Swinger Parties

My wife is her own person. She is not my property. I do not barter her for sex with other women.

If another woman doesn't want to fuck me, and the only reason she is there is because she is in some sort of trade, I don't want to fuck her.

I want my wife to be herself and enjoy herself. If that means I have to not fuck other women, so be it. It is also the other way. If she doesn't find a guy she likes and I find lots of women . . . well, she is ok with that.

While this works for us, it may not work for you. This is our belief system.

Different couples approach house parties differently. For some it is to make 2+2 connections; for others it is 'improve-the-odds' situation and the couple splits up and goes there own way for a while; for still others, one partner is along simply as a 'wingperson' for the other and is not particularly interested in playing. There are a lot of ships passing in the night at parties--setting your fantasies, intentions, and boundaries can be useful.

"Our strict policy is that if you both do not want to play, neither of us will play with either one of you."

That may be your policy, but by your description it is not your wife's policy...

We just attended a swinger party at a couples house. We drove ninety miles to get there down some dirt road. We arrived on time and were introduced to many people there. It was not long that some old guy hit on my wife. Being the polite woman she is she went to the bedroom with him. His wife sat on the couch fully dressed and make up in place getting drunk on wine. Shortly after my wife came out of the bedroom. She said she played with him no details. Shortly after she asked is it ok if I play with another male friend, and I agreed. In the main time his girlfriend is walking around totally shit faced or on drugs, do not know which, or both. I have played with her in the past but this time she wanted nothing to do with me. By the way she was a poor quality fuck in the past. When my wife and the guy finally emerged he just walked past me, nothing said. My wife sat by me and we talked. I stated other that I am sick and tired of bringing her to a party, just to provide pussy for the men, whose wife will not have sex with them. Not to mention that man, that had sex with her and his stoner girlfriend, are no longer regarded as friends. So people if you are just going to these swinger parties to provide your old man a means to get laid, and you are not woman enough. Stay the fuck away from us !!!!! We are not here exclusively for your entertainment !!! If you are not going to give anything you dam well better not expect a dam thing from us.. Our strict policy is that if you both do not want to play, neither of us will play with either one of you. Think I have an attitude your dam well I do !!! Anyone else have any negative experience in attending a party with your significant other ?????? This is no the only time this has happened to us...............