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Our profile says "We do not IM".

Single guys IM us anyhow.

Clicking on the profile and BLOCKING them removes their IM

We would like to remove IM capability from our profile.

Could we please go back to the old system where the ability to receive messages was user controlled. I really don't like the message feature and prefer emails. Allowing anyone to send us a message just seems like an invasion of our space. Make it a user choice again.