@calcanfun2 when I was speaking of men, I was speaking only of my personal experiences with multiple partners. For me, it's always men who say they want "no strings," but then absolutely start to want to attach strings. My partner's femme…
Hosted by Mingler, Curiouser Life and The Art of Connection Club. It can be tough meeting new people for friends, play, dating, love - real connections to real people. ESPECIALLY real people who are curious about connections and relationsh…
@calcanfun2 Yes, but for most people polyamory covers that. I just specifically state I'm monoromantic and what that means to me so that I'm clear with any potential partners. It's always astounded me how many men (specifically) say they d…
I've taught nonmonogamy in it's many variations for years, and I've got big opinions and lots of research in my head so I'm going to brain dump some thoughts after reading the replies here. *smiles* I personally consider myself nonmonogamo…
NOTE: Several people have reached out to me privately. I'm happy to also answer questions about kink privately. I'll also be teaching The Psychology of Spanking in NOLA at Naughty in N'awlins in July. Apparently, they are going to have a H…
Also posted as an event in the new Swingler Group. Hosted by Mingler, Curiouser Life and The Art of Connection Club. May 22, 6:30 - 8pm Downtown Raleigh (location shared with RSVP) It can be tough meeting new people for friends, play, dati…
I'm been on Fet since it's first year as NookieNotes. It's intentionally not set up to be a dating site, so finding people to connect with is much more difficult than here. It's not gonna show you who viewed you, and most of the profiles h…
I've traveled to 32 US states, London and Thailand teaching kink. I've written multiple books, run online communities, and help organize some of the local community events in Raleigh, NC. I figured if anyone has questions about kink, getti…