We were giving off the vibe even before we were in the LS. Twice at the same Beach bar, on different occasions, we were hit on by a couple. Obviously their swing-dar was working pretty good.
So, yes, there is a vibe. Yes we exude it.
Pretty sure our neighbors think something is up. Aside from that, no I don't think we give off swinger vibes.
I can pretty much tell who’s into the lifestyle and I’m normally right. I also feel I give off vibe I’ve been approached many times.
Asking if vanilla is a great way to do it. Wish I thought of it. If they aren't, you will know quickly, just need a quick reply to them to make it sound like an innocent question.
We took our boat to a sandbar party a couple of years ago with lots of boats, people, alcohol, music; You know the type of party. Anyway, we were wading through the people in waste deep water and this cute middle aged lady asked us if we were vanilla? We just looked at each other, laughed and replied "No". She invited us to a House Party that night. So, yes, I do think we give off the vibe of being swingers.
It's a great question to ask someone who you think might be in the LS. If they know what you are talking about, they are probably in the LS. If they don't know, then they probably are not LS.
For years when we are on vacations we have had single guys, single women and couples ask if we were newly weds.... Maybe it's a vibe. maybe it is a way of interacting with your significant other in a positive manner that gets noticed in a positive way. It's all good!
We were once heading up in a hotel elevator to our room, where the Mrs. was going to be joined by 4 gentlemen. I'm sure she was giving off a vibe. There was a well-dressed, young couple in the elevator with us, and they definitely could sense something. We almost asked them to join.
Now, that is VERY hot right there...
Not in everyday life. But, before or after an adventure, I think so. Especially Mrs. Musical. We were once heading up in a hotel elevator to our room, where the Mrs. was going to be joined by 4 gentlemen. I'm sure she was giving off a vibe. There was a well-dressed, young couple in the elevator with us, and they definitely could sense something. We almost asked them to join.
Another time, Mrs. Musical had just flown back from a two day sex party in another city. I had not attended, but she had been with 9 different guys by the end of the party. She told me that several guys at the airport were picking up on her vibe. Must have been pheromones', or something! Ha ha!
Nope, not me. I've seen people who do give off that swinger vibe - a little louche, women dressed in sexier clothing than the occasion really calls for, extra flirty with strangers - including some I knew were swingers, but I've only ever been asked that as part of a group where people were cuddled up with one or two people as they talked to their spouses across the table. You know.
We must at least to a point. We have had similar experiences and recently picked up a girl in a bar after she asked us the same question lol.
Well can't say about the vibe but my wife has a tendency to pick up on sexy people and is usually right. I have to ask. Did it go any farther with your pic friend after she got to feel your wife's amazing tits?
Not sure if this is in the right category or if it should be in general topics.
Do you give off a vibe that you are a swinger? Have you ever sensed someone in a vanilla setting that you think may be in the lifestyle? Were you able to confirm that they were?
The reason we are asking is that we went to a concert a couple weeks ago and were taking pictures afterwards in front of one of the concert posters. A couple girls were nearby when one asked us if we wanted her to take a picture of us together. We gladly accepted her offer.
Afterwards we got to talking about the concert when out of the blue she says, “you guys must love upside pineapples”. Where did that come from? Of course, Mrs. Moonlight was dressed very sexy, wearing a deep plunging cowl neck top but then again, at a concert who isn’t dressed sexy? That alone shouldn’t have given the “vibe”.
Mrs. Moonlight told her that we did like upside pineapples. With that, the girl just said, “I knew you were swingers”. We asked why she would say that. She said that we just gave off that vibe. She asked if she could take a picture with us so we obliged. After talking some more, the girl asked if she could feel Mrs. Moonlights tits. Well, that doesn’t just happen every day, so go ahead. So, she did which led to a couple more pics, this time with the titties exposed. Feeling the vibe, literally.
So do you give off that LS vibe? Do you do it deliberately? Does it just happen?
Have you ever picked up a “date” in the vanilla world?
