We have found that most single males don't read our profile. If they did they would see we aren't interested in them. They only have a blue gumby pic, under our age limits, and list as straight. We are only interested in bi males. And when we reply to their message that we only want bi singles. They suddenly become bi. They give single males a bad image.
Playtime- this is going to sound harsh but it is what it is.
You haven’t found the pussy tree in the garden of fucking. This game isn’t easy. Sitting under the tree or kicking at it won’t make pussy fall in your lap and you aren’t putting much effort into climbing.
You have a “yawn” of a profile. It doesn’t spark any interest and tells me you are likely lazy. If you are too lazy to put effort into your swinging resume then I expect you’ll be lazy with me
You have no certs or pictures and by your stats appear to be overweight. Maybe you carry it well, maybe you don’t. Without pictures I have no idea and immediately lose interest.
What kind of messages do you send out. Do you write short, “how are you two today?” Messages or longer, personalized messages?
There will always be those that don’t respond but if you don’t give them something to respond to you shouldn't bitch about it because you are causing it.
~rabbit~
If you have the expectation of a specific response from another human in this or any other interaction, you are bound to be disappointed more often than not.
was the couple looking for single guys?
did you open your pictures for them?
"As long as there is a minimal level of effort in the message, I find it a shitty move to just ignore people. Very antisocial and not something most people would actually do in real life. The internet is the worst."
I don't have to know you to know you're a guy. Women have been ignoring men since they started growing boobs because it's like being swarmed by fucking seagulls. So, yeah, in my profile, I explain that I probably won't be responding to bare minimum messages and in real life poorly chosen demands for my attention get the same treatment.
You're a gumby with the bare minimum of a profile, so you're going to have even fewer positive results than others. If your messages are basically hi, how r u, even fewer. Plus those don't really leave room for a thanks but no thanks anyway. Blocking is an efficiency move from people overwhelmed or with no patience for the constant drip, drip, drip of low quality interactions. You might not like it, but it is a response.
As long as there is a minimal level of effort in the message, I find it a shitty move to just ignore people. Very antisocial and not something most people would actually do in real life. The internet is the worst.
And after a couple gets a bunch of guys who become abusive assholes when the couple politely declines? I don't blame them for just not responding. Why should they put up with being abused for having their own preferences?
Ok I understand that. Not looking to argue with people. Just trying to figure out why people just don’t say that instead of just blocking them instead. Valid point. Thank you for the input.
To be perfectly honest, we aren't really into blue guys with no face so we'd probably block you too.
A block is a response.
A response is a response.
No response is a response.
T
So you are one of them as well?
Blocking you is response.
This has been addressed in the fora 112,687 times (I counted).
Why don’t people have the guts to just tell you they aren’t interested instead of just blocking you? We are all adults here right? Rejection is part of life, and some people are just not what others are looking for.
