IMO the best option is to ask her if she wants to go, if the answer is no ask how she would feel if you went alone.
If she says she wouldn't be happy with you going alone you'll need to decide what you are going to do.
If it was me. I would respect her feelings. But every relationship is different and YMMV.
It would depend on the resort. Most that belong to AANR are usually "clothing optional" not "nudity required" - although most do not allow bathing suits in pools or hot tubs.
I agree that hiding it would be a mistake. Any chance of her being able to go and wear a bathing suit so she could kind of get used to the idea?
You sound like you are looking for validation to go do your own thing because you've done things with her that you don't enjoy.
You need to talk to you wife. No one else's opinion matters - what is right for someone else is not necessarily right for the two of you.
I have had the conversation with her several times about both of us going but never mentioned me going by myself because generally we do most everything together, even down to going to the grocery store.. Quite a bit of the things that we do together I have absolutely no interest in whatsoever (Grocery Store, Walmart, Musicals, etc... ) but because I / We enjoy spending time with one another I have sacrificed what I want to do on numerous occasions to do things she wants to do..
Since the onset of menopause she has pretty much lost a lot of interest in the swinging lifestyle so that took a big hit towards things that I really enjoyed
Exactly what I was thinking. You need to be having this conversation with your wife because her opinion/feelings matter the most.
"I'm pretty sure if I tell her I am going by myself without her she will get a bit upset"
that right there should tell you what you should do
I (Male) have always enjoyed being naked / nude, whether by myself or around others. It's fairly difficult for me to be naked around the house outside of the bedroom due to having three daughters living at home. The wife on the other hand is very self conscious about her body and does not have a problem running around inside the house naked even when our daughters are there but when it comes to outside of the home it takes a few adult beverages for her to loosen up her nerve enough to be naked in front others.. I have been begging my wife for 2 - 3 years now for us to go to a semi local nudist park / resort but she seems very adamant about not going.. I'm not looking at going to the nudist park for sexual activity (swinging) , I just enjoy being naked and would love to hang out by the pool soaking up the sun while being naked.. So the dilemma is , should I go ahead and take a day trip to the nudist park by myself since this is something that "I" really want to venture out to or should I just give up on the idea ??? Generally for the most part if we are both off work we primarily do everything together and we don't keep secrets from one another.. I'm pretty sure if I tell her I am going by myself without her she will get a bit upset, but this is something that I am really interested in venturing in to.. Thoughts ???
