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You're listening to a podcast right now. Driving, working out, walking the dog. If you're into podcasts, chances are you have something to say too. With RSS.com, starting your own is free and easy. Upload an episode, and we distribute it to Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, and hundreds more. Track your listeners, see where they're from, and start earning from ads like this, even with just 10 listeners a month. If you've been thinking about starting a podcast, this is your sign. Start free at rss.com. This week on Hot Couple Chronicles. You're leaving money on the table.
You're doing it anyways. Might as well make a couple bucks.
Monochrome Monday, Titty Tuesday, Hump Dayursday thirsty thursday um freaky friday friday friend friday all the things yeah as an excuse to take pictures and it makes you feel good and hypes you show off a little bit it is very very important to us that we do not schedule sex we will never no schedule sex if we so happen to make content it is and all in the moment in the moment authentic organic if you like to show your butthole and if you want to have 3 p.m orgies that's great that's fine i get it i 100 get it that discredits our marriage our discredits our all of our stuff our advocacy all of our education all of our podcasting everything is We'll be right back.
It discredits our marriage, our discredits our, all of our stuff, our advocacy, all of our education, all of our podcasting, everything is, means nothing. It means nothing because you have an OnlyFan. Overall, it's a space for people to express themselves. Yeah. And to be open and to explore sexuality. And I just will never and cannot and do not understand why the hate and why everyone has to be ashamed of having one. Welcome to Hot Couple Chronicles, a podcast exploring the singing lifestyle. Our discussions may contain explicit content and adult themes intended for mature audiences.
While we strive to offer valuable insights and entertainment, please be aware that the views expressed are based on personal experiences and opinions. We encourage listeners to approach the content with an open mind and to prioritize communication, consent, and respect in their relationships. Remember, everyone's journey is unique, so take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't. Thank you for joining us on our adventure. I'm Russ. And I'm Ashley.
and this is hot couple chronicles happy wednesday again again every wednesday again every week we say the same thing here we are again it's wednesday that's the one thing we need to work on is how to start this because that's the hardest part getting going once you get going i think it's consistency it's just everything everybody knows what everybody knows what to expect like happy wednesday happy wednesday we're here again thank you for coming back not sure why you do it but we appreciate that you do but yeah this week we are going to talk all about only fans the nitty-gritty our opinions mostly as always that's no fact that's all we got that's all we got and how we feel about only fans it's a hot topic nowadays so i want to kind of talk a little bit more freely on here since i can say what i want to say so yeah and then last week we talked about jealousy yes hopefully hopefully help somebody hopefully open somebody's eyes like hey we need to take a step back yeah because sometimes it's needed and sometimes you need to just take a moment and just i hope it at least gets people talking to each other and we just hope that our podcast just starts conversations we just want I'm going to go to talk yes people to talk because communication is key and that's all that's important here but yeah we're gonna dive more into only fans i know it's a really hot topic a lot of people love it or hate it someone you have an opinion about it everybody's got an opinion about it and my journey with onlyfans started at the very beginning of our lifestyle journey i had never once thought twice about onlyfans i didn't really know anything about it and it honestly wasn't really it was like pornhub you know it was there it was there it was well available only fans really blew up in covid yeah yeah and we got started like right around covid so like it after covid so it's like everyone we walked into the club and there was people that had been in the lifestyle for many years and they were on social media as well and they kind of got started on that path and they were like you have an only fans right yeah i was like no i never once thought about doing only fans ever and it was i was met with every single woman that i talked to was like you need to start an only fans immediately get an only fan yeah you're leaving money on the table yes like you're doing it anyways might as well make a couple bucks you're gonna make so much money and you just open this thing and do it and i immediately was no like i did not want anything to do with it i was not even a picture taker yet like i never even put pictures of myself or anything and i wasn't feeling greatest about my body at that point in time and i was feeling kind of insecure and no i hated it i hated the idea of it i was like i support you i love that you have that that's great but it's not for me and so i went for a really long time just not having one yeah and i was fine with that and then i as we joined the lifestyle we realized that everyone is sending nudes to each other or at least yeah kind of nudish pictures all the time 24 7 like that's just what we do in the lifestyle everyone just we're always sharing fun pictures always sending them around sending them back and forth and stuff and that's we all love obviously love sex and we love doing that so i mean let's be honest monochrome monday titty tuesday hump day thirsty thursday thirsty thursday freaky friday friend friday all the things yeah there's an excuse they actually we actually do that here yeah as an excuse to take pictures and it makes you feel good and hypes you show off a little bit and then everybody hypes you up and i like showing off him and posting him and stuff like it's i don't know we're all we all get off on that stuff and then the more that i started hanging out and swing swingers at that time everyone had an only fence and i kept hearing it over and over and over yeah everyone needed to have one and we got you know tied up with the swinger society and we joined swinger society and that was everyone was a content creator yeah everyone had one you had one that's just part of doing it that's just what we all did and so i'm like screw it we'll sign up post a couple because we were posting yeah some thirsty things i was not definitely not very comfortable doing it yet but i you know black and white pictures i would post on there once in a while and stuff but for the most part it was in case we ever did content yeah like in group settings and they put a camera up they needed us to have one to be in it because we had to be a verified creator and that was even just like videos where we would just flash the camera or yeah our butts out or yeah whatever we always were part of a lot of picture taking and it was all this content so we got sucked up into content that way and the more time went on the more i saw like everyone have one and what everyone's had in there i realized it was it was an opportunity to make a little bit of money for these trips get my done, or it would pay to get a new lingerie set on Amazon or Sheen or whatever.
And that's pretty much where it's at forever. I've gotten it, I mean, I've had it four years now, my main one. I have two now, but my first one, about four years now. And I wasn't consistent. I'd post here and there. It wasn a thing until it like took off a little bit it did and then it was starting to pay for our trips because i know people people don't understand this but we don't get discounts we don't get no trips we don't get hotels for free it costs us just as much as it costs everybody else i am we're paying full price these things that we were going to, and, you know, it adds up.
This lifestyle, it's one thing people don't talk about enough. It is an expensive world, and it can cost you a lot of money.
Although, I prefer it to be that way just for the fact that we can give you our honest opinion and not feel obligated to fluff it up at all because we paid just like everybody yeah when we tell you we love naughty or all these things it's because we do genuinely love these events and we've paid full price every single time we've ever been and we 100 are just going to it just like you guys so it was a way to travel around and travel the country we were i mean we were driving a ton in the first year and it was paying like i said for my nails or you know it paid to get we were getting pedicures and stuff randomly and like stuff that we wanted to treat ourself and i really do think only fans helped me a lot on my self-confidence journey and taking pictures and seeing myself from different angles and learning my body and everything like that.
My lip ends is, and always has been, super, super modest. My content is that tease aspect. My followers enjoy that it's the could have, maybe should have, maybe might. And that's not for everybody. I have had people say it here and there, that's all you are is a tease, blah.
that's exactly what i am that's the whole point and i am yeah i'm very modest it's really honestly turned into a journal of pictures of me if you go on my only fans it is really just when i'm feeling myself and i have a new set of lingerie or i'm feeling myself in the lighting or something it is me just like selfies yeah or video little clips or videos and i do have you know like five pieces of content that i have with other people in them and then a handful of me and him yeah other than that we're horrible content creators other than that and every single piece of content that we have on our page i'm very proud of is it's all authentic i have never once collabed or scheduled sex with Thank you.
Every single piece of content that we have on our page, I'm very proud of, is it's all authentic. I have never once collabed or scheduled sex with anyone. I've never once, we've never once done it because we had to. Yeah. We're not the schedule. We will never schedule sex. Yeah. People don't like that about us.
We have definitely lost a lot of opportunity and we've definitely lost out on a ton of money but we it is very very important to us that we do not schedule sex we will never no schedule sex if we so happen to make content it is and all in the moment in the moment authentic organic it's literally you guys want to film or if not we're good and then if everybody's like yeah let's know a camera up. Then it's usually kind of a, uh, you know, I don't know.
authentic organic it's literally you guys want to film or if not we're good and then if everybody's like yeah let's do a camera up then it's usually kind of a we'll put a ring light up and it's like a point of view i mean it's fine if that's what you do and that's great and you know as long as it makes you happy and stuff but us personally you'll never see us collabing with people unless it's authentic and in the moment and it's a last second thing because we're not going to plan it ahead of time for sure but you know we take pictures we had a couple people come up to us and want us to schedule content secrets last time yeah like by big creators yeah and we're like we'll think about it we're on vacation that's thing is we don't mix swinging.
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orgies, that's great. That's fine. I get it. I 100% get it, but this narrative that you can't be a swinger and have OnlyFans, and it blows my mind, and I've heard that so many times over the last five years. Yeah, you're not a real swinger. It discredits all of my work that I've ever done advocating. It discredits my entire social media pages, all of them, all of the work I put into them from the moment I wake up to the moment I pass out finally. All gone if I have an OnlyFans page.
Yeah, there's just some type of perception of us because we're on social media and we have this podcast that we're trying to make money from the lifestyle.
Yeah, that's where it Tom's problem is because we're exploiting the lifestyle and we're in it for financial gain like wait a minute i'm like if we're in it for financial gain then we're doing this all backwards because i'm in the whole big time i every day of our lives we are told at least once a day that we are using the lifestyle for money using the lifestyle to make money i am making money off of my face let's get that straight first because they ain't 99 of those people are not on there wanting to pay me because i'm in the lifestyle or because i'm also yeah it's mostly because of the way i look and also the kinks and things that i am into and who i am as a person and people i don't i also i charge pretty high price yeah but i also again no no one else is ever going to be able to bring you this content no one else is ever going to be able to take this picture you also know your value as i'm saying and i know that's there's that's something that they're only going to get from me and so i and it's a lot of fucking work that's one huge misconception as well that i learned really early on is oh you just throw pictures on there every once in a while and you're going to make all this money a picture of your foot on there and you're gonna make millions of dollars yeah that's the big one sell pictures of your feet yeah do you know you have to market these pages do you know how much work we put into getting these pages because we're not allowed to share them pretty much anywhere how much work and how many different platforms and how many different avenues and everything you have to work to get people there because you can find it anywhere for free but it's that like extra step getting them to come over put their credit cards in and pay for it that's not as easy as no they try to make you believe it is and it's every my mine anyway i post i have two and i do have a fansly and i post every single day i have never missed one day in four years say you're ever you're the most consistent like poster on only fans that or any of them that i see usually it's like most people or two maybe three times a week you're like every day and that involves days of scheduling and editing and making content and it's a full-time job as well like that and the podcast are the least amount of money making for the work that you do and it is a you deserve that couple dollars that you get yeah you deserve that because you have definitely put your time and effort into that and i i don't like everyone's hating on only fans and you know you're not a real swinger you can't be real swinger if you have one and all of this bullcrap but if you honestly it makes you feel good and makes you feel confident and makes you because it for me it helps my self-esteem and my confidence and i enjoy doing it and i do enjoy the community because i have really a good group of really respectful nice people i have met a really big chunk of my friends on there and well and the communities that i've built like people are paying you for access to for access but you're not you don't get the negativity like you do in social media instagram facebook tiktok because most the trolls aren't going to pay just to talk crap yeah and that's another reason why i charge what i charge because it is like it does weed out all of that yeah nonsense when you charge someone a dollar five dollars they're like yeah yeah it's only five bucks i'm gonna sit there and just for a month talk about their shape and you do like i have run into people there's been a few times in the last four years i have run into people that are just nasty and they will pay whatever price just to talk crap but again you're making but you still win because they paid you looking for a fresh way to connect in the lifestyle welcome to the playground a modern space where open-minded adults meet explore and create unforgettable connections built for the lifestyle community the playground is where curiosity meets connection ready to join the fun click the link below and start your adventure with the playground today i talk to so many girls every week that are always on the fence about getting one and they don't know and i think most of the reason why i don't want to do it is because of the bad stigma behind it and how it has to be the certain way and you have to do certain things spread eagle you have to just always be showing everything and doing all of that and only fans isn't just for porn and for naked people they also have recipes and cooking and cleaning and organizing it can be whatever you want it to be and you can find a niche and a community and build a group of people that enjoy just talking to you and having someone to talk to and i enjoy it and i don't feel like it makes me any less of a swinger because you enjoy being an exhibitionist and showing up i feel like it goes hand in hand with the lifestyle.
If you don't have one, that's a little bit different. And we don't talk about that ever. I'm like, it makes sense if you have one. Because even all the ones that aren't OnlyFans, the first thing we do is take booty pictures. We take boobie pictures. We're always all looking for any reason to just be silly and show off and wear the lingerie. And we enjoy every single group that I've ever been around. I mean, just earlier today, we were sharing a whole bunch of cum shot pictures with all of our friends. On text messages. Like, you're doing it anyway. Yeah, doing it anyway.
And a lot of more people, there's a lot more people out there that would like to join in that you don't even know. And why not allow that to happen if you're comfortable and it makes you feel good. And a lot of like our videos, I like taking videos of us because not to make a dollar, but because it's hot. Yeah.
And that's why it always confused me why people hate OnlyFans so much if you're in the lifestyle because, and it's just been over the last couple of years that people really hating only fans in the beginning everyone had one it was so nonchalant so easy like everyone i think part of it the people that were sexual yeah so i think it started a competition within the lifestyle yeah it became and then as some people became resentful because there's other people that are more successful at it than they were the resentment builds and they got rid of it because it is a lot of work if you want to make any type of money on it that's a ton of work and so people realize the amount of work it actually is and what you get out of it is nowhere near what you put into it if you're and i think that they're automatic they just go negative towards it and then yeah anytime you have money behind something it yeah you always it for some reason it's use up this like it competition it becomes a competition it becomes a popularity contest it becomes who's got the smallest percentage and what's your percentage what's my percentage and that's how I base you as a human.
Are you in the top 4 top 3 top 0.01 0.03 0.04 and if you're not there you're not and we've had relationships with people that as soon as we don't make them a dollar and we don't want to schedule sex at 3 p.m we've seen it firsthand yeah how quick they are to dismiss you and throw you away like trash because you're not making money and unfortunately that's true for some people that's how it just is and i think that kind of didn't help the stigma behind it and didn't help all of that because it became negative and hateful instead of hey we're all exhibitionists here we all love showing off we all are sexual showing off our sexual freedom or just being proud of being sexual people and especially women and it's also that double standard of women as well it's just you can't be sexy for anyone other than your husband i hear it yeah 150 times a day i'm not a real wife i'm not a real not a real marriage we're not in a real marriage we don't what's the point if i'm showing off for anyone else there's something wrong you know all the things and it's just as a woman hard to have a page like that to be a sex worker and to be yeah any in any of this is difficult because of just being a woman and having shame behind being sexual and how dare you putting sexy pictures out there it doesn't ever really understand i did never make sense to me but we do are always fighting on that as well because you know who has an opinion about it it's not me it's not my husband it's other random men oh yeah that are not a part of any of it are most of the time jealous yeah they have an opinion always 100 but yeah it discredits our marriage our discredits our all of ourselves our advocacy all of our education all of our podcasting everything is yeah that means nothing that's what it means nothing because you have an only fan yeah that's the one that gets me is you're not we're not real swingers because we have only fans all the time like it's like wait a minute yeah we've never met you first of all second of all i feel like it makes perfect sense that you have life here in the lifestyle like again we all love showing off we love taking pictures we love being sexy we love getting compliments about being sexy we love watching each other have sex with each other of course you know who's on who i have all up in my only fans liking all my shit and commenting my friends yeah most of my only fans page is just showing off with my friends and we show off and then they show them all and we make a comment and then we flirt here and there and other thing that we hear a lot all the time is that people are scared to have swinging you You're listening to a podcast right now.
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Yeah, they think that we're going to record everything.
There's a belief that we have to have a camera which we haven't filmed content in years first of all with other people other than like sexy pictures and clips here and there again like in the moment or whatever like little snaps and stuff but no like if we had to film every time we had played with well anyone i think part of it too is because we do always have a ring light with us in our room and i think a lot of people get scared of that ring light but everyone has a ring light i know literally everyone because we're taking pictures i mean like good lighting yeah they're cheap on amazon nowadays but but Yeah it's this thought that we are content creators and so that automatically is like a huge turnoff for people because we make content and i'm like again stop putting us into this bubble that we are all content creators all the time i take pictures of myself yeah well you know and it doesn't have anything to do with my swinging lifestyle whatsoever like at all and we never take a picture of anyone without oh no full consent yeah the only time it would happen is in that scenario where they're like you want to make content together right now like sure let's film this this is hot and like that's pretty much usually how we decide to like if we get anything it's that it's like film this shit this shit's hot and somebody starts filming it and then everyone agrees yeah might as well it's hot and we want to share with our people and so we just share it but it's that serious like that's it's not i don't know i just hate being constantly put into this bubble of all the other people and only fans and all their content creators because again just like the lifestyle it can be whatever you want it to be yeah that's you can share as much as you want to you can not share as much as you don't want to you can share all of every time you swing all of the time there's nothing wrong with that but stop talking crap yeah exactly stop putting us in a bubble but we're like in two separate bubbles though if you think like we're in that bubble with some just regular lifestyle people and then we're in a separate bubble where we are known not to make content with people.
Because we don't film the first time we play with anyone. I don't care. And we don't schedule anything. So we're in this separate bubble with other creators saying, oh, they don't make content. We're not saying anything this is right. We're in this weird limbo. Our journey with OnlyFans has been up and down and all around it.
I'm not saying i know the answer is it is a constant struggle yeah balancing and stuff but we are very private people i know it's crazy because they're content creators and you're seeing a lot of our things here and there but we are honestly very private people and we in our swinging land and the things that we do in swinging we are very much like take the pictures and put the phone away for the rest of the night people yeah and so again we're the worst content creators we are also the worst content creators you'll ever meet like spicy content creators as well because we just never bring the phone back out so most of the time if we do get anything someone else filming us yeah usually if they catch us with a phone out or a camera out it's at the very beginning yeah so we can take pictures real quick and then we put it away and then we go have fun yeah and we are just really bad at it we're not good at it we don't do very well at it we miss out on a lot of money and a lot of opportunities so the fact that everyone always discredits us and say that we're only in it for the money and we only do it because of the money is insane yeah and crazy and i just wanted to get on here and let you know that's how i feel about that because i can and i can finally speak my piece about it and i'm so tired of just getting discredited and pushed off because oh but you have an only fan so you can't have an opinion on anything and everything that you do and all of your content is nothing because it ultimately funnels you to only fans when man that would be nice if that was the case yeah you have to go out of your way to go into that site yeah and everything is restricted it as soon as you the link on it it's yeah lately shut down i can't like i can't do anything from so most social media pages won't allow it to be anywhere at all but yeah it's been a ride it really has it's been a crazy ride trying to navigate how to share our life and our private space and stuff but also not share too much and for being content yeah and for being out there and doing all of this and having a podcast and all that we really honestly are pretty private people we keep a lot of our personal life and we get a comment all the time about do you guys only play with the same people because i do see on only fans if you do go my only fans the collabs i do have are with.
Not all the time, but, you know, you see the same faces and stuff in a lot of the orgies and a lot of the groups and stuff. And most of that is because, for one, I'm comfortable with those people if they're with me on film. I'm usually pretty comfortable with those people. And I trust them.
But, yeah, most of the stuff that you don't see, it's because they're discreet or we don't film it it and so just because you're not seeing it on film or seeing it on family fans or seeing it on you know instagram or twitter or whatever doesn't mean that we're not with other people that's like crazy yeah hey there listeners are you looking to prioritize your sexual health and wellness we've got just a thing for you shameless care offers at testing kits, telehealth consultations, and even treatment for ED and performance anxiety for when you want to play but your body says otherwise.
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And when people people do the first thing that comes to their brain is oh there's just other guys on there i'm like maybe there are a few and you have to be comfortable with yeah you can't pick and choose your subscribers no like why would it bother me like people like paint it as a negative and that's what it annoys me a lot of people are there just to admire you and they like something about you it's a compliment yeah bad thing yeah but he posts once every six months yeah i don't post there you are i had the guys have them just because they're tagged because their arms are in it or their foot is in it yeah we have like i have to have one for anything that i'm in to be tagged even if they're not in content and don't do content like like if you see a finger of someone else they know it's not your finger they pull that stuff so fast yeah on a tag like they're really good about it and they're on it no i post on it every once in a while just keeping it active keeping it active but i've made a couple dollars on it pay for petty here there but yeah i mean it's it is a lot of work i will like i don't like i don't give you as much credit as you deserve because it is a lot of work and i have it easy because most of the pictures that i have of me you already taken edited you taken edited but and you you get a little aggravated with me like what do i capture with you're like i don't know i don't know the hardest part about the whole thing And I'll see you next time.
but and you you get a little aggravated with me like what do i capture with you're like i don't know i don't know the hardest part about the whole thing isn't about pictures isn't about nothing it is the captioning and the hashtagging on fancy that's the hardest part and categorizing what you think it should be like the tags i'm like yeah it's it's that's the hardest part for me anyway but i mean overall it's a space for people to express themselves yeah and to be open and to explore sexuality and i just will never and cannot and do not understand why the hate and why everyone has to be ashamed of having one and why it's a negative in the lifestyle.
Just in general. In general. Period. Not just the lifestyle. But I have definitely seen an uptick in hate as soon as they see that on your link tree or your links at all. They're like, well, you're here for money. You're an OF girl.
You're a professional 304 is what I get called on the daily and i first of all professional thank you that's a compliment second of all i don't understand why it doesn't go hand in hand i don't understand why more people don't understand that i think that really makes perfect sense that you have an only fan and you're in the last time but it goes back to pressing yourself it goes back to just people thinking we're trying to exploit yeah the lifestyle to make a couple but unfortunately we've and i'm not gonna say there are people that are like that i see where it comes from i see like i get what they're saying but i think anybody that knows has been around and seen our content enough knows that that's not the case with us no no i think they understand that we're like our real like authentic people have been around for a while like they know what you see is what you get with us yeah it's a good thing and a bad thing i think sometimes i think it's a bad thing because we tend to have no filter and that's why maybe the podcast was probably not the best idea ever especially people on social media because we are just who we are and we don't have there is no mask there is no agenda it's just what we feel and what we think and that's why we say this is not professional advice because we are the farthest things from professional you could possibly find I'll see you next time.
what we feel and what we think and that's why we say this is not professional advice because we are the farthest things from professional you could possibly find we just genuinely love what we do and we love the people we've met and we are very excited to share the world that we live in we love it and we're very lucky we know how lucky we are and so this is all just just talking just talking hanging around talking talking just talking around yeah that's why i'm still surprised that anyone would like want to listen to our podcast every week it still blows my mind still confusing to me well my mind you're pretty interesting person uh i feel like not so i'm not it's just confusing to me i'm just i'm very very honored that people want to hear us talk because i don't feel like i know what i'm doing most of the time i feel like we're just swinging it i don't feel like i don't know people think that we're like professional swingers i think so not true so i think that just just being an adult Well, I think that just being an adult.
Well, I know that. So, why would this be any different? I know that. Like, everybody's just here trying to figure it out. Well, that's why I don't understand why they all understand that. If we, if our experiences. We're all just here winging it. If our experiences, because let's be honest, like, we did take a crash course in swinging and OnlyFans.
and like we went through a crash course in swinging and only fans and like we went through the whole journey really fast like we learned a lot of lessons now we're slowing down back we learned a lot of lessons and why wouldn't our experiences if we can help anybody from our experiences learn from our experiences i still don't feel like i'm doing it very well yet and i feel like i can't give more advice to people until i'm doing it well and i feel like i'm not doing it very well yet so i always i think that's why it took so long to do the podcast because it's like i didn't know enough yet yeah i never feel like i knew enough i don't feel like i have all the answers like i'm supposed to and i think again that's everyone everyone's and we just have different experiences than a lot of people so it's those comments like i've been in the lifestyle for 45 years you don't know anything you are lying to everyone those comments every day all the time every day yeah and that sometimes gets to your head where you're like maybe i don't know what the heck i'm talking about why what makes me qualified to be up here i don't think but not once have we said that we're experts i know but and still don't mind people want to take somebody can be in the lifestyle for 40 years and only have a handful of experiences.
You could be in the lifestyle still getting just getting in together in your neighbor's basement for 20 years and never talking or interacting or going to anything or doing anything. That doesn't everybody's journey is a little bit different. I know it just still blows my mind that people want to get on here.
We've just been fortunate enough to meet meet some really good people have a lot of people been to a lot of places that a lot of other people haven't been able to go to and i'm glad the group that we first found in lifestyle were more than happy to take our hand and lead us and introduce us and show us the ropes and stuff because they could have gatekeeped and not speak to us and kept us isolated and it could have been a whole different experience and i'm fully aware that like our experience with all of this stuff and the lifestyle is not the same as a lot of people hey everyone if you ever wondered where we get our outfits accessories and even some of the cool decor that you see in our content look no further we've got all linked in our amazon storefront from stylish fits fun accessories to the decor that sets the vibe.
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hopefully in all this maybe just maybe like help one person out or at least make one person feel a little bit more confident yeah ready and prepared and just one person that's all i'm looking for here that's all i need one person at a time just want to help one person and that's that's all but yeah just because you have only fans doesn't make you have only fans doesn't make you less of a swinger and it's a sensitive subject for me as you can tell I have always just Just because you have OnlyFans doesn't make you less of a swinger. And it's a sensitive subject for me, as you can tell.
I have always just wanted to say how I feel, and this was an opportunity that I finally could. It's not going to be the longest episode that we've ever had, but I kind of wanted to get your opinion and get the conversation started. I think it's bullshit that we get discredited for all of the work we do in the lifestyle and all of the experiences we do and experiences we have and all the stuff we go to. And it still doesn't mean anything because I make a couple of dollars showing pictures of my nipple every once in a while. Every once in a while. I am definitely coming around.
We should have seen mine.
Back mine back in the day i'd be fully dressed full close yeah just me smiling and then when everyone says you're only in it for the money i laugh and i laugh some more because this is i don't know if we're not doing it right apparently not because according to them we should be just rolling and you spend a lot of money in this lifestyle yeah turns out you lose a lot of money being in the lifestyle and every time you know if it makes you feel good about yourself it makes you feel confident if it's a positive thing and it's a place you can build a community and share and i love looking at it and i'm very proud of it and i think it's a good thing if you want one and if you don't want one you don't have to have one and i wish people would have also told me that that it wasn't a requirement because it did feel and i was told that it's pretty much a requirement to be in the last mile at first that was very much yeah it was very what they told me like oh everyone has one you have to have if you want pictures you have to have one you want take pictures with your friends you need an only fans and it was very much like okay i guess i need one everyone else has one and then they would take your hand and try to show you the ropes and i was of course always as always overwhelmed by it all but then i started to enjoy it and it started being a place where i was proud of and then all of a sudden was the shame you had to be shamed you were you were sent to the corner because you had one and it was this like 180 that i didn't understand for a really long time but i do think it does stem from the lifestyle that there is certain people and certain groups and stuff that it is a very much competitive vibe and it is the swinger content creators and then the swingers and then the content creators and it's like this like turf war and they're always competing for number one spot i don't get zero one percent of all of it i don't get it i never will understand it i don't understand why we all can't just like gather all of that together and just do stupid amazing crazy cool things together and collab and make awesome stuff but i mean again i will never understand it i don't understand the way that it has all turned and went but money will do that to you unfortunately money is it's not a good thing nope period but that's what it makes when it's so much sweeter when we find like our group of friends that we do have that they don't care about that side of it like they're just literally here for us yeah and you know a lot of them like taking spicy pictures and they've had some really cool photo shoots and yeah good memories and like we can actually take pictures and videos to remember these moments and stuff that's why i enjoy it now it's like a place where i can put all my my friends and my memories and my girls and a lot of times it's the girls doing girl things together and i love doing it so if you love doing it and it makes you feel good then i 100 recommend you doing it make sure that you are consistent make sure you have to be consistent and I know there's going to be year of you posting and you're going to not want to ever post again after doing it for every day but I'm going to tell you consistency is key you just and that's what social media that's what's only fans that's what all of of the platforms any that you do consistency and i know you're gonna want to give up and i've seen pretty much all of the people i've known in this have given up at some point people get burned out get burned out and you have to balance you have to learn how to balance it all and make sure you feel good about it and what you're putting out there because it is on the internet forever you know once you put it out there it is risky because it can be taken and people can deal with it but there are ways that you can do it without faces and you know kind of concealing that but again you have to market really well and you do have to market yourself and that's the hard part about it all is because you're fighting the world the world hates you and they hate only fans so if you don't mind that and you're a woman so i mean and our men friends too they also have to market real hard and it's yeah like we know a couple really big like male creators and they're really good at marketing themselves they are it's a business you have to sell a product for people to people yeah it's yeah it's a product but it can be fun and it can be exciting and it can be a good thing it doesn't have to be so negative all the time and i wanted to put my little spin on it and why i love only fans and why i shouldn't be shamed for having one.
And here I did. And now I'm done. And that's all the time we have this week. Now that I've ranted and said the same things 15 times. But thanks for listening to me. And it's not facts. It's just an opinion. Just how we feel about it. It's my two cents about OnlyFans.
And I think that it's not a horrible thing always all the time but it can be yeah it can get in the way it really can i see where people get a perception perception but then they're grouping everyone in that and isn't that what the lifestyle is against again anyways yeah and isn't it for sexual freedom and yeah or expressing yourself and being yourself and being authentic and that's why i just never will i never have understood the hate with the only fans i again think a lot of it is just outside people that don't understand that's a big one is a lot of men oh i mean we see a lot of comments on other social media platforms because they don't understand and it's just trolls they get very mad when I show a shoulder, you know, show a knee.
They get really upset. Three or four. They get very upset when they don't understand something and it's it's fun. It's so fun. It's so much fun. But anyway but anyway we have it is now almost patty party time a few more weeks we've got patty party it i'm excited for the patty st patty's day party we'll be at st patty's day party with pineapples after dark in loganville the playground on march 14th on Friday and then Secrets. Secrets in April. Coming up.
I want to see when that's sold out but there might be some rooms that open up just let us know if you want to come and look at our social media because if there is rooms pop up we will be sharing it there but yeah we're super excited about that and then who knows what's coming up next we'll we don't know yet we'll let you know when we'll pop up somewhere that's for sure we are not going very far and then yeah i hope that you have a great week and we appreciate you more than we can even begin to tell you thank you for being here thank you for listening to us ranting and rambling and going on about our opinions and things we finally have a place that we can and we appreciate you even wanting to be here to listen to our opinions so we love you and as always it's not that serious don't make it weird bye
