Advice needed

What was the issue with the person on the other side of the GH?

sounds like you need to take a step back from swinging before you ruin your relationship, if you can't handle seeing him have a good time

Seems like your issue.. talk it out with him... but trying to get advice on forums that only a handful of people respond to and you dont like answers will not change anything.

Hmm Isnt this a repeat of same question in another forum thread?

Good luck.. things happen good and bad swinging and YES we do talk it out well over 30 years swinging seen most all now!

I will start by saying I am a very picky person when it comes to choosing partners. We went to a club and my other half (male) mentioned he wanted to go to the gloryhole. I was like go. When I walked over and saw who was behind the gloryhole I was totally grossed out as it was someone I would never choose to be with my man. I wouldn't let him touch me the rest of the night. After we left he told me to stop it next time. Is this normal to feel this way? He has enjoyed glory holes before and I have never reacted this way. I am a very sexual person and like to be with him as often as possible. Me not letting him touch me or me touch him is very unusual and has never happened before. He showered last night and this morning but it is still not enough for me to get over it.