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Thank you for joining us on this adventure we're back again for the fourth time episode one episode one take four welcome we're back again you guys only knew the what we have been through what we have done to get this podcast episode out yeah it's been a journey so we had a podcast filmed and edited and everything the first time and then it didn't have video yeah the video quality wasn't what we wanted so we went audio only till we could fix it but we were not happy with doing that because our big dream is to have video and audio period we have a big vision on what we want we want reels we want to do all the things so but we were willing to just get out the episode and just willing to do it and bite the bullet for the first just to get it out there because we already didn't we film once and it didn't have any volume or something oh no that was with we did a podcast with someone else we just not have very good yeah any podcast yeah we did a podcast with someone else and they're like we have to do that again because apparently the whole file is corrupted and so we did our podcast twice and the last time we had it and we finally decided the time was up we had to get that out so we were just gonna do it and we went to go we edited all day worked really hard with a crappy laptop that we've had for many years but should have been fine because we've never done anything on the laptop the laptop was itself was it is old but it's basically brand new brand new and so we did the everything all the stuff we've been working on on that and then the internet went out right as we were going to launch it and it was out until like midnight we're like fine the last few finishing touches yeah we were ready to press the button we were all but there and then the internet we had an outage all of a sudden it stopped everything stopped working like then our son came downstairs because it was bedtime and he's like did you turn off my internet i'm like no and we looked it up and so i'm like a whole entire outage and then the tv downstairs you said network error and everything else and i'm like oh what the heck so i got on my phone went on the wi-fi app and like there's a service outage in your area expected and he was like fine that's fine i'll stay up because i had to get up at 5 30 with the kids so he's like i'll stay up i'll get it launched it'll be fine and then as soon as he went to hit launch our we had the blue screen of death on our on our laptop and it completely stole everything and would not work and he spent he stayed up all we stayed up I spent hours yeah well because I took a nap and then got up and you were still editing software and everything like and with the computer and the internet it took was taking forever and so i spent all day yeah it was it was we were really trying very hard to get it out but we were to the point of i was i was ready to just not do the podcast anymore i felt like it was a sign for the universe everything was just going wrong that whole entire week was just a show full of things going wrong and so that was like our last straw and this has been a dream of ours for three years to do this podcast and we didn't want to settle for something that was half-assed we don't want to put shit out there that we don't like and so we have worked very hard but thank you to the community and very special people we have a crew of people that support us and love us so much and have helped us a long way and really want to get this out just as much as we do and behind the scenes there are so many people rooting for us and there and we're messaging and we're calling late at night we're asking all the questions because we don't really know what the heck we're doing we have no idea what we're doing this is all new to us and we are not very literate when it comes to technology and we don't yeah we're new to start so so here we are though we are here we made it this is going to be episode one and we're going to kind of introduce ourselves this is kind of just telling you who we are and about us a little bit more we have been dreaming about this podcast for a very long time this was an initial dream of ours to start with and we again were overwhelmed we didn't know what we were doing and honestly didn't feel like we had much that anybody wanted to hear us talk about but then here was social media censoring us and taking us down and now we're on account number 20 and we are just tired of being censored and we're tired of people not being able to hear who we are in our story well i think part of it too is we didn't think anybody wanted to hear from us like what we wanted to say yeah we just never thought we were very special yeah we're pretty normal just normal regular ordinary yeah and but we hear it all the time that we everybody is always trying to encourage us to make a podcast and to talk more and this is gonna be a good way to kind of elaborate on some of the videos you see on instagram and tiktok and we can ask questions and answer questions and kind of tell you a little bit more of our spicy stories and a little bit more detail than we can on social media because they do not like that so we have been fighting the social media censorship for a very long time now and we're we're done we're done so we're gonna make our own little platform our own little safe space and this will be a place that we can kind of go more into detail about our adventures and answer some more questions and get to know you guys more and it'll be fun it's gonna be good yes so it's gonna be every wednesday and that's the plan anyway for now that's where we're starting we're just trying to get we got everything i feel like we finally have everything in a row where as long as we record and edit on time like should not be a problem hopefully we're helping life and recording is the hard part obviously and life has thrown us some curveballs here lately.
So we've been fighting against the current, but here we are. We are trying again. This time is it. We're going to do it. We are here, and we are excited to have you guys. Looking for a community that understands your lifestyle?
Join SDC, the premier swinger site and app with over 3 million members sign up now at SDC.com or download the app and use referral code 36775 for an exclusive two-week trial connect with like-minded individuals and explore new experiences with SDC today go to the link in the show notes below i'm russ and i'm ashley and this is the hot couple chronicles so yeah so a little bit more about us we just want to kind of make this episode about who we are and a little bit more about our journey and our goals and kind of what the podcast is going to be about i am ashley and he and russ like we said we are parents of four very normal regular human beings not nothing special about us we met 15 years ago online before it was cool before way before way before it was cool we met on a shady website shady website they get free ringtones when those were a thing yes yeah we um i don't even remember the name of it but it was one of those sites that you got mp3s off of and that's the only purpose that's the only reason why i was there but he was there for thirsty reasons so i just happened to be in his crossfire at the right time and i answered back i was bored that day i guess and so you're feeling thirsty too yes so he he gave me his number pretty quickly and uh we talked for three hours the first time we ever talked and kind of knew it was a little bit more than just you know another person to talk to it's not like we met and then i gave you my number it was a minute it was a couple weeks before actually a couple weeks maybe maybe a week maybe a week but we talked for like three hours and we talked about life and death and kids and everything else in between and enough to make me realize like it was a little it was more than just nothing and then back then you could only talk after nine o'clock nights and weekends nights and weekends so it and weekends.
So it was one of those. It was back in the BlackBerry days. So they had BlackBerrys. And I had my phone, and I couldn't talk to him ever except after 9 o'clock. And so he eventually sent me a cell phone because I didn't have – I had, like, payback minutes or something, and it was a whole mess.
And, like, you had to, like, have an have an earpiece even use it because like it was a flip phone and like I don't think I could text or something I don't know it was something and all we did was text because we couldn't talk until after nine so it was like we would fall asleep every single night together and then you know wake up in your phones 4 000 degrees and so I needed a phone anyways so I'm like you know I'll just get a family plan then so he sent me his i'll send me a blackberry and the rest was history we uh we talked for like six months or so yeah and then i drove over there yeah and then he gotten his little paula and drove from illinois that's the thing we were living also in different states so i was in pennsylvania he was in illinois so we were 900 miles apart and i had you know a whole life in pennsylvania he had a whole life in illinois and he decided that he was going to come see me so he drove 800 miles in a blizzard in march the 2001 and one chevy impala that was already limping a little bit.
She had been through some things. She already had 200,000 miles on her. Yeah, she was. I had no doubt in my mind that I was going to make it and back. Looking back now, I do not recommend doing any of the things that we have done. That car was a trooper. She was. She took a lick of the pawn ticket. She still wouldn't be dead if they didn't kill her. She has turned into, in her retirement, she is now a derby car.
she is now a derby car she was she was she's dead she is now dead finally but she went through quite a few derbies even after the many years of abuse that car took after we had our kids and had our family and she'd been through some things but that blizzard really took her out and she she was really limping after that one but he drove all what how many hours was it 13 13 hours he drove 13 hours i stayed with one of my friends because it was safer that way safety in numbers just in case he was a psycho killer yeah and so she let me stay at her house and meet you there and then yeah the then nothing was open because he didn't get there until like midnight no first, first I got to the neighborhood and I tried calling you because I couldn't find the place.
And so I'm like, which, like, where exactly are you? Because it was back, like, GPS isn't what it was. It was NavQuest days. Like, it's not what it is now. So it kind of gave me a general area. There's all these houses around.
And I i'm like so i tried calling you and you didn't answer i was doing my hair getting out of the shower freaking out running around getting ready and that was my first thought and i missed this call and i'm like all right she's just doing like busy she didn't hear her phone ring so i called again and no and no answer, so I left the voicemail, like, hey, I'm here, um, which house are you, and then, I'm like, and I waited a couple minutes, and they never got a call back, I texted you, and then, so naturally, I'm like well after you know about you know five ten minutes it's what seems like forever when you're sitting in a car and you drove and you just drove 13 hours i uh i start i get on my phone and i start looking for hotels to stay the night to drive back home in the morning and then but then you called i did not it ended up all right i found him and the first thing i said to him was man you are way taller than you look online i thought you were i thought he was short apparently i look short and yeah we have he's gotten that comment quite a few times over the years yeah from meeting people online that's that is like a lot of people's first words and he's not tall he's not really tall i thought he's only six foot like yeah like i'm average yeah he's an average size guy there's definitely people shorter than me yeah yeah but i don't know i guess you must look shorter i think part of it is you look taller a lot because you're wearing heels in a lot of our videos yeah i do so in but i never used to wear heels then i don't know hell no no no no you were not a heel you were not a heel girly no i would never that was not me i also barely could take a selfie back then it was a whole different life that i used to live but yeah that was the first thing i said to him and then nothing was open because it was like 11 midnight something like that so nothing was open and there was snowing and measurable weather so she drove us yeah taco bell she offered to drive us and she ended up driving we sat in the back of her i had to park my car in some random driveway because it wasn't allowed on this road there's like rules yeah i'm like okay i'm like she's like you want to go yeah i think we can go to taco bell it's the only thing only thing that was open so we ended up going to to Taco Bell that was our first date that was our backseat of her Jimmy she drove us to Taco Bell we were just babies we were so young we were 22 we could barely drink yeah we just started drinking we were just old enough to drink we didn't know what we were doing and i do not recommend doing any of that well and if i remember right we actually we were 21 when we started talking and it was this was right after my birthday yeah it was fall time it was spring early spring it was march oh yeah when you visit me yeah yeah but i mean when we were talking oh yeah like six months before that so we were both 21 and we started and then we didn't know what the heck we were doing no you're listening to a podcast right now driving working out walking the dog if you're into podcasts chances are you have something to say too with rss.com starting your own podcast is free and easy upload anpload an episode and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and more.
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And then as soon soon as he left i booked a flight to come to see him like pretty soon after yeah it was a couple months for a month after and i ended up going flying to chicago and met him there he was like three hours from chicago and we were too broke and young to really afford a good day or night in chicago so i remember going to the pier that's all we really did real quick and then we didn't even get anything like we even go to dinner or lunch no nothing in the city we didn't do anything we had we were so what were we even thinking we were so excited but we were back then we were broke broke yeah but we didn't even know how broke we were like we used to live our best life that was before you knew had responsibilities like all i do is pay my portion of rent but yeah i was also like i'm still i'm like the stingiest with my money so i wasn't gonna fight it and also you were so worried about having to drive three whole hours back home and that was back then that was like driving to chicago three hours was like a once a year thing it was was not a big, it was not a thing we did.
It was a big deal. Until we got older. I drive all the way to O'Hare. Now we drive 10 hours in an hour notice for no reason. Not only drive three hours to O'Hare, but then walk 45 minutes from the parking garage all the way to your terminal. Yeah. Yeah. It was a whole ordeal.
he was living in a tiny little ass apartment in springfield illinois with his uh his college buddies his friends so he uh we kind of we had a bedroom to hang out with and to hang in there and we went to the botanical gardens got caught in the rain got caught in the rain and we went to hibachi went to yeah but that was right where that was our big date times i took introduced you to horseshoes yes yeah we went which is a very central illinois thing oh i would do anything to have a darcy's yeah horseshoe it's french fries cheese sauce the best cheese sauce that's the cheese sauce makes the entire thing and then like some sort of protein or vegetable or whatever the original is just a hamburger on texas toast yeah piece of bread texas toast a hamburger covered in fries and drowned in cheese sauce oh my gosh it's so good and it's it sounds horrible it is horrible for you.
Oh, it's like, it's horrible for you. It is. And they have perfected it. It's their, it's, that's their meal.
I took took you and you didn't even get one no i thought it was the most disgusting sounding thing ever i refused to try it i thought it was so nasty and disgusting and now i crave it every single day since i left it i made them at home yeah we make them but it's just something like darcy's and plus it was like the it was in like the irish like an irish put it was in the memories and stuff so i was like you can never really duplicate that and then they're we talk about going all the way back to illinois just for food we had good we used to do a lot of food we still do food we're big foodies he went to culinary school and we appreciate good food we we will never not have good food we're not have anything else so we we will have food we love our food but yeah and then we uh we immediately started making plans to try and figure out how to live together pretty soon after that and we also again we're broke and young and we didn't know what the hell we were doing we never had our own places like we've really just you know not like that and then i also was still in pennsylvania so he started talking and he where he lived his whole entire life he had connections luckily with a lot of people and people that had places it was a very small community very small time i grew up in a town everybody's always like 1800 people we didn't even have a street light.
It was a very small town in Illinois. And he knew somebody who had an apartment, a little tiny little two-bedroom apartment. But he needed. He just bought it. It wasn't ready. What do they call it? It was four apartments in one building. Like a duplex. But quadplex? Yeah. But, yeah. And, yeah, we offered to paint it and help him clean it and fix it up.
we could move if we moved in early and we were desperate at that time to be together we were obsessed with each other and we just wanted to be together so we said hell yeah and bought the paint and did he paid for the paint yeah and he paid he took money off the rent for painting it got money off rent and he paid for the supplies pretty good deal he owned a hardware store as well so it's not like it was a huge loss but no and then we got discounts on whatever we needed anyway so but yeah he uh he thankfully thankfully for him he took a chance on these little kids with big dreams and that were in love with each other and we were obsessed and i was there by July yeah July July 2010 I finally moved there and yeah the rest is history we're here now in Georgia we've been through some things we're that hot Georgia couple yeah somehow somehow I am originally from Jersey I am a northerner for sure and he's an Illinoisanan heart so for us to be the hot couple in georgia is crazy mind-blowing the stories and the journey that's brought us here but long story short life and work has brought us through north carolina from illinois we lived in north carolina for a year and a half and the covid was the entire time we lived there and they were very strict where we were i mean you were arrested if you're out past 9 p.m yeah i had to carry a document saying that was a essential worker laminated paper saying that like he was allowed to drive only one person was allowed to go the grocery store per day it was so many rules no nine and no one out past 9 p.m and or they would you'd get a fine and we moved here three years ago now in may was three years ago and when we had left it was 2021 and yep they were still locked down we were still not in school i went through two school years with the kids homeschooled because their schools were still locked down and they were just now starting wednesdays when we came and when we came here they're like oh yeah we only did that for two weeks like that was that was years ago because i came i interviewed went back yeah then they on the drive home because it was a six hour drive back to north carolina they called me with an offer and so yes on the negotiation like the offer the negotiations happened on my drive back to North Carolina and they gave me 30 days to say, well, we'll put you in a hotel for 30 days so you can get moved down here.
So, okay. I'm like, so I have to sell a house, buy a house and get everybody moved in a month.
Closing on a house is 30 days 30 days alone yeah so i had to move quick yeah and the house was not even anywhere near and this was in the middle of the housing boom luckily so as soon as i found a house that met all of the stuff we wanted in our price range as soon as i called the realtors said i want to see it it was under contract before we got to see it and we need a big house we have we had six of us so we needed four or five bedroom house and it was impossible to find every building as soon as they would break ground on it was sold already so we couldn't and we had 30 days to do all this so it was desperate and he found this house he walked through it we messaged he showed me things and stuff like on this when i walked through it it was it was sheetrock they were still doing the brick on the outside there was no driveway they didn't pour the concrete yet um it wasn't painted i could see the general floor plan and that's about it and i'm like okay they're like are you gonna put an offer in on it i said yeah let me call my uh banker and get the pre-authorization letter or whatever so i can put it it was too late yeah he's like well if it's not done today you're not getting we're gonna get an offer on it later this afternoon i'm like well i can't officially give you an offer until the bank gives me that letter and he was just visiting for the weekend i had to find a house like he had like two days to like find a home and figure out where the heck we're gonna live what area we're gonna live he's driving around just looking for houses and calling and trying to figure out what was open which again there was nothing open and so then we uh i we found this house and i was like i'm not even getting my hopes up it's pretty like from what i can see i could barely see it on the video but because the service was shit but i was like from what i can see it's it'll do it's big enough whatever i trust you whatever you say so he uh yeah they said that it was gone don't so i was like don't even get my hopes up i'm not even you know we were screwed i was basically told if i didn't put an offer on it that day that we don't have a shot yeah i'm like well then i'm gonna have to find something else because there was nothing it's going to take you know a couple days to get this letter and then um so we long story short it was we didn't get enough they didn't get an offer in and so we put the offer in and they accepted it as long as we could sell our house in 30 days and so then we we knew that wasn't gonna be a problem that part of it the selling part we weren't worried about it was the buying part and so we we guaranteed them we would sell it in 30 days no pressure anything but like all the pressure yeah so well the guy was being a jerk but luckily we we knew that we we were pretty confident we could sell that we just had bought it a year and a half and it was a new build and we knew like there was nothing wrong with it was good neighborhood the neighborhood was booming everything so we knew pretty confidently we could sell it but i didn't see this house until the day of closing so i walked into it before day before closing like the night before closing and i cried because it was exactly what i wanted and luckily my husband knows what i like he knows i like what i like so it turned out all right and here we are and now we're that hot couple in georgia we plan on staying here for a while if not forever we do love it here so much um if i would go anywhere i'd be Thank you.
dot right and here we are and now we're that hot couple in georgia we plan on staying here for a while if not forever we do love it here so much um if i would go anywhere i'd be florida and that's only because my daughter and my sister are there i love florida i'm a beach girl i'm a i definitely want to be near the ocean so one day i'll get closer to the ocean so maybe we'll be that hot couple in florida one day but for now we're in georgia we do love it here we love everyone is just so welcoming and we have met some of the most amazing people we have well if it wasn't for the people that we've met around here and like our core group of friends we wouldn't live here anymore yeah yeah we we would have moved the people um this area i don't know if it's because of the military nearby but we everyone every other person you meet is a swinger we are very very lucky to have the community that we do here if you go on public people will recognize us they know because they are in the lifestyle and we're one of the we're not i don't ever say we're like famous or anything but we're known enough in the our little world of swingers that we do get comments and people that recognize us and stuff and we've met so many cool people the ones that shocked me is i saw you guys at walmart the other day yeah i hate what after the fact i'm like just don't make it weird you should have came up to us say hello don't be weird about it but i've seen you there are so many swingers where we live it's insane and i mean i have snapchat just full of people that like live nearby and they're like i know where you live i know exactly where that is and the amount of lifestyle here isn't i mean we have a tight tight group of like 25 30 people like within like 10 minutes of our house so locally we have like a wide scope of friends acquaintances and then we have what i would call the country club circle yeah which is just a really we're just really close like we're very protective of letting new people in we had they gotta be good good that's a good thing it's not a bad thing but everyone in our group not everyone in our group is a swinger but the few that aren't they are totally aware of us being swingers and they are so here for it.
And they all live vicariously through us and want to hear our stories and they know we can tell them where we're going and they know about secrets and all of our social media. Yeah, even our vanilla friends in our group are like, so what'd you do last weekend? Tell me all the details. We love it.
are very lucky to live here and so if we do i don't see us going anywhere anytime soon but we do love our home in georgia we love it here we love the area it's definitely a place that i i love i'm glad we i'm glad with the universe has brought us here to georgia looking to add some excitement to your social Meet 3Fun, the free app that connects open-minded singles and couples for fun adventures. With thousands of active users, 3Fun is our ticket to new friendships, flirty encounters, and unforgettable experiences. The best part? It's completely free to use. No hidden fees or subscriptions.
Ready to join the fun? Download 3Fun app now from the App Store or Google Play Store and start connecting with like-minded individuals in your area. Don't miss out on the excitement. Find the link below and get started with 3Fun today. All right, so we've touched on kind of our backstory. A little bit more about how we got a podcast, why we even have a podcast. So three years ago, we decided that we were going to go to Atlanta and have a date weekend. And that was, I don't know, throughout our marriage, we have always went to strip clubs. That was kind of what we did on the weekend.
We've been in BDSM for 10 years. We were always looking for something extra spicy. Something more than just a movie night. More than just a movie or a dinner. We were looking for something sexier. We like getting dressed up. We like getting naked. We just liked a little bit more spicy stuff.
We were in BDSM and stuff, so we've always a really spicy couple and we went to atlanta and we went to tokyo land and that is a sex store in atlanta with an underground club and we have another episode that we're going to go more in depth about our journey that was an experience about that whole experience and how we became swingers but yeah we checked out a sex club that wasn sex club. That wasn't quite what we were looking for, but it also wasn't lifestyle. It was just more, it was a sex club. Yeah. And it was, well, you just wait until you hear all about that story.
But there was a lot there. And then we found Trapeze Atlanta. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say, too. With RSS.com, starting your own podcast is free and easy. Upload an episode and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads just like this. If you've been thinking about starting a podcast, this is your sign.
Start your new podcast for free today at RSS.com we had no idea what we were doing we had no idea what swingers were we had no idea there was a lifestyle or community or anything and we walked in and it was exactly what we had been looking for yeah it was exactly what it was a nightclub it had a dress code which we love dressing up yeah i love dressing up so we love the ties we love the dress code we appreciate a good dress code and it had you know a whole buffet of food like it was everything and there's people like dancing everyone was dressed to the nines it was very much it's very much just a like a normal like nightclub with the exception on the porn on the tv just porn on the tv but other than that everyone's just dancing there's a dj people are eating there's dinner Thank you.
normal like nightclub with the exception of porn on the tv just porn on the tv but other than that everyone's just dancing there's a dj people are eating there's dinner tables everyone's at the bar just hanging around you would never know and then about 11 to 12 o'clock at night lingerie starts coming yeah lingerie people start changing into more comfortable outfits or nothing or you know pasties taking off tops that you see a little bit more skin other than but still dancing and having a good time and at the bar and hanging out you would never know that's why i always tell everyone if you want to go see what a swinger club looks like go to a swinger club don't be scared like you won't have to have sex you probably won't even see sex especially if you're going to like trapeze unless you're out searching unless you go back to the playrooms and stuff you're probably not going to see you won't even know it looks like a regular nightclub and everyone's just hanging out having the best time but it's full of the most coolest people and the most chill people that you'll ever meet and so if you are just you know curious and you just want to go check out and see what we're about definitely go to a club it's so good that's how we started but we stumbled into a swingers club and we kept going back we were addicted we call it the cocaine effect it was just this rush every time we would go and so like we'd go on friday nights and then we'd go on a saturday night and then we just kept going back and yeah then we couldn't go the next weekend so we went back the weekend after that it was like a really we loved it there and it was like a two-hour ordeal but we would get dressed get ready and drive there two hours go and then come home as when they closed yeah we would eat like we every once in a while we would get a hotel for the most part we would drive home yeah we always would like drive there and drive home we because on the way home there was no traffic so we could get home an hour and a half like it was no yeah no problem there was no traffic no land and stuff and then we uh yeah kept going back and we met people that we loved so much that just were like as soon as we walked in the door everybody's like come on you're our friend come on over here they were very welcoming and we um just learned from them and they were all not all of them but the couple that we did meet initially, they were on social media.
And so they were like, everyone's on social media. We are on social media, all that stuff. And so we were intrigued. And then we decided, fuck it. He decided to make a TikTok. No one was going to see it, baby. I had not been on TikTok. I was fighting TikTok.
If anyone knows me i do not like phones i don't like social media i fight all the new apps i don't and i don't like any of that so i had fought the tiktok i had got on it during covid just to look at like dancing funny video stuff challenges that don't challenge stuff like that that was trending i would look at but never posted a video nothing and he decided he was going to make a video it was kind of like a thirsty like a swipe right would you swipe right type thing but it had a pineapple at the end and it was like play well with others and that one ended up getting like half a million yeah it was like half million 750 something like that like the first day first video first time we made the page that's weird we made the video thinking we could maybe like be a little open to us and like 20 people that would see it we were like no one's gonna see this we didn't understand tiktok and this was right when like people started doing like thirst traps and stuff on tiktok and like i kind of want to do that type of stuff too but like yeah we had talked to our friends at the club and they were on social media was like intriguing and it was like okay there is some of us out there there's a few swingers on the tiktok there's only a couple there's only a couple swingers and it was it'd be cute it's like us and 20 people it'd be like fun yeah we never we didn't understand that they show your tiktoks to everyone that lives around you everyone knows you everyone who's ever spoken to you everyone who's ever seen you and we didn't understand how tiktok worked and that was our fault but it worked out in the end but then um yeah that one ended up doing crazy so i we were on the kind of our swinger journey and i had ordered a flag that had a right side of pineapple and said welcome like nothing too special and it came in the mail and it was like middle winter like christmas it was so cold january i remember specifically it was because i had snowflake pajama pants and ratty sneakers that he like mowed the grass and he just threw them on to go out and get the package or whatever and i was like hold up wouldn't i make a good tiktok if i actually filmed you taking off the old the flag had our name on it so it was our last name and it was just like a chevron like teal like yeah normal flag and i was like wouldn't that be funny if i told if i filmed that of you like taking down the old us and putting up the new it was kind of like our secret symbol of us being swingers and i was it was a very like joking well if you know you know yeah it was like our little thing signal yeah one of those and so i followed him outside and it was nothing special it was literally just him taking off the flag and putting another flag on and it was like five seconds and it had our last name and we knew enough that we knew we didn't want to have our last name on social media because this was a secret thing like it was between like me and him type thing it was a very it's supposed to be a like, secret page.
And so he spent all day trying to pixelate back there. We didn't understand how to do stickers and sensors and all that blurring and stuff. So he literally had to go frame by frame. And so it looks like it was filmed. Because I take the old one off and throw it.
So I had to follow the flag with the pixelating thing and every frame like the quality just goes gets worse and worse it's so bad if you if everybody if anyone has known us from the quality is so bad you know what video we're talking about and it looks like it was filmed in the 1990s like it was definitely 1900s on a camcorder yeah yeah old film but that video ended up getting us seven seven million views right there and the rest is pretty much history kind of jump started that's when it kind of turned we kind of just owned up to it opened our eyes we uh we were all of a sudden everyone and that's i mean everyone knew at that point it had shown that video to i was seven people everyone we knew even people that didn't have to talk yeah it was shared with people that didn't have to talk it was shared with everyone on our facebook it was shared with the entire world and we either could run from it which we definitely wanted to we sat there for a few days i was i mean scared cried, scared, cried.
I mean, it was an emotional roller coaster. It was a little terrifying. Yeah. But also at that point, running from it wouldn't do anything because they already knew. Yeah. Yeah. So, I mean, we're kind of tested and pushing, lean into it. We've always been just us two. So, we didn't need anyone.
If you don't like us for who we are, then we don't don't need you we've always been like that we've always have been just me and him against the world so we and we were at that point we were just ready to be swingers we were kind of finally like admitting to ourselves after being the club after swapping after everything that maybe we are swingers and so we were we were learning how to maybe accept the fact that we were maybe we were swingers and so we were kind of on our journey of being who we wanted to be and we also were again like the cocaine effect we were having so much fun and we were closer than we ever been and we were meeting all these amazing people everything that we had wanted we talked about having these friends and talked about having these experiences and we finally found it so we were also super excited to like share a new part of us and again we were very independent we didn't really care Thank you.
talked about having these experiences and we finally found it so we were also super excited to like share a new part of us and again we were very independent we didn't really care about what people thought about us so we ran into it we it took a minute we definitely took a minute went through an emotional roller coaster and uh yeah we were pretty quickly we had that was the longest tiktok account we ever had yeah we had that account and it like immediately got to like sixty thousand dollars from that video and um grew from there for a while we kept making videos it became and we decided that we were going to be on tiktok and that's kind of that's kind of our journey we've been through now like 20 accounts and restarted a million times but it has been a journey that's for sure we have been through a lot we've met a lot of people and we are just happy to be here we're we're glad we we're glad we were exposed we're glad tiktok threw it on the 40th we're glad it got thrown on it opened up a whole new world yeah we definitely are different people than we were then it's changed us as people and yeah it's it's a good it's been a good ride take control whole new world.
Yeah, we definitely are different people than we were then. It's changed us as people, and yeah, it's been a good ride. Take control of reproductive health and wellness with Hello Wisp, your trusted partner in accessible care from the comfort of your home. Say goodbye to waiting rooms and hello to convenience. With Hello Wisp, you can access expert guidance and discrete solutions for your reproductive health needs all online.
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journey okay and we're back and then kind of like where our plan is and what we're planning on doing so we kind of gave everybody like a back our backstory a brief synopsis we'll get more in depth when we get into stories and stuff we do plan on talking way more about how to get in lifestyle and how we got in the lifestyle and the people we've met but our social media journey that's kind of where we want to go with this we want this to be our kind of our safe place to just talk about whatever we feel at the time yeah and this we kind of wanted our first episode we sat on it forever and we've now filmed it four times but we do feel like repeating ourselves so it So it is getting kind of like, yeah, we'd also don't, we want to talk about real, real like life stuff and not necessarily just about us either.
I mean, I just right now, this episode is very much a, I was like, we have to start Russ and Ashley show, but yeah, we, I understand a lot of people that are going to see this already know who we are but there's also people that have no idea i'm like it seems like everyone knows who we are we know we're actually in rose we have four kids in georgia but i know there are probably a lot of people who have no idea and there are going to be a lot of people stumbling on our podcast that have no idea who we are so i was like we need to break it down to exactly who we are and of course if you stick around you will definitely learn a little bit more about all that stuff we have a whole social media journey that we've been on and yeah i want to talk about our stories like our sexy stories our trial tribulations through our journey too and i think a lot of podcasts don't really talk about with their friends i think we've had a good conversations just sitting around with our friends that i would love to have been able to film and record stuff we have some really good deep conversations sitting around and especially when we're comfortable in our homes and stuff and i don't need to record everything but i just want to show the world a glimpse of the kind of human beings that you will meet in this lifestyle i don't think people really get into that as much i think you see a lot especially on social media a lot of fake more fake not fake but more produced produced and over animated yeah yeah i really want to break it down to what the lifestyle really is because we love that's why we our favorite thing to do in the lifestyle is to check out new groups find new people meet new people because every group you go to every event you go to is different and it's full of different people and every single person you meet is going to be i mean everybody likes a good party but no parties even if it's the same group like as a whole like no party is the same there's always it's always different yeah i really wanted to i want to sit down and really bring in our friends because i think i think we have a gift for meeting and finding and handpicking some of the best humans that you will find and i want you guys to know them more i i do think that the people the people and i always always said the people is that's why we are here and um yeah we just kind of want to share a little bit more about the human beings that you'll meet and what the lifestyle really is and what the lifestyle has done in our lives which we were not expecting to go on the self journeys and you know yeah there's a lot of self a lot of a lot of work we've done over the last three years and a lot of work that we're currently doing and it's you know we don't no one talks about that enough and i also would like to get a few experts on here so yeah we know some we know some people know some people so if you guys have any questions or anything we have our email on our link trees and we'll have it down below our link tree but email us don't be afraid to email us i definitely want to do a question and answer episode for sure but oh yeah want to get deeper in our questions and we don't have to filter and we can actually say the word sex and orgy and stuff like that so we can definitely get more into depth about explaining more yeah absolutely than we can on social media it's all it's so hard we're so censored on there and i can't i gotta be careful and they just don't like us well yeah it's like you have to be careful not just because they're gonna censor your video but also that you can completely lose your entire account and they don't have to give you a reason at all you just make someone mad they reported enough it's gone and you can't do anything about it they don't tell you why and everything's a sexual nudity reason and objective i haven't if anyone follows me on social media here lately i have i have been pushing it a little bit on instagram but for the most part i am very i've read the community guidelines a million times i know top to bottom what i'm allowed to do or not to do i am very mild i'm very very i don't do the things that everyone else does and i still am constantly in trouble always all the time constantly shadow ban but this will definitely be good to be able to tell our story and along you know right now we are we again we've met some great amazing humans and we live in a great area full of groups of such good people and so right right now we are enjoying hosting events.
That's kind of what we've been doing here lately. You're listening to a podcast right now, driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With rss.com, starting your own podcast is free and easy.
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I hate that. I hate having to, I'd like to be in the moment. I like to have fun in the moment. And so I do forget. And some events I am better about it, depending if I'm there for the longer amount of time, I will take, you know, really. Snippets. Yeah, I'll make sure that I'm good.
But also like in that, we also have to be very careful because we're not trying to show other people i'm very careful about discreetness and making sure not to show people and so it's a very hard like it's a very hard line to walk on all the time but we do like that we are enjoying going and i'm unfortunately he works weekends here now so i and all the parties are normally on the weekends so I have been kind of solo partying here lately with my friends but I have been trying to promote and I just want people to find their people and really honestly what I've been enjoying more than anything is having you know finding people like letting people find people you meet somebody like you meet you meet people and you meet other people like have you met this person yeah i feel like you guys are gonna be best friends and so i've i have definitely been you know i do in the real life i do a lot better at real life recommendations and real life party reviews but i um yeah i want people to connect i want to connect people i love connecting people and then i enjoy events i love events they're the best they're so much fun i always always have had a great time right always had to get i mean we've had we've had not so great times too we had a couple couple like for we have always had a great time the parties and the hosts haven't always we always end up having it we always yeah usually we've always now there's times we've had we've had better times than others but we'd never have a bad time no we always end up it's always a good laugh or a good fun it's always a story yeah it's always it's been a ride but that's kind of what we're doing now we're kind of events hosts and we just kind of host for people our goal eventually is to host our own events and um yeah we our big dream is to eventually we would love to own a club or resort that's one we always that's really the end goal that we would eventually love to do at one point but we want to host something we have a lot of things in the works and we have a lot of friends willing to help out and it's really just us waiting to pull that trigger we have it's terrifying this whole like we kind of touched on it in the very beginning but this whole journey just getting this podcast up it really showed us some real supporters and true friends and we have never had families that really supported us we've met we've like i said we've always been me and him against the world and our kids and so we have always we have never had support systems other than each other and so we are starting to let people in and we have met some amazing people who make us let them in and i appreciate them yeah because there are people that because naturally it's because it's been just us for such a long time like we got really we get it we'll do it we got it on our own yeah naturally we kind of close ourselves off when people 15 years when we see people getting closer to us than we're within our comfort zone we have a tendency to dip yeah yeah we uh so or distance distance ourselves because we're not used to that type of level of no we've never been friendship yeah we've never had people willing to hold a hand out even to not even like help us like monetarily or anything it's always it's just support like it's the it's just being there and being able to ask questions and pick brains and we have met so many like event organizers that want us to host parties and you know technically be committed competition to them at quote unquote like people say but there's such uh no competition just we're at the level now where there's two different sides on social media you see the two different sides you see the competition side of it but we're really getting into the side of it where it's collaboration yes and those you see the toxic competition side but i i love the whole collaboration side of it and they are good yeah technically if we hosted an event we are technically their competition but they're no competition none none they're there i'll just want to see the competitions that our event would be at our event to support us oh yeah they would be there they would all be there and it makes you work so because not you don't see that in the everyday world you don't see that in normal they don't see people't see people willing to call and talk to them at any point of the day or night and pick brains and connect you with other people that know people or event venues or vendors and stuff like that.
And in this community, when we say we love you, we mean it with all of our hearts. And this podcast has been, I know it seems like such a little tiny little dream.
It definitely was harder than it should have been so much harder and we've the universe just kept throwing stuff at us and i talked to one of another content creator not in swinger land but i was like i'm done like i don't think i think the universe is telling us we're not supposed to do this it's so bad i feel embarrassed like it's we told them a day and i i'm not that person i was being very very careful i do not want to promise anything and then not and we stayed up 24 hours i mean we worked so hard to the point of we had no way to do it other than to completely start over well what happened was especially with that last one we were 99 ready to rock and roll we had had we could have published it on certain uh platforms but not all of them and we wanted video and there was no video video as well and then it i don't know i just wasn't i and they were so we filmed this is like again this is like the fourth time we filmed this we did all we stayed up hours and did all the commercials all of the break stuff all of the music everything too i mean we've lost everything we've lost we're starting over from scratch and he was like it's not shit and you don't need to be embarrassed until you put out shit and it's not with me and i was like okay like we have not put anything out for people to judge yet and so i was because i was so worried about people being mad and upset that it took a week longer than we promised and said and all of this but i think it's going to be worth it i think it was all maybe the universe just telling us to hold on a minute we wanted quality and we we needed a reminder of what i feel like it was what you were saying how bad do you want it yeah he was also like how bad do you want it because that's all you're being was what you were saying, how bad do you want it?
It was resistance. Yeah, also that too. He was also like, how bad do you want it? Because you're being questioned. Yeah, you're being questioned. How bad do you want this? And for the past three years, it's just been little things and little things and reasons we couldn't and has been stopping us. And I know it sounds so stupid and cheesy, but this podcast has been something that I've dreamed of doing since the first TikTok. And so I'm very excited to be here.
and i'm so excited for you guys to listen to me i could cry because i love it here so much i love you guys it's hard you guys have made me such a you guys have made me such a better people better better person and we have we have the best friends and the best people i mean even strangers that we've never even met on the internet that are willing to message and help us and yeah we thought to be here and i'm excited and i'm so glad i found you guys yeah thank you thank you to everybody you know who you are i don't want to name names we still have to figure out who wants to be named on our podcast and we have to figure out all those little details and i don't want to name any names but you just want to say thank you you know who you are you know all of you there's been quite a few of you that have helped us get here and we just want to say we love you and we wouldn't be here if it wasn't for you and yeah i'm excited this is just the beginning and stay tuned we are going to go more into depth into all of our story and our journey and yeah yeah but before we sign off no we have to where are we where are next place next things we're doing september 14th.
I'm going to be in Buckhead. I have to work, so you'll be riding solo. We are going Pineapples After Dark. Well, not solo. No, I have a girlfriend date this time. My best girl is coming with me. So it's going to be a little hot life weekend, and we're going to have a whole weekend of it. But yeah, September 14th, Pineapples After Dark.
That is one of the groups that we have just recently been hanging out with over the last like six months or so and they're local it's that long they're in atlanta they're based out of atlanta so if you're looking for a good party a good time definitely recommend i just looked at pictures that they hired a photographer for the last event and i cried like a baby because uh so you can look at those pictures and just see the humans the humans are so good and so if you're looking for a good time a good party it's a vanilla ish most of them are vanilla meet and greets with you know spicy people so take that with the grain you know take what it is well like the last one was in a vanilla bar booked out yeah we booked they booked it out they it was completely a private event it was live band karaoke oh it was so much fun i didn't i thought oh gosh karaoke but it everyone was living their rock star dream everyone was living their best life there's a there's a fan on them there was a full band everyone was singing it was like concert after it was so good say i could again i had to work so solo, but I heard lots of stories.
It was such a good time. Such a good group of people. And then this one coming up. This is a glow party. And this one is topless. This is a topless one. Now, you don't have to go topless. No, you don't have to. But there is the option. It's the whole event is ours. So it's going to be a glow party.
And our favorite DJ life of spice he will be djing for us and we have quite a few friends are going to be there and so we will be i will be there september 14th and then we're going to secrets we're back at secrets again october 3rd through 6th with the swinger society i will be there for that yes he is going to finally finally He has has been missing in action for most of this year he got a new position a new schedule so he's been doing weekends and unfortunately like i said the swinger world works on the weekends so we are doing if we could plan things during the week guys that'd be great unfortunately the whole world works on the weekend or it doesn't work let's normalize weekday parties yeah we'll be there october 3rd through 6th we are doing a room crawl we are in the only private dungeon in room yeah our room the only private dungeon on site so we we that's what they say on the advertisement but we've never stayed in this room but it has a whole cage and it has all the all the tie points and stuff so we are doing the room crawl and we are going to be doing b some theme and harness ties and all sorts of fun so if you want to check any of those events out definitely we will have them below and they are all in our link tray all the information all the tickets say they're not sold neither one of those are sold out yet so so there are very popular rooms uh secrets available and there's just a couple but yeah it's not too late and then there's still tickets available for the glow party for pineapples after dark if you want to dip your toes if you're not really sure if you want to be in the lifestyle you're curious about the lifestyle i definitely recommend that event for sure it's just gonna be a good group of people good laugh good fun good music i like it's such a good i honestly feel like there isn't a bad newbie or dipping your toes in like event because everybody's so laid back and people you'll see you'll see you start coming you start checking it out you will i mean there's bad apples of course and anything in the world but there are few few and far between.
You will meet way more better people. Well, and we're not afraid to call those bad people. I'm like, what do you, like, we're not afraid to call those pushy and bad apples. Yeah, we're very protective of our amazing, the rest of the hundreds of amazing people. So we're not afraid to call them out and be like, what are you doing? Yeah.
how we act yeah that's our plans that's where we'll be as of right now those are the only two events and i think the last of the events for 2024 so if you want to come hang out with us if you want to come meet some of our friends do not be afraid to come say hello and if you have any questions message me at any point and we're more than happy to answer all of your questions and if you are at the event and are feeling nervous or you have questions find us always come find me always say do not be afraid to come find me i am love meeting people that's my favorite part about this entire journey and we love meeting all of you but yeah i think that's we is that a wrap time i think we talked a little too much but we're excited to get deeper and more in depth with you about answering all the questions stuff you really want to know about swingers yeah i think you guys tiktok isn't what you really want to know about swingers and so we're here we're gonna be here it's entertaining to watch it's cute but but you don't get i get a little like we you do a great job of you do a great job of educating like to it that's like my biggest compliment anytime i go somewhere and everyone's like i love about your instagram is that because instagram is my baby if you're not on instagram you don't know me you don't know anything about us i always say if you just know me on tiktok you don't know anything about me instagram i do get a lot of compliments that i love that it's like spicy and you're sexy and thirsty but also there's enough of education and community and love and i was like oh that's all i want that's all i want that's like my goal and that was my intentions three years ago and i'm i'm excited to get a little bit deeper a little spicier and not be so censored and yeah yeah let's do it excited all right all right so it's not that serious don't make it weird see you guys
