All good pov. However I think for me to logically move on in my head, I will stick to the theory that will ease my mind, that I lost the intrest. And if I happen to see a message, than it will be like Christmas morning. Cheers!
Jay
Are you sure you are talking to women? I ask because there are a lot of "single women" on here who are really men trying to get pics. As for couples, most are run by the male half.
There's always the possibility that after a few messages they decide they're not interested. Or like you said they are talking to other men. I don't think you'll ever know for sure.
Well guy's think with their other head when they talk to me, maybe will not be good to do that with a more feminine, sensitive woman... Keep think light and casual till you get a feel for her personality...Good luck finding a female here, I seem to have to fill in for them quite often, my pleasure...Mary Jo
Yes listening is key and I use words from their profile to engage, my question is the engage part, is there such a thing as being to engaged? Im not desperate for response or waiting or getting upset due to no response rather once in conversation ladies lack then engagement or are juggling 20 other hungry males lol. Was just curious if to inquisitive os a turn off or perhaps over engage. Thanks ladies! Great questions
Most women complain guys don't talk enough, however women love a guy who listens so just go 50/50 and see what happens....Mary Jo
Are you asking because you're not getting replies at all or because it starts out well then nothing?
What Ms. Molly said is spot on. Keep in mind that for some people not responding is their way of saying they're not interested. After a few days of nothing, move on.
Also, some couples answer their messages together, when they have time. You may get a reply a month later, or not. Send your message then forget about it.
Do you mean in your initial message or in person? Because setting matters in what approach is going to work. Either way, avoid coming on too strongly when it's a woman you're talking to (it's mostly guys running couples' profiles, so an opener of "I love your X" isn't going to hit the target), because that shit is something we've had to put up with since our boobs made their first tiny appearance and most of us are over it.
ladies is too much talking a turn off? I know im not a "HI" guy and im also not "I wanna fuck you tonite" guy. Is the general consensus i wont answer him in hopes they'll just go away? Curious.
