Female partners

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

@Laidback - I see this is your first post. Welcome to the forums.

The forums are more for learning about the lifestyle (LS) and exchanging ideas and experiences in general. It's not really meant to be a Craigslist personal ad replacement.

For one, the forum is only a cross section of people across all of SLS, so it's unlikely your post will reach it's intended audience. Unless you get VERY lucky, it is going to take a lot more time/effort to find a female partner.

To illustrate that for yourself, I suggest you do a Search for all single women in a 50 mile radius of you, then do the same for single men. That ratio can easily be 40 men for every woman. Unless you can somehow make your profile stand out among all the others, the odds are very much stacked against you for finding what you want online.

Fort Payne, AL, Us

You're going to get essentially the same advice I gave longbottom5644 four days ago:

Read as many of the profile reviews as you can stand - it won't take long before you start seeing a few trends about what to write and how to organize it.

Read Velma's post about her DEBauCH method for core photos to put in your public profile. Delete all but your mirror selfie in the Coke shirt - that's a pretty good photo. The neutral expression in the rest of your photos is not appealing nor is the cartoon.

Come back soon and we can help with revisions - but we can't write it for you.

Good luck, have fun and stay safe!

~Phoebert's Wife

Philadelphia, PA, Usa

Would love to find a female partner I need help