Let's talk boobs

Re man talk

I occasionally read posts but it’s not somewhere I would post.

"My two cents. I prefer smaller breasts to fake."

NotAndrew,

They asked for women to share their experience with implants, not for men to describe what kind of boobs they like.

You also don't seem to know what Dunning-Kruger is. Which is funny, because talking about Dunning-Kruger while not knowing what it is is the ultimate Dunning-Kruger.

The OP has likely long given up on this thread because it's overrun with men talking about how much they like tits. Great. Thanks, assholes.

Right up there with the guys who start "Women Talk" threads that more or less amount to just talking about their dicks, whether it be "I have a big dick do girls like big dicks?" or "Is my dick good enough?"

Jesus Christ. I really hesitated weighing in once again because I'm a guy, and the women usually do a good enough job of telling guys to scram, but I'm hoping my last intrusion - I promise - into this thread is not entirely unwelcome.

Off-topic alert: NotAndrew - I'm a thinking person, and I value GGMMs posts, as I know a number of others in the forums do. She may not always say want you want to hear, but more often than not, she is correct in what she's saying.

Molly, you're the living embodiment of Dunning–Kruger. No thinking person cares about your opinion. Have a day.

Apologies for this interruption by a man in this thread...

"...trying desperately to figure out how you people manage to meet, contact, get invited to parties, chat with..."

IMO, you try too hard; you overthink this whole meeting people in the lifestyle thing. Much like bras, there is no "one size fits all" for meeting/being accepted by people in the lifestyle.

FWIW, I've been intimate with many women but have never gone bra shopping with any woman. I'm trying to figure out how you managed that, but I'm not desperate enough to want to discuss it in multiple threads.

I don't think I have ever commented in "men talk"

"Women commenting in "men talk", not an issue."

I would have let this go except for the "As is typical" lead in, which is both incorrect and snide. How many women have posted in "men talk" in the last three months? I'll wait while you count (and you won't even need three fingers).

My two cents. I prefer smaller breasts to fake.

On the broader scale, it typically comes down to a woman's confidence.

As is typical, men comment in "women talk", and it's bitched about.

Women commenting in "men talk", not an issue.

@Y

The stereotyping is sophomoric.

Ymichael14 - "You do not know what it is like to be on the outside looking in trying desperately to figure out how you people manage to..."

The key word there was "desparate(ly)". Many women can smell that a mile away and will avoid people that even remotely come across that way. I get that you may think you're being logical, maybe even caring and considerate, and that guys that appear to have an "I don't give a fuck" attitude about sex seem to get all the women. It's been that way for years and I've observed that with all 3 of my daughters as they grew up and dated.

i've said it before, people tend to want most what they think they can't get. Being desperate and acting that way are 2 different things. Deep down, you must know there is no "secret sauce" other than trying to be a nice guy, but asking all the time for the secret sauce recipe makes you look desperate.

@funbucks

I have a few friends with implants. It’s in your best interest to view the work of more than 1 cosmetic surgeon.

They keep binders of before and after. The other consideration is how long they last. One of my friends had her implant move. When you decide what you want, ask about longevity.

“ You do not know what it is like to be on the outside looking in trying desperately to figure out how you people manage to meet, contact, get invited to parties, chat with, not to mention play with, so many people in one lifetime while people like me who only find one couple in three years.”

Ive read a few of your awkward, self absorbed posts.

You seem to believe people are obligated to care about what you want.
There’s a disconnect in that type of thinking. You’re pursuing acts, and view others as service providers,

Entitlement isn't appealing. You apparently thing there is some magic phrase or action.

The best policy is don't be a dick and drop your expectations.

I agree that men have made some posts in here that are inappropriate.

"Apparently the originator of this topic in a "women talk" category was OK with men responding."

men responding in helpful or informative way is good. men just in here commenting on woman's boobs is creepy

The originator of this thread, a woman, stated in one of their posts in this thread:

"Thanks for all the replies guys and ladies."

Apparently the originator of this topic in a "women talk" category was OK with men responding.

Also, discussions going off on a tangent on SLS is not unique to the Internet.

Just sayin'.

Sensuous- as a guy, I will agree that a thread about breast implants should only contain responses concerning implants and not someone saying they like breasts. Or someone's breasts. But I see no reason why a guy can't post here if he has experience with his wife getting implants and can add something to the conversation.
As for the guy you are complaining about, I just found my first couple that I was compatible with after three years on this site and they viewed my profile as the first couple that I had a chance with. You do not know what it is like to be on the outside looking in trying desperately to figure out how you people manage to meet, contact, get invited to parties, chat with, not to mention play with, so many people in one lifetime while people like me who only find one couple in three years. It drives you crazy. I would guess he is trying to make friends/get noticed by trying to start a conversation with anybody and being positive and giving compliments and hoping that will lead to finding someone to play with.
Since no one here will tell me how they meet so many people, the tactic I have chosen is to read every post and look for clues.
I have learned that everybody gets annoyed if you ask how they meet so many people or say you only found one couple in three years, so I do not post those comments.
I'm only suggesting that you see it from the point of view of those who can't figure out how to get invited to sit at the cool kids table.

Tiggrcat:

Perhaps you may have uncovered an issue that goes even deeper. As in "General Discussion" it lists several different categories. Two separate categories are, one being "Men Talk" and the another being "Women Talk". Was this just an oversight or a blatant example of sexism?

Onehorneywife:

Thank you, I couldn't agree with you more.

Some of the men that leave comments here are BOOBS!

all womens breasts are amazing from small to large :)

"Are we speaking about womens breasts or the men who leave comments here?"

Yes, yes we are.

Hope this helps.

Anyone can talk about anything related to mammary glands, as long as the conversation about them is not in sexual terms. That is the general rule and guideline for this thread.

;-)

we are not sexist here so anyone can comment LOL

If I may pause here for a moment and ask a question about the Topic of this thread: "Let's talk boobs", which by the way is posted the Forum titled: "Women Talk".

Are we speaking about womens breasts or the men who leave comments here? Just thought I'd ask for some clarity before chiming in about "boobs".

harley....very very nice buns too