and thanked her for letting me, you know, thanked both of them. I got to go on my knees and watch you flog her. Her wife stood right next to me, and we both watched together while you flogged her. It was good. It was good. It was probably my favorite thing that happened, like, play-wise and all of that. That was fun. We spent a lot of time in there, though. A good chunk of time in there. And then we watched. There was a lot of... There was a lot of watching.
There was doms putting on a little sensation play type of session. And yeah, it was good stuff. Guy in the mask. Guy in the mask. Yeah. Dungeon Master now has a black mask that he wears. So I have a thing apparently I just discovered that I find guys in black masks really hot. I don't know what it is. It's a thing. He was walking around there with his little flogger just tapping it. And... walking around watching everyone making sure they were behaving and it was the hottest thing I've ever seen in my whole life. My whole life I was like I'm gonna die right now. It was that whole time.
That was yeah that was good stuff. That was my favorite part. Personally for me sexually that was where I was feeling myself. Feeling good. Excited. Felt at home. Not at home. Yeah. Yeah. That was my good. That's good. I like when I can combine that because I definitely am more BDSM than anything else. I definitely lean towards that. That's my world. I'm happy there. But yeah, that was what we did most of Saturday evening. Well, because I had just took a sweet nap. Yeah, he was ready to go. We stayed up until six. Probably. Ish. Again. Again? Yeah.
And again, hung out in our room, which our room, we never, that's why I said this weekend was weird. We never really do that. That's usually not a thing. Usually we're in other people's rooms the entire time or out and about the entire time. Or the hot tub or the pool. We didn't have very much hot tub pool time as much as we normally do this time. Normally that takes up a lot of the time. That's where we hang out. But yeah, we like in passing go there once in a while. It's just a place to hold our stuff. But this year we hosted a lot of stuff there.
Looking for a fresh way to connect in the lifestyle? Welcome to The Playground, a modern space where open-minded adults meet, explore, and create unforgettable connections built for the lifestyle community the playground is where curiosity meets connection ready to join the fun click the link below and start your adventure with the playground today do you wanna get naughty baby do you wanna get naughty Everybody came to our room. It was good. I'm not complaining at all. No, not complaining in one bit. Not complaining in one bit.
I'm glad everybody felt comfortable and came and found us and wandered and gravitated towards us because I feel that's a... Yeah. Compliments. I mean, new people, like new friends that we have met that decided that, hey, we're going to check this room out. Just new people in general. Like just new people. There was a lot of new faces. We've never met a lot of those people. And most people we hung out with this weekend, we've never met before. And that's what I love the most. And then everyone who was gathering in our room and gravitating, most of them didn't know each other.
And we all just like introduced them to each other at Secrets. You know, how we do. And they all just meshed really good. And like it ended up, they all get along. And that was good. After my nap and everything, we stayed up till probably six ish. And then in the morning, might I add in the morning. Time. Don't judge us. Time is different there. And we went to bed again. I mean, we again had a lot of fun. A lot of. fun. We don't let our hair down like that anymore at any event. I can't remember last time I just let myself just...
Normally we're helping, we're hosting, we're doing all the things and we weren't asked to do anything this time. So we had the whole entire time to, other than the photo shoot on Saturday morning, I had nothing else to do. We had no... So we had time just to vacation. Yeah, we had no other schedule or anything and Also, this is like the one time we're going to take a vacation this year. This was our summer vacation together. Yeah, like by ourselves. Yeah.
Because I have a lot, we have a lot going on this summer, but unfortunately, he's already got his vacations done for the year for work and down and everything. So he's out. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own is free and easy. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own podcast is free and easy.
Upload an episode and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads just like this. If you've been thinking about starting a podcast, this is your sign. Start your new podcast for free today at RSS.com. I love time to go to these events and stuff, so I'm going to be writing solo pretty much the rest of the year. And we knew that we could finally hang out for the week. and be together with our friends at Secrets, which is always a good time. The weather was absolutely perfect.
We couldn't ask for any better weather. It was 90 and sunny every single day. Low of 67 every single day. It was the same temperature all the days. Perfect Florida vacation. We're on vacation. We're on vacation. We let our hair down. We do. If you see me at Secrets, you see me And him as a whole different person than you do if you see us at any other event. There is no shaking babies and kissing hands. No, no. We're here to have fun. Yeah, yeah. We went to bed and woke up Sunday. Again, Sunday is always a last minute game time decision if we stay. No, I knew we were staying.
I've had it on the calendar. I've had it booked. I told you, do you want to book it earlier or do you want to just wait until the day of it? This time was the one time I knew we were staying. Here is my thing about it. Yes, we have the capability of booking ahead. But if I go in there Sunday morning, they change the rate and it's less expensive to get an extra night. But I don't like not knowing. I've never had a problem. I know. I've never had a problem. I know that, but it's always on my head. So we went to bed and then I woke up.
seven o'clock and laid in bed worrying about it until I finally woke him up at like 10 or so. Yeah. It was like, every five seconds. Usually I get up and go up front, get breakfast, do all this before you even wake up. I didn't sleep this time though. So what happened was I didn't go to bed. Got the room and got The motherfucking Lees, all their stuff packed up. They had to work Monday. Yeah. So we helped them pack up, loaded up their van. Saw them off. Saw them off. And we went out to the pool and just. Had a whole nother day. A whole nother day. It was a whole nother secret.
Sundays are so much more chill. Normally. Normally. Not this Sunday. No, not this time. Not this time. We had like a second Saturday. Yeah, we did. We ended up with a second Saturday, it turns out. We always use Sunday as the only plan all day was to have a little pool time, go back to our room at a decent hour, get some lunch, take a nap, get some dinner at some point, take some naps, do a podcast, take a shower, you know, do all that stuff and wind down and just have an early night, get Chinese. We're going to get Chinese sushi. Yeah.
Somebody when we were at the pool said something about sushi. I said, that's what we're having for dinner. Sushi sounds so good right now. So we were adamant about getting sushi immediately. And so we did. We got sushi, but we started out with good intentions. He was like, we got to get food. So we went back to the room, ordered the food. I hung out. He went and got it. We started to have a chill time. You hung out with Lady Hayes and her husband while gallivanted with them. Yeah, wandered. Because the restaurant I got sushi was literally a mile down the road. Yeah.
and I couldn't find the menu on the full menu online to order to just pick it up so I had to go and order it and then bring it back didn't expect this place to be so busy place was amazing I wanted like it's one of those restaurants where I'm like I will be back and I will come eat here like for real not just take out sushi And in my swim trunks. But we were, it was a very good decision. It was so delicious. It was so good. So they helped us eat sushi.
And then we, the day party, usually back when we first started coming to Secrets, the only people who stayed Sunday were like the small group of Swingers Society people that used to come. Yeah, like the OG influencers. Yeah, like the actual Swingers Society people. And we would come and there'd be like eight of us at the hot tub at night time. And that was how secrets went. A lot of napping, eating, and hot tub time. And so we'd sit at the hot tub for the evening. Like, that's all we did. We'd sit around and talk.
And then slowly, I don't know, I feel like we probably had something to do with it, but we told everyone that Sunday, stay Sunday. Stay at least till Monday because it's so good. It's a whole different vibe. They listened this year. I know. It's not that serious. It's so calm. Like, everyone's just kind of like, whatever. It was a whole day party Sunday. But yeah, they had the DJ going full blast the entire time like it was a Saturday party, which normally they have quieter music playing or musicians or something going on different that's a little bit more chill on Sundays.
But no, they were full DJ. Everybody was announcing. There was games, things going on, and the pool was packed full of people. There was no chairs. When we came down there, we couldn't even find a chair, which was crazy for a Sunday afternoon. Usually you don't have to worry about it on Sundays. We hung out most of the day in the pool for the most part. Didn't get burnt one bit because our white asses, we said before we came here, we had six bottles of suntan lotion. He went out and got all the lotion.
Yeah, we had two full actual lotion, two of the 70 SPF bottles of that, and then I got four cans of the spray. Plus face one. Yeah, I got all of them because I'm like, I'm going to fry. Afterburn, we were convinced that we haven't seen the sun in since before winter. Yeah. At all. Not at all. And we are white as heck and we were convinced we were going to be miserable and burnt the entire time. But we didn't burn not one bit. No. Not one little piece of burn and I'm proud of us because I was worried about us. And it was hot and the sun was sunning hard all the days. So I'm impressed.
But I think it's that wandering part. Wandering around helps because you're getting out of it every 20 minutes. We have to back tracked us a little bit. Because as I was gone getting sushi, Lady Hayes and her husband and you were all gallivanting. So I get a text message while I'm waiting for our food and saying Lady Hayes' husband locked me out of the room. And I never got your bracelet re-keyed from when I So you had You were locked out of our room. You couldn't go get your bracelet because I had your ID with me because I was buying food.
So you went back to her room and then he decided he was going to take a nap. So me and her had to go find something to do. So you two were up to your own accord. Which is always trouble. And just so happened to find our neighbor, like our room neighbor. Yeah. His wife was taking a nap. It's a thing. It's honestly a really reoccurring thing. And so I come in with Four boxes of sushi. And you guys are just, all three of you guys are just hanging out at the bar. We had been talking to the guy that was next to us. His wife was napping. And we were like, okay, we're going to go eat. Bye.
And we ran. And then we got to the room and was like, we probably should have invited him to come to the room. But also, I know his wife's just napping. He's just like sitting at the bar. So whatever. But we felt bad. But that's how Sunday night started. Was because me and her felt so bad. for leaving him at the bar because he was still sitting there when we came back out from sushi. We were in there for like, we scarfed sushi up in like five minutes. So he was alone for five, maybe five, ten minutes tops. And so we were like, we gotta go find him again. That was rude.
So we went back out there to go find him and he was still there. And so we, then we were like, okay, come on, let's go. You're a friend now. So we pulled him and that's how, really, honestly, how the whole Sunday night crew started because then his wife got up and then everyone, it's all it began. And then he ended up hanging out with us all night long. Him and his wife. All night. No. No. It works. It worked. They're both. They're cute. And just good people. Yeah. I have not laughed. Oh my God. Saturday night or Sunday night. Oh my God. Hey there listeners.
Are you looking to prioritize your sexual health and wellness? We've got just a thing for you. Shameless Care offers at home testing kits, telehealth consultations, and even treatment for ED and performance anxiety for when you want to play but your body says otherwise. It's convenient, discreet, and all about keeping you at your best. And guess what? We've teamed up with them to give you an exclusive discount. Use code HOT, that's code H-O-T, at checkout to get $30 off your first order. Don't walk, run.
It's time to take charge of your sexual health today with shameless care because your health is nothing to be ashamed of. Music Music What started it? It's one of those, I think, that telling the story is not going to be as funny. You had to be there, but me and him just cut up the entire night. We just really messed really well, and he was hilarious because we were just doing quiet little stupid... I don't even know what we were doing, but we were just stupid by ourselves. What started it was Lady Hayes... Something happened with her eye. She had something in her eye. Her...
She needed eye drops. His wife had eye drops, had all the things that you need. So she had her upside down on their bed next door. She was doing the eye drops. Got up, came back over and was like, my eyes are so bad. It's so horrible. She was wearing an eye patch because someone was like, you, we have eye patches. We all have eye patches right now. I walked into their room just to check on everybody. And the first thing I see is Lady Hayes with a Pirate eye patch. Because everybody's like, oh, we got eye patches. Maybe that'll help.
Because she was like, when the breeze hit it, it was being stupid or something. I lost it. And then so she hung out in the eye patch for a little while, but her eye was really bugging her really bad. And I look over at him and he just walks up to her, straight in the eye, looks at her. Because he only looked into one. With a straight face, he grabs the eye patch and just...
pulls it as far as he possibly can and just snaps it in her eyeball for no reason just didn't even know her really just hanging out with some guy and he but I my reaction was it was like everyone was like oh my god like because her eye was really bothering her she was having a lot of pain in her eye and he just walked up to her and it was he looked at me. He's like, oh, no. And I said, oh, no. I said, why did you do that? He said, I don't even know. It was really... Intrusive thought. Intrusive thought actually came. And he's so sweet and kind. He was so cute. And, like, he was so nice.
And so it was so out of character and not expected that. Like, I was not expecting that at all. Because we were just talking. She was like, oh, my eye hurts so much. It's like watering. Well, like, we were... We're trying to clean out all of our snacks and stuff from the weekend. We're in our room trying to get... This is your sign. Start your new podcast for free today at rss.com. Get rid of all the stuff so we'd have to bring it home. And so we were just all hanging out in our room and playing games. We had that card game. And so everybody was just kind of mingling.
And then out of the blue, this happened. And I don't know. I became unhinged. You didn't even see it happen. I lost it. I could not stop. I was in tears laughing. And it is one of those like you had to be there to do that. But he looked at me and he was like, I have no idea why I did that. I have no clue. He felt so bad. He just snapped. And then from that point on, we couldn't let it die. We couldn't let it die. And it started a thing with me and him. And then later on, we had gotten in the hot tub and somebody was talking about that. what is it? Nose nose.
They said you do this with your nose. You put your finger next to your nose when someone says that. It's one of those last person whatever. Every time anyone was talking and no one was paying attention to us, he'd be like nose nose. Here's my perspective. We all went to the pool and hot tub because we were bouncing back and forth because the hot tub is so hot. We cool off in the pool and get in the hot tub back I was at the bar getting us a drink and I come back with your drink and my drink and everybody's just standing in the pool like this. I don't know if we started it or I don't know.
I remember someone saying that that was a thing that happens and people do that all the time. And me and him are both like, that's not a thing. Never heard of that. Nose, nose. What is that? And then, so he would just randomly be like, nose, nose. And only me and him were participating the whole time. Yeah. So it was all night of me and him just finger against my nose. And the last person I was like, oh, you lose all of you. And we always were winners. We were super excited about it. And it was just one of the we weren't even like it wasn't even alcohol. It was pure, like just laugh.
It was so much fun. It was so good. But it was I had a laugh. Yeah, I mean, crying. You had to walk away because it was hurting to laugh that hard. Like you're crying. It was good. It was good. It was just a good soul. Good soul time. And we played Freak or Dare or whatever it was. Yeah, drink or freak. We did like three cards and then... Yeah, we didn't last very long. It's hard to play those games with swingers. We were playing like practical jokes with those. Yeah, we were making our own games. And it's hard to play those kind of games with swingers because everything on there is like...
Nothing's off limits. You play that with a normal person. If you play... Yeah, that's one of those games where you play it with... Yeah. A vanilla route. It's crazy. Show them your nipples. and we're all naked standing around playing the game. So it's like, yeah, take off one piece of clothing. Kiss the person to the left. To the left. Like it was very much that kind of vibe. So it's hard. It's hard to play those games. But. At a resort. Yeah. Anyways. We tried. It was good. That was fun. It was fun. We made a lot of laughs. Yeah, we made our own fun.
Sunday night was like, Sunday is always the best time of the weekend. I stand on that one. I love it. And then. Sunday vibe. After, everybody kind of just was like, alright, it's Sunday. We're all leaving tomorrow. We have to be responsible adults and go. We're going to bed. We decided, you know what? We're not. We are not being responsible. We're in Florida. Tuesday, we live our best life. So we took the leftover sushi. Oh, yeah. With Lady Hayes and her husband down to their room. Because they had brought their air fryer. And they're like, we have steaks that we need to cook. We have to use.
We have to use because we can't take them home with us. It's not going to last the drive. So we went back to their room and had a legit surf and turf. That was a really good idea. That was the best decision we ever made. It hit good and then we went back to the room and went to bed.
But again, it sounds like we're speeding through it, but all this happened and we said, oh, then we went to bed we're talking 4 30 in the morning yeah we're talking yeah and on the way there we also stopped and talked to at least 100 people you know it's not i got kidnapped not that simple i got kidnapped by a five foot two hispanic lady yeah um yeah a lot happens in between when we say oh and then we went back to our room when we say we go back to our room first of all again it takes an hour to get back to our room and back because the position of our room i wouldn't stay in that room again i loved the room i thought the room was cute.
I thought it was good. It was clean. Everything worked perfect. But the location it was at the complete end of the interior one. The whole way on Tiki's side. So all of the time you had to walk the whole way around the gate because they only have one gate at the front. And so didn't love that. Our feet are bleeding a little bit. My feet are so raw. Look how swollen my feet are. I wore flip flops throughout I think my Mine are too. I don't know. So swollen. Everything is just struggling. I wore flip-flops 90% of the time when I was walking around, but it does not matter.
All you're doing is walking the entire... We walk the whole time we're at Secrets. We're walking. I got my heart points on my phone every day. A lot of walking in and get distracted and go here and go there because if you know, you know. The community is so good and this was a big Secrets for us period. There was a lot of emotional... behind the secrets. It's been a long time coming, but this is going to be, I'm pretty sure, our last unless something changes, we're not like guaranteeing or anything, but we knew going into this is probably our last swing or sighty. Secrets take over.
Hey, beautiful. If you're looking to feel confident and sexy, Voluptuous Fixin has got you covered with stunning lingerie and outfits that fit every curve. And for our listeners, you can snag 10% off your order with code HOTCOUPLENGA at checkout. Don't miss out. Check out the link below and find your next favorite piece. And so there's a lot of history. It's very complicated. It's a lot of emotion. And so we decided, I think, especially after this weekend and how it kind of went and how everything went down.
It breaks my heart to not see those people that we talked about and stuff that we're going to have to find them some other way or we're going to have to maybe the universe will bring us together or something. And that's why we've held on to Seek It's Secrets is our one place that we go every year or, you know, once or twice a year, three times, whatever. But we always go with Swinger Society because it is like a reunion for the Discord members. It's not about Swinger Society. What people don't know as Swinger Society is Discord community. It's people you don't know their faces.
You don't know who these people are. You've never heard their voice a day in your life. And that's who Swinger Society is. And a lot of people don't know that.
Swinger Society was founded on this Discord channel and this group of best humans you'll ever meet in your entire life and I will forever be grateful and Secrets we did get to know each other at the beginning of Secrets and Secrets really did bring us together and gather us all together and we do it every year and have so much fun and we love it there and we don't want it to end but it's time you know sometimes things have to come to an end and we're going to be there I'm going to be there in June at the next Secrets Eye Candy Takeover and we're still going to be going to Secrets we'll be back for sure we love Secrets but with Swinger Society I think this is going to be our last Swinger Society Takeover and so It kind of was a lot of endings to a lot of things.
It was bittersweet. You're trying to soak up every minute you can with these friends that you don't know if you're going to ever cross paths with again. And so it's hard for me to even talk about because there's a lot behind it and there's a lot that's deep and there's a lot of emotions. But I think it really was made clear this weekend that we made the right decision. This is it and this is the end. And so, you know, it's... It is what it is. And it was hard. There was a lot of hard moments this weekend. There was a lot of moments I had to sit back and watch from afar.
And there was a lot of just not good feelings. A lot of, you know, it's just different. It's just different. And it's just not going to see. It's never going to be the same. And I think we keep trying to come back and we all keep trying to go every year because we're chasing that feeling that we used to get at the beginning of all of it. And we're not the only ones. We're excited. I don't know. Every single person I spoke to said. We had this conversation with a lot of people. We're not the only ones, but we all share a mutual.
It's a feeling that's just not there anymore, and it's not going to be there again. And we're all coming to terms with the fact that it's just never going to be that. It's the end of an era. It's the end of an era. It's just a different, a chapter is closing. Change is hard sometimes. It's a lot. We spent a long time holding on to what we used to have. We have big feelings. We're big. If you know us, you know we have big feelings. We're big hearts. We love heart and we love that community. We love Sour Society for what it is and what it really is, not what you think it is.
So I've cried every time I talked about it pretty much all weekend, but there's a lot of deep emotion, a lot of hurt feelings, a lot of relationships that you just realized were what you thought that they were and a lot of realizations from that and seeing that kind of taking a step back and seeing it for what it actually is and not what you've been thinking it is and seeing it as. You know what I'm trying to say. But it was a lot. And so it makes me a little bit sad. But I just like to believe that the universe will bring us back together and we'll find each other again somehow.
And we'll have Discord, maybe. I don't know that we can find them. But there's social media. There's things. We've connected other ways. The world's too interconnected now. No, and it works in crazy, amazing ways.
said it just brings you people that yeah the algorithm works really well it does we'll find each other at some point someday we'll find each other again if it's made meant to be and so you know just letting stuff go is a little bit hard this weekend was a lot of the end of an era the end of what used to be so I'm still getting through it I'm still working I'm not not saying it's easy but I do feel more at peace and at ease with our decision and we're doing our own thing now and It's good. I'm excited to start a new era and start a new thing. And we're excited.
We are definitely working on a lot of stuff behind the scenes. And we have a lot of really cool stuff. We have a website now. Yes. Go check out that hot couple NGA.com. Finally, we have waited many years. It looks so good. And he has been working really hard on that for quite a while now. And so we finally already do that. And we also have merch coming. Finally, we've been. Yeah. People have been asking for that one. for a really long time and not only merch but really really good merch that I cannot wait to show people. It's not stuff that you see it very. It's not your cliche like swinger.
We're trying to go more low key. We're going to have some you know. There's going to be obvious. We tried to think outside of that. But yeah we're trying to get somewhere. If you wore it to the grocery store no one's going to know. That was my goal because I want you to have stuff that you actually can wear and use. Because I have stacks of t-shirts I wear twice a year. I want to actually have people that use them and love them. I want it to be a little if you know you know type thing. It's kind of vibe we are. It's kind of community we run. There's going to be some really good things.
It's all good. I know it sounds so sad in that moment. I'm sorry. I apologize. It wasn't the cutest. But I am excited. We are excited. We have really good stuff. in the works and we are now working with naughty new orleans so i am beyond excited yeah you'll be at naughty you can i'm an emotional hot mess right now and you can find a link or our link to buy tickets to naughty in new orleans and you get 50 off and you get 50 50 off your ticket if you use our link slash promo code naughty's a big But Naughty's a big one. Naughty's a big one for us.
The only goal in our journey, really, honestly, that we had for a very long time was just to get back to Naughty and get invited to Naughty. And that was like a big goal of ours for many years because we fell in love with Naughty. Naughty, we rave about it all the time to everybody we possibly can. And we have told that story, you know, falling in love with the city and going out to dinner. And we had never been and all of that. Well, and now we have the opportunity to actually share it with people. Yeah. Yeah. now we can actually share the experiences.
Every year we always, I say, what, what is your lifestyle goal? And that's my one goal business wise in the lifestyle. And that's to get invited to naughty because if you've been, you understand it's like the biggest lifestyle convention. That's what it is. It's a big lifestyle convention. It takes whole city of new Orleans and a lot of feels. If you know me, you know, I love my feels and that's what I am and what I do. So they have a sexual parade and stuff. I'm so excited to not, and, to be representing us finally. Yeah.
And that's where I think all of this is to say we're all the new era is really just us becoming who we are. And we're excited to finally have our own things. Well, and it's I think it's for us. It's having us representing us, but also helping other people. Oh, yeah. Yeah, because our brand we what we do is just we help new people. That's like our main focus on what we do as a lifestyle advocate or educator or whatever you want to call us who we are.
But our thing is introducing people to people and introducing them to the world of swinging and showing them events we love and places to go and giving them tips and giving them the real, real like down low about things. And we try to keep it real. And I like to believe that that is enough. And so we're excited to finally represent our little hearts. It's our little brand. And we have merch coming out. We've got our website out now. We have all new stuff coming out. And we're excited. We can't. We're not going to share all of it. But yeah, Naughty is on our list of stuff that we can announce.
And we are going to have all that information below. And I will be at iCandy Secrets Takeover in June. And then we have the next weekend is Globe Party with Pinellas After Dark. And we're going with Pinellas After Dark 2 iCandy Takeover. So. A lot going on. There's a lot going on. June's busy. Yeah, there's a lot going on. And Naughty's coming up first week of July. So we've got, I've got, I have a busy, busy schedule going on. But yeah, we're really excited about it. So all the links for all of those places where you can find us at will be on our website. On our website. ThatHotCouple and GA.
I don't think you guys understand how long we have waited..com. moment to just say website. Or you can also find all the promotional links and everything in the show notes as well. But you can go to the website. Because I worked really hard on it. And social media. Come follow us on Instagram and TikTok and all of that. We share all of the dates and information a million times beforehand. So if you're wanting to know where we're going, Instagram is where it's at. You'll see all of that stuff. We've got all the social medias. Pretty much all of that. And that's all on the website.
It's all on the website. Go share. Go follow. Go like. Go comment. Tell us all the things. Let us know what kind of merch you want and what kind of stuff you want and let us let us know what you're looking for because we will gladly make it and we're here for you guys. We again love the community. We are only here for the community. That's all we're here for. That's what it all boils down to is we love our people. We love we just love we love love and we love it here. We love everyone. We love it here. I said that so many times this past weekend.
I've said a thousand times my heart is It's just so happy and full and it's where I belong. It's just perfect and feels good. Feels good. I just love my humans and it's such... If you know, you know. Type of thing. Yeah, 100%. It's just... It's all about the feels and I love it. Love it here. And I also want to say thank you to every single person that came up to this weekend. I... So many faces and so many people... Yeah, more people than I... So many people. Even realized. No. And... It's crazy. So many people are starting to bring up the podcast now more than anything...
Where before it was just like social media, TikTok. I love your Instagram. Now it's the podcast. So it feels so good that people want to... I still don't understand why people want to sit around and listen to us talking and yapping and going on and on. But apparently people do like to listen to it. And we appreciate... I don't think... I just will never be able to understand. I will never be able to express like how much it means that anybody's watching. Anyone's listening ever. And how much we...
appreciate you and we realized that we would not be doing this and we would not be here doing all of these things and having these experiences if it wasn't for you and so we will never take it for granted we really do try to try to do it for the community but yeah there's a lot of emotions we really just want to reiterate how much we love everybody seriously everybody and anybody we meet we are yeah so it's pretty instantly and the whole purpose and reason why we're here and we have to keep remembering is just for you guys everyone who's listening Thank you for listening to this, everybody who's just watching anything that we do or just saying hi or just being kind.
Thank you for everybody that was kind this weekend and we've got a chance to connect with over the last few years. Yeah. We will find you again if we lose you. It was kind of humbling this weekend. It was a lot and it was eye-opening. Yeah. It was very eye-opening. There's a lot going on behind everything that people weren't aware of. And it was a good time as a party. It was great. We had a great time, but there was so much more than that.
And it was really, and here lately, the past few things that we've been doing have been really reminding yourself of your purpose and the purpose and why, and trying to just, yeah, humbling ourselves and reminding ourselves that none of this is about us and not at all. Yeah. None of this is about us having even fun at all. This is all making sure that everybody is living their best life and, Yeah. Thank you for being so sweet. Thank you for always, always being good to us. We have always been treated so, so well by the community and by the people. And there's always bad apples in the group.
And, you know, it happens. It happens. But we wanted to really make sure that you guys still, we love you. And we will find you again. Come find us again. We're going to be at all the things. We're not stopping. We're only getting more places, doing more things. All the things. Same. This is our last vacation day. I want to lose the hat in the morning. We have to transform our normal people. We have to head back home. We extended it one more day. We went to the nude beach today. We spent the day at the nude beach. It's a new tradition now. We come to Secrets because it's like an hour away.
We have to hit it up. It's always so good. It's so good. get a whole group to come with us. Yeah, that's the plan. One of these years when we go to Secrets, we're going to bring a whole group of people and they're not going to know what to do. It's so liberating. It's so good to just walk to the ocean naked. Today I had a bathing suit on when I went there because I was like, I don't know. I don't know. You never know. Oh, that was the first thing I did is I dropped my shorts. That was the first thing I did. I'm like, and I'm naked.
It's a lot harder for me to just like get an egg and strip down but it helps that like there's no people around you. Yeah, it's very quiet. It's very quiet and you have space and you're not, there's not people like right there staring at you so that does help and it's so freeing. It feels so good to just walk into the ocean naked and sit by the ocean and it's so good. Just be free, be ourselves, be what we're supposed to be. What we were intended to do, be naked all at a time but yeah, that was our day and that pretty much Rops up secrets. That was our secrets weekend.
We extended an extra day beyond our extra day. So yeah. This was a Monday, but this was like our Sunday. Yeah. Because we had two Saturdays. Yeah. It was much more. Today was a Sunday vibe for sure. We got dinner, lunch. We kind of made our way down here slowly. We didn't get to the beach until two. I think closer to three or four. Like it was, it was pretty late. It was pretty late. We were even stopped and had to get beach chairs because we forgot. We didn't bring anything to sit on. Yeah. And we knew we were going to try and go there.
So we got to be chairs and now we have to we're staying in a hotel nearby. And then tomorrow we head home. Tomorrow we get back to regular life. It's always an adjustment. Yeah. It takes a good. It's a lot of recovery. Yeah. A lot of recovery. Luckily we have nothing until June because it's going to take me that long to get over this. No, we feel good. I feel good. I feel good. great. I'm just sore. I talked to a lot of people this morning that we were hanging out with last night and they're like, I am so hungover. I feel great. All weekend. I felt amazing all weekend.
Even with the little amount of sleep that we got and stuff, I was tired. I'm tired. Yeah. Tired in my body. That's it. But other than that, I feel fine. I blame it on just, yes, the late nights and the walking on concrete. You exercise a lot of secrets. Three days straight. Yeah. A lot of beach a lot of summer, a lot of Florida. And then we have, it's kind of like a week-long kids slash our vacation too. So we have our kids here too. So we have to go get them and finish out the vacation, finish out Florida and then head home. But that's what we're doing for the rest of the week.
And then back to normal, back to work Friday. So trying to make it last as long as we can until then. But yeah, check all of our stuff out. Keep up with us. Come find us. Coming out. But as always. But as always. It's not that serious. Don't make it weird. Love you guys. Bye. Bye.
