<p>Amanti2,</p>
<p>As sorillo1000 said, you can send your contact information to others, just not in your first message to them. You need to establish that there is some interest in moving forward between you and the other member and then either of you can give out any information you want to share.</p>
<p>You also can not send out multiple unsolicited messages inviting people to parties or promoting parties. If you host regular parties/events, you can create a group on the site to promote those.</p>

