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Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences. While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their relationships. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our adventure. I'm Russ.
And I'm Ashleyley and this is hot couple chronicles welcome back welcome it's been a long time it's been three weeks three it's 2025 now happy 2025 happy christmas happy everything in between hope everybody's holidays were amazing because i know ours were really yeah it was a good one it was a really good holiday season this year i was skeptical we have a lot we've done we've been busy bees the last three weeks or so we've been staying busy i don't know how i would have done the podcast without taking a break i'm glad we took a little bit we needed a little bit of a breather i think we're gonna to do seasons i think that was a good idea to change it and do seasons and take a couple weeks off in between just to keep everything fresh and yeah because this is our love project we do this out of love we do this because we love it we want to keep that alive and we want to keep you know keep it fresh yeah we it's definitely the passion project doing it every week it can be overwhelming it's a full time full time job.
I had no idea how much work went into a podcast. I thought you just sat down, talked and put it on. And I mean, you can, but we're also perfectionists. That's true. So we spend a lot of time editing the words and making sure the writing is great. Yeah. The picture is great. We take a lot of time and then we plan.
We take a lot of time planning and doing all that stuff in between but yeah we're just gonna sit down today and talk about what's happened over the last three weeks a lot has happened over the last three weeks we've had a busy and we still are we have a busy january ahead so we're gonna be sharing all of our stories coming with you yeah we do yeah we still got some more stuff we have a whole we have a whole bunch of stuff coming for every single weekend this month or something so yeah it's a good way to start the year 2025 is going to be our year it really is i can feel it i've never felt this way before about it like during a new year it's a good feeling it's a new feeling for me but it's my gut gut says this is it it's gonna be a good one i'm excited yeah so am i but let's start with our weekend trip i guess right before christmas we'll go back to when we stop the podcast and go from there and kind of talk about what we've been doing and yeah so we was it the weekend after we our last episode i believe so right after yeah but our friends asked us if we wanted to do a last minute just spur the moment spontaneous trip and there's supposed to be like seven of us going we're supposed to go with them another couple and then their bull and that was a new dynamic for them they just told announced they were exclusive with this bull they were still trying to decide whether they they were going through that navigating like a poly relationship with a bull and they are talking about being in a deeper relationship with him and being exclusive and they're kind of working through that and yeah so we were we were along for the ride yeah we were it was definitely a different experience he had been a part of their life for two years now yeah and we knew of him and we knew about him but we never had met him every time we went to go meet him something would happen and our schedules were always on opposites and we just miss him every single time so we just now met him the first time we went and we were spending friday through sunday yeah with a cabin yeah in blue ridge yeah right outside of blue ridge you guys went up like you drove up with them because i had to work yeah we, we were leaving Friday morning and you had to work.
They wanted to get up there early and get settled and get everything unpacked and stuff, so they were going and they were like, well, we can swing by and just pick you up and you can come with us. So I went ahead up with them. And how was that drive? It was good. We all, we had a good conversation, talked, you know, talked our shit.
Listened some some good music we just jammed she had to work the whole time on her computer so that was kind of a bummer for her yeah she had to work me and the guys we talked and just i mean it was like a four-hour drive yeah there was uh this particular weekend between me and the husband like we had he we had a lot of deep conversations just me and him because he was they love picking our brains they're kind of new they're newish to the lifestyle like they've kind of done their own thing like privately but newish to like being out and about and you know like meeting people and stuff so they're always wanting to pick our brains and we're really close with them so we don't mind at all kind of telling them what we've seen our experience and stuff and they're such good people they are our favorite people they're probably like my best friend yeah yeah uh but through the weekend it was before the weekend i guess it was a fantasy for because he never really had a good experience most of their dynamic is her and bulls so they usually have like a third and it's usually a male and that's usually how it goes they have played but it's not been very successful with females or with couples and stuff or they haven't had the greatest experience with swapping yeah so they really wanted to experience that and so i kind of knew going into i didn't really i don't know i didn't really know going into it i know that we've always wanted to play but we've never had the chance to yeah it's a bit we've had you could cut the sexual tension between everybody when we just hang out like with a freaking but we do very vanilla usually when we're hanging out it's very vanilla it's there's you know there's children usually we have like kids and they have kids and so there's like children it's always a vanilla setting yeah so it's the opportunity really close to each other so it's very like we're legit really good friends not just lifestyle are, like...
They're friends who happen to be in lifestyle, too. Yeah, they're, like, do-life-together friends. Yes. Yeah, we're real-life friends, but we've never had the opportunity to. We've never really spent the weekend with the four of us together. So we've never really had the opportunity to. And, yeah, so it was kind of a fantasy of hers all weekend to get me and him together. Yeah. All weekend. And so. You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too.
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love cooking for people yeah so i was cooking all the meals which i love doing and there was no complaints yeah he went to culinary so that's like his passion so we went back i cooked dinner and we chicken offering and it was so pretty good that's my birthday meal every time i asked for a meal that's usually what i ask for and it's so good but yeah we went to the grocery store ate that and then got ready to go to the fire we hung up by the fire and got in the hot tub and that's when things started shifting yeah things got a little bit spicy yeah now she's like okay how are we gonna make this happen because if anyone is in the lifestyle you know the hardest part is making that first yeah that transition especially when you're friends with somebody for years and you just like are so friendly with them it's been very vanilla friendship for the most part it's like making that first step and me and him are pretty much the same people like we have the same brain somehow yeah you're both anxious super anxious or whatever you want to call it And i'm definitely not gonna i don't make the first move like ever so yeah it's hard it was outside of my comfort zone and so i was like i'm gonna go shower so i ran upstairs well because we were in the hot tub all hanging out yes i was like no matter what i need to shower first before anything yeah get all the chlorine chemicals off so i got shower and i got out of the shower and he walks into the room and shuts the door and you know the rest i mean it pretty much yeah after that i knew like we're because you got out and then we had already like we so i knew it was happening and so me and well he didn't believe that i wanted that i would want to play with them like he is me because he's so much me yeah he didn't believe that he's like she's not into me she doesn't like me she doesn't see me like that and i was like yeah i do obviously i feel like i've been very clear about it i don't know but it's you know yeah i get it that's how i am too but yeah he came into the bedroom and shut the door and then that it was pretty much easy from there on once he started i missed a lot of that because i was in the hot yeah he stayed he was still in the hot like i knew what was going on but like i didn't know the specifics and we play together we're always playing together so that was also like a different yeah well and like i knew what was going on and i was fine but it was i think we missed some communication along the way and not very often do i feel a certain sort of way but this night was different and i did not feel great yeah he was not i was having internal struggles he was not not okay and but it had nothing to do with you playing with him through the weekend we were talking and even the wife said that i was being like i didn't i wasn't being real flirty and this and that and she was making sure i was okay because i'm like no i'm just trying to be respectful of your guys's dynamic yeah they were kind of struggling they were kind of going through all of it yeah and there was they're navigating that whole thing so anyways to all the conversations and then the progress of things happened so quickly and we didn't get to talk right beforehand and i didn't know that it was you and him and then the wife and the bowl in separate rooms in my brain because i was in the hot tub everybody was in the same room and i assumed that the wife and the bull were with him and you guys were just hanging out the whole time there was just a miscommunication no idea but she had ran down and then grabbed him out of the hot tub and took him inside yeah i didn't know that and from my perspective to me it just looked like okay do you got he she got you guys together then they went to join you guys yeah yeah and i was fine with that at first yeah and then as i sat in the hot tub alone looking at the stars because the stars were really bright that night i started thinking about it and just do the conversations and stuff like i didn't have i don't know the bowl was nice and like i didn't have a big but i just was getting there was a lot of red flags with him all weekend yeah there was i was getting bad feelings every once in a while and just kind of like hmm okay he was throwing some red flags out and like i was getting two different stories from then like the couple and the bowl and that was a problem all weekend and it was attention pretty.
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And he conversations i had with this single guy yeah that was exclusive with one of my best friends yeah and he told me that he was a lot basically allowed to play but or they didn't like it and this and that and so i thought like you're all together swapping together and it was a whole thing and i yeah it was just one of those moments yeah it was one of those it wasn't my best moment yeah but we talked it out and then i was a miscommunication i talked then then he came back out he's like are you good i'm like i am now like once he once we talked and i was like no no none of that happened it's and i was playing him like i wasn't ever mad at him if if i was mad at anybody i would be mad at the bull because he was the one that was being wishy-washy and he was the one that said i was he's being i wasn't allowed to play at all yeah he's being very possessive yeah yeah and the whole weekend throughout flags well long story short they're no longer in his life i think yeah i think that weekend kind of it did that exposed a lot of stuff and it was kind of uncomfortable a little bit like online that was a that was a different it was one of the most awkward weekends i've had yeah yeah and then my buddy old pal that next morning we all went to breakfast and had to bring it up at the breakfast table in the middle of ihop yeah and i'm like like why you gotta make it weird like like we talked this out of those people he's just like so anxious that if he doesn't say something and keep talking about it like we thought we talked this out we're good but yeah it was funny you have to make sure he's always kind of weird i love him yeah if anyone if i'm glad it was them of anybody that it could have been it because it could have been bad but i'm glad it was them but uh it was a that was a different it's a different uh experience i've ever had because i've that was the first time i felt that way like i felt feelings every now and but that was the first time i felt like i am not good yeah i've felt that way with like and i i felt like a third wheel before i felt that feeling it's not yeah it's not a good feeling you got to work through that one and that's what like that's the whole time that's what i was trying to do i was trying to work through it myself why am i feeling this way yeah and that's how i when by the time you guys came out i already figured i'm like i just feel left out yeah yeah like i'm not mad that like everybody it happened yeah i just felt that yeah you know i was intentionally pushed out because i was the fifth wheel it was supposed to be you the husband and the bull and the wife and that's why i'm like i should like when i was struggling with i'm like why do i even come up here like i would have been fine if i would have stayed at home because then there wouldn't have been an option yeah well she got excited once he was busy she was finally he has never had a good really good experience and she really was pushing for him to play and have fun and like let's do this and so she was like so turned on and excited that she just ran and got the bowl because she wanted you know to play right then she was she was in rare form that weekend yeah that day she was her best life she was she was so excited to finally have it go down and well and that's one of the few like we have a few times where we hang out with them without kids around yeah and she likes to have fun yeah oh yeah she's one of those yeah goes all you would never expect it seeing like knowing her from the vanilla world she looks so innocent and sweet but so do i so it's those ones you gotta watch for yeah it ends up great and i'm good yeah it turned out okay unfortunately the that bull is and that relationship's kind of done and yeah i mean that weekend i think between us being completely an open and honest with everyone it exposed a lot of things that everybody was...
You're not going to say something to me. He doesn't realize how close we were. Yeah, he thought we were just lifestyle friends. He didn't realize that we're, like... He said some pretty shady stuff, and I, of course, I'm going to go tell her what he's saying because I'm not, you know, I'm not going to keep that from my best friend. Yeah, because we'll be talking, like, well, that's not what he said. Yeah, that's weird.
what you's saying because i'm not you know yeah i'm gonna keep that for my best friend yeah because you will be talking like well that's not what he said yeah that's weird what you're saying is totally not what's lining up yeah there's there was a bunch of red flags there's a lot of uncomfortable and it was for the best i think yeah they're excited and on to the next thing and they're ready to try some new stuff they're still navigating and figuring it out we all do it and feelings happen and jealousy happens and feeling left out happens and it's what you do with it we always say that all the time like this stuff's gonna happen this was our first like in a long time where we felt you know something different and other than excitement yeah other than like yeah let's go you know but it was the first time in a long time where we didn't have to sit down and talk positive emotions yeah yeah it was a it was a weird it was a weird weekend it was it was not weird it was just different it was it was different it wasn't there were definitely weird moments weird moments not so great moments but overall the weekend was a good weekend yeah we had fun always do looking for a fresh way to connect in the lifestyle welcome to the playground a modern space where open-minded adults meet explore and create unforgettable connections built for the lifestyle community the playground is where curiosity meets connection ready to join the fun click the link below and start your adventure with the playground today but then we came home and then it was christmas and then christmas so doing the christmas thing we baked the cookies and did all the movies we've watched every christmas christmas movie ever made yeah our son was all about the christmas movies this year i love it yeah i was excited i think every year before christmas like a month before christmas i want to take away his electronics yeah i think that was part of it his xbox broke so from thanksgiving until christmas it was it was actually on things or the day i was gonna know it was right then it was on thanksgiving it broke because uh our daughter and her boyfriend were he was trying so hard to get him set up and get it fixed it was just old and it needed updated and yeah it just there was no they tried update they tried so hard but he had no electronics from thanksgiving till christmas and of course they're off school pretty much all of that he had his like crow book and his tablet but he didn't have xbox which is his name yeah and we told him that well i don't you know i don't think we can afford one this year yeah i don't know oh that's a big one that's hard that's a big one it's pretty close he was he was really upset he was really upset.
We played that one off good until Christmas Day, until he opened it. Until he caught one. He, I thought, it was funny to watch because he was trying to be grateful for everything he was getting. He was getting all this stuff. Almost 13. Yeah. That was all he wanted. That was it. That was the only thing on his list.
He was trying to be so grateful and he was getting he's getting all kind all this stuff almost 13 he yeah that was all he wanted that was it that was the only thing on his list he was trying to be so grateful and he was trying to put a smile on but you could see the internal every time he opened a present he was like defeated and then when we got done we were like okay happy christmas hope you like everything and then we kept all their big stuff and that's the stuff we gave them afterwards but we let them stew on it for a second because we were so excited because they had some really good ones this year Thank you.
they'll be like everything and then we kept all their big stuff and that's the stuff we gave them afterwards but we let them stew on it for a second because we were so excited because they had some really good ones this year and again every everyone was like trying was grateful but then they could see the disappointment behind their ticket items were not like under the tree and so they were like oh okay okay that's i was like go put yourself away yeah go take yourself to your room and they were like all right there's one more and we gave them all their big yeah stuff and he got his xbox back he peered up he was so happy oh yeah he cried he cried it was a good christmas everyone was happy the kids are happy that's all that matters that's really all that matters did i cook prim rib cooked a giant enormous meal like always that's we eat so good i gained at least 20 pounds i know between thanksgiving and christmas but in between christmas and cookies and new year's my like work pants don't fit the same i need to get my stuff together yeah same definitely that's one of my i was on my uh ornament that i wrote for this year i need to get my life together so my manifestations i need to get my life back to health yeah health focus but we'll work on that it's cold right now it's so cold so cold it was this morning when i got off work it was like 65 yeah it was rainy and wet but it wasn't cold it was human it wasn't cold like i had a like a sweatshirt on and all of our georgia or illinois and up pennsylvania and jersey friends they're all getting feet of snow right now but just in between me going to sleep this afternoon and waking up this evening yeah the temperature had dropped 25 degrees so cold like it's nuts how fast it's got cold i'm like nope i don't like it and then after christmas we had our anniversary which is the first year we've not celebrated on our anniversary our anniversary is the biggest holiday in our house We've always celebrated to work yeah he worked this year so but we were going out for new year's which we never do we only this was the first new year's eve we've gone out by ourselves ever ever yeah we've never done anything on new year's usually christmas we were stuck like we hunker down and stay in sweatpants from Christmas until they get back to school.
Yeah, pretty much. Pretty much. So, we don't go anywhere. We don't do anything. But this year, we went to Atlanta to trapeze. It was a good time. We went to New Year's Eve party at Trap. And that was fun. That was good. It was so good. That was a good time. I'm glad we went. Yeah. We went with the... Now, Trap was fun. It was. Trap's always fun. But the food for New Year's Eve, they hyped it up, and it was not great. I'm so disappointed in the food. I am so sad. I understand the theme they were going for. Yeah. It was the Chinese New Year, the Dragon, the Year of the Dragon.
So they were doing all oriental so they had like pho and all sorts of yeah fried rice and beef and broccoli chicken problem was that it the quality of it was like freezer yeah it was totally free something that you could go i could go to the grocery store and throw in the skin it was like one of those skillet meals yeah i was so disappointed because last i mean they had lobster they did have lobster they did it was it was on the buffet and it wasn't that's what like i don't know they i feel like the buffet food was better it was we all yeah for the, for the first time.
And that's never happened. Well, we didn't have any food in Diamond. Well, they had little snacks. They had those hors d'oeuvres and stuff like that. I wish they would have had a menu with steak and seafood. They did have that one thing that ended up being chicken that I was hoping it was duck when I grabbed it. Yeah, I didn't try that one. And they had little cheesecake bites. It was like teriyaki chicken. It was okay. I wish they would have had a menu back there like they normally do.
But we were all going to the buffet and then bringing our plates back to diamond and it was yeah yeah the food was definitely lackluster but we got the best part is we got to spend new years with some of the best friends yeah we have well our pad group yeah finals out of dark has been the best thing we've ever done hands down best group of people we've ever met in a lifestyle well and even like new year's eve day we hung out all day with davy and lord yeah yep we went to lunch at ponce and then we went shopping and did all the things we spent most of the day no we they we woke up and they and they were like do you want to go get queso and margaritas for lunch i was like yes please thank you so we hung out at the hotel and then you're listening to a podcast right now driving working out walking the dog if you're into podcasts chances are you have something to say too with rss.com starting is free and easy.
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I left around noon and went there and had queso and margaritas and quesadillas that was a very good idea yeah i was glad about that but yeah we and i had a really good day we love ponds anyway ponds is so nice to just walk around and most you went shopping went a few stores got a few things and you got a robe a pineapple yes like The best purchase he's ever made in his life. It's so soft and comfortable, and I love it. Big fly.
a few stores got a few things and you got a robe a pineapple yes like the best purchase he's ever made so soft uncomfortable and i love it big fluffy chubby roll robe as soon as we get done with this i'm putting it on and it was only it was like 40 off so it was only like 30 bucks too yeah you can't beat it at all it's big and fluffy and i'm sure you'll be seeing it and him in it many a times because he's in it now this is this is where i live this winter she found it at first and she was like this is your christmas peasant don't look at it and then she he was like i'm not gonna wear that just so you know and i'm like i will she's even said she's gonna go back and get it because she'll wear it it's the best purchase ever so he grabbed it and yeah we went shopping and hung out and then as always it's time to get to the freaking hotel yeah or get to get to the hotel to get back this was the first time in a long time we had we got ready and had time to take pictures and do a couple tiktoks that's true we were and we weren't in a rush like we were ready to go before the uber the thing with them is that they always order an uber at like 7 30 7 45 so it's like we got to be on our on our stuff because they schedule it usually we're just like getting uber whenever we're done and get ready and last time the uber showed up early and we're like well that's not our problem yeah we can wait but yeah we so i know I need to be on it because there's a time limit and i've been on it last few times and you were on like you were you looked so good i was excited about that dress you were looked amazing you looked amazing too the red was on i was i'm glad we did red that was it was sharp it was good everyone was in sequence yeah everybody was sparkly it was all variations of my dress all like greens and reds and blacks it was good but we went with a room for a few and the mother motherfucking ladies which we love so much yeah and there was a couple other people that we met that i don't think we can share their names yeah we can yeah we never asked we didn't ask before yeah so i'm not going to but there's a whole group of us you've seen us together we all took pictures together and did all the things together and yeah we went there and did our normal went back got food and we're disappointed by the food so we went to go dance and had a good time and hung out and did the normal trap thing and yeah it and then rang in the new year on the dance floor surrounded by everyone i wasn't sure because everyone for the most part everyone stays in diamond with this crew they mostly hung out on the couches for the most part made out did all you know hung around did all the things and took pictures which i do love about this group everyone the first thing we do when we get there is everyone go to the back cigar lounge to take pictures it's yeah yeah the photo booth is the manager of trap she calls she like every time we show up she knows where we'll be she's like she calls it the photo studio like here's the photo photo studio everyone taking their pictures that's what it's for it's pretty it's got like you'll be doing uh tours tours for new people this is where you take pictures and she's like this is a circle lounge but while these they're here it's the photo studio so everyone takes pictures and because it's the only private room it's tucked away in the backpack that's big enough to fit a lot of people and you shut the door and nobody's you can't get anybody in the background and it's a safe place to take pictures with everybody and it's also got a cool like vibe and backgrounds cool walls cool the belly you know the whole vibe is cool so we take pictures the first thing we do and get there because they understand it's like herding cats you can't get them anybody all together after you know you wait like 10 minutes it's too late so you've got to immediately as soon as we get there we go back there and take pictures which i love because i'm really bad at taking pictures i'm horrible at it believe it or not and so it's good to just get it done get it over with while we still look good all our clothes are on everybody's ready and then we're done the girls are like all right let's go get pictures before my makeup gets messed up yeah yeah we're all fresh ready to go we just got there it's still early usually when we get there it's like eight o'clock so yeah it's kind of quiet there's no one there yet so we're getting it over with and then then we can don't worry about it we can put our phones in our lockers and keep them there and don't worry about it so but it's good to have memories and i love these pictures that we've been taking and i appreciate it because i've been there so many times and not taking one picture or had a memory of it so yeah it's a good it's fun yeah and then yeah i wasn't sure i wasn't sure if i should have changed into my lingerie or kept my dress on for the new year i was torn i was like i don't know and then everybody else was torn so i i wore my dress the whole way till the new year you did everyone else gave up except me i think i was the only one in a dress but and then i was like are we doing this in the diamond club are we doing this out in the main floor we just we made i think we i was like we're going to the main i think we kind of led the yeah i was like everyone needs to go into one place we need to all be together yeah so we went to the dance floor at the very least like we'll do it with a big because i knew they'd be like confetti everybody'd be dropping and everything would be going on when the dance floor that's where it's gonna go down there we were dancing right before the ball dropped and i started doing my line dancing they started doing my line dances so i was already out there as soon as like it was three minutes till we're like every where's everybody at everybody's everybody starts flocking around and then you're like oh there they are they're like where are the motherfucking leaves everybody's like oh here you are there's the room for a few we're like trying to find all our faces make sure because it was packed i mean there was a lot of people there and i started bawling like a fucking baby yeah you're like i love it here like my heart i don't think you guys understand how much this lifestyle means to me like this is my heart my passion this is everything and every it it just well i think that i'm speechless the first new years we've had where it's been more than just us and the energy was so good everyone was so happy ever looked around and everyone was so excited to be there so happy living their best life and it was the best group of humans ever to celebrate the new year's eve it was so good so good i cried and cried i couldn't stop crying i was we but i love it it wasn't the this year was the first year we didn't go out and celebrate our anniversary because i had to work but we did not did not miss our 15th new year's kiss no no that's even before we like got to atlanta i was like we have the only rule i don't care what's going on where you're at What we're doing, we're stopping and we like got to Atlanta, I was like, we have the only rule.
I don't care what's going on, where you're at, what we're doing. We're stopping and we're going to kiss at midnight. We've never missed a kiss ever. So we're not going to start. Yeah. You said that. And I kind of, I'm like, yeah. I'm like, wait a minute. Like, when are we ever separated? I don't know. Just in case. Just in case it happens.
I mean, i can respect the plating for i don't know just in case i don't care who you're fucking what you're doing like you're stopping it and you're coming and finding me because we have to kiss and that was my only rule for the night other than flirting and kissing and doing stuff after we didn't actually fuck And we left early, pretty early, pretty early for us. Shortly after the new year. Yeah.
you got shoved in the trunk again i didn't even put clothes on i just wore my laundry i put my i didn't have a jacket i had a petticoat so yeah you did have your i didn't even bother i was like come on let's go do this now we were ready everyone was ready we were so ready we're counting down the days from the last time we saw these people it was funny we got back to the hotel and we got in the motherfucking lee's room and then we started thinking about it and we're not a quiet group when we start these things and we thought we had a block more but they had put a family like in between rooms next to them like so we were like all right who's got a line of rooms in this group that are all lifestyle?
And we were right in the middle of everything. We were right in the middle. So we hosted this time, which we don't do very often. We got two clean beds. But the hotel we stayed at this time, the rooms were so tiny. Yeah. Teeny, teeny, tiny, like dorm room style. At one time, we had 20 people in our room. Yeah, at least. It was a lot. That was i didn't even count the room for a few husband yeah he's like i just counted 20. yeah i need to start counting because people always i'm like yeah because it was it was packed it's always 20.
20 seems to be like the magic number for us anymore it's like 10 couples like it's nothing that's our normal we only do like 20. it's fine it's just a small group of 20.
but there's some new group new people in there yeah some really hot people in there yeah we found some quite a few hot friends lately that we've been hanging around and i'm pretty sad i don't know it was funny because everybody like so we switched to our room we put the wet blankets down on the beds which didn't last very long they got pushed off with all the commotion but what's funny to me is everybody's just kind of staying around talking because no one we're all standing around being you know awkward because no one getting started part is the hardest part the wife of the motherfucking lees this is like all right and she just laid down on the bed and she's like i'm ready and so i laid down with her she's like russ understands the assignment come on fuckers and then i was on and then everybody's like yeah and no it was hot and the next morning picked up so many kind of rappers oh my god i've never seen so many condoms in my entire life ever like i've done we've done a lot of these we've had a lot of we love group play group play is like our our thing it's our king we love group play i never have seen this many condoms ever we were just spending we spent like the at least 30 minutes just cleaning up condoms and wrappers and wipes and it was everyone was using all the things thankfully i had a whole bag of all the lubes and things because they were putting it to good use people were having fun we had fun well time i when we were out shopping and stuff with davy and lauren i remembered we stopped i'm like oh crap i need more condoms and so because we had six which is normally yeah that'd be fine fine for me i wasn't even planning on hosting a room but like usually for a night six is that means that means i've been with six different women like i said my husband is not being left out but not anyway and i don't use these condoms but anyways i'm like oh crap i better yeah thankfully you got those and we went through that entire box of condoms i mean and i put them out i'm like oh here we go and i buy the latex free because i don't want anybody there's a lot of people with latex allergies and stuff so so i made sure they were on the nightstand in between the beds and they were gone there was not one condom not one and the condoms that were in our bag we're going our good bag were gone like you bunch of sluts i love it i love it this crew knows how to get down they know how to have fun i got to suck all the penises that's all i need that's all we finally got to meet and hang out with a couple that we started talking to but then they had real life stuff going on for their lives so we really just they weren't radio silent because they had to yeah and which we understand yeah completely and that's what we talked about that i'm like no we get it like we're that couple usually yeah we're usually that's us yeah usually we're the ones that you know kind of accidentally ghost people yeah we don't require much attention we just check in here and there when we when we can but we met the end she was oh i loved her he was cute so he was yeah yeah he was fun he was fun but so we got to play with them finally finally and she likes it they like it rough yeah which we love which we like if you like it rough we usually we're probably going to connect pretty well and then of course we had the motherfucking lees and the room for you and i love all of them so much but i didn't realize this we our unicorn friend that's usually in this group with us she was in our room i didn't she didn't play at all i didn't even realize it at the time i didn't either because i was seeing on like the pad facebook oh yeah i didn't see that i saw that i saw one of the people that was in our group yeah say oh like new year it was like a new year's thing and body count starts body count restarts and people are commenting on it's like well it lasted like an hour hour and a half yeah but the one yeah she said made it she said mother nature made sure that i didn't i didn't restart restart or whatever I saw that and I was like so she was just I remember making out with her but I'm like yeah I assumed she was playing.
It's when you're in that situation you're focused on what you're going and doing and people are just behind you doing other things it's hard to keep track of what everyone's doing and what's going keep it's hard to keep track of you yeah yeah i can't keep track of other people i know like i'm making sure you're good a couple people 20 people there's a lot going on and things happening everywhere and it's it was so much fun we always have a good time but i am so excited for my there, listeners. Are you looking to prioritize your sexual health and wellness? We've got just a thing for you.
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Yeah, it's coming. So he's been planning a surprise birthday party. So that's not so much a surprise anymore. That I know about. All right.
So I i reached out to i made a group text with me and four other husbands of close friends of ours and i said hey i have this airbnb i want to book it for ashley's birthday on you know like the 24th through 26th it's five bedrooms they're all adult beds there's not it's not one of those airbnbs where it's like this room's bunk beds yeah a futon like they're all like real bedrooms yeah and they have it has a hot tub and the house is private and it's a few minutes away from trapeze and it's only a few minutes away from trapeze i'm like how about we which is hard to find you're like are you guys it's everybody down and they're like we're down let's do Ashley and so I got funny stories with this but we I planned it I booked it and I forgot that that Airbnb account is linked to that hot couple in GA email address and as soon as I booked it I saw the email and i'm not an email person i'm not a notification person and i'm like well it's just ruined so i sent you a text i'm like i'm sure you just saw it but yeah we have a group go out of the house for your birthday i didn't see it i don't get any notifications on my phone i turned everything off i don't get any of that yeah i'm like i just sent the face palm emoji i'm like my bad but now i know and i'm so excited where's Thank you.
on my phone and i turned everything off i don't get any of that yeah i'm like i just sent the face palm emoji i'm like my bad but now i know and i'm so excited we're spending friday through sunday with them and it's like you couldn't have handpicked a better like you did perfect with the group of people and everyone gets along everyone's super close yeah i was pretty it was a good group everybody knows each other and i still need to reach out to like other friends saying we're going to be at trapeze yes but so if you want to come trapeze we're celebrating my birthday january 25th we want everybody there all of our friends there yeah so it's gonna be fun but so in this process of the last you know few weeks like where i nailed down the house trying to plan everything with trap and with everything going on i made i started with just the husbands and then i said well since the cat's out of the bag go ahead and add your wives to this group and it was like hurting cats as soon as we got Like the guys were all like straight to the point we're in this and that you gotta as soon as we got you girls in there and this is before i added you just now because i was like i'm going to keep actually out of it so we can still plan as a big group but still keep some sort of surprise and it was like herding cats and it wasn't five minutes into this group text with these other eight people that you start seeing nudes buttholes and penises and boobs and vaginas like which is great he added me to it and my phone glitched so hard yeah trying to get all the pictures i was trying to delegate some volunteers to help me because they live so i don't have to do everything myself and it was like they're being flirty and funny and this and that and i'm like so i need i'm being like the moderator i'm like what kind of cake shops are around you this and that yada like look on my butt whole first though yeah exactly i'm like okay so i sent a text to the group i'm like all right so this got a lot spicier than i was expecting i'm adding ashley just for transparency and i call it the smut group text it was it originally it was just ashley's birthday now it's smut but yeah i'm like i don't expect anything to add ashley to this but yeah i'm like any planning things like i'll just text you directly i've never had a birthday like this before ever but yeah but also I was hesitant doing this because we also have other friends with the same birthday everyone has the same birthday as me and everyone we were invited for the same type of thing to with another group of friends and i had to send her a text message to be like hey this is why i have responded i feel so bad i didn't like i love you both but i also want ashley to feel celebrated i want i want everybody feel celebrated because they everybody deserves to feel celebrated on their birthday but i also feel that if we had the same A&B with you two, I'd...
everybody deserves to feel celebrated on their birthday but I also feel that if we had the same air and be with you two it's I it's hard to balance two people's birthdays yeah you know in the same house we can celebrate everyone at the club yeah and that way it still is you feel celebrated yourself and then we can celebrate together so that was my thought and like i felt and i didn't i was struggling with it for oh yeah i still struggle i'm still struggling with it because all i mean it's not just like her it's a lot of people all share the same that's actually how this group text started with the guys because i was looking for some type of like guidance because i was back and forth back because we love her and they're like you're in a tough spot i'm like but also i'm like there's quite a few i'm like also i want everybody to feel celebrated i don't want to hurt their feelings because i care about them but also you are my priority so i need that's why i ended up like i needed to focus on you it's their i hate say it, but their emotions aren't my, that's their husband's responsibility.
Which, I don't know. I felt a certain way and I'm still struggling with it a little bit. Me too. Because I do feel guilt because I feel like I don't want to steal their thunder.
But I for some reason share a birthday with everyone in the world like even my best friend is a few days before mine and we all have the same and like hers the day after it's or the same day as my share of the same day with multiple people that i know so it's always been a group party it's always been a group birthday i've never had like a birthday weekend so it's like i know that that's why i was trying to get you and we tried to do this i tried to do this a couple years ago at trap yeah and you're still sharing a birthday with another friend with the guy that we know like so is bill and ashley's birthday i just wanted to make ashley's birthday yeah i wasn't expecting it because i just assumed we would all be together all the birthday girls like we always do or and do that but i wasn't expecting this but i'm really excited so it's gonna be good yeah it's gonna be so much fun it's we're all playing everyone meshes we're all planning to bring games and stuff because friday night's going to be chill all right i'm excited about that i'm getting some stuff together it's actually we're just going to be hanging out the house and chill that's what i'm like most excited about it's just like having time to just not have an agenda or time or anything it's going to be fun that's my favorite thing they're just everybody with their thing at the house with is so chill everyone meshes so good together everybody gets together yeah they all yeah it's chemistry i'm so excited for your birthday it's gonna be it's gonna be like my birthday too i'm so excited i just get to play in this one yeah it's gonna be fun i'm excited but then this weekend i will be at trapeze again i have lots of trapeze time he has to work unfortunately i have to work so this is going to be a solo trip for me probably by myself i would love to go to this one because life is everyone's going to be there and a lot of our friends are going to be there cracking beards are going to be there and they haven't seen them in a year and a half or so and we are super super close with them i mean we talk yeah you and her talk all the time and they're expecting a baby boy and so this will be their last hurrah before he gets here and so i'm really excited to see that and i'm so excited for them yeah because they've been trying to oh my gosh she's been trying to have a baby for such a long time yeah so i'm excited excited for them yeah this is like their last hurrah so cannot wait but they're i mean there's so many people there is and friends that we've made along the road and i'm also having really high anxieties about it and there's some people there they haven't seen in a long time as well so yeah navigating that plus it's supposed to snow and we have to drive to lana and he has to go to the snow this year is bullshit that's freaking ridiculous so it hasn't snowed in 20 years well guess what we live here now so sorry you're welcome but that's us that's our fault but also it's not i mean we are gonna be fine we know how to navigate in a dusting of snow but it's everyone else panicking that i'm worried about and atl in Atlanta and driving in Atlanta.
Oh my gosh. I'm so anxious. We're going to close down the state. We're going to close the state down. I don't know. I'm anxious about it. I'm kind of, I mean, luckily it's happening Friday and the club and everything's happening Saturday. So we do have that. That'll be okay. It's going to be in the forties on Saturday. So it should be gone long gone and fine.
But I'm an anxious, of girl so i'm just having anxieties there's some some things i'm i don't know i'm just i don't know i think there's gonna be so many people there that i'm worried that i won't have anyone to hang out with which is so weird i don't know if anyone's gonna want to hang out with me because there are so many other options earlier i'm like that's ridiculous especially without you you're my partner in crime i think that's really what it's about It's because, you know, you won't earlier. I'm like, that's ridiculous. Especially without you. You're my partner in crime.
I think that's really what it's about. It's because, you know, you won't have... I'm going to feel lonely no matter how many people are there. Just because they're not there. It's not the same. But I do think... I want to support Spices. There are... People. Yeah. Ride or Die is like we love them so much. And they're hosting with Panels After Dark and... Yeah. I mean, we've known the Spices for years, like four? That's the beginning. Five years? Something like that? I'll see you next time.
so much in their hosting with panels after dark and yeah i mean we've known the spices for year like four since the beginning five years something like that since we've known them for a long time um swing nation we've known them for that long and we've known and we're really close with panels after dark now and so it's all their night so i'm like i really want to be there to support everybody and it's within like i can do it i have nothing going on i can get there i have it all planned out all worked out it just i get anxious i get anxious sometimes i've been anxious about it all yeah we shall see but do anything other than april um nope that's all well they're they haven't announced yet but they're planning something it looks like for pad yeah pad just put out like a little teaser thing and it's all green shamrock shamrock so i'm assuming it's saint patrick's day which is your birthday which is my birthday weekend it's a russ weekend jokes on them they didn't even know it they didn't know it your birthday weekend now that's happening we just informed them that is that but yeah keep an eye on that on all the socials get on the playground all that's gonna be below get on there yeah that's where all of these friends and people are you'll be at trap 11th and i'll put the your birthday night at trap on there 25th come out both nights come out the 11th come out the 25th come hang out trappies it's gonna be a great group of people let's go celebrate the spice spices this weekend and then let's go spell celebrate you that's why i'm excited about celebrating you on the 25th like i just want to have fun with my friends i just want to hang out with my friends I'm just excited all about and we're doing pink so yeah if you're going to be on the 25th do pink because pink i'm a pink whore pink and rose gold is my i'm making everybody out of your car pink i've already done it yeah i don't think they're too excited they're being good champs about it but pink is my obsession well it's i think a couple girls already bought dresses for trap for that saturday night the 25th and they weren't pink and but then like we weren't planning on going a lot of them were not planning on going on the 11th for a spice yeah night so i'll just wear that dress yeah for the spice night on the 11th and then i'll get a pink dress for your birthday a little pink that's my obsession so i am super excited about that but yeah come the 11th of january and the 25th of january to trapeze atlanta come join us it's going to be such a good time both weekends you can't go wrong with either group of people it's going to be packed out this weekend this weekend is going to be packed packed out so make sure you get there early especially if you want to upgrade but it's going to be insane it's going to be a good time it is it's a good it's a good crew it's going to be fun yeah that's it we're out of time we are way over time but are we yeah we're going to need to i know this is a quick one we had a lot to talk about because we haven't been on here for yeah yeah we need to catch you guys up on our life but next wednesday i am doing a solo episode all about my problems don't put it like that say it like that we're going to talk about having chronic illness and my journey with dealing with hs and being in the lifestyle and all of that you'll Thank you.
like that we're gonna talk about having chronic illness and my journey with dealing with hs and being in the lifestyle and all of that you'll find out what that is and more about it and everything and it's just me so hopefully you like it i don't know we're gonna try we're gonna try some different topics i know a few people actually have it as well and have chronic illness so yeah we've had women come up to you and talk about it so yeah we wanted to share about a little bit about me because it's a huge part of me and explains a little bit about my body and what you might see here you know but hopefully it resonates with people and it's not too bad it was weird trying to record it by myself and not having somebody to bounce off of or get me on track or i don't know a lot of rambling yeah i feel like you're just talking to yourself yeah she's just winging it over here but hopefully you enjoy it a little bit but yeah that's next week and until then i will talk to you next wednesday yeah we'll be here for a while now but as always as always it's not that serious don't make it weird we love you guys bye As always.
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