MFM desire

Aaaaaaand POOF, he’s gone. Lol

I should have read your profile first. It sounds like about the same time you met her, you set up this profile to play without her? That suggests she has no idea you are on this site and that isn’t going to help you establish the trust you two need to enter into actual play.

Once again, good luck.

~Scamp

Based on all that you have told us, she certainly sounds primed to move to the next step of including another guy. Do you know anyone in the LS from when you were involved before that you trust to be the second guy who also has experience being a Dom? That would be ideal.

Is she aware of this profile you have on SLS? If so, maybe show her some local SM profiles and see if that gets her excited. Then ask if she would like to be added and make it a couple’s profile and see what kind of response she gets. That may also excite her, to know how many guys desire her.

Of course, the easiest way is to ask her if she would like to include another guy “for real” and arrange to meet some guys and see how she feels about it.

Good luck, let us know how it turns out.

~Scamp

Welcome.. we have been swinging well over 25 years mainly in south Florida we call it the swing capitol and had a variety of FWB, When we moved to Georgia we expanded our circle and what we do and enjoy.. we talk about our fantasies and act on most. We watched all 3 movies of 50 shades.. and eventually went with our long time friends with benefits to a place called 1763 in Atlanta area.. we were amazed what we saw and learned during the class sessions.. we enjoyed how to rope play, and all sorts of sensuous touch excitement. They had multiple rooms with all sorts of fantasy play.. we were with another guy and tried many.

We have been doing 3 sums well over 25 years and find it easier to find a guy or woman who we all click with vs the couple scene.. this way one of us gets all the attention and we trade off with pleasuring each other with a special different person frequently. We have a new SLS person we are meeting Saturday and hopefully this one will work out for our special night!

So what we do we talk about all, make a bucket list what we want to do and mark each one off.. it has changed over time but the enjoyment, sights , sounds we experienced are never forgotten!

Enjoy and communicate about all while watching a classy sexy movie .. may give you some ideas. But definitely go outside your boundaries. we did and loved it. Life is short enjoy every day!