Lady Ren shares her story of her marriage that went from a vanilla existence to a vibrant dynamic with female empowerment, BDSM, FLR, femdom, and cuckolding. Reflecting on the beauty of a relationship that can bend and grow through the years, this episode is a celebration of self-discovery, mutual fulfillment, and the transformative power of stepping outside comfort zones. Join us for a conversation that s as enlightening as it is provocative, challenging every preconceived notion about what it means to lead with love and desire.If you ve ever wondered about the intricacies of FLR, cuckolding, and femdom, Lady Ren s candid revelations are a treasure trove of insight.LinksLady Ren on Fetlife: Lady_RenKey Barrett s books - https://a.co/d/izEhRknThe Hesitant Mistress book - https://a.co/d/9MXY9frCrystal Welch - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/cwThe QQ Community (free) - https://www.venuscuckoldress.com/offers/FTNWndiv/checkoutCuck My Life Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/cuck-my-life-podcast/id1741285846❤️Venus Connections❤️ - Matchmaking for loving cuckolding relationships and female-led relationships. Learn more at https://www.venusconnections.com/ Give her what she wants 💦 🍆 the Thrum - triple the pleasure, feel the difference 🤤 BUY NOWDestination Links for Venus - https://lnk.bio/VenusPodcast
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So join VenusConnections.com. That's VenusConnections.com. And find the relationship of your dreams. Here's what's coming up on the show. On our 30th wedding anniversary, we went on a cruise and he showed me this book. And it was what a submissive looks like and who they are and what makes up a submissive.
And it him to a T so we decided that on this cruise we were going to change rules I was going to be the mistress and he was we're going to do this the whole cruise and when we got home it was like this is this is us the word dominatrix came up and I'm going I had to google it I didn't know what it was I go you want me to what so there's a lot of guys who are really wanting this your husband got it what's the secret you know it's funny we've always wanted to make the other person happy and I'm not doing it to make him happy, but he waited 30 years to tell me that.
And that just was not sad, but just that he didn't trust or had faith or that that relationship wasn't there that he could tell me that. And that's really hard for a man to tell somebody that's what I need. But it's just talking to him and saying, hey, that was vulnerable. You know, one of the things that we've always talked about is especially with the non-ogamy, is that if either one of us ever feels that they're done, there's no questions asked. We're done.
This is the Venus Cuckolders podcast, a place to learn all things cuckolding for the curious, for the passionate, and for the sexually empowered woman who wants it all. Let's go. Welcome to the show, everyone.
I'm your'm your host Venus thanks for joining me today and I have Lady Ren on the show she's going to be talking about how she is in a FLR that's female-led relationship cuckold relationship BDSM she's even got some femdom in there she She, and listen, get this, get this, started out completely vanilla for many years in her marriage. And she has, well, together with her husband, they've transformed it into this very kinky, very unique type of relationship.
And she explains what it was like to learn from her husband about his kinky desires and what it was like for her to really learn about and embrace her dominant side. She used some really helpful resources. And now she says she's a 24-7 lifestyle dom. And she refers to her cuck husband as her slave. It's really such a cool story and I know you're gonna love it, so stay tuned. I just have a couple of announcements first. I'm gonna be hosting a live chat in the Queen's Quarters community.
That is going to be May 17th at 2 p.m. Pacific time. That's 5 p.m. Eastern time and that's totally free. I'm gonna be talking about a bunch of things, so make sure that you check it out. The link is in the show notes for today's episode. Second announcement. Okay, there is a brand new podcast called Cuck My Life. And I'm so excited about it. It is hosted by I think there's four, four guys for Cucks.
And they're talking about the Cuck perspective and everything like that, which I think is awesome. I believe their podcast is available on all platforms, podcast listening apps, but I have not had a chance to check it out yet. I've heard great things about it. So make sure you check that out. It's called Cuck My Life. All right, that's it for announcements. Let's jump into the show. Here we go. Joining me on the show, I have a special guest.
Her name is Ren, and she is in a FLR, cuckold, femdom, BDSM type of relationship, and she's here to share her story. So welcome to the show. Ren, say hello to all the listeners. Hi, it's good to be here. Okay. Yeah, this is great because it was your husband who sent me an email and he's like, yeah, so my wife would be a great guest for the show. And it turns out that you both are friends with Crystal Welch, who I love and adore. I was like, all right, let's do this.
So how did this all come about? Like, was he like, did he tell you that he emailed me? After the fact, yes, because he knew I would probably say no. But I'm very fortunate that I have a partner, husband, cuckold, submissive, slave, whatever we want to call him today, who pushes my boundaries and has always supported me in learning and growing and evolving. So it was, this is a little out of my comfort zone, but here I am. Well, I'm really happy that you're sharing your story.
It sounds like you have a very unique kind of relationship that you guys have built together that's really your own and has different kinds of dynamics kind of built in. So we're going to explore that. And I love that you're sharing your story. It's hilarious that your husband emailed me and you didn't know. This happens often actually. Okay.
So you guys have been, from what I know, you've been married a long time and you were kind of like vanilla for a long time yes yeah so how did you go from vanilla to not vanilla you know it's it was funny we were both married very young to each other. We next year will be 40 years. And so yeah, very long time. I got him out of his teens before I married him. And so we, you know, I was brought up, men are the head of the household. They're the final word. They are the protectors.
They are the breadwinners. And about 10 years ago, he took a job overseas. And so I became the power of attorney for anything at home. We had a child in school, high school. And so I started taking over a lot of the household, the bills, the making the decisions, selling cars, selling houses, buying houses, that kind of thing while he was away. And one of the things that kind of bent our marriage was the long distance. he did that for about four years. And I saw him two weeks every four months.
And so it was really tough. It bent, it bent the relationship and he would tell me he loved me, but he, he goes, I want to show you how much that I'm still into you. I'm still obsessed with you. and he shared a book with me. I think it was called The Hesitant Mistress. And I'm looking at this and he goes, we kind of played with things in the bedroom to kind of spice things up. And on our 30th wedding anniversary, we went on a cruise and he showed me this book.
And it was what a submissive looks like and who they are and what makes up a submissive. And it was him to a T. So we decided that on this cruise, we were going to pretend, you know, change rules. I was going to be the mistress and he was, we're going to do this the whole cruise. And when we got home, it was like, this is, this is us. This is us. We need to do this. And so he kind of helped me. The word dominatrix came up and I'm going, I had to Google it.
I didn what it was I go you want me to what you know um but it was reading books it was talking you know I found a great group of ladies that were all female doms and great discussion group and kind of evolved through that and it's just been evolving and changing. That was the one thing that Crystal said is she goes, I love watching you guys because every couple of years you kind of tweak things and evolve. And it's just been a wonderful journey.
So we did the Dom Slave for the longest time or Dom Submissive, and we'd go really deep into that. And I ended up getting my master's degree and he supported me through that and ended up doming himself for about a year because I just had too much on my plate.
and when we came through it he goes I need you back here so we kind of swung towards swinging and that was fun I wasn't I was kind of more worried that he was going to look at me differently oh how so well we had been together 30 years Thank you. to look at me differently. Oh, how so? Well, we had been together 30 years. We hadn't been with anybody else in 30 years. And it was like, are you sure you want me to do this?
How are you going to, you know, and it brought up all that great conversation. And we learned a lot about trust and just talking everything out. And our communication level is skyrocketed since swinging. Everything has been a communication. And every time we evolve, that communication goes even higher. And it's just a neat place to be. Interracial, black and white, the beautiful and sexy relationship dynamic that we love now in a lifestyle clothing brand you can wear with pride.
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And then kind of like, how does that work? Well, like I said, when he was overseas, I was always handling all this stuff. And it was funny when we started out very slowly, he said would like this and then I would do that and I would see how it evolved how much more dominant I became and how much more submissive he became and it was just that transformation um but a lot of it finally he was helping me kind of evolve to that. And then finally he goes, when you're ready, tell me and I'll back off.
And I said, I've got this. And it was a lot of talking, a lot of communication. It's a lot of work. It's a lot of feedback both ways. And it's been an evolution. We do everything weird. Ask Crystal next time. We, we don't fit any pegs. We've always, our life has always been different. He will support me and however, and he wanted this and I saw how much he wanted it. And I started to realize that even though he was in charge, I was putting doubt in his mind when I needed something my way. Okay.
Okay.
And I'm looking back at conversations that we had when he wanted to buy this or that or the other thing I'm going really you need that no yeah are you sure you want to do it that way you know and it was just subtle enough that I think I never realized I'm not a dominant person as you could probably see um but I do it subtly I guess enough and was, I was talking to my boyfriend this morning and he goes, yeah, you look really sweet and kind of innocent on the outside, but underneath there's this evil.
And the more I've done this, the more I've gotten into this, that evil person is coming a little bit more than the nice person's kind of going away so okay so that makes more sense to me in that like this was always maybe within you it just this is just an unlayering uh and allowing that to kind of come through yes i have always been a people pleaser. And this is the neat thing about this is it has made me a little bit more. I was very shy, very, just very quiet.
And he's very overbearing very out type a very loud and very, he takes control and he can talk to anybody. And he gets mad at me now because he goes, I've let her out of the box, you know, put her back in. No, no. But like I said, he's always kind of pushed me a little bit to be a little bit more of who he knows I am outside. So it's made me a lot more outgoing, a lot more decisive. And in our relationship, it's also taken the toll on the positive on him is his stress level is down.
He is more calm. He's more relaxed. He's even keeled. And, um, it's brought his medication down too, which has been amazing. That's great. Yeah. I, I've always kind of just assumed that female led relationships, um, are maybe like more peaceful just because you don't have that kind of tug of war going on that you would normally have when you're trying to make sure there's always equality in the relationship.
I can see it as being like he understands what he needs to do rather than kind of having to guess sometimes what he needs to do and how you're feeling. And I love the fact that in female led relationships, it's kind of like you said you are more decisive and able to, you know, be more outgoing and stuff like that. It's almost like it gives you permission to kind of unfilter what it is that you need to do and say in that kind of relationship.
You can just feel comfortable just doing and saying the things that need to be said and done, right? Yeah, absolutely. He's a leaper. So he leaps and then thinks. So now I kind of make him wait and ask me first before he leaps. is a positive right it is a positive um so i have tons i've heard of like from tons and tons of husbands out there who say oh i would really like my wife to be dominant they really the power exchange, but maybe they brought it up and she's just like, hell no.
Or he's like, I know her. There's no way she would ever sign up for that. So there's a lot of guys who are really wanting this. Your husband got it. He really wanted it yeah and he got it what's the secret um you know it's funny we've always wanted to make the other person happy and i'm i'm not doing it to make him happy but he waited 30 years to tell me that and that just was not sad but just that he didn't trust or had faith or I don't know.
And that just was not sad, but just that he didn't trust or had faith or that that relationship wasn't there, that he could tell me that. And that's really hard for a man to tell somebody that's what I need. And it is definitely a need. But it's just talking to him and saying, hey, that was vulnerable. That was hard. And I didn't understand until I read the book what's in their heads to get them there that they want it.
So it was, you know, I trusted that that's he wasn't going to look at me different, that it wasn't weird. It wasn't, it's just why there's how they're wired. It's just how they're wired. And, um, like I said, I'm, it was important to him. And I think that was enough.
so you guys ventured into non-monogamy in the form of swinging and I'm guessing that you decided you did not want him sleeping with other women at some point you were like no absolutely absolutely so yeah it yeah uh-huh that was just kind of one of those things it was like yeah no I get a boyfriend you don't that was just it kind of goes with that dom submissive I get everything I want and he has to suffer so the unfairness of it I love it um so okay so then you decided you wanted this one-sided open relationship that that would fit you guys best.
The cuckold part, you guys decided to venture down that road together. What was that like? Oh, my goodness. That is fairly new. It's about a year and a half into it. It's funny, we've had to figure that part out. His love language is quality time. And I am very respectful of that. So I will check in with him and say, you know, Hey, this is what I would like to do. Where's your head at? Where's your space?
Because he'll look at me and go, look, I get you when you're got a, you know, when you've got a cold, I've got you when you've had a bad day at work. And here's this guy who comes in, breezes in and gives you sex and breezes out. And so I make sure that we're in a good spot. We've had our quality time and the boyfriend, whoever's coming in is sprinkles and our relationship is where it needs to be. If it's not then it it's called off. And the friend, the boyfriends know that we're the priority.
And so it's just a respect. I love that so much. And okay, so you guys are experienced with the kink and BDSM kind of things, right? I'm Dom steps. I know that it within that lifestyle, the word aftercare is a thing. So does that exist within your relationship around like the cuckolding part? Because I've had people asking about this, like, how do you practice aftercare in a cuckolding relationship? because I don't know that the session or scene necessarily has a start or a stop. Right.
practice aftercare in a cuckolding relationship? Because I don't know that the session or scene necessarily has a start or a stop, a beginning or an end, but there has to be some sort of emotional or physical kind of, and you were just alluding to it where you were saying that I make sure that, you know, the, um, my boyfriend is like the sprinkles of the relationship. The main course is, you know, my priority is my husband.
But how do you do that within a cuckolding relationship as far as like taking care of his emotional needs when he may be feeling, I don't know if he feels a cucky angst, but if he does. On occasion, and then I just beat him out of it. Anyway. But we do cuddle afterwards. We talk afterwards. He loves to hear about it. He likes to know everything.
And it's really funny because like I said, the boyfriend that I have right now is pretty steady um he was here this morning and I he came downstairs after we were done and SJ was working on lunch or whatever and they get talking and SJ had asked my boyfriend to take pictures the last time.
then it's like two days later he still hadn't sent them and so i text him and say where are my pictures and he sends them to me and i go no you have to send them to him and and the boyfriend goes no i'll hurt his feelings because they're best friends and it's just weird um and i said you better get out of here you're going to be on the show too so we're going to have all three of us here but okay so you've got the flr femdom cuckolding you tried the swinging thing yeah yeah cuckolding um bdsm ish stuff and then but then you refer to your husband as a slave what exactly does that mean does that mean he's like is that just does that equate ownership or i don't understand that word it's such a fine line a submissive is somebody who basically it's the opposite of a dom dom uh dominatrix submissive um you can have like the bedroom games you'll be the submissive this time you'll be the dom this time and and then we're done at the end of what you were saying, a scene.
SJ and I are in a 24-7. So it's every minute of every day. So this is a little bit more intense in the sense of I am always in charge. He does whatever I need him to do, whether it's suffer for me or I come home from a day and I want to beat his butt or I want to tease him or deny him or whatever. He does what I ask him to do with no safe words. It's not a scene. It's a lifestyle. So I'm what they call a lifestyle dom. Okay, Because I've heard that term before and I don't really understand.
I don't know what it was. Yeah. So slave is more of a, this is who I am. I'm not playing a submissive.
Every role is even cuckolding has its own nuances for whoever's doing it um i think it's the same way with dom submissive so dom slave i think is just more commitment so instead of the word bull you use the word boyfriend does that mean that you are more polyamorous with this one yes um I have not had that experience yet with a bull I am more dominant so I don't want anybody dominating me in the back in the bedroom but we are definitely polyamorous.
And I think it's great that your boyfriend is best friends with your husband as well. So they have a great relationship. You guys hang out. That's so cool. But you still, I'm assuming, as you said before, make sure that your husband is always the priority, right? And that the boyfriend is just like, you know, the icing on the cake kind of thing. Yeah, we have a dynamic and that is the most important. It's the relationship and the dynamic of the dom slave or dom sub and the cuckold.
And we always, that is our checking point. Is this having a positive effect on that relationship, that dynamic, or is it having a negative effect? And then we work out that relationship with that in mind. So we're not like antagonizing each other saying you did X. It is, does that help this? Does it hurt this? Oh, I think that's a great framework to work with.
And I hope that some of the couples who are listening to this show take notes on that because not to say it would work for everybody, but that's a great way to look at it. If you're looking at really kind of wanting to preserve your relationship first and foremost. That we, we did that with our marriage beforehand. And then we basically said, we, we've kind of, we don't fight me more. It's really weird. Especially since I'm always right.
But we also picked up some front, you know, somebody else that we've looked at and read, and that's Key Barrett. And we've picked up and really taken into a lot of account one of his books and started our weekly meetings. And we do the command and what they call command and oh, goodness, their meetings. And we basically do we are planning for the week. We go through any questions that we might have going on, any feedback. And then we basically love that.
And it's become a part of our relationship probably for the last six months. And it clarifies so much. And that safe space within those meetings are just great ways of communicating and talking about the relationship, the dynamic and the communication out of it. It makes things a lot clearer. Yeah. He's key bear. It's amazing. I love his books. I adore his books. And his book on FLR, Submit, Surrender, and Serve Her, was eye-opening to me.
I was just like, everything about this is making so much sense to me. And it's funny. Every time we read a book, we kind of go, oh, we'll take that and we'll take that and we'll take this. And then we evolve again. And his book was amazing. It really opened our eyes even more. And I think we're the FLR has been going on for now, gosh, next year will be 10 years.
And every time our communication gets better, his books have just been fantastic for keeping things in perspective and really making sure that I think every time we sit there and look at it and go, if we pretend nothing is going to go wrong, oh, we're perfect. We're fine. We have to be diligent about what we're doing and really be thoughtful about how we're doing it and how it's going to affect everything. Our relationship, our talking.
I think we talked for a good six months before we even started swinging. You know, are you sure it's going to be okay? Are you sure? Where are you feeling? I'm going, I'm not ready for that. But you know, it's just that, that constant dialogue of communication of getting that going. You've got to know them better than you know yourself. And I think, you know, if this happens, we need to debrief afterwards the first time and talk and communicate.
And, you know, one of the things that we've always talked about is, especially with the non-monogamy, is that if either one of us ever feels that they're done, there's no questions asked. We're done. Oh, really? If one of us says, I'm not comfortable anymore with this, we both have the respect for the other person to say, okay, we're done. No questions asked. Wow. Yeah. Just because we don't want to ruin that, that core that we have. At what point does this all become a bit complicated?
Like you're talking about, you know, poly and non-monogamy, all these different dynamics. Oh, it's complicated. It's yeah. And then of course you've got life in there too. Um, we both have full-time jobs. Um, I've got an older parent, um, you know, life happens and, you know, you've got gym, you've got friends, you've got events you can go to, and I've got dom events that I go to and I, we go to swinging events and we go, yeah. So trying to fit that all in.
And you know, one of the things I was talking to him, I go SJ is we just moved and we just got settled in and we went away last weekend and had a great weekend, but we came back Sunday and we had to work on Monday through the week. It was crazy week this week. And he's going, Oh, there's an event down here. Let's go here this weekend. And I'm going, no, we're done. And he looked at me and I go, we've been running since January.
No, it's either we don't do anything this weekend or we're both going to crash and we're going to get sick. And so he kind of sat back and goes, yeah, you're right. So I think it's moderation and just kind of prioritizing and just looking at and going, no, it's this weekend is us. And whatever that looks like, it can be a lot of different things.
So what does it look Like, is there, because you said you're in a 24 7 lifestyle dom kind of relationship so well i do have a dungeon um a little one um so it could be putting him up on the frame i do a little bit of hypnosis so there's a little bit of mind games there's a lot of just good old fun uh it's it can be a lot it could be training it could be him giving you know it's like hey i'm really tired my shoulders hurt i want a massage and he gives me a massage and of course with after a massage you have to have a bubble bath and then you know it just leads on to something and something else.
And, you know, dang, I need one of these guys in my life. Fuck. Oh yeah. I was at a, that last weekend was a dominance group that I belong to and we were kidding. And I said, yeah, I need a garden slave. I need a kitchen slave. I, you know, I want to, I want to cook slave. You know, I just want a whole bunch of them or they'll do my little, my little minions for me. It sounds like a nice life. I'm not going to lie. It was a lovely life. I love my life right now.
And you know, both of us looked at each other and said, you know, at some point we're not going to be able to do this. And we're kind of going down, you know, the other side of whatever age I am. And I want to live it to the fullest. I want to just explore. I was told that those things are not good. You're, you're supposed to be the good girl. You're supposed to be this, you're supposed to be that.
I'm that I'm going hell with that I'm having fun so I want to keep it up as long as I can um okay so we're running out of time but I wanted to ask you one last thing um now I mentioned before that there's so many husbands who are like oh I you know I really want to tell my wife that I want her to do this and be dominant. And, you know, I want to be her submissive and all that sort of stuff, or they brought it up and it didn't go well.
What kind of advice would you give for any ladies who are listening to this, who their husband has brought it up, or they have heard about it and want to learn about it? What would you say to them about these kind of power dynamics in a relationship? I'm one of these people, and a good analogy is, you know how people just dive into the pool? I'm one of these that puts a toe in, and then I put the foot in, and it takes me 20 or 30 minutes to get into the water. I don't care how warm the water is.
It always does. Don't nag, but get some books on it. The first book I was given was The Hesitant Mistress. And it talked more about from the woman's point of view, what they, what a submissive is and why they need what they need. Usually a submissive is somebody who's type A and is good at their job and they're going 24 seven and they don't want to come home and make all the decisions. And if that is that person, that book would be great for the woman to read and look at. Let it sink in.
Give them the book. Would you please just read this? You don't have to ask me anything. I won't bug you about it. Can we talk about it in a month? Let it sink in. If they have the communication and the relationship, I want to do this because I love you. I mean, that's how he came up and said, Hey, I love you. I want you to be everything in my life. And that's what a dominant is, is they do, it's as much work for her as it is for him to submit. It's even harder for them to submit.
But it can take a weird turn if it is a barter system. You do X, I'll do Y. And I've seen those kinds of relationships happen. and, you know, it's like, if I want to hand massage, it's like, come here, I want to hand massage. And he does it because he loves me. And that's what our relationship is.
But I would say, keep the communication open, keep talking, you know, tell her why you want this, how you want that, not how you want this, but why you want this and let her ask questions, send her to some places that she can talk to other people that are now into it and help her kind of find out why. Cause at first it's kind of weird. Oh, for sure. Yeah. Especially because it's coming out of the blue.
Um, it was for, uh, you know, he, we were doing bedroom games, but it kind of morphed and I was like, okay, I'm willing to listen, willing to try. And then it became fun. i guess that's all it really takes in the beginning is just a willingness to think about it, consider it and learn. And I, and it's a lot of debrief. I mean, it's a lot of, um, deprogramming. Yes. Yeah. A lot of, a lot of deprogramming and just knowing that just because not everybody does it doesn't mean it's wrong. Yeah.
I love that. Okay. We have run out of time. Where can people learn more about you or perhaps contact you? I am on FetLife. I am lady underscore Ren, R-E-N, and on FetLife. One of the things I forgot to say is we've been kind of contemplating doing a class on Key Barrett's last book. Oh, yeah. And bringing out and setting up a class for people to do with the Surrender, Submit and that book. And we love it.
And I think it would be a big help for people just to learn how to communicate a little bit better. Yeah, we should have a Lady Wren's book club and have a little check-ins and stuff. That'd be awesome. Wouldn't that be fun? Yeah, definitely, definitely. I think I've said it before many, many times that women are the key to cuckolding when it comes to really having other women be willing to learn and be curious about and try and, or at least consider this kind of relationship.
And it's women supporting other women, women educating other women. Um, and that being the key factor, um, to having success with that. So having, if you have a class, oh my God, that would be so, so great. So we'll have to definitely have to stay tuned for that. And yeah, if you set that up, please let me know. I'll share the link to everyone. All right, we are out of time. It has been fascinating to get to know you. It's been so great.
And I really appreciate you coming on the show thank you so much thank you thanks for joining me today make sure you go to venuscuckoldress.com that's where you can book a private chat with me you can check out any cuckolding events that might be happening and you can even ask a question for the show as well as of course join the, join the Queen's Quarters Fan Club and get all the benefits for that. You can also follow me on Instagram, the Venus Cuckoldris Podcast. I haven't been banned there.
Well, I have, but not recently. You can also follow me on Twitter or whatever the fuck you want to call it. My handle is at CuckoldrisV. That's it for today. We'll see you next time have you heard of afterglow you guys this is so amazing you've you've probably heard me talk about cuck porn before and how much i'm not really a big fan and why because it's not really made for women right but aftergl is different. Afterglow is ethical porn made by women for women.
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