Wayne. That is BS. Why because I was making a true statement? I have chatted with a number of people off the SLS site that have told me they no longer pay and the reasons for it.
Free members
<p><a href="https://www.swinglifestyle.com/profile/lookup.cfm?usercode=62642854">Onehorneywife</a>,</p>
<p>Yes, I deleted your comment because it was speculation.</p>
I posted a comment on this topic earlier and it is not showing.
<p>As long as you do not have your profile hidden from free members, you can still send them a message (IM). They will see that they have a new message, but will not be able to read or respond to it until the become paid. Some people may let their membership lapse from time to time and then become paid again later.</p>
How do you contact a free member ? If there is no contact options then how do you entice them to join ?? I notice some of them have certs?

