Question?

Ba dump bump...

Thanks folks, I'll be here all week...

Don't forget to tip your servers...

Here's hoping you don't say that too often TBR

That didn't last long...

IN ACCORDANCE WITH THE PROPHECY

Swinging is people meeting for sex. but that is almost dead and gone. The lifestyle is people getting dressed up sexy and socializing all night long with no sex.
Around 95% of the profiles are lifestyle profiles.

The honest answer is "all of the above"

Some folks say no becuase they don't like the profile, others say no because the pics don't get their juices flowing, still others say no based on the conversation back and forth, and others don't see single men as friend material. Only the folks saying no can tell you why.

We agree with Molly. Come on over to the better profiles forum, put your big boy underwear on and get ready to have your profile greatly improved. There are several folks there who give blunt advice that many are thinking but few are saying. Be ready to hear things you don't want to hear but if you can put emotion and pride aside you'll be better for hearing them.

I agree that a lot of couples aren't looking for single men and that's the bigger problem. I also think your profile is full of typos and cliches and I don't like most of your photos, so that's not helping.

If you ask for help by starting a thread on Better Profiles, you'll get some exceedingly blunt advice. The upside is that you'll have a much better profile if you heed some of the advice.

your appearance and profile are fine, but unfortunately alot of couples are not looking for single men. find the ones that are.