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If you've been thinking about starting a podcast, this is your sign. Start your new podcast for free today at rss.com. Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring the singing lifestyle. Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences. While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their relationships.
Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our adventure. I'm Russ. And I'm Ashley.
And this is hot couple chronicles happy wednesday happy wednesday we're back again once again yeah we're just gonna we don't really have a topic for this episode we figured we'd talk a little bit more about we went to the night of spice and kind of what happened there and we went out last night and we're just gonna talk about what oh what's going on it's only what three weeks into the year and it has been busy busy yeah we've been busy and then today we have snow day yeah it's freaking snowing outside in georgia it's like 20 degrees this is ridiculous so cold the kids't have school.
They had off yesterday. Martin Luther King Day. And now they have off today. And we don't know if they're going to have off tomorrow or not. I don't know. It's supposed to snow all day today and then freeze. Our school district is really. They don't close for anything. I'm surprised they closed today. I couldn't believe they called it at like 10 a.m. too. And they never close. So you know it's going to be bad if they're... I mean, the last time it rained, everybody was mad because... Yeah, hurricanes, tornadoes, they go to school. They don't cancel school for anything.
So it's like serious here. And yeah, it's absolutely freezing. It's so cold. I hate it so much. We moved to Georgia thinking that we weren't going to ever have to be cold like this again. I still wear my snow shovel and it's snowing outside. We got rid of all of our winter supplies. I don't even have like a heavy jacket anymore. No. This is ridiculous. We got rid of everything. We were fooled. We thought we lived south enough. Bullshit. It's been like 20 years since it snowed here and 20 years since we hit this cold weather. And we're here for that.
And it's only because we're here yeah yeah 100 we're hitting all these winter records for the first time ever i hate it yeah but we're just chilling relaxing today we're just well last week's episode though it was just you so this is my return more about my hs journey and a little bit more in depth about that and people always wonder about what it is i have and what i talk about i've mentioned it a few times and so i just figured a whole episode to kind of connect with people that deal with any chronic illness really not just hs but well i liked it because it wasn't just about you you, NHS.
It was really just about body confidence and insecurities and dealing with that as just a person. Try to pull it all together as like a whole just body confidence and any kind of issue or insecurity that you have with your body.
And kind of a little bit more about my personal issues and what I got going on and maybe some tips and things about how to deal with it but yeah and then this week we figured we'd break down night of spice so our friends life of spice and her husband dj life of spice they hosted a night at trapeze which is our home club in atlanta and i had to be there because had to he couldn't get off because he's taking off my birthday this weekend yeah so he couldn't get off so i figured i'd do a solo trip trapeze is easy i've done it alone before it's safe to me it's my second home and then all of our pineapples after dark was also co-hosting as well as swing nation so everyone we knew was going to be there yeah everybody from everywhere yeah everyone pretty much everyone we've ever met in the lifestyle yeah i wasn't there i knew it was going to be packed it was insane but he had to work and so he brought me to anything but vanilla robin lindsey's house on friday tonight yeah friday and uh it was a snowstorm as well but we weren't getting it here but they were getting in atlanta and it was mostly like freezing rain and slush and ice and it was pretty nasty yeah the roads were like when we were driving up the roads were pretty nasty luckily luckily though we made record time through atlanta because there's no one on the road no one it was like everyone was so terrified and been scared enough i wish that everyone would be that scared to be on the road in atlanta because it was deserted it was us made record time record time like we made record time going to north basically north atlanta yeah and going 45 miles an hour yeah pretty much the whole time half the time is a sunny regular day going up to atlanta it was insane and we were going like 40 45 the whole entire time and it was pretty pretty sketchy i hate driving in the crap i have a lot of ptsd from living up north and snow and stuff so i was terrified but he was like i'll get you there no problem and i trusted him enough that i knew he knew how to handle handle it it was everyone else i was worried about everybody i was actually pretty impressed the way people were driving people skid off there there was a couple people that were iffy yeah but going 10 miles an hour and stopping on the interstate and riding on your brakes the entire like obviously they had no idea how to drive in this but for the most part everybody did pretty good i think it wasn't too bad we had we made it there we went up to robin lindsey's house in there but i wasn't making it back no well on the way back there was a really bad accident it was a semi looked like a jackknife and it blocked the interstate so the interstate going back south was completely closed so bad he planned on taking me and then coming turning around and coming back pretty much going to work and going to work for the weekend and so he once we saw that and once we saw the roads and it was only getting colder and worse he was like i'm just gonna call it or i'm just gonna stay for the night so he stayed up there with me and robin lindsey had a dog we have a new family member thanks to them we got up there and they had three dogs and one of them was this big shaggy doodle Aussie doodle love book and he won my heart over and she's like we're trying to find a home for him we don't want him anymore we need to get rid of him and he still stole my heart yeah it is the sweetest sweetest thing and we did not want any more dogs we have two big dogs we were like these are our lifetime dogs and then we're done we're good we don't need any more dogs but he won my heart I he's an animal lover and I didn't even say anything I was like well I guess he's coming home with us and you're like i guess so and that was yeah that's all it was it wasn't much of a conversation it was just kind of like all right yeah we agree so he went home with you the next the next morning and she's like if it doesn't work out just bring him back when you come back on monday and it worked out he's doing really good there yeah they're getting we're already teaching him tricks yeah he knows how to sit down and lay down and he's learning his name and we changed his name and yeah he's the cutest little thing he's big he's a big boy he's a big thing he's a tank he made our big dog look little he does i thought they were the same size but he he made her look way smaller way smaller but he's he's fitting right in he's yeah he's working his way and everybody loves him he stole everybody's hearts like immediately his eyes he's a big baby he is he's sweet and he's very smart he's attached he's your yeah he's a velcro dog he's definitely like he just literally follows you around like a puppy dog he's in between your legs at all times like you can't help but love him so much he's so cute but yeah we came home with a family member and he came home with a dog and left me in Atlanta so the next day it the sun started to come out and it started melting and it was still I don't know everybody was kind of like freaking out and they weren't coming and people were coming and people weren't yeah so we didn't know what was going to happen so when i left robin lindsey's house saturday morning like everybody was still pretty panicky like and so the roads were still pretty clear but they were perfectly dry and good there was nothing like the road was completely fine i got home in really record time because i could go the speed limit yeah and the roads were and there was no one on the road it was pretty awesome actually so it ended up being fine and then we went out to lunch with davy from panels after dark panels after dark was had a table there so they were promoting for the playground and you know welcoming people as they came into the club so we dropped off like the table and got it set up everything and got to see some people uh dan and lacy were there swing nation and spices were there setting up and so we stopped in there for a little bit got a couple videos and pictures of the club while it was closed we don't get to see do that very often yeah it's hard to get pictures and videos of clubs yeah you're not allowed to take any videos or pictures so it's like really hard to navigate that while you're trying to promote them and help you know yeah parties out there and stuff so while no one was there we were trying to get pictures and videos and then we left and it was time to get ready already we got a hotel we ended up getting a hotel as we always do in the same same hotels we always do and yeah we went to the club we got there early because we wanted to set up and get everything all ready and it was going we knew it was going to be insane because it was like three groups of people with pretty big followings that were going to be there and the rsvp list was ginormous and it was i mean four you had you there that you announced you were going to be there you had pineapples after dark yeah you had swing nation and you had life of spice that's i mean it's like that's a lot a lot of people were coming to that there was even with the snow they were like i heard the wait they just get in the club was hours nuts i don't think i would have done it that's commitment and it was like 20 degrees outside 15 20 degrees outside it wasn't it was so cold i don't know that i would have had the ability to stand out there that long yeah i wasn't and i know it's a big place and they can fit a lot of people but i'm curious how close they were to like the it was close the you know max capacity of that place oh yeah we've we packed that place full full of people and dan dj'd at the beginning till like about 11 o'clock and i said most of that time i was up at the table i love like saying hi to everybody as they come and there's so many people that again were never there before even people from social media a lot of new people that have just never come to that club before there was a lot of new like i wouldn't say new people but a lot of people knew their trapeze so i was like going around telling people if i needed a tour i was volunteering for tours and just welcoming you're good at that into our home stuff like that like you're you're a very good like just host this period my favorite i love like welcome to my home here are my friends and yeah so i like felt comfortable staying at the table and i stayed there till like probably around midnight i tried to eat because we hadn't really eat anything other than some sushi for lunch so i was i knew i had to eat something and i went to the buffet because it was right there where the table was out front and i tried to eat but there was so many people we got to see the cracking beards oh yeah see i haven't you got to see the cracking beards i'd like i'm a little jealous student i miss i miss those people i uh was trying to eat and then i got then they took my plate.
And so then I saw them eating at the table down there and he was like, come here, sit. I was like, yes, sir. I missed him. I miss that energy. I miss, I miss that. He's like, I always call him my second daddy. I don't really call anybody that except for him.
He's like my, he knows, he understands me and we're super close with them, but we just haven't seen them for so long and they had to they have a poly situation going on and i got to meet their their girls and she's also dallas is pregnant so yeah got to love on her for a little bit and she's the cutest pregnant person ever she's so adorable i know they've waited a long time for that so i'm very excited for them and yeah there were just so many people so many faces everywhere you turn there's people and people coming up you know that had just never been to anything been to any clubs so i was trying to help everybody plus you know we were promoting for the playground because if you don't know what the playground is you should be there it is yeah the next the newest coolest best thing ever yeah it is forget about sdc and sls like this is the group that you want to be with the big thing about like those two like sls and sdc are it's clunky and old and outdated so outdated and this group they want and it's going to keep on changing and you know yeah it's always it's already just aesthetically better and it has a really good it's pretty small still but it has a really good group of people and they're really active very active all the time there's always yeah and they're always getting together and meeting and trying to you know they do a lot of vanilla stuff too so if you're if you're looking for a good good group and they're always like every time i'm them, they're like brainstorming new ideas and new platforms to use and new updating all the things they want to be.
Yeah, we talk to them a lot just about what are your ideas? And that's I feel we've looked for that for the whole time. That's what we've been looking for. We've always told our friends that we're... You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own podcast is free and easy. Upload an episode and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads just like this.
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If you've been thinking about starting a podcast, this your sign start free at rss.com here for to help you with anything you need and this is the first group of friends that get that and like and really take what we say in our opinions and thoughts into consideration and don't get keep yeah they want us to know about every idea they have every absolutely i feel more of a partnership with these this group of friends at all it's no collaboration and how can we help the lifestyle and the people and that's always like they're always asking us like how can we help you like you're doing this and this and this for us like we want to help you and we're like honestly we don't like we don't need anything like no we just want to we just want our friends to all thrive yeah and they want us to thrive too which is awesome but that's all we've asked for for five years now like that's all we've been asking for is there's no competition it's real it's just collaboration and for the community and that's the key it's for the people it's for people in the lifestyle it's not anything to do with us and we don't want it to be about us exactly at all we don't need that's why we don't we don't need our faces on anything no we don't need our name on anything we just want the people in the lifestyle to find their people that's the only thing we we love helping people find their people yes because they say it's clicky and they say it's you know these groups of people are so clickish and these circles and everything and it have we even talked about like people talking like saying it's clicky because i just wanted to say like sometimes it does seem clicky.
I will. It's unintentional. Oh, yeah. It's people you're people are comfortable with each other. Exactly. And they tend to you're going to find people in a crowd that, you know, that are familiar, that you feel comfortable, especially in such a vulnerable environment and situation. And people that feel comfortable. Hey, everyone.
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these are friends that a lot of times you don't see a lot so you're excited on social media it looks like we're together all the time because you're seeing these pictures we're taking and we're posting them randomly and all this stuff but we really don't see each other very much and so when we get to see each other it's like any other long distance friendship where you're just so just so excited to spend every minute together Absolutely, and it's not that we're trying to exclude anyone. We're not trying to like kick people out or not trying to You know make it clicky.
We just have groups of people that and we want more people. Oh, yeah We're always searching for more.
So I learned something when we hosted for Libertine events in Miami and she said she she understood that whole dynamic of talking to old friends and meeting new friends but people are reluctant to just interrupt the conversation like when a group of people is are in a conversation you're not going to go try and interrupt or just butt into a conversation and it's less welcoming because you're always in a circle so because everybody wants to hear and talk and everything she said keep the circle open make it a horseshoe make it a horseshoe i'm like that is genius that's more welcoming like everybody can come in and involve themselves because we are always here for everybody yeah i'm like i'm actively trying to do that yeah but again i'm not perfect and it's hard to hear and it's hard to hear you tend to do you do tend to get in a circle but if you ever see us in a circle but into our circle please because we always want new friends we always want more friends and there are cliques out there and there are groups that aren't welcoming and that don't want you to be a part of it but we're not those people no and all of our friends are not those people and we're always looking for new people and new faces i know i've gotten that question quite a few times this week where they're like do you only talk to the people that you always are seen with all the time the thing is that with that like most of the people that we do talk to that you don't know about it's because they're discreet and they don't do social media i can only post so many people's faces i can only post so many videos with people because they don't a lot of people in lifestyle don't want to be on social media and don't want to have their picture taken and it's a very discreet world yeah and say we respect that so we don't push it on anybody i've actually gotten that question quite a few times this week really are you only play with people that you know we just can only share so many like people that are open and we keep a lot of stuff to our we have the spicy sides but it's me you made pictures of me sorry because all the spicy content we make is organic and it's literally just hot everybody that is in the room has one and we're having fun and it's always the do you want to put a camera up and we can have this for later yeah and yeah it's not it's always we put it on a sharepoint or a one drive or a dropbox dropbox so everybody has it and no it's not yeah we're not it's not gonna make us this lifestyle is not making us money no danger no but we do love we do have lots of people we talk to a lot of people we are some reason somehow we are the newbie people like we are the ones we have been hearing that like i don't i've never really tried yeah to be like oh like you're great because we hear a lot like you are great for newbies your podcast your content like you guys are a newbie like couple couple we're like we never thought of ourselves like that but thinking back oh yeah we've always all the time we're like well newbies they always come to us like they attracted to us i never understood the mentality of a lot of yeah people in the lifestyle said oh we don't mess with we don't talk to newbies which i understand i know i get it can be a lot a lot they're still trying to figure it out and learn and they don't really don't have experience they just don't know what they're doing and they make mistakes those mistakes you know happen but that also happens with very seasoned couples with lots of experience and we've learned that and so it's like well why wouldn't you want as many people as you possibly can yeah like more the merrier sharing is caring we like all the people to join us we love sharing this lifestyle and we do think that and i think you know we've heard so many times in our journey that you know if it wasn't for you i would never have known about the lifestyle i would have my life would have been completely different it seems like we get those people as right when we like get to the point we're like i think we're going to like i don't think we want to do this anymore you know it's oh yeah like it is there is a of negativity online and social media and it is very time consuming and mentally draining for a lot of this stuff so we get to a point a lot of times it's like is it worth it like is it worth my mental wellness and all this time for literally nothing then as soon as we get to that point always get like three or four people like a couple saying like you changed my life yeah and it's like and it reinvigorates us and we go right back into it it's crazy how it happens every time the universe is like hey keep going keep going one always all the time you're on the right path.
It's going to be for the best. We're changing lives. And that, to me, is priceless and worth everything. Yeah. You can't put a price on that. You can't put a price on that. Yeah. I mean, therapists can, but we don't. Yeah, we should have. We're going the wrong way with that. Anyway, we just love the people. And we do like, I don't know. That is where we thrive.
But we where we thrive over like welcome come here we'll hold your hand and show you our world and introduce you we do that with our own friends it turned into just our niche like with our own friends like they come to us with questions like oh yeah and predicaments and just they like to bounce ideas and they like to This is vent like what do you like this is what happened what do you think or this is what's going on or this is how i feel i don't know how exactly it is you know have you ever seen this before have you ever seen this before yeah it's like we get a lot of inquiries i should say yeah and it is usually from new people and they're new we're or not necessarily new in the lifestyle but yeah newer to those experiences new to those experiences like there's a lot of people in the lifestyle that's been in it for two or three years that are just really selective and really slow oh yeah like not as you should it's like yeah as you should be not everybody just goes full throttle anyways like us and i don't recommend it no no we we've been always really good at communicating our feelings to each other so this lifestyle we like it fit perfect and we thrive yeah some somehow like never would have seen it there's always exceptions to the rule but we've had mistakes we always tell people to go slow like that's the safest route and that's the thing we've not it's not always been perfect and wonderful we have made you know mistakes we have messed up we have seen a lot of things we have i mean just a couple weeks ago in the episode i talked about a feeling that i've never felt before like and i was trying to navigate that because that was a whole new thing and then it opened a whole new conversation because you're like that's how i feel with so and so oh yeah and you and they were like i'm like oh i'm like i just thought it was you know this but you if you felt this way i'd never want to make you feel this way like i never want to make you feel a certain sort of way anyways but I never understood it was that deep yeah yeah and it's like and you're always learning that's we were talking about that last night with one of our friends about he's like is this feeling like I don't know feel like I don't know what I'm doing and I feel like I always have butterflies I feel nervous I feel anxious about things and I it's always something different I never know how to you know things are always constantly changing all the time and i'm like that's what i don't know i guess we're weird but i love that's that's what i told i'm like that's my favorite part man i'm like it gives you that exhilaration and feeling of like a first date all over again yeah but even when it's like weird and awkward and messy it always is like amazing and beautiful in the end because you're working you're working and communicating and you're navigating and you're doing so much self-work we talked you learn so much about yourself and you learn to like think before you speak and you learn to just take a moment and pause and don't react so quickly and it really does help you become a better person just in general and yeah and then yeah i love that you never know it's always different people always different situations even with the same people you know stuff pops up and so we were new in the lifestyle when i was in this type of position i just got back in before like a leadership position i've noticed i'm a completely different leader and manager than i was before yeah and i to put that too because i am i do show because before i was hard-nosed rigid i was an asshole yeah and i've found myself now showing more care and concern i have i have more compassion i want to develop more i understand like i seek to understand where before it's like this was your job i have a this is your job requirement you didn't do it here's your write-up black and white yeah and now there's so much gray like i talked just this just yesterday morning i talked to one of my dms into letting me not issue a write-up because it normally it would be black and white yeah it's no question but after i explained the whole situation because i learned about this guy's situation then he's like okay i can support this i'm like okay thanks yeah i'm like we need to develop like i'm more about team development which i was always trying to develop develop a team, but I was doing it a different way.
And I owe that to the lifestyle and learning how to listen and being more empathetic because I, empathy is something that I had to learn how to be. but my emotional intelligence has. Oh, yeah. I've watched you grow. Like, it's great. I mean, it's just. So much in the last few years. I. And this lifestyle, the way that we were navigating it at the very beginning was very much like, fuck everybody else. Like, it was up against the world. And we were like.
Yeah yeah didn't care about really these like messy little feelings and these people navigating their own little you know shit and stuff like that where now it's completely we slow down so much and completely fell in love with the people and the humans and the whole lifestyle as a whole and i've seen just and i prefer you're podcast right now, driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With rss.com, starting your own podcast is free and easy.
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Track your listeners, see where they're from and start earning from ads just like this if you've been thinking about starting a podcast this is your sign start your new podcast for free today at rss.com for this way for sure definitely yeah but yeah and i think a lot of that was because we learned to stop and listen to people and understand why they were doing these things why they were getting jealous all the time why they were you know just not feeling things and not into it and i the lifestyle has done yeah amazingly well i mean and i know here mike personally it forces me to practice what i preach yeah yeah you can say it all you want i can say it all yeah yeah and we got it memorized at this point but yeah it's really like again like on a couple episodes ago when like i was i was spiraling yeah but i had i was had to slow down and really unpack on like why i was feeling a certain sort of way and then we were with those friends and uh we got on that topic again and i explained it to him a little bit differently he's like he's like i hundred percent oh yeah i'm like it's not like it wasn't directed toward you wasn't directed towards your wife it was this this is how i felt a combination of all the things and this is why he's like oh he's like i would be the same exact way that's why i feel like it's funny because you said i gave you a side eye he's like yeah man you you're on your laptop you looked up and you just gave me that and he's like oh shit what just happened yeah but yeah they first listened to the podcast and the first thing they did was like apologize and apologize yeah and i tried it wasn't well yeah they texted us and they're just apologize i'm like no like it's this was definitely a me thing it wasn't a you thing it wasn't a bad thing like and it wasn't a bad thing it was a learning opportunity and i learned a lot yeah through that experience even the bad stuff even the the weird awkward stupid stuff the stuff that doesn't work out great it's all for good and it's all for good.
And not only I learned, you learned more about me. Oh, yeah. And then they learned more about, like, it was everybody involved, just, it was a whole learning opportunity. It's always everything. You learn from everything. Even if it doesn't work out good, it's not okay.
It's still, like, you've learned, you've changed, you've evolved it, and it's not okay it's still like you've learned you've changed you've evolved it and it's good it's never this lifestyle is i love it my favorite i cry about it every day you did today i love it here so much i love the people are good looking for a fresh way to connect in the lifestyle welcome to the playground a modern space where open-minded adults meet explore and create unforgettable connections built for the lifestyle community the playground is where curiosity meets connection ready to join the fun click the link below and start your adventure with the playground today but anyway we got we went down our rabbit hole there i love it the goal the goal that was the goal today we don't really have a we don't really have a real set thing we're just kind of like we're just going to talk about life and what's going on but but yeah like the night of spice we had a trapeze night i honestly most of that night was very overwhelming for me i was very anxious and overwhelmed because there was a lot of people and i'm not a very peopley people or person for as much as i do love talking to people and like saying hi and everything i have like a time limit where it kind of like yeah your social battery depletes and once it's gone it's gone like four hours it usually is like i need space but say again when we're together you don't have to worry about that as much because yeah my social battery is much larger than yours so you once you're peopled out i take control and you just kind of stand there and smile yeah shake babies kiss hands i on the other hand didn't have him and also those nights anyway when i'm by myself i already feel that way because i feel incomplete like i feel like half of me is missing i know it sounds so cliche but it doesn't feel like it doesn't feel like half of me is missing and i feel i feel out of place and i feel like i can't be that hot couple in georgia without which is by myself that i'm ashley in georgia and nobody wants that so i feel i feel like i feel like everyone wants that i don't know everybody's with their person and i didn't have a person and i didn't know where to fit in i didn't really know where to go i didn't know where to fit in and you're everybody's favorite hot life at this point in pad i didn't get to do any hot life thing i know though i was just kind of alone just wandering around finding people and then as people would come up then i'd find a new group of people and then i'd go find out i'd look for familiar faces just go over there and then i did my dancing that's usually how i check out when i don't want to talk to people anymore and i just need a minute to just not i go out to the dance floor and i did that's what i did i just went out and did my wobble luckily Dan put on the wobble for me DJ Dan put on my wobble I was like that was the one thing missing was like the line dancing section because a lot of you know Saturday night they have like a whole 10 minutes where they just do all the line dancing things and so that's what I like wait for all the time and they didn't do they don't really do that so he did put the wobble on and i was excited so i did the wobble and i got to dance with my girls and did some dancing and a lot of a lot of talking a lot of hanging out a lot of dancing a lot of talking never got to eat anything diamond club was way busier than pop we like go to take a breath in in the general areas like very rare like usually you there to, like, party and dance and do all the things.
And then you go back to Diamond to cool off and chill and quiet. But no, it wasn't like that. I went back there, like, twice, I think, all night just because I had to use the bathroom. And then I think because I had to get another Sprite or something like that. And I was like, I was trying to avoid it as much as possible.
But it was a lot of good old faces that i haven't seen in a really long time people i haven't we just used to be together all the time and we don't get to see each other yeah every maybe once or twice a year everyone's doing their own thing and everybody's busy so it was good to see everybody and then we went back to the hotel room to the hotel everybody drove because of the ice and everyone wasn't sure about uber drivers in atlanta yeah that never i get that have driven in ice before and we knew it was cold enough it was already freezing luckily the roads had dried up during the day so it wasn't yeah but then you're worried about black ice that's the thing we were all worried about that so everybody drove themselves for the most part and so i hitched a ride and went back to the hotel and i was gonna meet up with a couple and do some hot life thing and it's a couple that we i always every time i'm alone somehow even when we're together and we're like with them together it's always very oh yeah this has been coming for a really long many years and like we all four of us like mesh really well but very oh yeah like intense really long many years and like we all four of us like mesh really well but something always happens and we always get separated yeah and then i've the past couple times i've been alone it's like okay come back to our room come back to our room and they were like this is our room come back to our room so i kept going and it was right down the hallway so i kept going down there randomly and knocking because i didn't i got back there and everyone was had came back an hour or so earlier so everyone already was in rooms and the room i was staying was empty and so i was like i don't really know should i go to bed i probably should it's like three in the morning two in the morning so i was like do i do that or do i just walk down there knock and see and so i kept like going down there really knocking i didn't know where anybody was nobody was like answering because everybody was busy so i didn't understand i didn't really have like a room to go back to i came back with like just a couple they brought me back from travis and they were going to bed so i was like i don't really know i think i'm gonna go to bed so then i was like i'm gonna knock one more time and see and then i went to go knock and then a whole bunch of our friends came out of a random room and we're like what are you you doing?
Where have you been? Why are you wandering the hallway? And they pulled me into the room that we always get pulled in with the same people that always party hard. Yeah. I just didn't know where anybody was. So went in there and that was, that was fun. We had some fun. I was like, I'm just gonna, a lot of us were just watching that night because it was a long night and it was pretty late by then.
And most people had had all their fun and stuff so i was like i'm just watching i had a hoodie on and leggings i think like i was i was like done for the night and i was ready to go to bed and well i ended up with no pants on so i got to play a little bit i didn't i didn't get to play much but i did i did dabble i dabbled here and there with a few a few things that are my faves you know i was on my knees you know what happens and then i felt so overdressed because everybody was naked and i was like i'm gonna take my pants off but i'm still frozen because that's me so i kept my hoodie on and i took my pants off i was like yeah because i was at work and we were you texted me and you're like you're in like your sweatpants and hoodie to bed i was like one more chance i'm gonna go out there see if they're back yet they just never came back to the hotel they ended up messaging me like two hours later like we didn't get to say good night i was like i tried i didn't get to talk to them till the next morning i said i tried i was not good and they said they didn't get back to the hotel till like four or five in the morning or whatever so we just miss each other again now i have their cell phone number so we're definitely not having that happen next time but yeah but yeah um got to got to play with some friends and some people that were close with and i felt comfortable with and yeah i know i just that's always nice ditch once after like your social battery's like dead in like a club environment where it's packed it's always nice to go back and be with a group that you're just you know comfortable with yeah unfortunately it was in a room that i didn't know the people that were it was their room so it was like and everyone was kind of in the middle of everything when i got in there so i didn't really get to introduce i mean that's how it was when last time we were went to trap together because i was like everybody ended up in our room while everybody we had some we had some uh different people in there it's like oh hey yeah nice and finally meet you but like in the middle of playing and stuff so i got to play a little bit i didn't really you know i didn't have sex or anything but i did get to play here and there jumped in as needed as i felt like Thank you very much.
playing and stuff so i got to play a little bit i didn't really you know i didn't have sex or anything but i did get to play here and there jumped in as needed as i felt like i felt like i was needed wanted a hand or a mouth let's play with like motherfucking leaves let's play with him for a little bit he's good when i'm feeling that way he's a safe person to go to and yeah play with we love him and yeah we and and his wife, Sam, everybody was still going. They would not stop. It was a nonstop night. And so she laid down on the bed and we all, me, her, and Rachel were cuddling. We cuddled.
I got to snuggle up and cuddle with her. And we had a good snuggling session. That's a good ending. That's a good cuddle puddle right there.
I love snuggling with snuggling with my girls I love snuggling with her too it was a good good ending to the night and yeah and then the next day I went back to their house till Monday Lindsay had to fly out the next day so she had to leave us and me and Robin got to hang out till Monday until you came back and yeah that was pretty much that was night of spice the weekend there was some spice there's a little bit of spice a lot of a lot of people a little bit of spice it was fun dj life spice is amazing as always he always kills it yeah i love watching so proud of him i had so many moments that night again i cry i'm a random crier it's not a bad cry it's a mental cry it's an emotional overwhelming cry and i always have a moment i had a moment with his wife and just stood up there in front of him always gotta make sure he knows that i'm there supporting and you know i'm always front row girl and it was just a moment of like man the airbnb watching him djing and the airbnb years ago to here now with all of his fans and friends and everybody yeah like oh my gosh i just loved him so much he's gotten gotten so far so far from yeah setting up his just a hobby just stuff and then a living room of airbnb now we've with like 10 of us just yeah and not just them it was the swing nation there was a lot of swinger society crew there and it was a lot of feels and emotion and been navigating that whole dynamic and stuff with them so it's a lot of i love you no matter what just so you know no matter what happens no matter where life takes us don't forget it i love you guys and it was a lot of that it was good feels good emotion good cries always good care i never was a crier before this lifestyle not like this not like this it was bad cries if anything here and there but not like this i am an emotional hot mess now but i i feel safe to do that and it's good that's good it's a good thing so yeah and that was night of spice and then not much has happened since then really honestly there's been some birthday celebrations and yeah we had my best friend's birthday was last week and we had a little surprise party for her and got to go get my nails did and had lunch with her and celebrate her always love celebrating her and being with her so that's pretty much been last week and then last night pad was up dark was like who wants to go together and watch the game tonight or monday national championship monday and so we were like she texted me i was like you want to go we could go go get dinner and so i was like sure so they picked us up and we all went together and that's the one thing that's one of my favorite things too is like the vanilla part of the lifestyle just getting to like be with good people yeah it was fun i got to finally talk to the mixed up life yes yeah like his wife wasn't there yeah but he was there me and him stood there and talked he's a fellow pocket yeah fellow podcaster.
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knows twin peaks and they know what to expect you know you're gonna dinner you kind of know what sitting around and watching the game is like that's less scary you can say hi to people and meet people but they set us up in an awesome spot we had a good setup Davey he made it made it happen and he yeah we had a whole entire back section and we had all this couches and fireplace it was a good it was a good Monday way to spend a Monday night and the kids had off today so it was kind of like yeah we were in our hurry yeah and it was really nice it was good to just talk to people there was a bunch of say there's some single men there that were just trying to learn you know you know taking feedback and asking a lot of questions a lot of people knew or wanting to know like tips and tricks and things and stuff you know how to get into the lifestyle and it was a good way to it's quieter environment we could just sit around with no pressure that's what i love about yeah so when those it's just great to socialize without the pressure of possible play i guess yeah you're not trying to impress anybody you literally just relax and talk and meet people and unfortunately single guys they it's hard in that environment to like people just automatically assume that they want to make up with you and they want to do this but a lot of the time they really do just want to ask questions and just make you feel comfortable and just talk and have a conversation so it's nice we met a singer and he was in the kink world so he was you know really familiar with the local kink land and all of their places and stuff so i was really excited to kind of get like a connection to that and we want to check more of that stuff out we really want to go to like rumors and stuff and see what that's all about and so it was kind of it was good it was nice it was my favorite part of the night we were all talking and i was actually with your best friend and we're just sending each other talking with a group of people and one of the women that we just met she's like oh so you're together yes and then we started laughing we're like no like that's her husband over there and here's my wife over here she's like oh confusing and we just kind of looked like i love this place oh yeah and the fact that they I don't really hang out like stand next to each other when we're in that environment because we're always busy doing like we get caught up in this conversation and you're caught up with the guys and you know like talking to the guys and so it is confusing for people like who's with who because we everybody does kind of separate and get their own conversations i like to just check up on you how you do are you good and then you'd be like yeah and then i do the same thing like anybody we're with yeah so i went to her and just kind of you know put my hand on the small of her back and yeah just make sure she was okay they've not done many right things and stuff and we're more familiar with yeah i just wanted to make sure everybody's people yeah no one's overwhelmed i guess yeah or need to take a break yeah or ready to leave whenever or ready to leave yeah yeah like we're down to leave but we ended up staying until everybody everybody left around like 10 ish i think it was yeah it was around the game wasn't over yet no we had two hour drive and it was a monday nine so it felt like we need to go and everybody was kind of right then again we left uh buckhead yeah oh yeah record time and made it home no traffic yeah we were home just like 11 30 like it wasn't yeah it was 11 30 because yeah it was early enough where we were okay because we got taco bell and everything like we came home i ordered taco because we went to a restaurant slash bar and didn't eat we just had like i got flatbread and yeah snacked on it and then yeah you know had a few drinks but i got we got home like i am starving yeah by then it was already like oh yeah 11 30 almost midnight and we were like we are so hungry so he ran out and got taco bell before they closed real quick this is as we do this is why I'm chubby.
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We're best at procrastinating, though. And get it out by midnight. Best things come out when we hustle last minute.
The last, not the last week, but the weekend before, I was in such a hurry i accidentally posted her podcast like at 11 45 11 50 so technically it came out tuesday yeah it's like it wasn't past midnight i'm like oops i'm like it's fine it's fine it's close enough it's early yeah it's fine yeah you're welcome it got up like it was uh so technically like the post dates are yeah not all messed up i'm like after that i am we have nothing for february on purpose yeah you're gonna be grandparents i know that's crazy we're gonna be grandparents our grandson will be here sometime before march 2nd but it's looking more like february so yeah keeping the calendar clear i'm going to florida for a week after right after we get back monday yeah going to florida for the week and then i'm coming home and then i'll the next time be there when she has him and so we're kind of keeping everything cleared out we gotta get it clear so we can well you'll be down there but i gotta keep it clear up here so i i can just scoot on down yeah whenever he can and so he'll probably be doing some solo stuff you're seeing a little bit more just him and less of me i think i'll have to hold down the fort but yeah that, that's our life.
That's what's going on. That's about it. After that, we have my birthday weekend. We have the St. Paddy's Day party, March 14th. With that? With pineapples. $20 a ticket, guys. Yeah. $20. It's $40. Like, you're not going to find a lifestyle party for $40 a couple. Nothing in this lifestyle period is $20. There's nothing. Like, what do you have to lose? And it's at a, you know. It's a bar at Loganville, like North Georgia. Yeah, it's going to be amazing. It's going to be just like the glow party which was so much fun and so good. So, what do you have to lose? $20.
And it's my birthday weekend that weekend. Yeah, and it's your birthday weekend. We're celebrating St. Patrick, but it just so happens to be.
We're going to take it over as your birthday weekend and period so yeah come out do that we have all of that down below all of that in our link tree we've got all of that in all of our stories and all of our social media we're pushing that out nothing to lose it's like come see what we're talking about when we talk about programs after dark and playground playground and whatever we call it it's all the same thing all the same people and yeah it's an amazing community full of beautiful people yeah inside and out and it's a good you want to be a part of it that's my favorite part about joining all these groups of people and helping promoting all these events and stuff like that my favorite part is just watching them thrive and grow and just introducing them to the world because they deserve it.
They definitely deserve it. They're great people. Such good people. Good hearts. It's all a love project for all of them. It is. And they just get it. And they align with us and what we believe in and what we feel. And they get it. They just get it. They're trying to get us to move near them. They're trying.
Yeah, they love love it and we love it and we love them so definitely $20 a ticket come check it out yeah there's dinner come hang out with us get a drink you know come listen to some good music and what do you have to lose wear some green yeah wear some green for st patrick's day it's cheaper than any other st patrick's day you're gonna go to yeah and it's just full of amazingly wonderful people yeah in the lifestyle and you get to be yourself and you can't beat it. You really can't beat it. So come check that out. March 14th. We're doing that.
It's just full of amazingly wonderful people in the lifestyle. And you get to be yourself and you can't beat it. You really can't beat it. So come check that out. March 14th. We're doing that. Yes. Yeah. And that's about it. That's all we got to say about that. That's all we got to say about that. Time is up. The last thing we got to say is it's not that serious. Don't make it weird. Bye. Love you guys. Bye. it's not that serious don't make it weird bye i love you guys bye
