Question for experienced

We have had the problem of the other male not being able to perform. If the wife wants to give it another try we will but after 2 or 3 and still no satisfaction we will be done.

"the other male from a couple not being able to "Fully Perform"

we've had the same problem before, and might give them a second chance if we liked them

We have to agree with Toomuch fun club.House Parties or larger gatherings take the pressure off having to click with another couple.
As for straight couple swap? We accept the reality that it's not always going to be earth shattering. If they are good people that we enjoy otherwise? We can accept less than earth shattering..

If they're cool and you like them, give it another try or two.

We have done that in the past. A few times it got better with repetition, a few times it didn't, but if all 4 of you click then definitely try again because that can be difficult to find.

Everyone is nervous the first time two couples get together. Especially when you're newbies.

The most common problem is the other husband not being able to perform. Usually better the second time... but not always.

Finding a great four-way match isn't easy. We prefer larger parties with more options for both of us.

We found it's better to fuck first and be friends later so we don't feel obligated to go for a second helping.

We've run into that problem at times over the years. It's been with the other male from a couple not being able to "Fully Perform" which has left Diane less than satisfied. We always give it a second try, sometimes a third, but after that if it happens again we have to drift away,

Well two options. One you could give it another try and just see if was possibly an off night for all or just be honest with them and say it just wasn't there for you both. Maybe they felt the same way.

Hahaha! We actually discussed this tonight! Great couple, but it seemed to be just ok for everyone. Me being me, I believe I can fix anything, if there’s an interest and a desire we simply need to work with the tools we have and actually act like friends do and discuss it and work it out,

Let us know how it works out for you and I will do the same!

The question is:
If u like a couple but when you had sex with them it wasn’t good. How do you tell these really cool people that you would love to remain friends but don’t want to play again with them?