Join Ashley and Russ in this engaging episode of Hot Couple Chronicles where they delve into the intricacies of relationships and lifestyle dynamics. The episode kicks off with rapid fire questions that reveal their personalities and shared experiences. They then tackle thought provoking scenarios in the segments "Am I the Asshole" and "Is This Cheating?", both laughter and introspection. With entertaining anecdotes and candid insights, this episode offers a refreshing look at love, intimacy, and the lessons learned along the way. Tune in for a conversation that's both entertaining and enlightening.Special thanks and music credit to our friend @nominalfilter on Soundcloud! Upcoming Events Swinger Society Takeover- Secrect's Hideaway. April 3rd-6th Follow Us - Instagram: @hotcouplechronicles - TikTok: @hotcouplechronicles - YouTube: Watch video episodes on our channel - Facebook: @ThatHotCoupleInGA - Instagram: @HotCoupleInGA - TikTok: @thathotcouple_inga - Backup TikTok: @thathotcoupleinga4.0 Find Your Community - SDC: Use code 36775 for 2 free weeks! - 3Fun: Find local swingers with this free app! Become an affiliate HERE! Health Resources - Shameless Care: $30 off ED meds or at-home STI testing! - Hello Wisp: Private, convenient access to sexual health treatments. Use code INGA15 for 15% off! Premium Sites - Ashley’s VIP OnlyFans (No PPV, all content included) - Ashley’s PPV OnlyFans - Ashley’s Fansly - Russ’ OnlyFans
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You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own is free and easy. Upload an episode, and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and hundreds more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads like this, even with just 10 listeners a month. If you've been thinking about starting a podcast, this is your sign. Start free at rss.com. Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring the swinging lifestyle.
Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences. While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their relationships. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on this adventure. I'm Russ.
And I'm ashley and this is hot couple clinical this is gonna be a fun one it is i'm so tired it's been do you like my shirt yes there's a story behind that we didn't tell for the with the secret we didn't tell a lot of stories once we came home and we really started talking about more things like oh my oh, my gosh, we should have said this. We should have told a story about this. I was like, there were some really hot moments that I was, like, remembering, and then I was like, oh, I wanted to do more details about that. But that shirt has, if you're watching, that shirt has a lot of history.
Yeah, if the mayor's watching this, I got your shirt on. Yeah, we had stickers that we had. It has the same, like, we have stickers made that has the same thing on it. And I gave him a sticker and he gave me a shirt. Yeah. Well, first you were like, I got stickers that have that on it. And he was like, that's so cool. And he's like, give me, here, you need the shirt there. Yeah, I went and got him a sticker. Oh, yeah, you went to the room. And then I gave him a sticker.
He like take my shirt i'm like i'm not taking your shirt i was like no i like handed it back to him and left and then later on saw him again then his wife was like take the shirt so then we yeah he has has the shirt so i love the shirt and and stickers to go with it yeah so yeah i have a little story it's secret episode. Yeah, it's going to be fun. I want to break it up. It's been really serious. It's been real serious. Very serious. We've had some deep topics. And we have some more deep topics coming. So I'm like, I want to do something just fun. Something laid back. Something funny.
And then we'll hopefully have some laughs. And maybe learn some more about us. And maybe it'll be a good time for us to hang out and talk. And I feel like some of these will be good conversations for other people. Yeah, yeah. It'll get other conversations going. What do you think? Yeah. Yeah, we're going to do some rapid fire questions first and those are going to be pretty terrifying because we don't know what each other is saying. Yeah, I have no idea what you're going to ask. We each have eight questions and then we are going to just rapid fire.
They have to be quick, on-the on the fly answers and then we have more deeper discussion questions that we each have that we haven't discussed or talked about or anything they're like on the fly we're trying to get like just very you know authentic responses and feelings and thoughts i'm like it's gonna be it's gonna be fun and then we have some games we have is this cheating and we're gonna talk yeah and am I the asshole am I the asshole and they're they're gonna be fun they're all life now related yeah so it's and it'll be fun our relationships in general so it'll be fun it'll be fun hopefully we'll see and if you like this stuff if you wanna play more games and do some more stuff like that we're looking for like a game or some segment in each of our podcasts that we do that's like fun that even if it's a serious topic we do and then we could even like include guests and stuff with but we just don't know what that's going to be we're hoping to find it we'll find it or somebody will help us like somebody will always happen authentic to just be like oh that was so much fun but yeah we want to hear your to hear your answers to the stuff that we talk about.
Because, obviously, we're all going to be having different opinions and stuff with different things. And then, you know, if you have your own stories, am I the asshole stories? And am I, is this cheating stories? Feel free to send them in. Get on socials. And we want to talk more about it. Yeah. So it's going to be fun. It's going to be fun. So grab a drink. Get comfy in here. Here we go. It's going to be exciting. We have our list of our questions on our phone. So it's going to be a little bit annoying. All right. We're looking down. Rapid fire. Rapid fire questions. Are you ready?
Are you going first or am I going first? Um, I don't know. It doesn't matter to me. I want to ask you first. Okay. I want to get warmed up. Okay. Okay, here we go. All right, rapid fire questions. Okay. Here we go. They have to be fast. All right. Okay.
fast all right okay i'm the fastest pool party dance party pool party what's your favorite memory from one of our events dallas orgy um one word to describe our dynamic at events just one word one word describe us at an event fast that's a fast one word describe one word to describe us suit or casual at lifestyle event suit of course that's stupid um night out or night in like together or with together night out do you want to plan events or would you rather spontaneous plan and what's one lesson you've learned from all of our experience in the lifestyle like one lesson yeah one quick one talk period and then one thing you always have to bring to a lifestyle event breath mints good job that was yours pretty good pretty good alright you ready no not at all No, And then one thing you always have to bring to a lifestyle event.
Breath mints. Good job. That was yours. Pretty good. Pretty good. Are you ready? No, not at all. All right. Quick. Very fast. Yeah. Lightning round. Yeah. We'll see you about that. Favorite lifestyle event we've attempted. Naughty. One word to describe our connection. Electric. Ooh. Ooh. Heels or flats?
naughty one word to describe our connection electric oh heels are flats oh if if i had the perfect feet or if i had my feet heels are flat heels i always would rather do heels what event outfit would you wear in every single event if you could the white one from secrets comfortable nothing yeah that's. The flowy, like sheer thing. Yeah, it's like a body suit with a skirt. It looks good. It's comfy. Best city we've visited for the lifestyle fun? Naughty. New Orleans? New Orleans, yeah. How do you feel before we host an event? Excited or nervous? Both. Both.
You're a little bit of a nervous nervous Nelly. Yeah, I'm nervous. But you're excited for the... Yeah, I'm very both. I get it. A song to describe our relationship. Don't stop the... I knew you were going to say that. I knew you were going to say that. That's our song that chose itself for us. It's so corny and cliche. I actually hate that.
But every single single place we go any significant moment in our life it always is there and it plays it's annoying how many times in our lifetime it'll just randomly be gone I kind of hate that it chose us all the time so we didn't get to choose ours it chose us and I'm not a cliche music person I'm a party what's a memorable story from a party we attended? Dallas Orgy is always a good story. Yeah, that's, I love it. Always a good story. I'm sure everybody already knows that story, but yeah. Like the 20, 30-person Orgy with windows surrounded by glass.
Well, that was the first time we introduced the Cajun Persuasion to everyone. Yeah, we... And that was the last... That was a spontaneous one for us. That was the last... Yeah, it was... We weren't going to do it, and then we decided... And we closed down the club. No. Well, yeah, we closed down the club, but I was just saying, our decision to even go, we weren't even planning on going, and we're like, it was one of those last seconds. Yeah, we did. We're coming. Yeah. Then we drove 13 hours to Dallas. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog.
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His schedule was a lot easier to just spontaneously trip all of the time. So we were able to do that. That was our favorite thing to do. We would just go off on our own adventures on the way home. Good stuff. All right, that was rapid questions. Now we have just general discussion questions. Tell me to start or you to start. And we're just going to read them out loud.
And then we both can answer them and talk more about them then but i have i'll do what is most embarrassing moment i know this one right off top of my head i know what it is i've shared it a couple times with a couple people i've apologized to you about it i've apologized to the person involved about it like everyone i know has had a night like that we were meeting a couple for the first time like we were talking like online yeah like instagram stuff like that and we had planned to meet up at this lifestyle bar in atlanta and it was our first time it was our first time at that club slash bar and it was first time meeting them and we were having a great time it was a great night uh we got to all the point to play where they were they are more of a dag vixen couple so she plays solo and he plays sometimes but he wasn't feeling that that night and so it was us her and a single guy yeah and we all went to a playroom and we were having a great time and it was hot it was really hot hot and he well before we're like we were everybody knows like we start getting the you know sexy vibe where it's about the head yeah so i took a viagra and he had just this was and early on and this was like starting to yeah and this we've been drinking a little bit all night and uh i wasn't i wasn't drunk but i wasn't sober like i was a little tipsy but i was feeling good but nothing too we were in the middle of play and that viagra kicked in and all my blood vessels dilated and that alcohol hit me all at once that's hard and like i tried to shake it off and you noticed like my face change i don't know if the color came out of my face or what.
You just know when, like, the person's just... And at this point, we kind of switched back where I was with you. And you, like, are you okay? Well, he was, like, luckily at that very moment, it was a very easy transition. And I don't even remember, like, that part of it. Like, I don't know what that was happening.
But he was, like, if I stay in her any longer, I'm he like i had agreed already to like so it was just me and you so it's really comfortable oh wait if he stayed inside of you yeah he was like i can't he's like i can't anymore and he's like you have to go back to your husband because it's going to be bad and so i was like okay whatever we got condoms on i don't know like yeah i get it though he wanted to keep playing but so it like kind of was at a good moment we were it was just me and you so it's a little bit and it was at the end already yeah it was like it was towards the end yeah like we already had fun but yeah and we was early on in our you know our viagra at alcohol learning how to but you looked at me like are you okay i said yeah i'm fine just trying like i wasn't fine no and it wasn't five minutes after you asked me that question i tried to try to play it off i stood up found the nearest trash can in the corner and just started throwing up in the middle of the playroom in this trash can like it was bad and we wrapped it up that's not a thing that happened that's not we wrapped it up and we made it home you drove home and yeah well so later on i like finally talking to her and like i apologize she even realized it happened i know that's like i must have hit it really happened right at the perfect time because we were like at the end it was like me and you were together it was yeah kind of towards the end we were all like wrapping up wrapping it up so i was like and then they were all kind of making their way she had to go back to her husband and everything everybody was kind of going back to their people and then they missed it all yeah like luckily luckily but i was so embarrassed for the longest time i apologized to her she's like i didn't even know i'm glad you didn't know yeah also i'm so sorry i used to like at the very beginning i used to be so nervous and scared that i would just like i really would drink just out of nerves and then i wouldn't realize how much i was drinking and then i just like hit a wall the first yeah there was a first year it was like navigating that now it's like yeah i'd rather just not drink like that i mean like i just don't want to drink anymore like a drink to like loosen up when you get you know just socially but like i just have no interest in doing that just like well like i took the viagra and then i know and me and the guys like did like a couple shots i think that's what did it and the nights where i've been like that it's because i was refeed was one of them yeah like there's other yeah like those kind of things you can't really help but yeah that sucks and then mine is so i have hydrodinitis superativa and it is a skin disease it's a chronic illness and it affects your pores and your pores don't work and we're going to talk more on a whole episode and explain more about it but i unfortunately get abscesses and my pores don't know how to filter themselves correctly and so they don't work so everything gets trapped and infected under my skin so i end up i end up with these lumps everywhere they look like pimples or something and then until they don't and then they turn into like baseball size lumps and yeah it's it's a pretty embarrassing and it also causes tunneling because my pores are all messed up and they're trying to find a way out and so it causes these tunnels in my skin so even when they're done there's like scar it scars and plus they're purple like bruises and stuff so i'm i'm really really self-conscious that's my number one thing that i've been self-conscious of my whole life and definitely through this journey with these guys and stuff and most people are know about it and i'm pretty much up front that when we start playing and stuff i'm like this is what's going on it looks bad but i swear it's like you know i'm clean everything is good you know it's not dirty or anything it's not a dirty reason but it's always in my head all of the freaking time Thank you.
way it's like you know i'm clean everything is good you know it's not dirty or anything it's not a dirty reason but it's always in my head all of the freaking time no matter if they know about it or not no matter if they're cool about it or not but so the guy we had been playing with a couple and then we swapped and i was with her husband and we've been friends with them for quite a long time this was yeah they've never played um we were at trapeze yeah this was actually pretty recently pretty recently and um we had talked for a long time but we never played and this was our first time playing together and like we were you know making out and on the bed and everything and then he just like gets up and leaves like i didn't know where he went at all and so i was like i was like uh you know whatever i thought like he went to the bathroom or condoms or whatever but then of course that's like where my head goes yeah like my scarring my hs and all of that so then i don't know he had was having problems because he had drank too much yes and he had taken some medication.
Same type of medication type. He does a shot. Yeah. And it hit him really hard and fast. And so he was like dealing with that and everything. And I didn't realize that. And that's how, that's why communication isn't. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own is free and easy. Upload an episode, and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and hundreds more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads like this.
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If you've been thinking about starting a podcast this is your sign start free at rss.com important yeah i thought that i scared him because i in my head i saw him look at my thighs and then like in my head he like panicked and like ran away and that's what i saw that was my perspective like i scared him with my scarring and stuff in my thighs or like gross and then i lost all this weight i have like extra i don't know it's just not the cutest so it's like i'm always so scared about when they see you there and i've talked to him a couple times since and i know it's mostly in my head but yeah that was my first thought he looked down we have decided that we need a redo.
Oh, yeah. I get what happened. I understand what happened. And it's fine. But what's funny about that whole situation, and I've talked to you about it, but I haven't talked to these people about it, is... I'm just very self-conscious about that. Yeah. I understand that's your biggest insecurity and you're sensitive about it.
But I think that that situation itself is very funny because it is funny now the day after he's texting me apologizing to me it's like i'm sorry i hope i didn't mess things up with ashley she's absolutely gorgeous i drank too much i just couldn't he's like we get excited when we go to these things we go to the hotel we start drinking and we don't eat and yada and funny now but it wasn't funny i told you it was fresh and i told you about it and you're like no i saw it happen i know exactly what happened yeah i was not and then it was anything else actually last week he texted me because we don't live that far apart from each other.
And he said, just FYI, our hot tub gets installed next week. I'm like, oh, really? And we started talking back and forth. And he's like, and he still thinks that he messed up so bad. And I just, I told him straight up. I'm like, I told him, I said, it's actually hilarious to me because we, like, Ashley thinks that she messed it up. You think you messed it up. And I think you're both ridiculous. Such is life. Such is life.
That flat communication is very important and none of us are actually like perfect at it we all want to say and think we are but there are moments where like we should have just been like this is what's going on here's the what i've i got skirt come to the conclusion when it comes to most lifestyle a lot of lifestyle couples i wouldn't say most i to say a lot that i've seen in my experience is we pride ourselves on being excellent communicators i know which we are with our partner but we're not the best communicators with other swinging couples yeah yeah that's i know because we're comfortable having uncomfortable conversations with each other but we don't know these other people enough.
They took us years and all these things to make us as close. Swingers in general think that we're great communicators, which we are with our partner. We do. A lot of times they're afraid of some type of judgment or making somebody mad or upset.
Or you don want to mess something up with another you know person or couple and so you don't communicate your wants and needs to the other but luckily swingers are so good at like people in the lifestyle are so good at later on being like i apologize like i've gotten so many texts and like messages after weird encounters or weird things and then like i'm sorry i don't know what happened or whatever or like we've been able to open up the discussion and we've come across other guys having performance anxiety yeah that's usually where it stems from and it's hard like i get it how it's like you it's hard for you not to take it personally well that was that was with that was that night at Trapeze, I thought I was thinking that I wasn't turning him on.
Yeah.
And I know that is a thing and i know it all the time but like i it's hard sometimes when you're like you know what am i doing wrong why am i didn't you know and i know it has nothing to do and i also had a little bit more insight in his condition i know now no because before we start like we swapped or started playing with uh the opposite partner we you and her were on the bed you were talking kiss him being flirty being super sexy and me and him were talking we're just me and him we're just kind of talking back and forth and so i knew he like so we just never had so he's like i need to go do my shot i'm like okay like actually like he mentioned it like i'm out of like i didn't take anything that night because that was out yeah he's like well he's like do you have like you he offered some of his i'm like but he like i said he uses the shot which for those who don't know it's an actual supplement that you put into your penis and it makes you hard it dilates dilates those blood vessels and makes you hard the caveat of that is there is an anecdote to after three hours you have to do it or you can create like it actually causes damage i didn't he didn't have the antidote on him it was at his hotel and I'm like well I don't want to do that then because I don't want to you know risk it for the biscuit a bad time usually we're down so I didn't and say 99% of the time I know but like i know that and i struggled that was one of my biggest struggles at the beginning was if because there i didn't realize how many men have performance issues i thought it was just a me thing i thought that my thighs were ugly like like i said earlier like i was just i got into my head again my head it was because you're like he saw you vulnerable and he saw what you look like and you like turned him off immediately and it's a hard thing to like not take it personal because i never had that issue with any man i've ever been with before the lifestyle ever it was always the opposite they would come like i never had any of that type of I've only had that issue, that problem two times.
I know the exact two times I've had that problem. No. And from a guy's perspective, it's... I've watched you deal with that. No. Overstimulating. No. Like, there's so much going on a lot of these times.
I get it now that I've been here for a minute, and I've talked to a lot of men, and I've learned a lot, seen a lot of things and when you don't we're like when it doesn't happen then you get in your head be like what's wrong with me this and that and it's a whole i know spiral situation yeah because you want to i get it i can't get it now yeah i get it now but yeah that was i took a lot of learning i didn't really that was but that's why i why I started taking, like, Viagra or, you know... I call them helper pills, but it's, like, insurance. Yeah. That's exactly what it is.
Most of the time I don't need it. Swinger insurance for a reason. Yeah, most of the time I don't need it, but it's my insurance order. Worth taking it in case you do. Just in case. Yeah. Okay. We got to keep going. Sorry. Sorry. Is that my turn? Yeah, it's your turn.
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I like anything thatllywood like hollywood glamour or like pinup i like anything that we can like get real yeah like pinup or gatsby or some kind like that or we can do like a fancy pretty fancy you know we like that we like gloves we like accessories yeah we like yeah it's like the flap dresses and yeah we're like getting fancy sparkly headbands and yeah i have two. One is a Goodwill party. Yeah, that was fun. That was so much fun. I want to do it lifestyle. We did it with vanilla friends a long time ago. You have $15 or $20 that you can spend for your partner's outfit.
And they have to wear it. So hilarious. And the actually just came across and i think it's a really good idea because you have to think about it is the theme was tequila mockingbird and the whole point is to go it's like a literature themed but with a alcohol twist. So it'd be like Dorian Grey Goose or Old Man in the Rye doesn't need any changing. But like, or sorry, Catcher in the Rye. I was mixing Old Man in the Seagrams. Fahrenheit 151 instead of Bacardi 151. Like, you know, like, puns. I like a good pun. You're giving away our themes. I know. Don't steal that now. Don't steal it.
Someone's going to definitely steal that one. But I thought that was pretty good. I've never heard of that one. And people are getting very desperate for themes. We've done all the themes. I think that one, it's for a very niche crowd. And a lot of people would have trouble thinking of something like that. That's not something you just... Very creative people. But it's not something you just Google a costume with.
That's why that's that's why i like kate her libertine events i love libertine events like themes because they make you really think and you can really interpret it any way you want to yeah it's like i love her and she does inspiration that you wouldn't have thought of well like her takeovers are like a whole thing like a whole when we were in miami it was miami vices and so it's all about people and everything and every like every little activity had something to tie into it i love she's really good into it i love that okay what is your favorite inside joke we share about the lifestyle think of any i mean the only thing i could really think of was like it's not that that's what i was getting ready to say and then um anytime it gets weird and it does get weird and we're in the middle of something that doesn't involve us we're like that's a them problem that's a them problem this is an us thing yeah and we say that all of the time like sometimes you have to check in because we've had some really messy not we haven't had a lot but we have had some messy situations but it doesn't involve us and that that's not our problem that's what we say all the time that's a them thing this isn't us and we have to check ourselves sometimes to not get involved too deep but yes okay what's something surprising you've learned about yourself through our lifestyle experiences um i actually can speak to people actually i'm like i'm not good at it i'm not really great at it and the more i listen to the podcast the more i hate the way that i talk over people and i say um and i say like i said yeah yeah i never saw these things yeah i never saw any of this stuff and i'm learning i am learning i'm trying to not talk i just get excited and i have adhd and i'm very nervous believe it or not this is like very outside of my comfort zone and the video portion of this thing makes me so scared more than anything so i'm like it was just my voice it'd be different but i'm like ah the whole time i want to get through it and i'm like let's go let's do it right and i want to make sure it's perfect but i am learning that i can and you know really miami was really really surprised me i got in front of we were doing a seminar it's a good story we're doing a seminar we spent months because we knew about this for like a year ahead so we spent months doing this seminar we had cards written we we didn't go out we didn't go to anything at the event until it was perfected.
We had it planned to achieve. We had practiced and memorized, had a whole folder and cards. We get down there, he freezes up and doesn't say anything at all. Five minutes in, we're going rogue. Not even, like immediately going rogue. And then he stands up when we start panicking. I lost my cards.
Because know where his cards were we had done lost abandon that that way long time ago i pulled the chairs close to the people and i was like okay here this is what's this is what's gonna happen we're gonna we're gonna winging it and then he stands up and he's like patting himself down turning around and i'm trying i'm in a conversation that's deep and like meaningful and he's like I can't find my cards and I'm like we're not doing cards anymore sweetheart we are way past cue cards so yeah that was I have learned that I can actually speak to humans turns out I can carry at least carry a sentence or a conversation sometimes just a sentence but a conversation and what's yours um so before we got into lifestyle I had I was a lot like a seagull I'm finding emo you were mine yes mine yeah I didn't realize that I liked watching you and watching each like we like watching each other I don't know.
yeah yeah uh i didn't realize that i liked watching you and watching each like we like watching each other like that was something that was i would have never yeah before we found the lifestyle i would have never i heard actually saw someone on tiktok i got tiktok the other day and she was she was like my husband is mine and that makes me a selfish bitch. And she just kept repeating herself over and over. He's all mine. You look at him. I will kick your, you know, like very stereotypical. I'm just like, man, that makes me feel sad. You know? Yeah.
Well, I'm an odd duck in the sense that you were mine yeah but also i liked showing you off yeah like i was i liked it when like you dress like once a year on our anniversary yeah that's the only time we ever saw that for like a very long time that was when i would describe like that feeling was the only thing closest when we will always get dressed in our finest and go out to dinner for our anniversary. Yeah. But like I liked showing you off, but you were mine. Yeah. Like that was the type of... Yeah, don't look, don't touch also. Yeah. I was the same way. Same way. Yeah.
Like do not avert your eyes or I will get you. Yeah. All right, next one. If you had to describe our lifestyle journey in a movie genre, what would it be clifford in a movie genre uh comedy yeah mine was dramedy like a romantic comedy dramedy something yeah like it has all the twists and turns funny, hilarious, but also like sexy and spicy and young, like a modernized version. And that's over. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own is free and easy.
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Start free at R rss.com um what's my next one oh oh this is a this one you might have to think about for a second you ready yeah ready if you can invite three people to a lifestyle dinner party he's dead or alive easy who would it be zachary taylor and i've yeah i have a feeling you're gonna say the handsome brothers you said three i said pig any three in my life those are the three people mine's not that different but completely different are you ready i'm a handsome fan hardcore for almost 30 years now don't like it get over it that why swinging is not that weird, because I've been picked on my entire fucking life for being weird.
And guess what? I love it. My history nerd's going to come out in this one. Are you ready? Okay. JFK. Oh, God. Marilyn Monroe. I was afraid you were going to go like that. And Jackie O. I was not going to take it out. All in one dinner with us. I was not going to take it out. Because I feel like that could be a really cool orgy. Yeah. Damn. No, I don't really want to do an orgy with only Zach. Just Zach. Mac, Zach, and oh, that's a hardy. That's a hard one. Hardy. That's a hard one. I don't know. I don't know. Just a sec. So, Zachary Hanson, if you're listening, we'll see you next Tuesday.
Tuesday. After the Atlanta. Actually, when you hear this, it'll be already Thursday. That's true. I've already saw you. I've already saw you. We already hooked up. Hooked eyes. You know you're married. I wouldn't do that. But, man, I have a fantasy that maybe you are, and I just don't know. So. Thank you.
you hooked up hooked eyes you know you're married let me do that but man i have a fantasy that maybe you are and i just don't know so i never know okay we are going to a dj set with taylor so that's my shot and it's his birthday maybe it's a birthday but it's taylor's djing so i'm gonna show off all my swinger moves because i haven't been to a dj taylor show since i've been a swinger and i love the dj so i am down to get funky with taylor hansen thursday in atlanta or tuesday tuesday so excited okay what's the most creative way you've seen people break the ice at events like any break the ice of like party games or any like ways that people events have broken ice I had to think about this one too I mean really it's just conversations like I don't see a whole my favorite one that we've done was at Trapeze when we did the lock and key thing oh I do like the lock and key parties I don't know why we stopped doing like ice't know why we stopped doing, like, icebreaker games.
There was actually, when we were in Secrets. I found a bunch. When we were in Secrets, they had a lock and key meet and greet. We just didn't make it. No, did they? Oh, I didn't. The speed dating thing. Not the nude one, but the clothing optional one. It was a lock and key one. Oh, I didn't know. I didn't know. My other answer was naked speed dating. That's also pretty clever. Just to have strangers meet each other naked. You kind of like strip them down to nothing and you have to be like, hi, what's your name? It's very interesting. I couldn't disarming.
Yeah, I couldn't do it because there's no hiding. Yeah, that's what I mean. You're very vulnerable and you're just like, hi, I like to play football on Thursdays and paint on Sundays.
You know what i mean like it's very much you're still meeting with people you've never met before so i don't know i think that was pretty interesting if you do it i do like the card games and stuff like that those are yeah i found a bunch of different ideas when i was like because i like got my brain started when i saw that question and i was like i can't even remember which one and i was like oh the lock and key that was so cute because the men had the locks and the women had the keys or something i know the men had the keys and the women had the locks around their neck it was something like that it was one or the other and then you had to go around and you had to find your lock here's the only downside to that one is i remember that party pretty well.
And I found my lock or key or something. There was people with keys that unlocked every lock and then there was people like me that never found their key. I get it. There's only so many. They're just like luggage locks. That was a good idea, but there was a few things. And people would have multiple people that unlocked their thing and then they'd have, like, I had no one, and kind of felt sad. It's just, it wasn't the best. No, we found yours. I don't think we had that. It was, remember? Yeah, it was the very end of the party that I finally found. I think who, after it, whose mind was.
You did have, because I remember, you had, like, two people, two or three people that you unlocked. But found the first one like immediately it's like the first lock party we like ever been that was a long time ago all right and that's the end of that one and next we are going to play the game am i an asshole looking to add some excitement to your social life meet three fun their free app that connects open-minded singles and couples for fun adventures. With thousands of active users, 3Fun is our ticket to new friendships, flirty encounters, and unforgettable experiences. The best part?
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Each got two, so we're going to take turns. The sharing is caring. So first, go on ahead. Me first? I'll let you go ahead, and we'll see. Usually they're... This one's swinger-related. Oh, am I not? This one is. This is the only one that is swinger-related. Okay. Am I the asshole for outing my swinger parents? I, 22F, recently found out a lot about my mother, 40F, and stepfather, 49M. As some background, I don't live with them. But my brother, 15M, my sister, 18F, I shared a life 360 with my parents from when I did live with them. My siblings are on there, and I never left it.
My parents have been apparently having financial issues, including asking my grandparents for some help paying rent for multiple months, falling behind on payments, asking me for money, etc. Parents have also been going on trips, including going to the closest largest city, coming home late, going to the beach in another state. But anytime we ask where they're going, they refuse to tell us.
They're also turning off their location anytime they go somewhere well duh sounds like every swear yeah late august they went to a state away for a vacation leaving my sister's my sister home to take care of everything multiple dogs and they refused to say where they were going who they're going with etc and turned off their life 360.
their way home a few days later i went to check the app for different reasons and it showed that they had stayed at a well-known swingers resort florida probably probably do we know these people probably i confronted my mother and she seemed embarrassed their kids knew but otherwise left it off on my phone night, my grandmother asked me why my mom was acting so weird lately. And she brought up that she thought my parents were at a swinger resort. And the fact that on the weekends, they go out and come home late. And so most likely is the fact that they're going to swinger bars. Swinger bars.
Yeah.
I i found out on top of this i found out today that my mother was has a tick tock account with 1500 followers my sister confronted her about it and told her it was embarrassing and asked her to remove the tick tock account my mother refused saying she wants to be an influencer and share the lifestyle my mother has no remorse for the account she doesn't seem to care that her children know needless to say my mother was furious when she found out my grandmother knew about all of this she said she had no right to share that and that her parents my grandparents didn't need to know i feel like they had the right to know since they were being lied to and since they were giving my mom money without knowing the full story although i might be at fault since my mother didn't want them to be told i didn't tell my grandmother myself but i did confirm when she asked me about it am i the asshole asshole for outing my swinger parents to my grandparents like the grandparents already knew yeah they were definitely suspicious like they even brought up a swinger resort specifically so yeah like they already knew you didn't really out them to your friend like yeah they added themselves kind of they like i don't know talked about this and if you're on social media you're You're found out it's only a matter of time we found that out the hard way it's only a matter of time someone will find it uh also but she said she didn't care she wasn't ashamed about it which i did and she didn't want to take it down yeah so like she knew the risk she wanted to be yeah but i i feel like she was mad because she didn't.
Well, that's the thing about, like, because her parents were, what, 40, and stepfather was 49. So, I think she was assuming that her parents didn't have TikTok. And she therefore wouldn't find out. Which, my parents didn't have TikTok. Same.
But it on social media so i mean i feel like the grandparents already knew so you didn't really out them so there's nothing you're not really an asshole yeah the end also i think the parents need to really talk to those kids yeah i think that's the thing they definitely have some obviously issues like some issues yeah i think that if my kids would have been like no i probably I have second guessed it obviously like a lot i would not do it you know what i mean like i would definitely i think if our kids would have said something about the social media side probably wouldn't have this like that's what i mean i don't think we wouldn't have stopped social media no we would have still been swinger we would have still had fun yeah we still would have done all that but i don't think we would have been public about in public i don't think you would have stopped at social media.
No, we would have still been swingers. We would have still had fun. We still would have done all that, but I don't think we would have... Been public about it. Been public, and I don't think we would have been in many places or done as many things. Most of that was because of social media. But yeah, I definitely, if my kids were that upset about it and really had concern and didn't want you to do it, then I'd be like, okay. Long story short, I think the mom and stepdad need to talk to their family. To their parents, yeah. All right, so everybody knows Thank you.
and didn't want you to do it, then I'd be like, okay. Long story short, I think the mom and stepdad need to talk to their family. Alright, so everybody knows. It's not an easy conversation, but this is what it actually means. And everyone knows now, so you have to sit down and have that conversation. It's weird. It's awkward. You don't want people to let their imagination run wild. Yeah, we've been there, done that.
It's definitely uncomfortable, but you have to do it yeah okay so mine is so me 25 and my husband 30 went out to dinner with his friend he's always talking about this friend and i didn't get a chance to meet him before husband told me he's married with kids and he's always inviting us out we have kids and i'm a stay-at-home mom with no support system close by so in order to go out, I have to arrange childcare and it's not easy. I asked my husband who was coming to dinner and he mentioned his friend, his girl, and another couple I do know and us.
Dinner was really great and I had a great time and actually clicked immediately with this woman. Most of my husband's friends are bachelors, so I found it cool that he's friends with this couple and I can relate more to them. We even planned a trip during dinner and they showed us all the amazing places they've traveled to. When it was time to leave we all got out of the restaurant but she's in the restroom. It's freezing cold so we said goodbye and I told his friends say goodbye to your wife it was really nice to meet her. He looked at me laughed and said she's not my wife.
I was shocked oh, sorry, my bad. I got in the car and I'm speechless. So my husband asked me what's wrong and I asked him what all of that was about. And isn't she the mother of his kids? So she's basically his mistress. He explained to me that he's in an arranged religious marriage. So it's different.
And this is a girl he actually loves and takes places am i the asshole for being upset at my husband and him for not telling me so they weren't married i wouldn't say she's an asshole i feel like no she was definitely an asshole yeah well no the husband knew too like her husband knew and like they all three knew about the situation except for the wife of like yeah that's the one who was yeah she definitely wasn't an asshole everybody else in that situation is being an asshole now her husband should have warned him one warner give her a little bit of an insight on to their like relationship with dynamics especially when she's told her that they were married and had kids yeah i mean like this her.
This is... Especially when she asked who was coming to dinner. He could have elaborated. Yeah. His girl meant, like... It's Dave and his girlfriend. Girlfriend. Yeah. Yeah. Who's not his wife. Not his wife, but... And this is why. Hopefully his wife knows about. Yeah. But... I don't know. I don't know. It's different. Yeah. I feel like everyone knew about her. She's not being an asshole. But she's not an asshole, no. No. Everyone knows an asshole. They should have given her a little bit of a backstory. All right. Now your next one. All right. My next one.
I, M39, have been with my wife, F38, since we were in college. My wife lately started a new lifestyle, I guess, that believes in no deodorant no shaving shower only gets dirty no makeup no wearing nice clothes she doesn't have depression or anything it started when she joined a new yoga class i've never commented because she's a grown woman and I can do whatever she wants. I told her it doesn't matter how I feel as long as it makes her happy. She keeps asking, but I wanted to know how you feel about it. Eventually, I said, you really want to know how I feel? I miss a woman I fell in love with.
She used to dress nice, smell great, shower every day, wear her makeup, brush her hair. I really don't like this whole all-natural thing, but again, not my decision, so I have no say. She started crying and called me an insensitive, vain jerk and now doesn't want to talk to me. Was I the jerk when she wanted my opinion? Yeah, that's a hard one. Yeah, that's a toughie. That's a hard one. I think he could have went about it a little bit better. In case you didn't mean. I mean, he has to say something if he's not happy about it, too. Like, live your best life.
He's still obviously being supportive. He said she's a grown woman, whatever makes her happy. He's obviously not happy. But he's to say something he can't just be unhappy forever so he does have to say something that may be different approach yeah i don't know like is there a different way we can do this like can we do something i understand we want to be natural no right yeah can we find a better way that one's a hard one it's hard because... You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too.
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Yeah, like if you're uncomfortable all the time and you're just like not yeah it's hard because yeah but then how do you tell somebody that they stink without hurting their feelings you kind of have to tell them yeah you're gonna kind of just say it like you don't have to kind of hurt their feelings i know and you should be comfortable like i really don't love this season yeah you have to find a way really carefully like dip your toes in there and be very careful and sensitive about you know how they might take it and how they might perceive what you say as like hurtful and stuff so i could see also that's hard also try and see her perspective i know because like i get that too because i'm like a hippie at heart i love like all that stuff too but like and she is a grown woman she and whatever makes her happy live your best life do whatever you want you know but he can't also be an you know unhappy right there so he has to say something but yeah that's a hard one that's a delicate one just be very very careful very carefully navigate that one because you don't want to hurt her i mean he obviously still loves her so yes you know and he even said about like being really careful and she's a grown woman she whatever makes her happy that's how Thank you.
you don't want to hurt her i mean he obviously still loves her so yes you know and he even said about like being really careful and she's a grown woman she whatever makes her happy that's hard am i the asshole for being mad my wife won't satisfy me me 45 male and my wife 38 female have been together for 17 years we're very different people but we complement each other in most aspects of life and I love her to bits. Some backstory first. I have some childhood trauma which makes me a pleaser. I always place the need of others before myself. This leads to mostly focusing on her when we have sex.
I always try to please her and fulfill her fantasies and every time we have sex it's one of her fantasies that is played out. Now to my problem. I love blowjobs, because that is the only time I can truly focus on my own pleasure. When we met, she would do it once a month for me. Now it's more like once every six months, which leaves me feeling very unsatisfied. I've communicated this to her in no unclear manner, but she still refuses to do them.
This leaves me not only unsatisfied, butbroken because i would do anything whatever she wanted in an instant this is starting to turn into resentment and i need to fix this am i being unreasonable or in other words am i the asshole here he is not not he is not the asshole yeah he's obviously if it's like he is very once every six months yeah well like in like he obviously bends over like tries to fulfill her fantasies yeah he's people pleaser and her needs and the fact that she doesn't feel like she needs the refusing part they're refusing he said he's been very clear and told her that's what he needs to get off and like that's what he needs to be satisfied and she's refused the refuse word really like yeah throws me because it's like your husband is telling you very clearly this is what you need a little more often like i don't know i understand the fact that when even just like having sex it's fun it feels great yeah but if he is focused on her pleasure he's not like enjoying it like he should be well he's enjoying it but not like as much yeah so like he said that a blow job is where he can actually focus on his pleasure yeah yeah he should so the wife i feel like should be a little bit more like meeting his i don't know i feel like the wife should want to do that that's the thing it's like he wouldn't like not like oh yeah it's like not that she feels obligated or she needs to fill his like she shouldn't feel like it's a chore there's something wrong if you wouldn't want to like help your spouse be satisfied yeah and like fulfill his thing i don't know but we are swingers and they're probably vanilla not because once that's probably when they had sex too yeah probably not very often but i don't know yeah he's not the asshole no she is communicating and she's gotta give a little bit She's got to give a lot of death.
Yeah. It's not the asshole. No, she is. She's communicating, and she's got to give a little bit. She's got to give a lot of it. Yeah. Especially if he's getting her off. Yeah. Hey, beautiful. If you're looking to feel confident and sexy, Voluptuous Fixin has got you covered with stunning lingerie and outfits that fit every curve. And for our listeners, you can snag 10% off your order with code HOTCOUPLENGA at checkout. Don't miss out. Check out the link below and find your next favorite piece. So now it's, is this cheating? Yes, now we're going to do it. Is this cheating?
So it's just our opinions on if these people. It was very hard to find anything good, decent, because everybody's cheating. If you're feeling guilty about something, it's probably cheating. If you're running a Reddit and be like, I just want this one guy to tell me I'm fine. I already know what my answer is going to be. This one was really hard.
I was trying to do two for each, and I was like, no, we're just going to do one cheating, because this is not as good as i thought it's gonna be it's all a bunch of cheaters that are just like trying to justify it okay is it my turn okay go on this all started with my girlfriend and i took a kink quiz a while back those are fun basically we found some online quizzes for couples to help bring some new sex kink ideas to the bedroom i selected group sex as an interest of mine and she did not after we compared she said that she was a little insecure that i picked something that i wanted to try i told her it's not something i needed or want right now but the idea was pretty hot yeah she still felt weird about it so i said let's not bring it up again and the conversation pretty much ended for a while a couple months ago she brings it up again and says she actually is interested in it now so she's been thinking about it i was confused and quite honestly i thought it was a test i told her again that i don't really need it right now but we can talk about it as a fantasy if she wanted we both thought a couple swap would be more ideal since i'm not bi and she really isn't interested in a woman she then told me that maybe she could we could explore it in the near future well two days ago she told me she had a meetup with another couple and decided to have a threesome with them after girls nights out I was dumbfounded by the disclosure and told her it was cheating and she claims it isn't her reasoning is that she was insecure and needed to take the first step but now that she has she realizes that it's not a big deal now she wants to sign up for a swinger dating site that the other couple was on i left and haven't returned since the discovery and i'm seriously considering ending things we've only been dating a year but things were getting serious this is definitely cheating right or should i have never even and then it ended yeah it's definitely cheating yeah like just because you talked about like group sex and threesomes doesn't give you one time so yeah gave me consent no it doesn't they didn't say i can oh i just needed i just needed to get the monkey off my back yeah you do that with your partner or at least with consent or like you do it together it's a together thing yeah that's definitely not i don't do that yeah definitely don't do that it's a horrible it's not good at all you guys could have so much fun together but you're just not yeah you just ruined it yeah you fucked it all up now all right mine is Thank you.
You guys could have so much fun together, but you're just not. Yeah, you just ruined it. Yeah, you fucked it all up now. All right. Mine is, okay. Me, 45M, and my wife, 45F, we've been exploring with other couples and some single guys for threesomes. About a year ago, we decided to try hot wifing, which we enjoy.
I recently found out accidentally that she had sex with someone while on a business trip she said it wasn't a big deal and that it was her right to enjoy herself when the opportunity arose she argued is the same as when she plays with single guys alone she's always shared everything with me before is this cheating yes all of it was it was so hard to find yeah it was not the same good i know because when she goes out with single guys like you are in with it like yeah it was communicated like it's not you're not she's i think she's trying to argue that like it just happened like it just was an opportunity yeah you know what i mean and then i know already know how She's trying to frame it, like, it just happened.
Like, it just was an opportunity. Yeah. You know what I mean? And then I already know how she's trying to frame it. But, yes, you are cheating. That's cheating. She cheated on you. Yes. Period. It was so hard to find anything. That wasn't cheating? It was cheating. It was all cheating. Well, here's the thing. Again, if you have to go to Reddit to try and justify what you did.
Well, if you feel guilty, if you had to hide something or somebody's being hidden from you or lying anything like it's if she don't know or he don't know then yes it is yeah like if you're in a relationship with that person and they're not aware and they're not in on all of it yeah then you're cheating if she doesn't know all the background and the details ahead of time it's cheating it. It's cheating. Period. I know. It was hard. I didn't find one that was not cheating. It was hard. It was really hard to find anything at all that wasn't like, I just literally just grab in stuff, anything.
So I'm like, this is all just cheating. So I'll find a short one.
I tried to find a short one to read because some of them are like 12 paragraphs all to say, yes, yes, youater yes you're if she got cheated on or you're a cheater yeah i finally started watching that uh ashley madison i refused to watch that for so many months because i already knew what it was but all it is is a bunch of people who are non-monogamous and they don't know what the fuck to do they could all be doing it together it's all the cheating wives and then the cheating husbands and they all just go there but they would just open up with their i remember when that whole it's for cheating men that's what the me that's what the whole thing is it's it they found like 40 million well they got 40 million yeah like 40 million like names and credit cards or something like that yeah i remember when it all happened and Everybody's like, yeah i'm like that sucks for them it's like the i've watched like a few episodes now and i'm like or the first two episodes and it's like this guy is there he's like i love my wife she's my everything like he's obsessed with her and he's like i still love her i love the idea of like flirting with other people and being with other people he's like i can still love her i have two kids just because i have two kids i mean i just don't love the one like the other one i love them differently and he's like like you're like poly you're like it's okay you know what i mean it's okay you just you know and they're just describing non-monogamy and stuff and i'm like oh if they only knew they didn't have to go behind their spouse's back all these 40 like millions and millions of people and the women are cheating too and then the people who developed it were like the wives are going to say anything about the husbands being on there because they're looking for the same thing and so they all kept to hush just millions and millions and millions of people and they think that we're weird because we're doing it together i know like that's what yeah It's crazy.
I don't know. That's it. We're everyone is together. I know. Like, that's what? Yeah. It's crazy. I don't know. That's it. We're, we'll do a whole episode on that Mormon mom talk. Swinging is ruining our relationship and our marriage. Cheating is okay. So we're just, we're not going to, so I'm just going to do what everybody says. Just cheat on my wife. Wait.
That's how it's supposed to my wife that's way more acceptable way more acceptable I could go on and on forever but that's all the time we have that's it we are done we are going to do our next episode is going to be about our weight loss journey I know a lot of people have been wanting to hear this one for a long time we have so many things that people keep asking for so I'm like everyone's always intrigued by that they love you know all the details about that I'll see a long time. We have so many things that people keep asking for. Everyone's always intrigued by that.
They love all the details about that. Well, it's hard. Everybody knows how hard it is to lose weight. Yeah, and kind of our struggles. Yeah, struggles. Everyone's like, how do you do it? That's pretty much what we're going to talk about. Don't say that now, because that takes up the whole episode. But yeah, that's going to be our next episode. Don't tell them all of it now. You can do it, too, but you'll leave me. Everyone can do it, too, but you don't want to. And then, yeah, the only thing we have on the books is April. We just booked our room for April. Oh, and Secrets in April.
In April, we were going back with the Swinger Society, and those tickets go on sale now when this episode comes out. Yeah, they are for sale when this episode comes out. They will be in the show notes. It's definitely trying to get all you guys there. I'm trying to get all, every single one of our friends, every single person, unless that or not, anyone who's been following us, been down, who's been interested in going to Secrets.
We have friends that are vanilla that are going that have been to trapeze and stuff some yes like friends of ours hopefully are going that we love and we went just just get everybody in as many well and i think this time like because we can they can track the like the link that's on in the show notes yeah they can track that so we'll use our our code. And I think we're going to do a lunch in on Saturday in our room with us and everybody that booked using that link. Get some free lunch, some drinks. We're going to be like a private party. We're doing margaritas and pizza.
We're going back to the OG. We're going back to where we started.
We're going to have our own margarita and pizza and we're going to do some super cool extra cool swag bags for everybody who books through our link as well so if you want to come hang out have pizza margaritas and four days of secrets time which is the best and i mean it is the best time to hang out so and Make sure use that link down below because if you come to our room and hang out that's perfectly fine but don't expect the swag bag if we didn't know you were coming everyone's invited to our room but we have to pre plan the swag bag so get in on those swag bags so we know how much stuff to bring down yeah I think we're going to do thatplan the swag bags.
So get in on those swag bags. So we know how much stuff to bring down. Yeah, I think we're going to do that. We're going to probably it's going to be good. It's going to be a good time. We need to go back to that. I'm sure we have some friends, Cajun Persuasion is going to be really excited about that because he was very upset we didn't have Marguerite pizza at the last secret. He walked by with his pizza and knocked on our window.
He's like, guess i gotta get over pizza you guys are having cupcakes and front yeah he was he was upset because that's been our thing for all these years it's been my great pizza so we're going back to margaritas we're bringing the blender down back room 141 and yeah if you want to get near us around us book all book all around us, all our friends. We want everybody there. We want as many people as we possibly can for April. It's a good time of the year. It's going to be really, really good. It'll be fun. So definitely book your room fast because they're selling out quick.
This one's going really quick because there's a lot of people jumping on it because it was so much fun last month. But yeah. That's all we got for today. That's it. It's not that serious serious don't make it weird love you guys bye
