We certainly have no problem saying no. What will get a response from us is a complete profile, some decent pics, and a message to us that shows you actually read our profile, and you are an intelligent, well rounded couple or single. State exactly what you are looking for. When we reject some single males they seem to get upset, or become determined to convince us we are wrong. Singles, please understand we only have so much time that we can dedicate to playing. We are looking to meet like minded individuals we are pretty sure we'll be attracted too. Yes, I like 3 somes and sometimes more, yes we sometimes swing separately, however we do that with select people we feel extremely comfortable with. Just because you have a large cock is not a reason for me to necessarily want to be with you. Be patient, we get so many requests from single males, it may take some time for us to meet you. Honestly, I've seen hundreds of cocks, I'm more interested in who you are. Do you have a sense of humor, are you fun to be with outside the bedroom? Couples are much easier to deal with, overall. If you're going to be doing this understand some level of rejection is going to occur. Sex is 95% mental, whether or not one is attracted to you depends on so many things, don't get offended if it doesn't work out. My husband and I state in our profile that we prefer people that are in shape, not grossly overweight. It is just our preference, you don't need to be a gym rat, but be reasonably presentable. My husband is straight, not homophobic, but if you are a guy and grab his cock, you're going to get thrown out on your ass. Just be honest about what you want!