Butt Hurt

Irony.

Judging people and getting judged for the judgment.

Interesting.

I want try to keep this category from being one-sided about one person, one entity or any group here on SLS. But, to answer the question that was posed, here is my answer...

I've had couples and single women apply to my single male friendly group, that their profile clearly states that they were not interested in single men. So, why apply for membership to a single male friendly group, when you clearly do not have interest in single males. That is completely counterintuitive on their own part.

The group stands on the platform of finding the better of single men in the lifestyle. So, when I decline people from their application to my group because of them being an illegal drug user, being completely illiterate, admitting in their profile that they have negative connotations, practice unsafe sex, etc, they get upset or personally offended when they are told 'thank you, but no thank you' about their application.

I am as polite as possible on the excusing of an applicant's application when they are not a fit for the group. I can not control what emotions people feel when they are told 'no.' I can not control when people want to retort and throw insults my way, because I told them 'no.' Just as you just described Ed and Britney, you've gotten nasty responses when you've told people that you were not interested. Same thing applies in my case.

We've only had the ones that throw the insults after being rejected. Like after telling a guy that my wife isnt interested, then he hurls the "whatever, youre wife's a fat cow anyways" ... well thats funny, you wanted to fuck that fat cow 2 minutes ago.

Im just curious ... can you give some examples of how you knew these men, women, and couples were not in the best interest for your group?

For years now, I have run a group here on SLS that welcomes single men in the lifestyle and those that welcome single men in to their lives. The group specializes in finding the better of single men in the lifestyle that have stepped up their own game to be a stand out in the lifestyle. Every now and then, I will get applications for membership from single men, single women and couples that are not in the group's best interest. When I reply saying that their application has been rejected, they get bent out of shape and send me a ranting message saying 'you don't know me' and want to report me to SLS. Well, that proves right there that they are not the type of person that I wish to have for membership in my group.

This topic is for you to tell the story of those that you've told no to, but they could not take no for an answer. This is not the Bitchfest category and I do not want this category to be full of negativity. With as staying as positive as possible, this is for your telling of those that you told that you were not interested. You are on your own if you post that user's profile name.