#12-Meet Arnold Layne - a now THRIVING middle aged, overweight single man who’s life changed overnight after he went to Oasis Aqualounge sex club for the first time!
In one decision to leave his comfort zone and take a chance on a new experience, Arnold Layne changed his life forever. And this all happened 18 days ago! (As of recording date) Arnold's story is one of transformation. He is a single, middle-aged, overweight man who didn't think there was a "place" for him in the sex positive lifestyle. After some convincing from yours truly he took a chance on Feb 1, 2023 and went to Oasis. What happened next was SO significant that a week later I asked him to sit down for this interview. His story will undoubtedly be relatable to many, and hopefully inspirational as well. Watch a promo clip with Arnold blurred on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ACY5NoZy-jo ***** Get your free Swinger Lifestyle Starter Kit - learn what to expect, common mistakes to avoid, and how to walk into a sex-positive space without feeling out of place: 👉https://torontounicorn.kit.com/starterkitpodcast Ready to go deeper? Check out my full courses at LevelUpWithTorontoUnicorn.com ***** ALL social media links (YouTube, podcasts, fan page, etc): https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicorn DIRECT link to my explicit TorontoUnicorn fan page: https://OnlyFans.com/TorontoUnicorn -- Sex Stories Podcast! https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/sex-stories-with-torontounicorn/id1695478072 🎙️Did you know I have multiple uncensored podcasts? Links: https://linktr.ee/TorontoUnicornPodcasts Want to hear girl talks and 1:1 interviews with single women who go to sex clubs? Check out my Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/7ruCXHOhDqTegyco4vLA4y?si=4c13eb056ac44a67 -- Want to own something I wear, use, recommend or chuckle at? Check out my Amazon storefront! *affiliate links provide me with a small commission* 🇺🇸 Amazon storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/torontounicorn 🇨🇦 Amazon storefront: https://www.amazon.ca/shop/torontounicorn ***** Please rate this podcast 5 stars and leave a comment to help others discover it too :) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Transcript
Hey everybody, it is Toronto Unicorn here with another episode of Sex and Swinging with Toronto Unicorn. This is an interview with Arnold Lane, that's his lifestyle name. Basically, he was brand new, and I mean brand new into the sex club lifestyle, even just recently, like a few weeks ago. And his life has changed, and I mean overnight.
The fact that so much has happened in the first 18 days of his new journey, I had put this interview together he even contacted me after the interview to say well so much more has happened like everything's going to be outdated so this is one of those stories that you need to hear it to believe it and you need to hear it if you want to believe that even for yourself you're capable of coming out of something that you might feel stuck in even if it's like feeling overweight or feeling not good in your body or not having the best social life or not having a lot of sexual energy, you know, experiences.
Arnold had all of those situations going on. And he basically got encouraged to try out Oasis Aqua Lounge sex club for the first time. He is a longtime subscriber to my fan page and has seen me reporting on the journey, you know, for several months. And he finally took a chance and went to the club one night when he knew I was likely to be there. And the rest is history.
So I want you to enjoy his story and hear one of transformation and hopefully find some nuggets of inspiration for your own life. Now, I am a new podcaster and there is some slight audio issues with this file that I sincerely apologize for. I do promise that your ears will get used to hearing some white noise, and I am aggressively working to solve the audio problems for all future episodes. Enjoy the interview. Hey, everybody.
It's Tarana Unicorn here with a very special guest on this episode of Sex and Swinging with Tarana Unicorn. I have a very special guest today. I'm going to introduce you to Arnold Lane. Would you like to say hello? Hello, everyone. Hello, YouTube and everyone else. So he is a little like shocked to be suddenly being interviewed. So I think it's an interesting dynamic because he didn't necessarily think he had a story and I don't believe he has the story.
So I am here to help the story of transformation and I want to make basically kind of stop time for a second take a flashlight look before look at what happened looked after and I want to tell you the viewer what happened to him over the last only fucking 12 days was it is it sincerely February 1st February 1st it hasn't been yeah whatever what are we what day we 18 days i've been into this world and my life has changed right and this like this interview is like a week after i wanted it right like so your life changed in a week less than a week um these things have me last something happened to me last night and something else new popped up that's so fantastic um okay so we're gonna get started now first of all i'll be very clear i did not know you personally uh before recently but you were a subscriber to my fan page for like six months right yeah yeah and i very very much fucking appreciate that which i think goes in into the story of you know you invested in me back in the day.
And when I had an opportunity, when I met you, I was like, this is a little bit of an opportunity to invest back. And I think I want to see how it helped. Right. So let's talk about that because you're special to me. Go ahead. There was some narcissistic thing on Oasis.
So I kind of knew about Oasis for some time, but I didn't think it was a place for a single guy, an overweight guy, you know, so I didn't think single males were welcome there, anyway, there was some narcissistic thing about Oasis, and somebody put a link to your tour of Oasis Aqua Lounge in the comments, and then that's how i found you and um and then yeah so then i then i'm watching your videos and i'm i was getting turned on by this stuff it was it was pretty hot i'll tell you the truth the real reason i joined your fan page is to see r unblurred she's gonna love that so i i wanted to see what r looked like un blurred and then i just i started getting into the fan page too now i never joined only fans either before that i i've got one other subscription that i do with that but it was it was only you you're the first person i've ever subscribed to which is really interesting because i've actually popped a lot of people's only fan series they tell.
They tell me that. And I'm surprised because, like, I wonder, like, what was it? Because I would never pay for content before. Never. I was like, fuck that shit. Porn's free. Whatever. Fuck y'all. Right? But it was when I realized that just like, you know, Kylie Jenner can have people who want to see more of her personal life.
So can anyone else who has captured the attention of of someone and so if someone wants to see a little bit more of me why not have a place to do that even if i'm not you know necessarily putting shit in my ass for money like i'm not i love women and then the creators who do that but that's not my page my page is you you know it's a lot more of like naked diaries and like you know things like extra pillow talks extra stories a lot of photos i post on there every day multiple times a day you can attest right you're a fan can you actually yeah and i just want to support you because i i do find your youtube content uh worth its weight in gold really um so that's why i supported you a little bit just because because of that it's just you're adding something to the to to my world just my voyeuristic world before i even got into it and you gave me confidence like you were on your youtube you're telling you're being single go to the club, blah.
And, you know, so I was starting to get my courage up, but I still was self-conscious about my weight. I remember. And what's really interesting is the story that we have to share is that we had an interaction and he basically experienced the club and lifestyle recently for the first time. And we're going to tell you about that. But basically, he's been a subscriber to my fan page.
We've probably chatted intermittently, but I't know him uh personally and uh and all of that so he has seen my you know you know naked parts but like that's that's just how it goes you know that's the benefits of subscription yeah so you've already seen me you know anyway yeah yeah so yeah and in the club you wear a bikini bottom i do i'm very conservative about showing off that. Although I saw you change in the change room, but I missed out on the live goods. I still don't have hair, though.
I know you like pubic hair, but I don't have any. I love pubic hair. You don't even grow any. Sorry. It's okay. I still like a vagina without pubic hair. I'm used to it, but I just prefer. Oh, yeah, it's good stuff.
it's interesting i like knowing when when men are interested in a certain thing but it's helpful when it aligns um for me but right now i'm with a guy who her kinkiness aligns in the right way which is cool but that's why these gloves are great is that you will find alignment you oh yeah right i've seen lots of girls with pubic hair who who actually like it when i when i comment and uh and worship it a bit i've i've found that it's kind of hot yeah can i be honest with you we like it when you worship us a lot about specific things that isn't even just anything like it could be about our our voice or our manner or or whatever people also like to have that feeling of somebody who's like i like this about you you know yeah there was a girl that night that that last night on uh the bukkake night valentine's day there was a girl in the pool and uh and i was trying to get her towel off the whole night she she was there was a couple but i was trying to watch her and then she went to a private room and i don't think i don't even know if we're allowed in the private rooms uh as solo guys so i didn't didn't go there to to see but she got invited to a private room and then i and then i then later on in the pool i'm in the pool and i said damn it i uh i missed out and all that and then she took her her thing out to show me and she was was it worth the look and she had pubic hair and i go are you kidding me you got pubes yes that's beautiful anyway yeah she got she let me uh look at it a couple times there it was kind of fun it's lovely i've got to say if i was somebody because i you know everyone rocks different looks and some people might even have been self-conscious of people caring so to get like worship for it would be a lovely feeling yeah i've noticed yeah some of these girls are into it yeah yeah so i want to go back to before february 1st because you said that was the day right yeah that was my first time at oasis okay so before february 1st you were subscribed on my fan page had you ever been to a sex club before no had you ever had kinky springer sex before no had you ever when's the last time you had sex before december okay so not that long ago yeah you said that you were self-conscious about your weight right was that was that was the reason you were hold you were being held back so you were aware of these clubs for the last six months because i'm talking about them so why the fuck were you not at the club six months ago it is because of my weight now i used to do some neuter nudism as well so i've kind of experienced nudism and uh but even that then i stopped going even though i know that people in the in the naturist world they're they're not judgmental as well but i just felt like i've just put on so much weight and i've just i don't know i just in my head i'm just saying to myself i i don't look good and i I shouldn't go, and blah.
So I just didn't, and knowing about this club six months ago, I just didn't feel it was my place. But I was watching your videos. You're the one who started making me feel like I could go. And then I was live chatting with you on YouTube, and that's when you were telling me that there's lots of people my size there. And then when I got there, there was, and nobody's judging, and it was great.
I had my shirt and my underwear on for part of that day, and then I took off my underwear and kept my shirt on. But then that came off. Now I'm walking around naked. I don't care. I love it. I love walking around naked. And do you feel free? Feel free, yeah. Yeah, it's an incredible feeling. It's so funny how fast it happens, too. Because, like, we work so hard for it. And then we're like, bam. And then suddenly it's just like we're all okay.
And it's fascinating because that's why I want to do these videos is because i want to help bottle this magic this sparkle of someone who found the exit to being stuck right in something and i want to second time i went to oasis i wore a shirt and no nothing on the the bottoms or just a towel or whatever and then now i just now it's i'm completely off because i'm going to be jumping in that pool jumping in that that sauna, and the shirt's just in my way now. Exactly, right? And no one cares.
No one gives a single shit. And nobody cares. Nobody cares. Rather than someone else or smaller dicked or bigger dicked.
I mean, some people do because they're size queens, but for the most part, the environment specifically just doesn't judge the way that they did in the high high school gym you know like um yeah so okay so you got pushed so you were watching me on youtube and i remember telling our in advance or i think it was on my my fan page i don't know why anyways i remember saying that i might let it slip that i'm going to be going to the club like so i was live streaming before the hot wife night or something and so i was in my hot wife t-shirt like it was clear it was hot wife theme night like i was going to the club yeah and i remember you were really active in the comments or whatever and then you had said like well you know maybe i should try it and you had never tried a sex club before and you knew i was going to be there and is that the reason that you said okay i'm gonna try definitely definitely yeah yeah because i was chatting with you and r and i was kind of having some fun with the two of you and you guys were telling some stories you know and uh yeah so yeah it was kind of fun to just to listen in on it and and yeah so i was having fun with you guys talking so then i was like okay now i gotta go meet meet them in person to uh to to to go on those conversations because I was typing the conversations you guys were speaking I was typing and I couldn't get everything I wanted to say out uh either so it wasn't just that you knew that I was going but you also had a rapport with me and so you felt a sense of invited in the sense yeah exactly that's the perfect uh perfect words yeah that's good feedback because i recently announced on the valentine's day that i was going in advance and i took it i took a risk with that um and i did meet some viewers but i still to this day don't know if any took a chance because of that video so i like to know when i have impact and when and when people are touched so that's that's nice feedback so yeah so i remember you you know you were like well i'm overweight and i remember like looking in the camera being like so look at me I'm like you know everybody doesn't care we're all in there just have a good time and so in a way I felt that you were getting convinced almost like layer by layer of your shield was coming down yeah I was and then I show up there with R and I said so I think he might come.
he does let me know if you see him right um we didn't know and then sure enough so r saw you first and i don't know how she knew it was you but you know maybe i saw i was going for a tour they're giving us a tour and then i saw her walking by in her towel and and i said r and then she said my name my real what was that like for you? It was fun. It was fun because I kind of, what's weird about this whole thing is I know you. Like, I kind of feel like I know you. Your personality is on YouTube.
You have no idea who I am, but I'm hearing all your stories. I'm seeing your personality.
And, you know, so I feel like I've got this connection with you, even though you don have that with me so it's weird it's good and it's kind of cool and then you know there's a you you did a youtube video right afterwards and uh maybe a couple days later came out but i was there and it was it's different when uh you know i knew what was going on then am i the same person in real life as i am on youtube yeah yeah you shine a little bit more on youtube you do well in front of the camera you got that extra glow in front of that camera are you saying i'm lacking something in person no no no i'm not saying that you're lacking in person i'm just saying you've got this camera this camera likes you the the youtube really likes you so you it's your element is what i'm trying to say that behind that camera your element And it shows You know On film I guess Or on YouTube or whatever Platform I can see it You know what you need You need to start getting a desk A podcast with a desk And special guests Oh what's that guy Has his little podcast and, you know, headphones and people are all chit-chatting on a desk, that kind of thing.
That's what you need, like sports talk, but sex talk. I've actually decided to get the ladies together for some maybe once a month girl talk as a video chat and we'll record it. And it's like, for example, the first topic I want to talk about is what we actually think about anal sex. And we're all going to go one by one and tell our very different. I want to hear that. Right. And then we'll do another topic the next time. So I'm actually going to start doing this soon.
So it's nice that you said that because so we have so many good opportunities to include multiple people's voices from this lifestyle, especially the people who I personally know, um, I've, you know, that I've interacted with, they all have contributed to the puzzle piece, you know, the full picture of this lifestyle. And so they all have something to contribute. So, okay. So you basically get in your car. How long of a drive is it? Um, probably 20 minutes, 25 minutes.
I mean, yeah, but 25 minutes.
all right so it was 25 minutes but it was way too far before before this this day before february yeah now club m4 is very close to where i am and uh and i've checked that out a little bit more just to see who goes in and out and yeah it might be a good fit for you in certain moods right so um okay so then that day comes february comes you show up you run into r you're like holy shit r is here right like i'm here tell us i was getting changed in the uh and then i was getting changed and then you came and said hi to me i was like how'd you know who i was but i guess yeah a tall man who looks new who's a bit overweight and tells you to describe yourself i'm like i'm sure i'm gonna take a chance here i think is this you right um but she told me that she ran into you so i don't know how maybe it's because you recognize her maybe that's how she knows you um so anyways i left the sun and to go and find you because i just thought hey if you just arrived i'll be a greeting person right so i found you and i greeted you and i remember i think i gave you a little bit of advice in the locker room just saying you know you don't have to get naked just do what you want to do yeah and then you said to come to the room they're doing the event thing i don't i can't remember what it was some little bunch of guys what's that yeah it was hot yeah so so he just said come on there and kind of welcomed me there i was i was a bit nervous being with all those people and uh yeah you you're you're yeah it was i was glad you were there for that there's another viewer there from my instagram i think and he was part of the circle of our chat that night i don't i don't remember his name but he um so he was also kind of there saying you know so i was like hey come to the ballroom you know i was including you guys in in the in the gist of what was happening and then in the pool i remember you know we were socializing in a circle so we would kind of just like interact together so i'm sure that it was lovely and for you to feel so you weren't alone right because that's the big feeling yeah because once once that ice is broken.
Then I can do it myself i'm a sociable guy i like chit-chatting with people and so i'm okay but yeah to get me in there and to have me feel a little welcome there and yeah even that night because you left earlier than i did i was chit-chatting with people sitting in that pool uh yeah he's all comfortable within an hour would you say or less or yeah yeah i would i would say an hour maybe hour after that show yeah i was it was uh yeah maybe about an hour yeah it was didn't didn't take long to feel comfortable there and it's funny because you know that night was good we had a good experience but then i ran into you again and we we've kept in contact, of course, because you've chat with me on my OnlyFans.
So you were telling me about, you know, you went to M4. You had all these experiences. Now, we're not going to out your experiences on my podcast. That's private. But for now, I mean, you're new. You don't want to burn any bridges, right? Yeah.
But basically, you have suddenly had a shitload of new experiences new energy in your life new vibrations in your body and i want you to tell the camera about it i i i don't even know how to describe all these new things that are happening to me things that are taboo i can talk about like uh talking about pubic hair to a woman and telling her how beautiful it is and asking a woman, just asking somebody if I can see her vagina. You know, I can't do that in the real world.
It took us some guts at first, but it's perfectly accepted there.
And it's just a relief, you know, and I'm a voyeur and I'm watching some people and some of them I'm thanking afterwards.'m saying, you know, that was pretty hot, thank you and they like that, they like to hear that it's just a total weird different experience and different things are happening to me every different night I go to this event and yeah my primary thing is just to be a voyeur but I'm getting to play with some people i'm not playing as much as i should i'm getting waved in by people but i'm the one who's kind of saying i'm not i just want to watch i just want to stand back and in and watch um might be foolish of me but uh you know i i i'm not the kind of guy just wants to uh jump on everybody uh.
But I enjoyed the conversation. There was one night I was just out in the pool and talking to some people, just some naked people. It was a Wednesday night, and we just had the best conversation. We went from religion to life and different ideologies of existence in the world.
it was a great conversation then we started talking about you know why we're all in there and everybody's kind of the same everybody really wants to wants to feel that freedom of uh of being naked and having that sex uh because everybody likes sex everybody wants sex and so it's just the best conversation i've ever had i go on in that pool so yeah so i'm getting to play a little bit with with some people and even if i'm not i'm okay with it because i'm just so into the voyeurism of of this um but it's affecting my life outside as well i'm getting a little more confidence and um i'm telling women how beautiful they are and there's a waitress at a restaurant and i gotta find out like Thank you.
I'm getting a little more confidence, and I'm telling women how beautiful they are. There's a waitress at a restaurant, and I've got to find out. I said, I've never noticed you before. How long have you been working? She goes, I've been seven years. And I said, I've never noticed you, and you've got the most beautiful blue eyes I've ever seen. And so, anyways, I went there again today, and I found out she worked Sunday. So I'm going to try going again tomorrow.
But I've got to explore this thing. But I've got the confidence to say something like that. And I think she liked it. Actually, I'm positive she liked it. I don't know if she likes me. I'm not sure what happens there, but just that thing.
And there's something else happened to me where's where somebody uh I complimented him or joking around and complimenting him then she's just kind of seductively rubbing my arm I said I think she wants me I think I think I could put her up against the wall right now if I want to um so stuff like that's happening to me it's this this I don't know I don't know how to describe it my my world is changing so tell tell us if you can go back to that day and the decision to walk in when you got to the door at oasis what was it that you said to yourself that helped what was it that could help someone go through it like oh i don't know i was a bit nervous a bit nervous nervous.
I wasn't sure what to expect. My heart was racing a bit. I was worried about, you know, kind of being rejected, being a single guy. You know, and nothing like that happened. I was just welcomed in and told the rules, and then they gave me a tour, and that was it.
But, yeah, I had to drive by it a few times before i actually parked and went in yeah and you felt welcomed by the oasis establishment right now yeah the establishment yeah i felt felt right away they lay down the ground rules and then that was it was just there you are you know i was just kind of worried you're going to some guy so single guy i just just had that fear in my head that they don't want single single guy the creepy single guys in there and there's other clubs who you might get that feeling from right i'm not saying that they're the ones that i've been to but there's clubs that are you know i'm not gonna lie there is some stigma in the lifestyle about being a single man because there's some really aggressive pushing people and i've seen it i've seen it, too.
I've seen how aggressive they are. They don't even ask. They just jump in there. They're just throwing their pecker in somebody's face. Oh, yeah. But yeah. Well, that's Bukkake Night, too. Even on other nights, I've seen it.
I mean, well, maybe not at Oasis, but over at M4, I've seen, you know, on, well okay it is a gang bang on sundays where i'm saying that so maybe maybe it is more acceptable but i can just see these guys are pretty aggressive there but consent right policies are enforced at all of the clubs right so no means no and if someone doesn't know they're like they're it's addressed if it's an issue um but yeah so you started as somebody and i'm gonna just act out on camera because this is just how i feel it but when i could when i read energy as an empath when i met you i don't know you very well but i could read a sense of energy around you right and you were excited but you were like almost as if i could feel you going like this yourself and so now the next time i saw you or the last time i saw you your energy was so different you were just so present you weren't apologetic about the space you were taking up in the fucking place and it was exciting you were you were you felt you looked so at ease in your own body and i want you to talk about that yeah i guess i guess you know i'm a little bit reserved i didn't know what to expect and you know i'm i'm just kind of want to just keep to myself and and be a fly on the wall and watch what's going on the the first time i was there and uh you don't know what to say you don't know what what you can say to people so yeah so i was a little bit reserved and just standoffish a little bit but yeah by the second time I went uh yeah all that all those all my inhibitions just just went out the door I I I'm understanding everything now and uh yeah I'm having I'm having some fun I I don't know how to describe it I'm just having some fun everything's accepted that you know i okay so uh you took me up to the third floor and there was some people having sex up there and i want to watch it but at the same time i feel creepy watching it because that's that's it's it's not okay to watch somebody you know you got to look away that was the first time and you know now i'll sit i'll stand there and watch and enjoy it and appreciate it and you know i also have that sense of nervousness about feeling creepy too i'm a voyeur also and i still feel coy about watching i feel like i have to look away or don't get caught looking even though i'm allowed to so it's something i don't even know if it goes away but i still know that i'm allowed to though and so it's like different um but for me voyeurism is always going to be a huge part of why i do this lifestyle it's just i love that part of it so the sex you see i don't have a lot of sex on my channel so for me when i do have sex it's great sure but that's not that's not the determining factor of whether i have a good night yeah no i totally get that yeah yeah i i but i've had every night i've had has been a good night and whether it's just something that i take home to my fantasies and uh just pleasure myself uh personally at home for days uh that's that's good enough for me right that's a memory that's going to last for a lifetime that all of those little experiences were uh yeah it was hot you know it's funny because when I saw you in the locker room the last time you you were very um really I I would just say like you you opened up to me and you you said some really lovely things about how you were a different man a new man and how you were healed something and that you even said that you loved me in a way of like thank you for what you've done to help me and I want you to tap into that energy and I want you to explain that if you can because I want you to be something that helps other people like your reflection can help others as well yeah i well i don't know how to describe that uh you know i just i it's just the things are things are happening to me the the other thing i don't have is a lot of people to talk to about all these things so there there are some some strange things that have happened to me too where i've sent you a sent you a message um and there's nobody to talk to about that in my outside this real world now i'm starting to develop some friends i'm starting to make some friends i i've got some phone numbers i've got a couple who i'm texting now and who are who are now helping me and guiding me uh but you know i i i didn't have that right and how do i talk to uh to uh you know one of my friends and um and say some of the things you know i i i was yeah i was in a sex club and uh worshiping somebody's pubic hair and and uh and i was finger banging her and i will have to like shamelessly plug my my fan page here but like i also interact with my fans like this i don't charge extra to have yeah cancer and back and forth like i'm rooting for the you for you right i want to hear your crazy stories so it's nice that you can check in with me and let me know hey i went to this club and like i went to this and this is what happened you know yeah and i need that so so your guidance is really really helping me with uh with this world and there's there's and i've met all kinds of different people in this world, too, and I don't know how to handle some of them.
I'm not used to women trying to pick me up. And I've got some guys even trying to pick me up. It's a different world for me with this.
And so I just don't have anyone to talk to so yeah you you've been there so that's where my love comes from like that's why i want to i want to support you and and you know and i and i wish people on your youtube your podcast that are sitting there and they're listening to your stories and they're getting the courage up i hope they support you because you need it i mean you you're worth you're worth any gold uh your advice and your stories and and just just what you've brought into my life the past two weeks who knows if that will last forever but for now it's it's giving me a big boost a big step uh yeah and i think for you i remember i'm not going to hopefully over over reveal something but that night the first night february 1st you said that something had happened in you that night where you went home and actually like you know entertained your your dick for twice that night instead of and you said you don't know how rare that is and i think that that was the beginning of you getting your sexual energy flow back through your body.
I think so. I think so. And some things are happening to me. Like I'm a little shy in a crowd. And I don't mind being naked in front of a crowd. But doing something sexual in front of a bunch of other people, I'm very shy. And I didn't think I could even get an erection in front of people. But that's happening now. And, you know, something happened to me on Tuesday night where I got a blowjob in the pool, and I was erect.
And last night I was at M4, and there was this girl, and she was ripping my chest hairs out, pulling them, and she was yanking them. She was doing it so good, and it hurts so good i it was it was painful but it was it hurt so good oh my god i love her she kept doing it and she knows how to do it she just knows when to rip it and and pulling right into her boobs and uh oh my god i i enjoyed it i didn't think in that kind of pain i'd like like it. Maybe I might end up being this pain kick.
I tell you, that was thrilling when she grabbed my chest hairs and just ripped it out. She's trying to rip them out of my skin is what she was trying to do. But it was good. It was hot.
So to sum up, in 18 days, this man has gone from never gone to a sex club to gone to sex clubs now many times having new experiences expanding boundaries exploring whether you like in 18 days think about what this lifestyle does to you over the span of your life man there is somebody on a leash i was having a conversation with yesterday i'm just sitting there talking to somebody while they're getting walked on a leash and it was perfectly normal just them walking on a leash nothing wrong with it then the girl's saying do you want do you want him to suck or do you want them to suck your cock i said no thank you but you know and then we just chit-chatting this perfect ever walking somebody with a leash yeah this is wild this world is wild you know what's really funny about that is that i remember my first time seeing a collar and leash at oasis and being like why would anyone do that like i was just as confused as a vanilla world you know resident looking at this world too and now i i picked out my collar and leash for my my my dominant and submission sex tomorrow it's in my bedroom and i'm like i came from there to here and and it shows that we really should stop being judgmental because about even other people but also ourselves because yeah yeah we really start to unpack that we really like things that we might not be able to explain, but we know we like them.
You know?
I'm saying some people like for example i'm not gonna out someone but there's people who just don't like certain things like someone who does like for example does not like anal play she's like i tried it i don't want anyone in my plumbing is how she put it and she doesn't want it and she's like look i tried it i don't understand why everyone likes it too much i don't want to do it but she still struggles with not doing it right but what i what i like not anymore right but now as of like this week she's she's like no no more but i what i like about this lifestyle is you learn what you like and what you don't but you you are also empowered to to trim the fat of your life not just in the sex club world in your broader world what do you like what don't you like and maybe start putting more positive energy in your life than negatives now that you are 18 days in and you're already feeling the benefits of more confidence more self-assurance not just at the sex club but also at the restaurant're like, hey, that is a waitress that has worked here for seven years and I didn't notice her.
Something has come alive in you again. Would you agree with that? I totally agree with that. Something has come alive. There's something changing within me and I'm kind of feeling like I belonged into this world all along and I just, I just finally found it. And that's a lovely feeling of belonging and homeness. Like, I feel like it's a home almost in a way. Yeah. That's great. That's great. And it's not for everyone. Some people would come into this lifestyle and be so over their head about it.
So that's, it's only for the open-minded. Because you have to be accepting of the people around you. Like, for example, if you saw a collar and leash, you can't be like, ew, gross.
or that's it's only for the open-minded um because you have to be accepting of the people around you like for example if you saw a collar and leash you can't be like ew gross or that's weird yeah exactly right so yeah so that's what's interesting is that you become more tolerant at a out of it's the cultural language is acceptance yeah transgender people might they're masturbating uh you know uh something like that my five years ago may have freaked me out but it is what it is all the power to them i'm having my own fun doing my thing that's their thing yeah yeah and have you noticed that you and i guess i'm going a little deep here but have you noticed that you accept yourself more now yeah yeah i totally accept myself a little bit more now to talk about my pubic hair fetish with people is uh you know i being being open to talking to people but it's a good conversation uh conversation piece you know uh you can talk about i have a panty fetish and uh you know i'm talking to people about about panties this this girl who's ripping out my chest hair yesterday she's going to give me her panties but then she's talking back because they're $80 panties or something like that but i said well i'm so yeah are you serious because i'm i got a fetish i'll adore these things and they're they're valuable yeah and uh so i was going to to meet her tonight but the the person my date because this couple's only night over at m4 and uh and uh my date canceled on me so now i'm not gonna get to see her yeah i gotta find some more female friends i can just walk into uh to some of these clubs with and that's the thing like saturday nights or whatever they're all they're like that basically everywhere so can you tell me anything else in your personal life that has changed that maybe is you can't even make the you can't even necessarily understand why it's different but is there anything that surprised you that's a little different i find myself in costco today and i i would much rather be with naked people and uh i i just it just sucks to be with clothes on and uh you know i i don't know i just i'm just looking at at crowds differently uh you know i i don't know i just i just want to be naked naked and and watching people have sex i just where i want to be you know i so i i don't know it's still too new for me to to say what's changed in my personal life other than that uh i i you know i kind of wish i had more people to talk to about what i'm going through um but i but as i said i i'm getting new friends i'm starting to develop friends i'm texting some people there's a a couple who's just sent me a message on whatsapp i'm just just reading two seconds ago because they want me to come to this to m4 to meet them tonight and so so i guess that's what's changing i think my friends might be changing they they haven't totally switched over yet i'm only you know two and a half weeks into this but you know i'm i have a feeling that i'm gonna have new friends and uh things are changing it's it's the holy grail of the you got the biggest reward of that risk chance you took you know you took a chance of you on yourself you showed up you felt uncomfortable you did it anyways i did it yeah i did it i'm so glad he did it and it and it was easy and just you know somebody uh in your crowd there was i can't remember his name but he was saying to me have no expectations and you know what i didn't have any expectations because i was like well i did i have some expectations i want to see some some people have sex and that's easy that's an easy expectation to find at a club like oasis or m4 that i'm going to because people people are having sex, and it's pretty hot.
Before hearing about Oasis, single guys are not allowed on the third floor. Well, that sucks. Why would I want to go there if I can't even see where the fun is? Well, the fun is happening at the pool, too. The fun is happening on the dance floor. The fun is happening in the showers, the sauna, the dungeon as well. I don't necessarily need to go up there, but it's easy for me to find a woman in the pool too and say, hey, can you take me up there?
Or sometimes I'll see a couple, they're getting a little rancy, and I'll say, can I watch? Can I watch you guys? And then they'll take me up. Yeah, nice.
So I think thriving is the word i would use for you you look like you're thriving i'm thriving i am definitely thriving in this world right now that's fantastic and i think that's why i wanted to tell your story and have you tell your story is that it doesn't necessarily always land the same way sometimes it could go maybe on the wrong night and be turned off by the experience and not give it a chance again. Some, it can happen to people, but you had watched my videos.
You knew it, you know, what to expect kind of, you know, from the club. So you came in on the right night and had a good experience. I did. I did. Yeah. As I'm moving on into this, this thing, I'm going into seeing other experiences and other, other nights. And there was, there was some, I, I actually, I didn't really have that great of a time on Valentine's Day, the Bukkake night. I've had better times with smaller crowds. You know, it was fun, though.
I mean, it wasn't all bad, but I've had better nights with smaller crowds and a different vibe of people as well. And that's a Tuesday, right? I told you Tuesdays are intense, which is why I suggest on my channel that new visitors to the club, Oasis Aqua Lounge, just don't pick a Tuesday. Pick a Sunday, Wednesday, Monday, in that order. It's fun, though. It's fun.
But, yeah, you might, as a woman especially, might get turned off with all the guys trying to get her you know uh going going solo anyway if you're dtf if you're down to fuck and you're looking for a good fucking solid line of offers options that's a great place to go i have personally not gone to dtf at times when i felt i was like either just not in a good mood about sex or like maybe I couldn't have sex or something and I just did not want to feel like I was constantly being hit on all night so that's why I almost wanted to avoid the attention which I am in a way I should because otherwise I'm there to take some time you know in my opinion and these people pay a lot of money and I'm just like i'm sitting like almost like a what are those ducks those those decoy ducks i don't want to be a decoy duck at a sex club i want to be you know and that's that's interesting i bring that up because it doesn't mean i don't have value if i don't have sex right so just because i go when i go on dtf nights now even when i don't have sex i then help other people have sex i help matchmake I watch it's just still very fulfilling I saw you do that I saw you do that I saw you you uh you grab somebody and uh bring it over to um your friend there yeah yep and then you got invited actually into the red room to sit and watch well that's because the guys kept yelling at me but I'm having my toes on the red tape it's true but still it's a coveted invite to be even be asked to sit in there and i wouldn't have invited anyone else to sit there and it wasn't even me i had to get you know we did it the right way too because even though i knew you wanted to sit there i wasn't going to interrupt their sex to ask them that because i could have like not not good etiquette so i waited until it was a good appropriate time and so that's also good etiquette i can pass on to the to the viewers um about don't don't like be like knock like can i no that's not the right way to do it so yeah so you know i want to thank you very much for for coming and being vulnerable enough to share your experience because you know even though i'm blurring your face and people are going to hear you know pretty much anonymous you're a real person who has the same insecurities and vulnerabilities and uh challenges probably that others do and you recently awakened something in your life that is going to be hard to put back into the can there's no way to yeah there's no way to to cork this no so that's why it's beautiful to watch yeah and it may affect me with relationships with women outside and there's's the outside world, too, where I think I know what I want, you know, and it might be tough to find a non-swing or woman right now.
Well, we'll see what happens, but, yeah. I'm not going to fish outside these waters anymore. I don't need no vanilla fish. Yeah.
I've talked too many vanilla men that put their nose up when i ask them i gotta figure out how to vacation and go on vacation too in uh in this world and uh there's there's a cruise somebody told me about a cruise but they don't allow single solo guys and i'm like oh my god i would love to do that that's what i say single guys do have a lot of barriers to certain things in the lifestyle so i would say even single women like i'd be nervous to go to like some of these events because they're kind of like two people in a room too like as a single i'm like uh so anyway it's one of those things but uh find one that has singles there is ones that have singles yeah um and i would look into that but i also do have i'm gonna be putting pages on my website uh which is trying to unicorn.com that i have some recommendations temptations desires places like that and if you click on my links i do get credit for them so if you want to go to trying to unicorn.com you can check that out awesome any last words before we sign off for the day i i don't know uh just uh to be continued you know this is probably not going to be the first time i talk to you because there's probably going to be more stories to tell it's an amazing world you know i've got to learn there's lots of things i've got to learn i've got to be able to uh personally myself i've got to be able to be comfortable having an orgasm in front of people and i'm going to have to work on that uh in in in that place but i'm in the perfect environment for that to happen you know where i can where i can work on that because right now if i want an orgasm i've got to be kissing a girl in private or kissing or going down on her to orgasm i can't stand up or anything so i mean there's going to be plenty of opportunities for me to be able to do this and uh you know so i i i've got an area i've got a space where i can work on uh work on some of these things and yeah stay tuned all i can say to be continued one last topic is that you've also joined the online oasis virtual platform which again to my listeners i am not paid paid or asked to promote Oasis by any means.
I always just mention it because it is the place that changes our lives kind of thing. But you have joined the online Oasis platform. I've seen you on camera at multiple events. Now, you only did this after you attended in person, right?
Yeah, well, I joined it because I want to know and chat with people online and and watch some of the events that because i obviously i i i can't afford to go to oasis every night so i i you know i want to watch some of the events and see how they they go and uh you know uh more voyeur voyeurism for me right um and that's been fun as well that uh online chat there was first friday night i was there i was kind of standoffish with with what was going on and i still don't totally understand some cameras i can view some cans like cameras i can't and and they're talking to other people and i can't hear what's going on but it's kind of a fun world too and there was this this one girl and uh who's her little red panties were turning me on and and so um the newlywed couple uh they were they were uh trying to to goat me into uh to masturbating with everybody else and I wouldn't but then I started talking about this girl and her panties and uh how they're turning me on and then anyways yeah so i i started i started having some uh some fun online with um with the rest of them i just joined in and then that girl she's there's a couple actually it's a couple but she's but the girl in particular sent me a message thanking me and and we we're having some banter back and forth me and her uh messaging each other and um and yeah yeah so uh so you also felt a sense of belonging and community on the virtual platform which is something you could do more times of the week right like yeah see what's going on and check in check in every night and see if there's any uh anything going on uh you know and and now i'm a little easier to to do things online and talk online and that's why i went on that valentine's day when they had people to go up there well now i know who's online uh watching because i've been watching them watching it with them that i can go up on uh on the stage and lick whipped cream and uh caramel off somebody's body right but i was worried about who's watching watching that camera prior to that.
Now I'm okay because I know who's watching. I've watched them. I've watched with them. And I think the point of me bringing this back to is you joined a lifestyle. You didn't just go to a sex club. And I think that's what's interesting is you went to a sex club and it was the door to a lifestyle and now you join the virtual experience club of the same type of nature.
And there's other websites people are telling me about too, that I'm probably going to be joining this set life and stuff like that. And yeah, so I've been hearing about other things. So yeah, as I'm, as I'm growing and as I'm talking to people, I'm hearing about other online worlds to join. So we'll see what transpires. Let me put this disclaimer on FetLife. If you are still a little nervous or shocked by a leash in the collar, it's not time for FetLife. I can't wait to join it then.
It has actually upset me before, the website.
There's a lot that maybe i wouldn't subscribe to and it's yes you can block people but you still can't shield your eyes from things that aren't your aren't kink aligned and so for me i found it to be at when i was new to the lifestyle way too much for for a beginner so i would be very careful about that i mean you could always follow me on fetlife i don't post anything extreme i don't even post nudity on there anymore because i have a fan page but be careful yeah i'm just going to be exploring the world right and uh and and you know that that's all i'm just i'm just more curious about what else lies uh within right and there's also i have to mention my discord server which is i'm uh launching it you know it's already up and running i'm just i'm still getting on my my what is it my sea legs on that uh basically it is a place for viewers my audience i don't know what to call you guys yet um but basically everybody who consumes trying unicorn, you can actually join my Discord server, which is a place for you all to intermingle with one another.
There's actually video chat rooms, there's audio chat rooms, you can go and put yourself on camera and hang out with me on camera. I get to see your pets, you get to see my pets, and I actually get to interact with my viewers in a much more intimate way. So if you want to come to my Discord server, now it's not just me. There's other people who are part of this Discord server that may want to also talk to you, may want to share interesting fetish conversation, things like that.
And so I want you guys to check it out. It's a place of belonging. It's a place of people who support my content and support my nonjudgmental accepting lifestyle to come in and find a place there, too. So I hope that, you know, there's all sorts of new apps that people have to keep assimilating to. And I know discord for me is one of those hard ones to kind of fully get there, but the potential is fantastic. And I really hope that people join them.
I don't totally understand discord, but I'll join. And I think what we're called is your royal subjects. I think that's what you are our queen, and we are your subjects. I do get to figure out this, but I can't have anything that people would find offensive or degrading.
So I'm trying to find that perfect balance, because even the word fan, I think for me, was starting to feel a little glossy of a label like i want to have something more meaningful because you're more than fans you're people who connect and engage with what i'm saying right and so i'm trying to find what that is but we'll find out what a baby unicorn is is whatever that is unicorn lit yeah i don't know you'll you'll see me struggle with this over the next few weeks but i'll i'll have it come to me by the way i had to completely rebuild my swinger shop website in 24 hours the other day i had yeah so i had a a different platform that hosted some products that i designed with some swinger funny shit on it like really hilarious you know sex positive stuff and so it was a bit clunky the user experience wasn't the best it was an American based website even though I'm personally Canadian because most of my audience is American having said that most of my interested merch audience is Canadian and they were a little troubled by the American experience so i rebuilt it overnight and one day because my lease on the on the site was going to expire and i'm so excited but now it's up and running so i hope you guys check out the spinner shop.com it is fully redone it has reviews now it is a much more familiar shopping experience i've got offensive shit under a category called offensive I've even started categorizing things under proud slut hot wife upside down pineapple you know things like that so that people can just quickly go to their genre and see what's available so hope you guys check that out but yeah that's what I've been doing this week um this job I do this trying unicorn thing I could have the most perfect idea of what my day is going to look like and then something happens and I'm like I have to like do this so it's just always been like that but I don't I'm not complaining I just got a lot a lot going on too so well this is your calling I hope this is yeah you're good at this so I feel it is my calling Thank you.
complaining i just got a lot a lot going on too so well this is your calling i hope this is yeah you're good at this so i feel it is my calling these little things that i hope will work out for you for the uh you're trying to unicorn shop and stuff me too i mean i'm taking a bit of a chance on all this stuff but in a way i just feel like it's a hobby and that's why I love what I do so much that I would do it in a way for free. Like what I do, I just I can't keep.
That's the one thing that bothers me is that I can't chat on Instagram and Facebook and Twitter and everywhere that people reach out to me because I just can't be spread that thin in life. And so that's why I have to funnel everybody to my fan page because it really is where I can focus, right, on the people who have invested in me back because I actually got burnt out a few times doing this job because I tried so hard to just, you know, try to touch everybody who wanted to.
I can imagine, I can imagine, yeah. Yeah, so I think that's why I like to promote my fan page is that there is a way, you know, yeah, it costs a little bit of money every month, but you can always try it for a month and see if you like it. If you don't, you can break up with me. I won't get upset. It's all right. You'll forgive it. But, yeah, so because you've been a subscriber to my fan page for several months, can you give the viewers and listeners your review of my fan page right now?
It's hard because I don't have a whole lot of um of things to to go on because yours is was the only one until like last week until i tried somebody else but i'm i'm going to unsubscribe to that one just as fast as i subscribed but uh but but yours is more about the content and the lifestyle, just the camaraderie of swingers that you meet, and I don't know, to me, it's about that. And, of course, you pose nude, and for me, it's not totally about that.
I've got, you know me it's not totally about that i've got uh you know i, i, i'm not i'm not totally into to to watching uh sex on only fans either but i'm more into just listening to you and your stories and your nighttime stories and sometimes you're just doing a little nighttime story and your little panties and you're taking them off and it's kind of fun to watch and it's kind it's kind of fun to watch you.
And, yeah, but for me, it's just a wealth of knowledge, and this is why I'm on there is to support you and to support what you're doing. And you're giving a lot of people a gift.
And I know that there's a lot of people out there who are like me who probably want to go don't think that they can go um i i say subscribe to your uh your fan page and talk to you about it and get the courage to to uh to go i mean it's you did it for me and now it's it's amazing and some people might not even believe half the scrap that i'm saying but i don't know i won't be able to like personally meet everyone that goes but the the truth is the same you still were welcomed into an inviting accepting crowd whether i was there or not whether you were not you broke the ice for me but after that i i'm fine i can i'm riding solo now i'm okay.
I know how to converse with everybody now. It's the culture of the place. I wasn't like, that's the thing is I'm really honest about is I'm not the only nonjudgmental person, right? It's the whole kind of. Yeah, it is. For sure. For sure. And I, and I've talked my weight about my weight to some people too, where I say, you know, I'm a little self-conscious about that.
And there's other people and they're just saying, don't worry it look at look at this and and you know uh for instance uh somebody was telling me to go to this young swinger night at club m4 i go no they don't want me and then this this girl she'd be able to you'd be surprised at uh at this what what these girls want so just keep going and then you know she made me feel good so yeah there are people who anytime i'm i'm knocking myself down we're building me up and actually this couple that I told you about who I'm texting now they said that to me today because I was saying exactly that I'd never felt like I belong there and now I do and they're saying oh but you're fun guy you have fun you make it and everyone likes that you you they say you're all you I'll do fine and then and and i am doing fine and um and so you know they're building me up and then they said don't knock yourself you're you're a fun guy you know and uh and i and i gotta stop knocking myself too because yeah i i'm a bit overweight i'm working on it i'm actually on a diet right now and i've lost lost 23 pounds, so things are happening there, too.
Yeah, and I think it gets easier, too, the more you become alive in your body again, because you're more in touch with the skin you're trying to change.
And there's something about that that worked for me, and especially when I started dressing my body as good as I could now and not five pounds from now, and that was when the rest of my life changed was when I stopped giving tomorrow so much power and I gave it back to today yeah for sure yeah be live in the moment really is it is when I'm there live in the moment right now I'm not at a sex club I'm not going to be going to a sex club tonight and oh well what can I do this I'll just live this moment until I get back naked with with people having sex around me Thank you.
Thank I do chat with fans if you are interested in going to the club whatever club even if you're in another country and you just want somebody who gives a about it who wants to hear from you before you go to give you advice to us to hear about it after to give you post advice i don't charge extra again it is literally i'm it is a way for me to invest back into the fans who have invested in me you've got to know how big my heart is i'm as real as they come and i want to help as many people get across this this barrier to this lifestyle who want to join because this lifestyle is waiting for you and it's up to you whether you are going to wait or finally just join it and start living the rest of your life.
So thank you very much Arnold Lane. It was so great to have you. Thank you Toronto Unicorn.
