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@Cockandbull - I saw the same 'kryptonite' effect when I changed first to bi-curious, then to Bi (SLS could use better selections and a better multi-select perhaps, nothing is really binary when it comes to people). The number of straight…
Yesterday while using the APP, I found that the session seems to close, and when sending a message in a conversation, it just didn't work. The only way to send a message was to close/reopen the app. (I do like the upgraded app interface, h…
funlyfriend "Do they really age into it, or have they been bi most of their lives" I 'recognized' I was Bi in my mid to late 30's. We had been swinging a few years at that point. Once I recognized I had interest, and found a label that mea…
So this is the thing with the scale - it assumes attraction to same sex takes away from attraction to other sexes. - someone with a '3' same sex attraction seems to have lost '3' attraction points for other. - I see it as two (well, 3, 4,…
cuttin2dachase - It worked for me!
2Bi guys has changed a bit. The host now does coaching, and I feel it's a bit more an infomercial format. Yes the interviews are good details usually, but I get tired of hearing podcasters advertising for themselves. Bi-wise, I do like Bis…
I'd just like to be invited again, been a few years and since the wife stopped playing, I guess I fall into that 'too many men' scenario
I don't find as many fakes here as on some other sites. What I do find is a lot of desire and not a lot of follow through. Is that a definition for a fake? The ability to match schedules, with someone local, and have everyone involved feel…
The idea that it needs to be, or even could be measured is part of the bierasure which actually affected my coming to recognize it as a possibility for the first half of my life. While there are nuances, it's not something that can be meas…
probably not so much on this site, though there is a massageexchange site that might give you results, You could always post a Hot Date for an exchange group...
I thought I was bi for 35+ years.... We started swinging as a straight couple. Then I started seeing more things, and considering things. I feel my 'change' was less becoming Bi, as it was more about opening my mind to things that were dis…
EastSide, Too many options over complicate the search process? I disagree, as it has been very positive on other sites (yes, I spend time on other sites, not just swinging sites either). The time spent trying to filter, then getting mis-ma…
So here are some reasons for alternate labels. I hope you accept this as an alternative viewpoint and not a personal attack. Asexual - yes, some people do not have the "drive" for sexual experiences, and yet they may be here as part of a c…
Happy Pride all. I agree this site needs some updates for the options to be proud of many identities not currently available for reference. I doubt you'll be able to stop some of the micro aggressions of those writing their own profiles th…
Justlooking… yeah, during the pandemic it was ‘safer’ for transmission of the airborn visits, but those making that suggestion were making it to the hookup community, where STI’s were not the immediate concern. They are not affected by a p…
I did not recognize my Bisexuality until after we started swinging, then it became my goal while she pulled back from the idea of open play. Now it's just me, and she has zero interest in others.
I've noticed this in the past - but have not posted until now, as I have been using it more. Issues: - Severe battery drain - Does not ask for login information, and while using face ID, does not actually check (I have opened it and turned…
North, as you were advised to just try it, and once with her being there, I would suggest you and her, as well as the additional guy all know this is an option on the table - last thing you need during a play time is for one or two of them…
maybe Bi Study group... I have found being open with her works, so it does not matter what app I have on my phone.
Yeah, safely just like any other swinger connection - first, get out of the closet to those in your sexual circle, check with new potential partners for regular testing and recent results, Use protection to your risk level (and others in y…
it all depends on how they identify, which can be almost anything. They may only have sex with same gender, but identify as bi They may only have sex with different gender, but identify as bi If you read the self identifiers on apps like g…
Oh yeah, big double standard. I first explored the swinging lifestyle a little about 25 years ago. We went to a local club, and faced the same 'forbidden' mindset. That club is still in business, and still restrictive to m/m contact of any…
@lovecouple - do you have a list of those places?
if you are bi or curious... start by listing yourself that way. Nothing is more off putting to a bi guy than a guy that lists straight. It's a ridiculous option on sites like Grinder...
@sharedbbw - there are a lack of good places outside of the largest cities, which is unfortunate. I've seen the local gayborhood of Baltimore shrink as the old mainstays have closed, and only a few reopen. Other big challenges, are the exp…
@sharedbbw - this is very true. What I find are the dregs of the past, cruising spots, adult book stores, and maybe a few bathhouses, but virtually all are not there for legally getting men together physically, and that's where you run int…
Hey! If you are local enough.. we have a meetup planned in Baltimore at the Manor tonight (9/23) to gather for Bi+ Visibility day. 7pm.
@Trich555 - that's a good point. I have found several social meetup groups centered around Bi community with other mainstream activities. Social, discussion, not so much the play parties. They tend to be centered around larger cities, so i…
I'd like to try waxing, just not sure how to find an place to get that sort of area done... and well, the idea of pain does not haelp. Unfortunately, with my hair having gone very gray over the years, I think I missed out on the laser opti…
I was late in my 30's when I recognized I was bi.... and spent a lot of time trying to figure out why I never considered it before then, as well as looking back on many opportunities I probably missed out on some fantastic fun and relation…
I got tired of shaving, and the bumps & in grown hairs a couple days after... I started using something called Magic, and while it dose not completely remove the hair it dose help keep things very short and no bumps. Be aware, you want to…
I've been on this search for several years. The filter you use is going to affect the results... and one filter I have employed was that while I was happy to meet someone to chat and get to know them, I did not want to move to a play sessi…
I'd like to try a nudist camp someday... just don't want to go there alone.
I would not know how a gay man feels about this, as I am a Bi man, so I would not expect him to know how I feel inside either. I lived 2/3 of my life identifying as straight, about 1/3 as Bi after reaching a point I could relate to many th…
Looks like some recent update to configs this week, and while most rooms allow for cam usage, the Bi Gentlemen room has been blocked - Tech Support, could you consider resetting that feature? plenty of folks are asking about it in chat...
The current system will fail at the end of the year. Other tech discussions I have been in (unrelated to this site) is that Adobe flash has a timer built in and will not function as of 1/1/2021, regardless of the website and browser desire…
Like every other event this year of the pandemic, storms, fires, ... Not much happening for groups getting together, but still wanted to say happy bi visibility to my fellow bi guys!
Simple answer - yes. The challenge is the more predatory habits of some people. I’ve had lots of straight men reach out to us in the past, with an attitude (either hidden or obvious) that he was there to save my wife from a life of dissati…
The only stuff I've seen in my area (and some in NY/NJ) have been on a Fet Life based group, Bi parties just don't seem to be a thing around here, or are really more focused on FF bi... sad but true. I have tried joining the varied bi grou…
Some time ago I had the flight bug... did some planning around it, one intro flight, but $ went towards the family time, not me spending alone in the sky. Even had a friend that I chatted with about these things, and spent time on simulato…
That was my first experience with another guy... my wife set it up, but actually did not like it as much as I did... No more for her, so it's unlikely I'll be living that dream any time soon.
Actually not unusual. Men will often become less engaged in eroticism after orgams/ejaculation. Practice?
My first experience with a guy, involved a threesome with my wife and the 3rd... THis was one of the positions we enjoyed... and I have wanted to revisit ever since.
Yes, been out to myself and my wife for a while. Not fully out to family and friends, but I have been focused on making friends among LGBT+ and Open/Poly groups for the last few years... much more accepting of who I identify as than your t…
MaryJo, maybe she thought you looked better in it than she did?
@kook42, I would put the blame on a couple expecting you to be focused more on him and his insistence as listing straight - they are perpetuating the stereotype of bi's as untruthful. I hope you find some better companions that can first b…
I have heard the myth that bi men are carriers of disease, and yet it is not biusexuality that causes STI's. I have also heard many refere to research overall that shows those in open lifestyles generally have lower instances of STO's than…
@MnMatureCouple, I hear you! My wife is no longer interested in playing, and once we enter as a single guy, it all changes. There is a hookup culture I don’t think any straight couple understands, and I just don’t feel safe around that sty…
I’ve talked with lots of people these past couple decades. Some in support groups because they were not open and honest. There was regret at the hidden nature, but it’s understandable as long as society denies bisexuality even exists, or t…
One if only a few comments I can relate to - the question/thread is flawed. Perhaps it has to don with the OP and a statement that sounds of bierasure, in a bi focused forum. I’ve been searching for Bi community for a couple decades, and u…
Hope you all had a great bi visibility’ day today.
I agree on the closeted nature of men. I believe the younger generation are headed in the right direction... let’s hope so. I used to list as straight. Now it’s definitely quieter as bi (been listed that way for over a decade). It may actu…
So I’m headed to DC Sunday for the Pride festival tomorrow. I seem to meet a number of bi guys that just don’t really seem to be open and out in public. Might be a generational thing. As a bi man, do you attend pride events? If married, do…
Certainly SLS has it's issues with Bi males... support, encouraging openness, issues with biphobia and erasure are prevalent everywhere. I'd question some of the suggested apps/websites for the squeamish. THere is a lot of hookup culture a…
@SexPack, I don't think your experience is the same as being fake - there is a lot of society teaching us not to consider or follow through on these desires. It is important that we share with new partners our awkwardness and actual talk s…
Jim, what bracelet do you wear?
@astro666_1, I'm with you on the up front and patient take on all this. We lost a steady stream of new contacts years ago when I changed from straight to bi-curious, then to Bi (after I actually experienced some play and decided it was mor…
The 'hanky code' is really a gay code, not sure it signals bi... it's about interests, and generally right is bottom left is top Color Meaning Black S&M Blue (Dark) Anal sex Blue (Light) Oral sex Brown Scat Green Hustler/prostitution Grey…
I'm tired of this question. Pops up regularly on all bi focused sites/boards... It's the 21st century. Gender does not drive abilities... practice makes perfect despite what your gender is.
Pixie sounds like an awesome partner! I second the recommendation to change how you identify. Don’t let the biphobia drive you to list as straight. It tends to piss off some people. The curious tag allows the idea of just that, you are exp…
WHile this is not Facebook, it IS a social media format. It is so much more than just an advertisement for sex. Coming out, as anything, is difficult and potentially dangerous. No one should be policing anyone else’s self identification. O…
Rabbit, Seeing your long list of lies you have endured, perhaps your posting should be either in private with those that have falsely represented themselves, or in a general swing group. Your original post came across as attacking the OP f…
When I first recognized my bisexuality, my wife was not comfortable with it. We did experience my first time together, which I loved, but other aspects were not as good for us and her. We have not played as a couple since. My wife has come…
Hagerstown is a couple hours away... but it is a great idea. This cold damp weather would be an awesome time to get into a cozy, warm place to hang with likeminded folks.
I've been looking for that 'just right' bi playmate too. Makes it a bit more difficult as my wife no longer plays and feels more monogamous than I do... Someday...
Once or twice a day.... until I got used to it :)
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