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Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't thank you for joining us on this adventure i'm russ and i'm ashley and this is hot couple chronicles so last week we covered our kind of our journey through bdsm no our concerns and reservations which kind of blending the swinging lifestyle and be DSM. Yeah. And what our dynamic was and how we got into it and started that. So if that's something you're interested in and want to hear about, that's episode four. And now we're at five.
And now we're at're at five we've made it a month in this episode we're going to talk about last weekend adventures with pandas left a dark yeah solo yeah another ashley solo event all i've done this year pretty much all year has been solo stuff by myself so it's been been a different year i wasn't expecting that and it was just gonna be a one-time thing and now i keep going and doing more adventures so it's been fun it's been the ride yeah i've been at work yeah it's not quite as fun but it's a different fun it's like it's just a whole different experience yeah with you but i do prefer is it like is it liberating at all because you don't have to yeah it's nice to not like i'm not gonna lie it's nice to just like whatever i'm feeling i kind of drift here drift there i don't have to like see where i make sure yeah yeah because usually i'm chasing you like usually we're not even together at most events so it really doesn't feel that much than normally because normally you're off doing adventures and stuff and so i not much has changed there but i don't have to at least like before i leave like find somebody i can check in stuff i kind of just wander over here, and then I go over here.
But, yeah, it's not quite as fun as having a good person. Right. It's terrifying, actually. It's been terrifying. But it's getting easy. It's getting a little less scary. It's hard to show up to things by yourself. You're getting more comfortable with this group. Yeah. Yeah, that's helping. And I'm meeting more people.
So every every time i turn around i at least can see a face that i'm pretty familiar with so it's been getting easier getting easier but yeah i went when it was after dark they threw a glow event in bookhead plana area last weekend and i was only going to do at first i was going to do friday and then saturday and then i was like no that's silly i like the event's only saturday you don't need to keep going friday through sunday yeah so i was like now just do just do saturday and then i got fomo because like always yeah that always happens so they run most of their like most of them as they're on facebook like they're a facebook group so um i saw on facebook like the itinerary and stuff for the people coming ahead of time like out of town and stuff and then they're all like can't wait see you friday and then i was like dang it i should have booked friday i knew i should have and then davy who's like in charge of the whole thing he's like come on down you know you have you know you're you can come hang with us so i went friday i decided to go friday on thursday yeah yeah like i decided i was like well i talked to uh robin lindsey and they're like well are we seeing you Friday?
And I was like, well, I guess peer pressure. Peer pressure's a bitch. So it didn't take much pressure for me to change my plans. It took you a peer nudge. Just a little. Yeah. I was trying to be smart, but then I had nothing else going on, and there was really no reason not to. And I was invited, so it'd be rude to say no. So I decided to go a day early.
i drove there which i hate so much that's probably the worst part oh gosh like and i'm not driving so yeah like i'm a passenger princess like i get driven like everywhere and then on top of it it was pouring rain and i hate the rain and i can't see in the rain i'm blind as bad that that's why i wear my glasses everybody's wondering why i have my glasses on it was mostly to drive because of the glare and the yeah rain and the headlights and stuff so i was like i wear my glasses so i can see because i was terrified to go into the city and park and find the hotel and everything usually usually i'm the one like navigating from the passenger side but i had to drive and navigate it was terrifying but i made it i made it a little early and then no one had gotten there yet that i was with you called me when you got there yeah yeah you asked me some questions about the valet parking i was so scared about valet because i didn't have a room i was sharing a room with anything but vanilla um and so i didn't have a room and they had they were still like a half an hour out and i was like i don't have a room i was flustered because i didn't know yeah like what to do i was like i'm sharing a room with a couple but i don't know and yeah you called me like so how do i do it i'm like you tell the ballet you're sharing this room but you're in this room tomorrow i was having anxieties or you just put it underneath the room and this will just give them the money for and that's what i was like i'm just gonna do that and i well i texted them they gave me the number of the room that they checked into so it really wasn't that serious i went there told them the room their name and i just was like i'll pay you whenever we're done well my favorite part of that whole conversation was afterwards you're like well you were no help and i was like well that was no help because he was just like i don't know do whatever either one you could do this or this and then i called him or texted him back and i was like you're never gonna guess it's like it It was was no big deal at all.
It was not that serious. At all. It's almost like they work in hospitality. That's what he said. I was like, yeah. He just asked me the number I gave to him. He was like, okay. And he took my stuff and went upstairs. Okay. It was not that serious. But I got there, and then they showed up shortly afterward, like right after I got there. So they were having like a, like you get two complimentary drinks in the bar area at this hotel. And so we had told everybody that was coming to, you know, meet us there. And we'll all have a drink and stuff before we go to dinner because we had a dinner plan.
What kind of drink do you have? I ended up getting rum punch because they had a huge, like a giant thing full of it. And it looked good. But it was just juice. Just a jug of heartburn. Yeah, it was a lot of sugar. It was very much juice. So, yeah, I wanted those. And nobody came to that because everybody was still trying to get there. And, like, traffic was stupid. I ran into, like, three accidents. It's always supposed to be two hours from our house. But lately, it's been four every time I go there. Because you were stopping traffic for an hour over.
And there was three fender benders, so it was stopping. Plus, it was pouring. Everybody was acting like it was snowing and icing like they do here in Georgia. I'm like it's just sprinkling it's raining it's not that bad but they freak out all of them freak out they don't know how to drive in anything but sunny and dry conditions because that's what it is most everyday so that's always fun and then with Atlanta on top of it and people in Atlanta driving. That's a different breed anyway. Atlanta drivers are a different breed anyways. Yeah. All of them are in a hurry to get there.
They just zoom in and out of lanes. Back and forth, back and forth. I don't know why there's always accidents. I don't know. But Lovejoy, McDonough, got me. But yeah, we had plans. Also, those people that were coming a day ahead of time, we made, like, dinner reservations and table and stuff for taco. Our real taco. I think that's how you call it. Yeah. It's two R's and then eel taco. So, like, I don't order a taco. Real. I don't know what it's supposed to be called. But we went. We went there, and I went to the karaoke party, too, and it's really good. The vibe's good. It was good.
I made tacos and margaritas, and we had plans to all go to Johnny's, which if you don't know Johnny's, it's... Which I'm a little jealous of that, because I've been wanting to go to Johnny's. We've heard from our friends all the time. I still haven't made it. Like, all these years we've heard... Because everybody's like, either Trapeze or Johnny's. That's the two places you go. You're either going to Trapeze or you're going to Johnny's. But I also understand it's two separately different places. Yeah. But not really either. It's like...
It's like you're stepping back in time to like the 70s and it's like a poker like got poker tables vibes and like velvet sinatra room it's got all pictures of like old singers and stuff and then it has like a dance floor with like disco and everybody is so serious about dancing there but it was so many people you couldn't even move was shorter. You're listening to a podcast right now, driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say, too. With RSS.com, starting your own podcast is free and easy.
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I don't remember any of the rules. It was like the table rules. You can't sit. I don't know. They kick the people out. I don't know. They kick some people out because they were friends with the people at the table next to them. Thank you.
it was they're like the table rules you can't sit i don't know they kick the people out i don't know they kick some people out because they were friends with the people at the table next to them i don't i don't know it was i don't know i know they have like a list of weird rules that you have to abide by and i didn't have to worry about it because i i did all the rules i guess because i stayed and uh yeah we only stayed there for like an hour a little over an hour i mean hour and a half something like that because people were getting done eating their own like dinner plans and stuff and they started just trickling in and then it started getting stupid busy like stupid like you could not yeah you were sure it was friday night so i'm sure that's one of their busy nights yeah so we all knew we wanted to wanted to get, you know, because Saturday was, like, the real night we were there for.
So we wanted to get some rest. How'd that work out for you? Yeah, we went back to the hotel. We had planned, me and Lindsay had planned on doing pictures and, like, some little cute little videos and stuff. So that was the big plan, and I'm very proud because we did that. It usually doesn't happen. It usually doesn't happen.
happen and so we got those done we did those for a while and then all the friends started trickling and from johnny's and just getting there and stuff and so we they all kind of migrated to our room and that's fun it's good we all hung out talked and then one of the guys had a paddle that was like pointy it had studs on it little like upside down button studs yeah so everybody Thank you.
talked and then one of the guys had a paddle that was like pointy it had studs on it little like upside down button studs yeah so everybody wanted to try that but yeah yeah that was fun i did not participate though because i had never played like that way i've never been right i've never been like flogged without him in the room consenting like right there and we talked about all of this before but that that wasn't yeah that we didn't talk about that yeah like specifically someone spanking or fogging or tying me or anything like that we had never really talked about it because i didn't think it would come up because it's very rare thing that happened so i was like i'm not sure and it was really like he was at work and it was really late so i was like i'm gonna and i was cold and it was late by the time i had the chance and i was like i'll just talk to my husband and then if i do it i could do it tomorrow he would be around so i uh watched i did not mind watching one bit i watched and we talked and hung out and had a good time until 3 30 in in the morning.
So you did not get extra sleep. Thank you so much for going in bed early. That did not happen. We tried. We tried, but we always do try. We say that every Friday when we do an event, but that never actually works out that way. Looking to add some excitement to your social life, meet 3Fun, the free app that connects open-minded singles and couples for fun adventures. With thousands of active users, 3Fun is our ticket to new friendships, flirty encounters, and unforgettable experiences. The best part? It's completely free to use. No hidden fees or subscriptions. Ready to join the fun?
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like well it was the whole hotel but it was um like a cook to order type yeah place it was the hotel was really nice it was really nice but we missed that we didn't like something like that we didn't get moving until then and then um they went to go get coffee i'm not a coffee drinker so i just grabbed my protein shake and decided to I told them to go on ahead and I was going to take my shower and get everything my face done everything done for the day so I could be out of everybody's hair because I was waiting for my room and um the room that we were staying in was right next door to the room I was getting for Saturday and it was empty those whole those whole like two days so i went down i wandered down there after i did my makeup and stuff and i was like just to help you guys out check in like i'm here i'm willing to like pay for early check-in get checked in early so i can move my shit out of their room get set up because we like to have our room like lights and fun things and stuff i wanted to have time to do that it's hard to find enough time to get ready for these events usually that's the hardest you're always in a rush yeah no matter how many i could start like five hours ahead of time and still somehow have not enough time it's like there's never enough time ever and time flies you wake up and then it's time for the party it doesn't like every single time you're like oh we can go here let's go to the mall let's go shopping we'll go out to lunch and then we'll get ready for the party by the time you get up and get moving and then we all like cuddle puddle or like sit around and naked and just shit and so it's like time flies when you're at expense it really does so um you know then i spent pretty much all day in the lobby trying to get my room and they were not having it because the staff was not ready for all these swingers we had like 80 some rooms they had well and then they had the rest of the hotel yeah but it was a room like 16 floors of hotel like there was only one person taking care of that whole hotel it was insane but We'll be right back.
They had the rest of the hotel. Yeah, but it was like 16 floors of hotel. Like, there was only one person taking care of that whole hotel. It was insane. But I, so I got ready. I kept getting ready and doing makeup for the night floor. And then we went to check-in was at four. And my room still was not ready. I went down there and I was like, I'm not going to go anywhere until my room's ready. And Ash and Bo were coming, so I wanted to make sure that I had the room for them to get there. Right. They were about there, but it was chaos in the lobby.
I had to go up there, down there, and three times I finally got my room because I wasn't leaving until I had my room because it was after 4. I had missed dinner. They were doing a VIP dinner, and everybody was leaving at 4.30, 4.45, or something like that, and I still didn't have my room, so I told them to go on, and I was going to stay there and wait for us to get ready. I remember seeing pictures of just a packed lobby, and then lines of cars out waiting for valet.
so many people it was they were not ready for us and so i finally got my room at like 4 30 4 45 because they said housekeeping was behind but my room was ready for two days and they never went in it after i asked about it but you know i got my room i should go got there um and then we just started getting ready because then it was already like six o'clock yeah the party started at like what seven still hadn't eaten anything yeah we had oh yeah that day the saturday the afternoon when we got up we ended up going a group of us went uh to lunch they have cruise chris was right there in the lobby so we ended up going to lunch so i did have a cup of gumbo but i was going to the vip dinner at five so you didn't eat anything yeah we didn't eat lunch until like one and so i was thinking just eat some something really tiny because we're gonna eat dinner soon and i didn't get to go dinner so i was hungry and i still didn't eat anything.
I had two hummus, like, pita breads. I luckily was drinking water, so it didn't really pick me. I was just really hungry by the end of that night, and we got pizza. It was good. But, yeah, we ended up going. They had a shuttle bus for us all at the hotel, which was really cool and convenient.
Every, like, 30 minutes, 20 minutes, they'd come back around and get you and they had to strip a pole and it was it was really nice to not to worry about even though it was really like just across the road yeah i mean that's great that's because then everybody no one has at the party has to worry about getting there back or walking or driving there and walking back and picking up their car the next day. There's a lot left to have to worry about. So you just jump on the bus. There's a lot of us. Head over there. And then did they shuttle you back? Yeah.
They had shuttles like every like 20 minutes back and forth or 30 minutes back and forth. And then they were, I mean, until like 3 in the morning. Like it was. Nice. They went all night. Well, yeah, we got there, and the venue was really awesome. It was at Blue Martini, and it was all glowed out. And there was so many people. We got there at, like, 9-ish, probably, and it was already packed. But they had sold over 400 tickets, which is super impressive.
And they had bought the whole venue out, impressive it was really impressive so dj life of spice was there a few of our swinger society friends daphne and daddy mike and there's tn gal nicole and her husband quite a few people faces and then a few others that aren't as public but we we saw a lot of faces we knew and friends that we had been snapping forever were there and like people that we met other people on social media that we had just never actually met in person and some like personal friends went yeah personal friends and then like pounds out of dark crew is just like a lot of mixture of all of that yeah which is really nice yeah really nice this is like a good mixture of like swinger society new friend from pineapples after dark and then like so many are like friends we've met all like because they're only two hours away from this crew and so and they all like intermingle with each other and do the same things and stuff so you see people that we good mixture of like a lot of attractive people yeah these friends and people we made like met long time ago and haven't seen much of but they all kind of everybody kind of hangs around you're listening to a podcast right now driving working out walking the dog if you're into podcasts chances are you have something to say too with rss.com starting your own is free and easy upload an episode and we distribute it to apple podcasts spotify amazon music and hundreds more track your listeners see where they're from and start earning from ads like this even with just 10 listeners a month if you've been thinking about starting a podcast Next.
more track your listeners see where they're from and start earning from ads like this even with just 10 listeners a month if you've been thinking about starting a podcast this is your sign start free at rss.com i've said it for a long time but like like atlanta's it's inconvenient for us because it's two hours away but it's like two hours from everyone unless you live there like it's two hours for basically everyone from every direction so it's a good like centrally located spot to we have a lot of a lot of southeast friends so it works out and then yeah the party was so good it was so good it was glow glow is Glow was always so much fun.
Glow was probably my favorite. Yeah. Just favorite themes. It's easy, and you can go all out, and you can express yourself, and everything's bright. Yeah. I don't know. I just love it. But we were able to go topless as long as we covered our nipples. See, did you wear pasties? I didn't see very many. I did, but I didn't take them out. But I didn't see as many topless people as I thought I would. But I mean, a lot of them were new. Like, a big, big chunk of this group was all brand new. Yeah. Thank you. But I didn't see as many topless people as I thought I would.
But, I mean, a lot of them were new. Like, a big, big chunk of this group was all brand new. Yeah. So they'd never been. So I'm, you know, I know it takes a minute to do that. But I don't know. Maybe I wasn't paying attention enough. I don't know. Because I was right up front, DJ Life's Best, like, dancing and doing my own thing in my whole world. So maybe.
Like, I know doing and i was two hours away yeah like i was in my own world dancing alone me and my water like just living our best life like i always that's like my element so i'm like his number one fan so since 2000 and like 21 like the very beginning so since we've been in the bas having our own dj party i've been like a big fan of his so i always love his music i love all of his his stuff and it's just it was such a good vibe i cried like three times at least three times just to watch like that was what it that party emulated like the whole reason that we do what we do. Yeah.
Like, this is the purpose of it all. Why you deal with all the internet trolls and. Why I have to continuously come up with content all 24-7, all of the time. And why I keep posting and why I keep, why we have a podcast, like why we're even here talking at all. It just really was like such a proud moment because everyone was just so happy.
And then to see like the people in charge of Parnells After Dark to watch them like see it all, you know, Davey and Lauren and see the fruits of their their labor yeah and kelsey and everybody that had organized and worked so hard and has like to watch like the first party they threw you know and then to see it now and to see like over 400 people show up and in a matter of just a few months really yeah yeah and like they're killing it and it was epic it was so good so good and i only see it doing better and bigger and i'm excited to excited to be to be there and watch because i love them i do um and then we danced we mostly mostly danced dancing was pretty much all of my night.
went outside a few times did the 360 hung out came back in dance some more dance some more um but we left like around one i guess it was kind of early but it's pretty early it's kind of early i wasn't with my normal like it was usually i am there and to like shut down like kick me out but i had people with me so i felt a little bit more like you know i needed to be responsible and not stay out until seven in the morning because normally that's me just wandering around until 7 a.m but i went back and it was good because we knew we're all at the same hotel yeah so i was like well after, when you get to have, like, fun.
Yeah. And you don't have to worry so much about being in public. Plus, it gets uncomfortable. And you just want to take off the fishnets after a while. My feet were killing me. The fishnets and heels. My feet were hurting so bad.
I had to be that trash person that's just barefooted because i had no husband with pockets or like arms to carry things it was just me and i was responsible for all of my cards and my self and i forgot my family pack too so i was that's the worst part about being gone without you that's not the worst part that's the worst part that you don't have people to hold your stuff it's really bad i don't have my pack mule it's the worst not the worst part. That's the worst part? That you don't have people to hold your stuff? It's really bad, bro. I don't have my pack mule. It's the worst.
Not the worst part, but it is, like, annoying as fuck because I'm always, like, you know me. I'm like, where's my license? Where's my cards? Where's my phone? I have no idea where anything's at ever, and I have to keep track of all of my stuff on my own. You do lose things a lot. I do.
If I don't, that's why i keep that's why i keep them because i would normally carry a purse or something but you're not gonna carry a purse and dance on the floor because every time you've been in charge of your cell phone i've had to go look for it yeah i've been it's been a long time i've been doing really good for the last year and a half but that first like six months to a year was rough If I kept every i'd go to i'd lose my phone but i learned my lesson it still sucks because i luckily my second husband was there bo and he had lots of buckets for me and his wife and him and he kept unloading all of his pockets he's like that's like 10 pounds gone every single time all i had was my phone my cards phones are heavy especially when you got like three or four of them in your pocket my phone is not small yeah so it's okay he took care of me he made sure i was okay and safe and he was a good he's a good keeper i'll keep him i'll keep him but no he it was fun we had a good time we ended up like again it goes so fast like the time goes so fast but yeah i sat we sat down and finally we're able to take off the fishnaps we went back to the hotel rode back to the hotel and um i put sweatpants on immediately like immediately in a sweatshirt i was in that the whole time it was cold it was rainy all weekend chilly all weekend it was nasty it was a rainy weekend it's not a good weekend i know down here it rained this weekend absolutely gorgeous don't worry but last weekend it was a rainy chilly weekend and yeah that was it's until we well i mean and then without our only mission was sweatpants sweatshirt and food because we had all like not eaten dinner at all we had like a snack but like really had some hummus so so you didn't join the after party our after party was for pizza so we went to the room immediately ordered pizza luckily there's some open to like 4 a.m.
because by the time we got back and everything it was like two you know until we got ready for food it was like two um but we found a pizza place that was open till like four did everybody just go to bed or did other people i have no idea no idea i could hear people in the hallways laughing and oh there you go so there were people out and about yeah it's just you guys didn't but we went um another couple that are friends of ours they hung out and we all ate pizza and they watched like happy gilmore and a bunch of abs movies and we talked and hung out and did what we do and then we i mean it's still30 in the morning.
Yeah, just everybody just went to bed. We just chilled and watched TV and ate pizza, and everybody just hung out, and I do, I do wish I would have went exploring a little bit.
I kind of, I don't know, I felt like I was trying to be responsible and go to bed and be, and be good, and not just go wandering in the halls, but I do kind of wish i would have gone and went exploring a little bit went on some adventure yeah i know i didn't want to worry anybody and i didn't want anyone to have to worry about me and i didn't want to have to be like i can't go to bed until i find out where ashley you know what i didn't want to be a burden i was like i already am in the bed and in the bedroom and like comfortable so i didn't really feel like getting back into everybody's in lingerie and stuff like that in the hallway and i was like and also i didn't know who was out there and i was kind of got scared so we hung out and just ate pizza and watched movies and it was late by then anyway it was like everybody was ready 3 34 o'clock in the morning and yeah it's saturday night and it's the party but like it's that you have to get up in the morning and check out by 11 looking for a fun and welcoming community to connect with others who share your lifestyle join the swinger society discord it's the perfect place to meet new friends share experiences get tips and have a great time with like-minded people whether you're new to the lifestyle or a seasoned pro there's a spot for you come hang out with us in the swingers study discord you won't want to miss the conversation and connection waiting for you there our link is below click to join about summed it up we it was a good it was a good weekend it was probably one i came back and i was like it's probably one of my favorite events i've ever been to yeah and that says a lot i've been to quite a few and i've been all over and you guys are killing it you're killing it just keep doing what you're doing i love your heart i love everything that you stand for i love all of it I love to see the fresh faces and I love to see all the new the newbies and different dynamics that you guys every shape color size every background there is everyone is so welcome and I truly feel like part of family when I'm there and I feel at home and i appreciate you for just loving loving me loving the community and that's what we do why we do what we do we love it here and we love you guys but it was such a good time it was a really good time so it was a good like soul weekend it was a good soul weekend we i did it wasn't a big like swinging weekend or sex weekend or anything like that but it was good for the soul it was really needed i need events like that for you know just a little little reminder yeah why like like little why reminders because three years in it you're trying to pump out content every day at least once a day you know and it gets monotonous you know it gets monotonous sometimes you just feel like what's the point of all of this why like you lose sight on why you're still going three years later especially when you feel like those days where you feel like you've gotten nowhere in three years and you feel like it's all is it all for nothing i have those moments like is this just for nothing at all and then you are reminded i ran into so many people that were just like i i love your podcast and i've been watching you for three years now and if it wasn't for us we would never have been to trapeze and started this journey and there's a lot of like you know like you keep doing what you're doing you guys are all little reminders yes yes and they're such good humans like everyone i met was just happy like every person was well living their best most of the time at a swinger event that is the case most of the time yes but there are some events that's not always like that and this one was very much like that yeah it's very friendly and everyone wanted to include everybody and it's nice to be in a space that everyone's included yeah like everyone's on the same same field yeah everybody love everybody yeah yeah like no competition it's all just like good times good vibes good feelings everybody just wants to have fun and dress up and express themselves and you don't have to be worried about expressing yourself it doesn't matter what you look like it's just confidence and people just you know like confidence and everyone's just on cloud nine and i i love it i love it it's been been a minute since i've felt it that hard but it was good we've been doing really some good events this year for the soul it's like some really good soul events that a good year for that we needed that yeah so how do you feel about this little journey you're on hot wife it up i'm still feeling it up i don't really know how I feel about it.
It has always been an us thing. And it's not like it's the way I feel. It's not like it's a it's obviously a choice that we've made that. Yeah. But it's not we're kind of forced into the choice because I'm working every weekend.
And if you can't go, like if we had to go together, you wouldn't go to go together you wouldn't go to anything ever and i've never seen my friends who would plan all these like girls weekends i've been trying early work like around that but unfortunately like all events and swinger every the whole world work you know has fun on weekends so it's really hard to hard to plan when you can't do anything on the weekend so we just kind of talked about it and then at first it was like just to go hang out with our friends and then it was like well if this happened their own situation occurred yeah what what are we comfortable with and then we really sat down and talked about like he wants to be included some way with like pictures or video or something.
I want to be involved in a capacity. Even though if I'm at work, like, I want. He wants to be included somehow. And he wants, like, yeah, like a phone call or something. And even though last weekend, like, you didn't play. Yeah. Like, I did have a whole bunch of people text me, like, we miss you. Wish you were here.
And I took all the pictures and videos and stuff that we could and we try to include him like we're always like texting and snapping and everybody's always sending this to us and yeah yeah like everybody tries to keep you included in the fun without you being there everyone like genuinely misses you and it is weird just being ashley not ashley it's always ashley and us ashley and us always all the time it's always been us so it's new i have not ever actually played really i mean i've done like some like foreplay and some like you know paddles and flogs and some fun and i've you know been in situations but have yet to swap for anything without you so maybe i'll get there it's not off the table it's still available i play with girls a lot when you're not around i do i do navigate that's what we were talking in the last you know last week's episode about trying to explore like with women and different dynamics and stuff and just having fun with that i feel safer there right now a little bit it is safer to gravitate towards the girls and yeah you know i kiss all the girls and love all the girls but yeah with the man i haven't really done much except like a paddle here that they're like a little spank or something but yeah we're still figuring it out so it's not off the table it's i'm i'm able to which just haven't yet right more that's fine it's like you're over like it's not a race whatever you're feeling yeah yeah i'm just kind of feeling that thing as it goes yeah it's kind of a wallflower i just kind of just happy to be there that's my that was my saying last week was or my saying all of the time but they really caught on to it last week yeah i've seen seeing all the comments i'm just happy to be here that's what i kept saying i was like i don't know i'm just happy to be here i don't want to make any decisions i'm just coming along with whoever i'm around at the time i will i feel so inclined i will come along and frolic with you or go over here and frolic with you but yeah i'm taking it slow and i'm just i don't know i miss i spend a lot of it missing you and so i have to like figure that out i don't know it's just always like when we go on that stuff it's kind of like our swinger explore i don't know it's just swinger vacations yeah that's what i call it it because I'm hanging out with you but being around swingers is fun too and maybe it might be one day maybe we'll get there but it's going to be me alone for a little bit for a little while but not in like two weeks he gets to come along for the first time since like it's like january something insane oh we went to that meet by pineapple after our meet and greet in the spring we went to that but yeah um that is in two weeks in secrets there's like a few rooms left just like i think yesterday they said there's 12 rooms left so i don't know by the time this comes out i have no idea so if you don't have a room you might be shit out of luck i don't know but go check them out i'll have have it linked below always good time secrets is so good so much fun it's a whole vibe i just i love showing up and not having any time like time does not exist until sund Sunday when you have to go or Monday or whenever you're checking out.
Until you're checking out, the time just disappears. Like it doesn't matter what time it is. Well, once you get out of the room, you still like can hang out at the pool and everything else. Yeah, they let you have as long as you need to be done.
And then whenever you arrive, you can just start whenever i do love that it's just so chill and it's such a good time so if you want to come along which i think you should come hang out with us for four days like you will never get that period and the two of us together is going to be a rare thing for the next minute so if you want to come hang out with us for four whole days plus a group of our really really awesome friends some of the best friends and we are now and we're in the nips program so now we're yeah like the ambassador couple of the you know like one of the you know one of the couples that we get to show people right it's it's exactly where we thrive so we're very excited about it but if it's your first time at secrets um sign up all the information is everywhere i shared on my stories everything but sign that up and then we'll meet you at 10 a.m on friday and give you the whole tour and introduce you to all of our friends and show you around and hang out for a little while come we'll have a couple drinks we show you our ways.
You will be addicted and you'll be coming back constantly just like us. But, yeah, that's what we, that was our big plans for this month. We've got going on a few things. Schedule's starting to pop up and stuff, so we might get away a few times. That we're maybe. We're eyeing up, but it's going to be closer to, like, wintertime for those. But, yeah, that's about time.
that's about all we got for today you want to talk about next week's episode yeah yeah so next week we're going to have robin lindsey from anything but vanilla on we talked about them earlier and we we that's who i stayed that's who she actually stayed with and and i've stayed with them the last one like i yeah they become really close really close to them over the last six months really awesome people it's a good conversation all about consent consent is the main the main point because it's very very important it's one of the most important a few stories and a little miss a few missteps and let you guys get to know have here lately.
We love them a lot, so we're excited to share their story. We've got a few more guests coming up and a few more fun things. Definitely stay tuned. We're only getting better. Only getting better from here. This is only episode five. This is our very beginning.
I feel like we've covered a lot come along you've learned quite a lot about us and hung out a lot with us so we appreciate you being here we love you more than you ever know and we cannot you cannot we can't even begin to express to you how much it means that you're listening to us right now so we love you all so much and we will talk to you again next wednesday don't make it weird it's not that serious bye So we love you all so much, and we will talk to you again next Wednesday. Don't make it weird. It's not that serious. Bye.
